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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all I have been here months I have been polite when messaging I understand I am 1 of a thousand males single here
But can't get a meet or even a message |
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My best tip would be only message people that you fit what they are specifically looking for, will save you loads of time and effort.
Don't expect replies, obsess about them or let it get you down, it is what it is, you won't be everyone's type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meets unless your joining some one out side while maintaining social distancing aren't legal yet so your going to struggle getting one of them, messages.... only message people you think you will have some thing to talk about and be polite and interesting don't talk about sex straight away and don't ask for pics of any type even a face pic until you have been chatting a while. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know due to covid but I was here 2yrs ago and left as had no joy
I do only reply to people I identifie with but they mostly want
Those who have verifications |
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My good man 6 months is but a micro second on fab.
Continue to message those you like with respect and truth, join in the fun and games in the forums and you will pique someone’s interest.
Patience my friend as the world slowly unravels again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know due to covid but I was here 2yrs ago and left as had no joy
I do only reply to people I identifie with but they mostly want
Those who have verifications "
once they reopen go to a club should get verified from meeting people |
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I would possibly remove the cock pic...or at least have it as the last one there so it isn't the first thing to hit you in the face  
Its just a trigger for some people.
I have never had one in public and it has never been an issue, yet you often see frustrated statuses about their ubiquitousness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the issue is most men start punching well above there weight me included haha. To me it’s all fun and games and persistence does pay off as long as you don’t turn into a pest |
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The site is a 1/3 of the swinging scene and the easiest way to bin people if you’re getting a lot of interest as a woman or a couple. So a lady gets 100 messages a day, it’s unmanageable so deletes the lot and waits for the next day and another 100 messages appear.
At a social (2/3) or club (3/3) she won’t have 100 guys circling her saying ‘fancy a fuk’ but guys doing their best to come across well and hopefully some fun. But you also get to show your personality more and it’s a lot better than a few photos and some texts that’s on your profile.
So get out when the clubs and socials start again (hopefully in June) or stick your message in the queue of a 100 others guys |
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