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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When do you and like best ,st8 to bedroom, chat ouer drink plays games and if play games what games"
It depends on the person and all discussion beforehand - social, or straight to room. Never thought about playing any sort of game, first but that’s worth a try - who fancies a game of badminton, followed by sex?
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By *histlerMan
over a year ago
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I’ve had a mix of social first and playing on the first meet (sometimes we couldn’t help ourselves).
I’m happy with either, but there is always an element of getting to know someone a bit more before anything happens. Love the tension building up as we both have the same thoughts racing through our minds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first
So you don't really want a social first ?"
Spontaneity can be great too. I once insisted on meeting for a coffee and chat, social meet. But it was mutual lust at first sight (ok, we had chatted a lot online beforehand) and she suggested in the queue that we just get a takeaway coffee instead - and head straight to the hotel room. I don’t think we ever got round to drinking the coffees....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first
So you don't really want a social first ?"
As I said, social first, but if you get along an it ends up more than a social, I’m not going to complain  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first
So you don't really want a social first ?
Spontaneity can be great too. I once insisted on meeting for a coffee and chat, social meet. But it was mutual lust at first sight (ok, we had chatted a lot online beforehand) and she suggested in the queue that we just get a takeaway coffee instead - and head straight to the hotel room. I don’t think we ever got round to drinking the coffees.... "
Exactly, sounds like was a brilliant day an experience  |
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By *hris 62 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first
So you don't really want a social first ?"
Yes ask how some started there now adays as been out for a bit come back in full lockdown see how people are thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always insist on a social.... if someone can’t take the time to meet me socially then that’s where it stops.
Not just for my own safety but it allows both parties to meet unreservedly with no pressure. If no spark... then nothing lost apart from maybe an hour of time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always a social plenty of laughs, flirting and hopefully a plan to meet up for a coffee again. Nice and easy does it. "
And somewhere very public and at least halfway between each other, then it makes it a bit easier for both parties.  |
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