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When does FWB become a relationship?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it when you manage to cum together?
When you keep a toothbrush at each others?
Keep theirs toys and whips etc at yours?
Watch the sunset together?
When you take trips to Costco together?
When you stop sleeping with other people?
When the guy does DIY jobs?
Or is it when he takes the bins out?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when you have *the* conversation.
or when it's accidentally years later and yous are still as obsessed with eachother as you were on the first meet.
Orrrr when you're both stupidly in love with eachother.
Who knows    Px |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it when you manage to cum together?
When you keep a toothbrush at each others?
Keep theirs toys and whips etc at yours?
Watch the sunset together?
When you take trips to Costco together?
When you stop sleeping with other people?
When the guy does DIY jobs?
Or is it when he takes the bins out?
Wittiest answer wins! Prize is a hat. "
All the above or any combination of the above or one of the above or none whichever she decides. Plus you missed fart together out.
You can keep the hat unless it's a dick hat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friendship is a relationship already, so I guess we're talking about it becoming romantic. I think it's easy for a fwb set up to blur into a romantic relationship without you realising, usually it becomes crushingly clear when one of you develops feelings and the other doesn't x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is already a relationship.
It might not be romantic but it's still a relationship "
I agree with this and have said it often. People go on about not wanting a relationship but as soon as you communicate with someone you're entering into one. It's the type of relationship that matters.. I think so anyhow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is already a relationship.
It might not be romantic but it's still a relationship
I agree with this and have said it often. People go on about not wanting a relationship but as soon as you communicate with someone you're entering into one. It's the type of relationship that matters.. I think so anyhow "
Yeah, I have a relationship with my bank manager, but I don't think it's THAT kind of relationship  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you go toilet with the door open 
That is game over for being a FWB you have just broken the ultimate privacy rule.. :  "
I do this with my fwb, I just means I comfortable around him and we are usually mind conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it when you manage to cum together?
When you keep a toothbrush at each others?
Keep theirs toys and whips etc at yours?
Watch the sunset together?
When you take trips to Costco together?
When you stop sleeping with other people?
When the guy does DIY jobs?
Or is it when he takes the bins out?
Wittiest answer wins! Prize is a hat. "
When you're friends tease you about it 
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This is a conundrum that has confounded science for decades. Quarks, dark matter, string theory... all are as naught compared to the complexity of identifying the point when the FWB becomes a significant other. We all know when the rubicon has been crossed but few can isolate the point when it actually occurred.
Some say it is a pure ontological nicety whilst others claim it is encoded in the music of the galaxies. Whatever the truth, I believe that the Fab forum can yield the answer! |
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"When he has a pee while you’re in the bath or vice versa!!
If she pees in my bath it's a step too far!
No sorry a mean on the loo at the same time as your in bath..  "
o don't mind that as long as she's not shitting the smelly bitch lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When she borrows your best shirt for a nighty or borrows your car and dings it"
I have a feeling borrowing the car and dinging it would have me put 6 feet under! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you have have too many rums and are being sick and they hold your hair, rub your back and tell you not to cry  "
have you seen the holidate?
they definitely crossed the line when she got d*unk , shit her pants and he showered her off lol , was true love at that point |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"When you have have too many rums and are being sick and they hold your hair, rub your back and tell you not to cry
have you seen the holidate?
they definitely crossed the line when she got d*unk , shit her pants and he showered her off lol , was true love at that point "
Not yet, but it sounds like my kind of film! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you have have too many rums and are being sick and they hold your hair, rub your back and tell you not to cry
have you seen the holidate?
they definitely crossed the line when she got d*unk , shit her pants and he showered her off lol , was true love at that point
Not yet, but it sounds like my kind of film! "
oh sorry! spoiler alert , but its still a good watch- easy viewing and funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a big difference between fuck buddy and fwb
I wouldnt do most of what people have said infront of a fuck buddy but would a fwb, because they are a friend and I am comfortable around my friends. Sex is just an added bonus.
A relationship is when you both decide you want it to be more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck buddy - I’d say this relationship is exclusively about sexual gratification with light touch emotional access sometimes ..
FWB - I’d say this relationship accommodates shared non-sexual experiences in addition to deeper emotional access, with the added bonus of sexual gratification
‘Proper relationship’ - I’d say this relationship is about practically co-investing into a future with no horizon, deepest possible emotional access, and sexual gratification
I won’t write it 50 times on the blackboard though |
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"Is it when you manage to cum together?
When you keep a toothbrush at each others?
Keep theirs toys and whips etc at yours?
Watch the sunset together?
When you take trips to Costco together?
When you stop sleeping with other people?
When the guy does DIY jobs?
Or is it when he takes the bins out?
Wittiest answer wins! Prize is a hat. "
I take Costco trips seriously, that is reserved for only after the wedding date is set |
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"Fuck buddy - I’d say this relationship is exclusively about sexual gratification with light touch emotional access sometimes ..
FWB - I’d say this relationship accommodates shared non-sexual experiences in addition to deeper emotional access, with the added bonus of sexual gratification
‘Proper relationship’ - I’d say this relationship is about practically co-investing into a future with no horizon, deepest possible emotional access, and sexual gratification
I won’t write it 50 times on the blackboard though "
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