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Firstly I need to say I have never been to a club , but my question is to anyone that's a kinda regular club goer...
Which club or clubs are best and the most welcoming for a nervous newbie or newbies as the case may be ..
Thanks in advance ... Grumps  |
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I believe everybody felt nervous the first they went to a club including myself . Once you are inside the Club staff or manegement they will make you feel very welcome , they will explain the rules of the club , they will show you arround the diferent rooms and soon you will feel more comfortable than probably you would feel in your local pub.
Clubs they have a very friendly atmosphere to everyone
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
"I believe everybody felt nervous the first they went to a club including myself . Once you are inside the Club staff or manegement they will make you feel very welcome , they will explain the rules of the club , they will show you arround the diferent rooms and soon you will feel more comfortable than probably you would feel in your local pub.
Clubs they have a very friendly atmosphere to everyone
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Yep, this ^ |
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Townhouse do a Newbies and Notsos nights specifically for new people. The "Notsos" are regular attendees who attend with the knowledge that the idea is for the event to be welcoming for Newbies and so that it isn't just a room of scared new people not knowing what's what  . |
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over a year ago
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I love Townhouse, the staff are attentive and on hand. I am happy to go alone, it's not that far from me either so it is ideal.
Chameleons is also good, not been there in a few years |
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"I believe everybody felt nervous the first they went to a club including myself . Once you are inside the Club staff or manegement they will make you feel very welcome , they will explain the rules of the club , they will show you arround the diferent rooms and soon you will feel more comfortable than probably you would feel in your local pub.
Clubs they have a very friendly atmosphere to everyone
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"I'll reply to Lacey & Miss Dreavous in one.
Where is Townhouse please , that newbies night sounds ideal "
It's in Tranmere which is near Birkenhead. Basically if you come through the Birkenhead Mersey Tunnel from Liverpool it's about 2 minutes away from the tunnel exit  . |
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"I'll reply to Lacey & Miss Dreavous in one.
Where is Townhouse please , that newbies night sounds ideal
It's in Tranmere which is near Birkenhead. Basically if you come through the Birkenhead Mersey Tunnel from Liverpool it's about 2 minutes away from the tunnel exit . "
So a long long way away then from me  |
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over a year ago
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For you for a fancy night out Liberty elite and for a filthy fun night out get to chameleons but be aware of that male membership costs and waiting list possibly |
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"I'll reply to Lacey & Miss Dreavous in one.
Where is Townhouse please , that newbies night sounds ideal
It's in Tranmere which is near Birkenhead. Basically if you come through the Birkenhead Mersey Tunnel from Liverpool it's about 2 minutes away from the tunnel exit .
So a long long way away then from me "
Aww I'm sorry. Liberty Elite is south Leicestershire so that's closer. I haven't been in about 6 years though so I'm afraid I don't know what events they do. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
I've go to about 5 different clubs from time to time and, whilst different from each other, the one common factor is is the friendlyness of the people who attend them.
If my experience is anything to go by, you will be warmly welcomed at any club you choose to visit. Good luck and have fun. |
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Also depends on whether you're going with someone or alone. I'd recommend somewhere with a bit of space and private rooms. It's usually best to ease yourself in. I was quite lucky in that respect and had a gentle (autocorrect just typed genital  ) introduction. Not everyone can just turn up, strip off and have sex in front of everyone! Also very much depends on who's there on the night.
I know it's an obvious thing to say, but many forget. Likewise, I recommend not going with expectations as you're just setting yourself up for disappointment. Us guys are good at that. LB isn't bad. Ab fabs in Heathrow wasn't bad in the old days. They have a new venue and have only visited once; it wasn't bad. If they did a better job on their website, you'd probably get a better idea of the venue. I think LB probably gets the prize for the classiest club atm (from the ones I've visited over the years). Of course, there are many abroad that are by default this classy. It's more the norm abroad. |
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"Also depends on whether you're going with someone or alone. I'd recommend somewhere with a bit of space and private rooms. It's usually best to ease yourself in. I was quite lucky in that respect and had a gentle (autocorrect just typed genital ) introduction. Not everyone can just turn up, strip off and have sex in front of everyone! Also very much depends on who's there on the night.
I know it's an obvious thing to say, but many forget. Likewise, I recommend not going with expectations as you're just setting yourself up for disappointment. Us guys are good at that. LB isn't bad. Ab fabs in Heathrow wasn't bad in the old days. They have a new venue and have only visited once; it wasn't bad. If they did a better job on their website, you'd probably get a better idea of the venue. I think LB probably gets the prize for the classiest club atm (from the ones I've visited over the years). Of course, there are many abroad that are by default this classy. It's more the norm abroad. "
Good to know thankyou mate |
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It is going to be hard to judge what the club scene will be like in a post covid world, we suspect it might be quite different!
As said, Liberty Elite has a very luxury feel to it, Chameleons is dress down, more intimate and has been brilliant in the past. Also a shout out for Xtasia, more of a nightclub vibe and fantastic for big events (especially fetish ones)If you want a more chilled atmosphere then Bristol Gardens Health Spa in Brighton should be on your list. No membership and strict rules downstairs but playrooms upstairs! Do check in advance that its not a couples only night if you are heading there on your own. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Firstly I need to say I have never been to a club , but my question is to anyone that's a kinda regular club goer...
Which club or clubs are best and the most welcoming for a nervous newbie or newbies as the case may be ..
Thanks in advance ... Grumps "
The best clubs tend to be the ones your friends go to or that run events or have facilities you enjoy.
I cannot think of any club we have been to that we would never go back to, but we haven't been to them all!
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"Firstly I need to say I have never been to a club , but my question is to anyone that's a kinda regular club goer...
Which club or clubs are best and the most welcoming for a nervous newbie or newbies as the case may be ..
Thanks in advance ... Grumps
The best clubs tend to be the ones your friends go to or that run events or have facilities you enjoy.
I cannot think of any club we have been to that we would never go back to, but we haven't been to them all!
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Oh, I can. It turned out to be someone's house by day and converted to a "club" by night. Came across it on the way down past Stonehenge. Wish I hadn't now. The name should have told me everything I needed to know  |
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"I'm bookmarking for when we're allowed out lol
We should have one near us , so not fair
We're that awkward position loads around us but an hours travel to them all"
At least .
If I win the lottery I'll open one .
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"Firstly I need to say I have never been to a club , but my question is to anyone that's a kinda regular club goer...
Which club or clubs are best and the most welcoming for a nervous newbie or newbies as the case may be ..
Thanks in advance ... Grumps "
As you openly list yourself as bisexual, I would recommend you look for a bi event, if you’re going as a solo guy for your first time club visit. If you were straight, I would always recommend you going in the company of a female, at least for the first time or two, to get your face known. I found the club scene very hard work as a solo straight male |
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"Firstly I need to say I have never been to a club , but my question is to anyone that's a kinda regular club goer...
Which club or clubs are best and the most welcoming for a nervous newbie or newbies as the case may be ..
Thanks in advance ... Grumps
The best clubs tend to be the ones your friends go to or that run events or have facilities you enjoy.
I cannot think of any club we have been to that we would never go back to, but we haven't been to them all!
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I can.
It doesn't exist anymore |
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"Firstly I need to say I have never been to a club , but my question is to anyone that's a kinda regular club goer...
Which club or clubs are best and the most welcoming for a nervous newbie or newbies as the case may be ..
Thanks in advance ... Grumps
As you openly list yourself as bisexual, I would recommend you look for a bi event, if you’re going as a solo guy for your first time club visit. If you were straight, I would always recommend you going in the company of a female, at least for the first time or two, to get your face known. I found the club scene very hard work as a solo straight male "
Bi or not, no chance I'm going on my own for a first visit lol.
No chance whatsoever |
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I think that you have to look beyond your 1st visit, as it's just a stepping stone on the way to enjoying life more. You'll have a mix of excitement and nervousness and it can be hard unpicking the 2 of them.
If you do good research first and select the right club for you, the 1st visit is inconsequential to a great extent a formality.
As others say, the management will show you around and make you feel welcome. Some guests will notice that and welcome you too.
If you expect to just discover the place and chat with a few people, then anything else is a bonus. I don't expect to stay too long in a new venue but invariably spend longer but if you leave after a shorter period, you've achieved your objectives.
Take the location, timetable, pricing and other important factors in to your consideration and plough on, taking the right choice. You can always visit other places too. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Hellooooo. Seeing as you live in Northampton I'd say Liberty Elite. I've been a couple of times, I found the bar area to be very relaxed and friendly. Same with the VA really, neither too far so you can drive and leave when you like |
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"I think that you have to look beyond your 1st visit, as it's just a stepping stone on the way to enjoying life more. You'll have a mix of excitement and nervousness and it can be hard unpicking the 2 of them.
If you do good research first and select the right club for you, the 1st visit is inconsequential to a great extent a formality.
As others say, the management will show you around and make you feel welcome. Some guests will notice that and welcome you too.
If you expect to just discover the place and chat with a few people, then anything else is a bonus. I don't expect to stay too long in a new venue but invariably spend longer but if you leave after a shorter period, you've achieved your objectives.
Take the location, timetable, pricing and other important factors in to your consideration and plough on, taking the right choice. You can always visit other places too. "
Cheers Sophie xx |
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"Hellooooo. Seeing as you live in Northampton I'd say Liberty Elite. I've been a couple of times, I found the bar area to be very relaxed and friendly. Same with the VA really, neither too far so you can drive and leave when you like "
Aah sounds plausible. Thankyou fellow Northamptonian |
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"Firstly I need to say I have never been to a club , but my question is to anyone that's a kinda regular club goer...
Which club or clubs are best and the most welcoming for a nervous newbie or newbies as the case may be ..
Thanks in advance ... Grumps
As you openly list yourself as bisexual, I would recommend you look for a bi event, if you’re going as a solo guy for your first time club visit. If you were straight, I would always recommend you going in the company of a female, at least for the first time or two, to get your face known. I found the club scene very hard work as a solo straight male
Bi or not, no chance I'm going on my own for a first visit lol.
No chance whatsoever "
Good plan fella. The club scene can be fun, but it’s not as welcoming to solo guys as people would have you believe. Good luck |
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Xtasia did/do FFFF social nights where you go along meet up with friends/make new ones & have a good night without needing membership. You just need to have your name on guest list.
We’ve also been to Atlantis & Chams. All 3 clubs are different but we’ve always been made to feel welcome
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