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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anybody done it and if so what did you make of it? I was really quite surprised, mine was frighteningly accurate. It's as if someone had been observing me all my life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find them annoying to nth degree. Okay for a bit of fun but hate it when people use them like it’s going to guide their life. "
Couldn't agree with you more. I did a few when at college doing psychology and wasn't particularly impressed, thought they were as vague as star sign traits but this is really quite good. But not to live your life by. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a general thing it's interesting, but can get annoying when people start assuming everything about them is because of it.
But I do hear that INFPs are the best lovers  "
Well I could've told you that  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I find them annoying to nth degree. Okay for a bit of fun but hate it when people use them like it’s going to guide their life. "
MyersBrigs is so useful when putting a team together or developing people, it’s a tool like Vark, honey and Mumford and strengthsfinder use it to get best results rather than to box you in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find them annoying to nth degree. Okay for a bit of fun but hate it when people use them like it’s going to guide their life.
MyersBrigs is so useful when putting a team together or developing people, it’s a tool like Vark, honey and Mumford and strengthsfinder use it to get best results rather than to box you in
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Mine is knee tremblingly accurate |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I find them annoying to nth degree. Okay for a bit of fun but hate it when people use them like it’s going to guide their life.
MyersBrigs is so useful when putting a team together or developing people, it’s a tool like Vark, honey and Mumford and strengthsfinder use it to get best results rather than to box you in
Mine is knee tremblingly accurate "
Mine is ... but it shouldn’t be a self fulfilling prophecy! That’s just another comfort zone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just did it as never done it before and I am a Mediator INFP....looking at it it does seem reasonable accurate  "
Well you're in good company
And we make the best lovers, if only everyone else knew. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I got INFJ-T Advocate. My introvert extrovert part was 51/49 though. I've always said I feel like I'm a bit of both. "
That’s odd. I usually just ask people given a choice to unwind after a hard day at work.... bath/book/Netflix or party and meet new people ? I/E is all about how you recharge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got INFJ-T Advocate. My introvert extrovert part was 51/49 though. I've always said I feel like I'm a bit of both. "
There is a further test you can do which explores deeper |
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"I got INFJ-T Advocate. My introvert extrovert part was 51/49 though. I've always said I feel like I'm a bit of both.
That’s odd. I usually just ask people given a choice to unwind after a hard day at work.... bath/book/Netflix or party and meet new people ? I/E is all about how you recharge "
I'm honestly a real mix. I need enough alone time and can get peopled out but I also go stir crazy if alone too much. It entirely depends on my state of mind whether unwinding is laughing and joking with a group of friends or hibernating under a blanket watching a film. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m sure I was ESTJ.... gutted as I don’t think I’m judging xxx
Its more about your preferences for structure in your life"
Yes I’m sure it was something to do with being organised and planning too.... and trusting own judgement.... I can’t make a decision in life.... I did the test a few times thinking I’d answered wrong xx |
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There's no good evidence behind them and I view them as a cashcow being milked, potentially harming both organisations that use them as well as people who may have incredible talents, who get excluded from jobs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's no good evidence behind them and I view them as a cashcow being milked, potentially harming both organisations that use them as well as people who may have incredible talents, who get excluded from jobs. "
We use them internally to help teams understand their biases and strengths /gaps.. They are also incredibly useful in helping you to communicate with other types |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"There's no good evidence behind them and I view them as a cashcow being milked, potentially harming both organisations that use them as well as people who may have incredible talents, who get excluded from jobs. "
We use to build global teams. It’s nothing to do with talent , total reward gets the right people on the bus, this just puts them in the right seats. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's no good evidence behind them and I view them as a cashcow being milked, potentially harming both organisations that use them as well as people who may have incredible talents, who get excluded from jobs. "
Some are utter shite. I got turned down for working at B&Q despite me being a qualified electrician and about 15 years experience in the retail sector. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just done this again after doing it a few years ago and same result... Logician INTP-T
Accurate?"
I think it is quite accurate. It explained all aspects of my personality there may be some slight correlations but it is quite accurate |
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"Never heard of it
Nor have I.
I thought is was going to be along the lines of the movie split only OP having a few less personalities. "
I thought that I was pretty street wise, but it's one on me as well, can someone explain I wonder. |
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"I’m an INTJ, the architect "
Ditto - although I retook the test a few years later on a day when I had too much coffee and my I had turned into an E 
Just for fun, it would be interesting to see where our closest friends/regular play partners fall... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm an INFJ
Oddly enough I only did this test after chatting to a couple in a swingers club. She was convinced after chatting to me that I was an INFJ, the odd one, and she was right!
It does feel like a good fit, I'm full of contradictions |
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They are not designed for recruiting, but more for self understanding and development. Helps to understand team dynamics too. Personally I prefer using the Insights model as it also looks at good day/bad day behaviours! |
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"I’m an INTJ, the architect
Ditto - although I retook the test a few years later on a day when I had too much coffee and my I had turned into an E
Just for fun, it would be interesting to see where our closest friends/regular play partners fall..."
They're not without fault, these tests, but it's also the case that some of us are on the cusp, as it were. So while my I is solid, I split between T and F. |
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"I’m an INTJ, the architect
Ditto - although I retook the test a few years later on a day when I had too much coffee and my I had turned into an E
Just for fun, it would be interesting to see where our closest friends/regular play partners fall..."
I’m borderline in the I/E. I describe myself as an Extroverted introvert.
A few of my friends have done it and I there’s definitely a pattern |
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"I’m an INTJ, the architect
Ditto - although I retook the test a few years later on a day when I had too much coffee and my I had turned into an E
Just for fun, it would be interesting to see where our closest friends/regular play partners fall...
I’m borderline in the I/E. I describe myself as an Extroverted introvert.
A few of my friends have done it and I there’s definitely a pattern "
What personalities are your best swinging matches then? Might have to get our friends to take the test... |
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"I’m an INTJ, the architect
Ditto - although I retook the test a few years later on a day when I had too much coffee and my I had turned into an E
Just for fun, it would be interesting to see where our closest friends/regular play partners fall...
I’m borderline in the I/E. I describe myself as an Extroverted introvert.
A few of my friends have done it and I there’s definitely a pattern
What personalities are your best swinging matches then? Might have to get our friends to take the test..."
I’ve found I attract and enjoy the company of ENFP & INFJ souls. A nice balance of both makes me happy |
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Oh dear.
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is complete bunk.
It was designed-by a mother-and-daughter team with no background in psychology or statistics.
It's completely pseudoscientific. It's based on literally nothing but them deciding that their experiences as wives and mothers taught them everything there is to know about "personality types". No evidence, no controlled trials, nothing.
I recommend an article called 'The Capitalist Origins of the Myers-Briggs Personality Test' by Merve Emre.
Oh, and all those people who take the test and are astonished by how well it fits them? That's called the "Forer effect", also known as the "Barnum effect". It's exactly the same reason that otherwise sensible people buy into horoscopes.
Which, incidentally, are about as much use for anything as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. |
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"Oh dear.
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is complete bunk.
It was designed-by a mother-and-daughter team with no background in psychology or statistics.
It's completely pseudoscientific. It's based on literally nothing but them deciding that their experiences as wives and mothers taught them everything there is to know about "personality types". No evidence, no controlled trials, nothing.
I recommend an article called 'The Capitalist Origins of the Myers-Briggs Personality Test' by Merve Emre.
Oh, and all those people who take the test and are astonished by how well it fits them? That's called the "Forer effect", also known as the "Barnum effect". It's exactly the same reason that otherwise sensible people buy into horoscopes.
Which, incidentally, are about as much use for anything as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator."
We’re just having a bit of fun - worry not, no life decisions will hinge on this... |
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"Oh dear.
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is complete bunk.
It was designed-by a mother-and-daughter team with no background in psychology or statistics.
It's completely pseudoscientific. It's based on literally nothing but them deciding that their experiences as wives and mothers taught them everything there is to know about "personality types". No evidence, no controlled trials, nothing.
I recommend an article called 'The Capitalist Origins of the Myers-Briggs Personality Test' by Merve Emre.
Oh, and all those people who take the test and are astonished by how well it fits them? That's called the "Forer effect", also known as the "Barnum effect". It's exactly the same reason that otherwise sensible people buy into horoscopes.
Which, incidentally, are about as much use for anything as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator.
We’re just having a bit of fun - worry not, no life decisions will hinge on this... "
Apart from all the people whose careers get fucked because recruiters and managers have bought the magic beans.
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I just took the test and it was a pleasant result however I’m bias about its accuracy because most of my answers could change depends on the environment I am in... therefore I don’t believe it’s an end result for someone’s personality  my humble opinion  |
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over a year ago
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"I just took the test and it was a pleasant result however I’m bias about its accuracy because most of my answers could change depends on the environment I am in... therefore I don’t believe it’s an end result for someone’s personality my humble opinion "
I found this too. Sometimes I'm introvert, other times I'm extrovert. I'm ambivert - yes, it's a thing lol
Also sometimes i feel AND think! |
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"I just took the test and it was a pleasant result however I’m bias about its accuracy because most of my answers could change depends on the environment I am in... therefore I don’t believe it’s an end result for someone’s personality my humble opinion
I found this too. Sometimes I'm introvert, other times I'm extrovert. I'm ambivert - yes, it's a thing lol
Also sometimes i feel AND think! "
exactly  |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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The MBTI is widely acknowledged to be inaccurate. More than half of people that take it a second time get a different result.
Neither Myers or Briggs had any formal training in psychology and yet many companies spend fortunes putting staff through it. I think it’s clever marketing more than accurate personality evaluation.
I’ve done it three times and been different each time. When I read the blurb about the outcome each one made sense but they are full or general statements that most people experience at some point in their life. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I just took the test and it was a pleasant result however I’m bias about its accuracy because most of my answers could change depends on the environment I am in... therefore I don’t believe it’s an end result for someone’s personality my humble opinion
I found this too. Sometimes I'm introvert, other times I'm extrovert. I'm ambivert - yes, it's a thing lol
Also sometimes i feel AND think!
exactly "
Perhaps people are taking the test for lighthearted fun? Like those quizzes you do which say what type of dog you are. You don't genuinely believe you are a labrador. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m an INTJ, the architect
Ditto - although I retook the test a few years later on a day when I had too much coffee and my I had turned into an E
Just for fun, it would be interesting to see where our closest friends/regular play partners fall...
They're not without fault, these tests, but it's also the case that some of us are on the cusp, as it were. So while my I is solid, I split between T and F."
If i do mine from a personal aspect i turn into an I.. But at work i have a cloak that i pull on that turns me into an E
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The MBTI is widely acknowledged to be inaccurate. More than half of people that take it a second time get a different result.
Neither Myers or Briggs had any formal training in psychology and yet many companies spend fortunes putting staff through it. I think it’s clever marketing more than accurate personality evaluation.
I’ve done it three times and been different each time. When I read the blurb about the outcome each one made sense but they are full or general statements that most people experience at some point in their life. "
They are designed to help you identify your natural preferences... A bit like most of us have a dominant leg that we start walking with... Once you know your natural preference you can then decide if you want to try and gain more emotional intelligence for instance , or leadership or decisiveness.
In times of stress /excitement you will generally return to your "type" (your comfort zone if you like)
Mine helped me to communicate better with one of my colleagues... Once i realised he was a P and needed time to exhaust all options, i was able to slow my process and show the options and explain how I'd discounted or favoured them by taking him through my thought process (instead of having all the process in my head), which helped him to reach the same conclusion i had, which then lets us move forward with a decision!
Can you tell I'm a commander |
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"Oh dear.
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is complete bunk.
It was designed-by a mother-and-daughter team with no background in psychology or statistics.
It's completely pseudoscientific. It's based on literally nothing but them deciding that their experiences as wives and mothers taught them everything there is to know about "personality types". No evidence, no controlled trials, nothing.
I recommend an article called 'The Capitalist Origins of the Myers-Briggs Personality Test' by Merve Emre.
Oh, and all those people who take the test and are astonished by how well it fits them? That's called the "Forer effect", also known as the "Barnum effect". It's exactly the same reason that otherwise sensible people buy into horoscopes.
Which, incidentally, are about as much use for anything as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator.
We’re just having a bit of fun - worry not, no life decisions will hinge on this...
Apart from all the people whose careers get fucked because recruiters and managers have bought the magic beans.
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Sure, I don’t disagree with anything you’ve written - just contextualising to a discussion taking place in a swinging site’s forum... appreciate people don’t always have a choice, but personally I wouldn’t want to work for an employer that I) tries to flatten the complexity of the human personality into a handful of descriptors, II) reduces recruitment into a tick boxing exercise, which goes completely against the principles of equity and inclusion. |
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"I’m an INTJ, the architect
Ditto - although I retook the test a few years later on a day when I had too much coffee and my I had turned into an E
Just for fun, it would be interesting to see where our closest friends/regular play partners fall...
They're not without fault, these tests, but it's also the case that some of us are on the cusp, as it were. So while my I is solid, I split between T and F.
If i do mine from a personal aspect i turn into an I.. But at work i have a cloak that i pull on that turns me into an E
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I have an E cloak too... But it wrecks me
Put me behind the scenes and I'll be happy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh dear.
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is complete bunk.
It was designed-by a mother-and-daughter team with no background in psychology or statistics.
It's completely pseudoscientific. It's based on literally nothing but them deciding that their experiences as wives and mothers taught them everything there is to know about "personality types". No evidence, no controlled trials, nothing.
I recommend an article called 'The Capitalist Origins of the Myers-Briggs Personality Test' by Merve Emre.
Oh, and all those people who take the test and are astonished by how well it fits them? That's called the "Forer effect", also known as the "Barnum effect". It's exactly the same reason that otherwise sensible people buy into horoscopes.
Which, incidentally, are about as much use for anything as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator.
We’re just having a bit of fun - worry not, no life decisions will hinge on this...
Apart from all the people whose careers get fucked because recruiters and managers have bought the magic beans.
Sure, I don’t disagree with anything you’ve written - just contextualising to a discussion taking place in a swinging site’s forum... appreciate people don’t always have a choice, but personally I wouldn’t want to work for an employer that I) tries to flatten the complexity of the human personality into a handful of descriptors, II) reduces recruitment into a tick boxing exercise, which goes completely against the principles of equity and inclusion."
I'm with you on that.
Thanks for all the responses |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just done the test and I was hoping it would be an accurate depiction of my character. Sadly it was not, it was as ambiguous as reading my horoscopes or palm reading.  "
That's what I usually find but I was pleasantly surprised with it but only in the name of fun. I certainly wouldn't live by it and if you asked me in a years time I probably wouldn't even remember the outcome. |
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I am ENFP-T. I have done the test few times within few years and always get the same. I find it very accurate, as some said just like reading about myself..
I actually as or tell people i chat on here to do it for some time, so was interesting to be told about this thread this morning...
And i found that only few personalities would get fascinated by the test.. I found Facebook groups and Instagram pages full of memes etc..
But they really resonate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As Swing said, I don't take this very seriously... but I've done this a few times over the years and my result is Mediator INFP-T which I feel is pretty much spot on when reading it and comparing it to the other types. |
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By *imis3Woman
over a year ago
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I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
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Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh dear.
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is complete bunk.
It was designed-by a mother-and-daughter team with no background in psychology or statistics.
It's completely pseudoscientific. It's based on literally nothing but them deciding that their experiences as wives and mothers taught them everything there is to know about "personality types". No evidence, no controlled trials, nothing.
I recommend an article called 'The Capitalist Origins of the Myers-Briggs Personality Test' by Merve Emre.
Oh, and all those people who take the test and are astonished by how well it fits them? That's called the "Forer effect", also known as the "Barnum effect". It's exactly the same reason that otherwise sensible people buy into horoscopes.
Which, incidentally, are about as much use for anything as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator."
As a psychologist it really irks me when people use them but that is just how things are. I understand it’s a bit of fun but some people DO take it very seriously.
I’d also recommend people watching the Derren Brown interview on cold reading. It’s all youtube. He explains the forer and barnum effects too.
As an amateur magician I dabbled in some cold reading and reading peoples minds. I was shocked how many people really took it to heart even when I told them it was just trickery. |
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"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
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Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?"
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet |
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By *imis3Woman
over a year ago
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"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
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Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet "
Im so jealous He will be hardest to get into your bed and the one you will never want to get out of it |
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"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
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Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet
Im so jealous He will be hardest to get into your bed and the one you will never want to get out of it "
I've taken the test a few times for my own interest and I come out as either INFJ or ISFJ. I tend to have character traits which fit into both categories. |
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By *imis3Woman
over a year ago
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"I've just done this test as I'd never heard of it.
I was quite taken back by the result.
Advocate. INFJ-T.... Apparently the rarest of them all. "
I would love to have INFJ gifts. You will be shocked when you read what your capabilities are if you don't already know. |
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By *imis3Woman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
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Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet
Im so jealous He will be hardest to get into your bed and the one you will never want to get out of it
I've taken the test a few times for my own interest and I come out as either INFJ or ISFJ. I tend to have character traits which fit into both categories."
I have a few ISFJ friends. Going to have to reevaluate them now in case their INFJ in disguise |
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Thank you for your private message directing me to the test site. Apparently I'm a protagonist
ENFJ-A, and it's surprisingly accurate, and puts me in the same category as Barak Obama, and Opra Winfrey. Funny how I don't have the same respect for Megan though, who I'd personally sooner fight than fuck, than Opra seems to have. |
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"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
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Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet
Im so jealous He will be hardest to get into your bed and the one you will never want to get out of it
I've taken the test a few times for my own interest and I come out as either INFJ or ISFJ. I tend to have character traits which fit into both categories.
I have a few ISFJ friends. Going to have to reevaluate them now in case their INFJ in disguise "
I think it depends on my mood when I take the test. |
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By *imis3Woman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
.
Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet
Im so jealous He will be hardest to get into your bed and the one you will never want to get out of it
I've taken the test a few times for my own interest and I come out as either INFJ or ISFJ. I tend to have character traits which fit into both categories.
I have a few ISFJ friends. Going to have to reevaluate them now in case their INFJ in disguise
I think it depends on my mood when I take the test."
Well if you are an INFJ man good on ya for admitting it. My friend is married to an INFJ. It took her ages to get him to take a personality test. He is so mysterious and deep. They have been married ten years and she is still finding hidden talents and abilities of his. She has sworn me to secrecy as he hates his achievements and talents being told. It's weird as he is not a shy bloke. |
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"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
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Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet
Im so jealous He will be hardest to get into your bed and the one you will never want to get out of it
I've taken the test a few times for my own interest and I come out as either INFJ or ISFJ. I tend to have character traits which fit into both categories.
I have a few ISFJ friends. Going to have to reevaluate them now in case their INFJ in disguise
I think it depends on my mood when I take the test.
Well if you are an INFJ man good on ya for admitting it. My friend is married to an INFJ. It took her ages to get him to take a personality test. He is so mysterious and deep. They have been married ten years and she is still finding hidden talents and abilities of his. She has sworn me to secrecy as he hates his achievements and talents being told. It's weird as he is not a shy bloke."
I identify more with INFJ than ISFJ when I read the description. But I am definetly the 'I'. |
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I used to be managed by someone who regularly consulted a clairvoyant.
At least *that* appalling scam wasn't couched in managerese bullshit to designed to wring out the corporate dollar.
Seriously, everyone. Forer effect. |
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"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
.
Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet
Im so jealous He will be hardest to get into your bed and the one you will never want to get out of it
I've taken the test a few times for my own interest and I come out as either INFJ or ISFJ. I tend to have character traits which fit into both categories.
I have a few ISFJ friends. Going to have to reevaluate them now in case their INFJ in disguise
I think it depends on my mood when I take the test.
Well if you are an INFJ man good on ya for admitting it. My friend is married to an INFJ. It took her ages to get him to take a personality test. He is so mysterious and deep. They have been married ten years and she is still finding hidden talents and abilities of his. She has sworn me to secrecy as he hates his achievements and talents being told. It's weird as he is not a shy bloke."
Is there something wrong with INFJ?  |
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I've done a couple of "personality tests" through work (for some reason) and I've found that you get put in to a different box depending on how you feel at the time of filling it out, so I don't put too much faith in them
LvM |
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"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
.
Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet
Im so jealous He will be hardest to get into your bed and the one you will never want to get out of it
I've taken the test a few times for my own interest and I come out as either INFJ or ISFJ. I tend to have character traits which fit into both categories.
I have a few ISFJ friends. Going to have to reevaluate them now in case their INFJ in disguise
I think it depends on my mood when I take the test.
Well if you are an INFJ man good on ya for admitting it. My friend is married to an INFJ. It took her ages to get him to take a personality test. He is so mysterious and deep. They have been married ten years and she is still finding hidden talents and abilities of his. She has sworn me to secrecy as he hates his achievements and talents being told. It's weird as he is not a shy bloke.
Is there something wrong with INFJ? "
No thats the problem 
INFJ are the rarest personality type and to me the most amazing. INFJ guys are more rare still than INFJ women and value their privacy even more. So these blokes usually dont reveal much of their true fascinating selves until they are actually in a relationship.
So frustrating  |
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"I've done a couple of "personality tests" through work (for some reason) and I've found that you get put in to a different box depending on how you feel at the time of filling it out, so I don't put too much faith in them
LvM"
Exactly this.
I studied the Myers one as part of a management course.
The outcome for these is very much dependent on how I am feeling at the time, so the results vary.
I am not at all comfortable with personality tests being used as part of an interview process. |
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"I am ENFP and its such a bang on description. The best lover and partner I ever had seemed to be INFJ. It was like being in the hands of a psychic pleasure god. Problem is INFJ men are as rare as hens teeth and because of their secretive personality they hide under a camouflaged guise
.
Love to PM chat with any other ENFP ladies who have or had a INFJ lover ?
I only have friends INFJ and we really get on well... Don't know which of my lovers would be that yet
Im so jealous He will be hardest to get into your bed and the one you will never want to get out of it
I've taken the test a few times for my own interest and I come out as either INFJ or ISFJ. I tend to have character traits which fit into both categories.
I have a few ISFJ friends. Going to have to reevaluate them now in case their INFJ in disguise
I think it depends on my mood when I take the test.
Well if you are an INFJ man good on ya for admitting it. My friend is married to an INFJ. It took her ages to get him to take a personality test. He is so mysterious and deep. They have been married ten years and she is still finding hidden talents and abilities of his. She has sworn me to secrecy as he hates his achievements and talents being told. It's weird as he is not a shy bloke.
Is there something wrong with INFJ?
No thats the problem
INFJ are the rarest personality type and to me the most amazing. INFJ guys are more rare still than INFJ women and value their privacy even more. So these blokes usually dont reveal much of their true fascinating selves until they are actually in a relationship.
So frustrating "
More confirmation I'm a weirdo |
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