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I know it’s not like me to be controversial but a very nice sexy friend of mine has is missing from the forum for a wee while so I thought I’d have a go.
I see pictures on profiles of somebody obviously involved in sex with another person, yet they have no verifications.
Am I the only person that assumes that the other person is obviously not on fab and therefore unlikely to know the pic has been posted.
As I say not my normal sort of post but I am wondering about it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I’m quite the opposite as I don’t show verifications ..... I choose not to ....
I don’t understand why some people are so hung up on them to be honest ..... I know it’s kind of saying your not an axe murderer but how do you know you just haven’t had the urge yet..... I prefer to find out about someone myself..... sorry .....please don’t hate me for saying this xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeh, I reckon this is happening all over the internet. Swiped from profiles from other sites, porn photos clipped on photoshop.
Some people are just mischievous (Aka tw*ts), so I just assume they would do the same on here too.
Bit of a nasty business if you ask me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I’m quite the opposite as I don’t show verifications ..... I choose not to ....
I don’t understand why some people are so hung up on them to be honest ..... I know it’s kind of saying your not an axe murderer but how do you know you just haven’t had the urge yet..... I prefer to find out about someone myself..... sorry .....please don’t hate me for saying this xxxx"
To your thoughts about veris I agree.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other thing to remember. Is it a photo of profile person and a female or one copied off internet from somewhere?
That doesn’t happen does it. "
On fab or other platforms never
I have a female friend on fab, who had a vid put on of her on a males profile, full face showing,without her knowledge. to say the least she wasent best pleased  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it’s not like me to be controversial but a very nice sexy friend of mine has is missing from the forum for a wee while so I thought I’d have a go.
I see pictures on profiles of somebody obviously involved in sex with another person, yet they have no verifications.
Am I the only person that assumes that the other person is obviously not on fab and therefore unlikely to know the pic has been posted.
As I say not my normal sort of post but I am wondering about it. "
I sometimes ask who the other person is and they usually say it's their ex.  
Not entirely sure how many people would be happy their ex is using their sex pics on a sex site! |
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"I think I’m quite the opposite as I don’t show verifications ..... I choose not to ....
I don’t understand why some people are so hung up on them to be honest ..... I know it’s kind of saying your not an axe murderer but how do you know you just haven’t had the urge yet..... I prefer to find out about someone myself..... sorry .....please don’t hate me for saying this xxxx"
I understand that. My point though is it seems there’s lots of pics of people with others which are possibly not from meets on fab. I’m probably wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I’m quite the opposite as I don’t show verifications ..... I choose not to ....
I don’t understand why some people are so hung up on them to be honest ..... I know it’s kind of saying your not an axe murderer but how do you know you just haven’t had the urge yet..... I prefer to find out about someone myself..... sorry .....please don’t hate me for saying this xxxx
I understand that. My point though is it seems there’s lots of pics of people with others which are possibly not from meets on fab. I’m probably wrong. "
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"What if the other person is unverified too?
I know people on here that I know in real life but we can't verify each other as we're not verified ourselves."
I understand that but you also don’t have pictures of them on here. |
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Often discussed. I think it would be better for profiles to just have the specific people of the profile in them. Single men in particular do themselves no favours by having multiple stretched gashes (often barebacked) or heads not very well obscured, when most of the body shown is typically not the profile user.
I'm guessing it will never change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I’m quite the opposite as I don’t show verifications ..... I choose not to ....
I don’t understand why some people are so hung up on them to be honest ..... I know it’s kind of saying your not an axe murderer but how do you know you just haven’t had the urge yet..... I prefer to find out about someone myself..... sorry .....please don’t hate me for saying this xxxx"
Totally agree, its not a real verification of character as there are two sides to every story. Not everyone pushes your buttons and there is no comeback if you are wrong. |
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A lot of images and videos here, like elsewhere, have ended up being uploaded illegally on to porn hosting sites. That's a lot of potential trouble for someone who's not even a registered user of any site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always curious about the 'wife swap picture' threads too when it's a single male profile posting or replying they're in"
I have always thought this ^^^ too! Think it would be awful to find your partner on a sex site talking about you! |
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Most probably they are not on fab and not aware they are being used. This is why I don't like to see pics with others on a singles profile.
Not everyone does verifications though so they could be on here I suppose.
Kx |
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"I think I’m quite the opposite as I don’t show verifications ..... I choose not to ....
I don’t understand why some people are so hung up on them to be honest ..... I know it’s kind of saying your not an axe murderer but how do you know you just haven’t had the urge yet..... I prefer to find out about someone myself..... sorry .....please don’t hate me for saying this xxxx
I understand that. My point though is it seems there’s lots of pics of people with others which are possibly not from meets on fab. I’m probably wrong. "
i think you are right tbh - and its not unallowed to put up photos that are not all fab users, you just have to have their permission, but there is no way of policing it which is what makes it a crazy rule imo
photos should be only of users on the profile they are displayed or the other people made to be totally unidentifiable , its a hard job for photo mods to police though |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I had a similar discussion a while ago regarding this issue.
Personally I think that pictures of others on a profile raise questions regarding consent and it’s a difficult thing to police.
The only way that I can see it working is to have a consent filter which means the person being tagged and the site requesting active consent, where the person agrees via a button. It can also be removed at any point and the picture disappears if either party leave.
Obviously it’s a very complex process though and the site would never go in for something like that. In which case then, I think that it should be disallowed |
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over a year ago
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I avoid profiles of single men with action shots.
There's no guarantee of their integrity and I'd hate to be the woman unknowingly flaunted in someone else's profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a whole sleazy trade of dealing nudes online "
There was an interesting article about it the other day - seems to go well beyond just using them for Fab type means, but actually into duping people for money, identity theft etc. |
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"There's a whole sleazy trade of dealing nudes online
There was an interesting article about it the other day - seems to go well beyond just using them for Fab type means, but actually into duping people for money, identity theft etc. "
There's a documentary too based on the article |
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"I had a similar discussion a while ago regarding this issue.
Personally I think that pictures of others on a profile raise questions regarding consent and it’s a difficult thing to police.
The only way that I can see it working is to have a consent filter which means the person being tagged and the site requesting active consent, where the person agrees via a button. It can also be removed at any point and the picture disappears if either party leave.
Obviously it’s a very complex process though and the site would never go in for something like that. In which case then, I think that it should be disallowed "
Pictures that show someone else or someone balls deep in someone else really don't sit well with me.
If photo consent can't be proved then I think it should be assumed there is no consent.
The easiest/most responsible option would be single profile=no other person or body part of other person in pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have pics with my DD on my profile (with permission) - i only agreed for him to verify me recently for various reasons (mostly lamppost pissing )
He uses some of the same pics (with permission) ... But i have not verified him. Several people have written to him to say i am using his pics which is good that they are watching out
He also has pics from previous playmates that are no longer on fab, or have formed new couples
I think if they are non-fab, it is a bit strange displaying them here? |
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We normally ask who the woman is...more often than not because we are more attracted to her than the person who’s messaged 
I doubt any non FAB member would allow their ex partner to put action pics on here for everyone to see.
Not sure what single guys think is appealing about them hanging out of several different women
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