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over a year ago
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"Coz they didn't wanna take it any further having seen your mug shot"
Or after reading your present status asking to meet!!!!!
Plenty of reasons so forget and move on.
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Because you are not for them.
You decided to send them a pic, even though they had no public pics, that was your choice.
They decided not to send one back, that was their choice.
Should they not be allowed the same choice as you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ahh I totally get that but I've had a a few convos where we will chat have a laugh but withing the first message I'd send a face pic just being courteous and I get a little compliment carry on a couple messages then I'll ask for a photo back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People do stuff like that because people use fab in a way that works for them.
What you might consider as rude or inconsiderate may well be how another user protects themselves from the masses.
If someone insists on getting a picture first and you aren't prepared to take silence as a reply, don't send a picture. Up to you how you use fab though. None of us are owed anything here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Coz they didn't wanna take it any further having seen your mug shot
Or after reading your present status asking to meet!!!!!
Plenty of reasons so forget and move on.
T
You spotted it too then."
It’s always nice when they hide clues in plain sight I feel.!!!
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"Ahh I totally get that but I've had a a few convos where we will chat have a laugh but withing the first message I'd send a face pic just being courteous and I get a little compliment carry on a couple messages then I'll ask for a photo back "
Why do you ask for a photo? Out of interest. It puts people on the spot, if they don’t do it as a spontaneous response to your action of sending one, then I would say the writing is probably on the wall. How you choose to continue is up to you, how they choose to respond is up to them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ahh I totally get that but I've had a a few convos where we will chat have a laugh but withing the first message I'd send a face pic just being courteous and I get a little compliment carry on a couple messages then I'll ask for a photo back
Why do you ask for a photo? Out of
interest. It puts people on the spot, if they don’t do it as a spontaneous response to your action of sending one, then I would say the writing is probably on the wall. How you choose to continue is up to you, how they choose to respond is up to them. "
Well if I get a compliment and there's a mutual interest I'm sure it is acceptable to see who I'm talking to. It's not putting no one on the spot it's just a simple exchange I sent a face pic first to show I'm interested I get a positive response talk about what we are into and mention a meet i ask for a face pic for one to see who I'm talking to and 2 for my own safety because I'm a guy doesn't mean I shouldn't also take precautions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"People do stuff like that because people use fab in a way that works for them.
What you might consider as rude or inconsiderate may well be how another user protects themselves from the masses.
If someone insists on getting a picture first and you aren't prepared to take silence as a reply, don't send a picture. Up to you how you use fab though. None of us are owed anything here. "
Yeah I totally get that but that's not how these convos are played out I send a face pic within the first message being respectful and polite then the conversation goes on but then I ask for a pic then it goes silent |
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"People do stuff like that because people use fab in a way that works for them.
What you might consider as rude or inconsiderate may well be how another user protects themselves from the masses.
If someone insists on getting a picture first and you aren't prepared to take silence as a reply, don't send a picture. Up to you how you use fab though. None of us are owed anything here.
Yeah I totally get that but that's not how these convos are played out I send a face pic within the first message being respectful and polite then the conversation goes on but then I ask for a pic then it goes silent "
You are making a request on the person and they are making choice to deny that request. Respect the decision.
And if someone is getting knickers in a twist over a picture I sure as hell am not going to play with them. |
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