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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering what people’s preferences are, I’ve been a bull once for a cuckold couple that was fun, not been a part of anything else, what’s it like/ differences and what do couples enjoy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've given up on terms, they tend to cause too much confusion and incorrect interpretation or assumptions. I've even given up staying I'm married. He was never involved, so I do what I want, and my relationships are no one else's business.
If he does get involved at any point then I'd change my stance and we'd probably be a Stag and Vixen couple. But atm it's just me xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've given up on terms, they tend to cause too much confusion and incorrect interpretation or assumptions. I've even given up staying I'm married. He was never involved, so I do what I want, and my relationships are no one else's business.
If he does get involved at any point then I'd change my stance and we'd probably be a Stag and Vixen couple. But atm it's just me xx"
Makes a lot of sense not using terms, means everyone knows exactly where they stand and no grey areas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've given up on terms, they tend to cause too much confusion and incorrect interpretation or assumptions. I've even given up staying I'm married. He was never involved, so I do what I want, and my relationships are no one else's business.
If he does get involved at any point then I'd change my stance and we'd probably be a Stag and Vixen couple. But atm it's just me xx
Makes a lot of sense not using terms, means everyone knows exactly where they stand and no grey areas. "
Yeah. Most people assume he's a cuck, or want to swap, or have him to watch or whatever. It was just a pain sometimes. So single profile, single girl so to speak, if you ask why I'm wearing a ring I'll tell you, but it's got nothing to do with how I look to play on here xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've given up on terms, they tend to cause too much confusion and incorrect interpretation or assumptions. I've even given up staying I'm married. He was never involved, so I do what I want, and my relationships are no one else's business.
If he does get involved at any point then I'd change my stance and we'd probably be a Stag and Vixen couple. But atm it's just me xx
Makes a lot of sense not using terms, means everyone knows exactly where they stand and no grey areas.
Yeah. Most people assume he's a cuck, or want to swap, or have him to watch or whatever. It was just a pain sometimes. So single profile, single girl so to speak, if you ask why I'm wearing a ring I'll tell you, but it's got nothing to do with how I look to play on here xx"
Yeah that seems to be the main presumption from people is that a couple must be a cuck etc. That’s why I’d never presume with a couple and always ask what they enjoy etc |
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"I've given up on terms, they tend to cause too much confusion and incorrect interpretation or assumptions. I've even given up staying I'm married. He was never involved, so I do what I want, and my relationships are no one else's business.
If he does get involved at any point then I'd change my stance and we'd probably be a Stag and Vixen couple. But atm it's just me xx
Makes a lot of sense not using terms, means everyone knows exactly where they stand and no grey areas.
Yeah. Most people assume he's a cuck, or want to swap, or have him to watch or whatever. It was just a pain sometimes. So single profile, single girl so to speak, if you ask why I'm wearing a ring I'll tell you, but it's got nothing to do with how I look to play on here xx"
I feel your pain. We meet separately and have no involvement in each others meets but people often assume he's a cuck or that he wants to watch. It's annoying when people assume. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s the old saying never assume as it makes an ass out of you and me. I always hate to assume and probably go the opposite way and ask one too many questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're super new to this aspect of the scene but we are (so far) embracing the terms "cuck" and "Hotwife" as it seems to apply to us the closest ...however, as we learn more about the scene and ourselves this may change. It's all a bit of a minefield really x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We're super new to this aspect of the scene but we are (so far) embracing the terms "cuck" and "Hotwife" as it seems to apply to us the closest ...however, as we learn more about the scene and ourselves this may change. It's all a bit of a minefield really x"
Yeah it’s a definite minefield, looking at your profile I’d say in my humble opinion I’d agree you’re both, definitely cuck with the cock cage etc. But it’s why I personally am not a big fan of putting labels on stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've given up on terms, they tend to cause too much confusion and incorrect interpretation or assumptions. I've even given up staying I'm married. He was never involved, so I do what I want, and my relationships are no one else's business.
If he does get involved at any point then I'd change my stance and we'd probably be a Stag and Vixen couple. But atm it's just me xx
Makes a lot of sense not using terms, means everyone knows exactly where they stand and no grey areas.
Yeah. Most people assume he's a cuck, or want to swap, or have him to watch or whatever. It was just a pain sometimes. So single profile, single girl so to speak, if you ask why I'm wearing a ring I'll tell you, but it's got nothing to do with how I look to play on here xx
I feel your pain. We meet separately and have no involvement in each others meets but people often assume he's a cuck or that he wants to watch. It's annoying when people assume. "
Yep. Get this a lot x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, thank you for the clarity ladies. I know some of you spell it out for us, but if you don’t I think we can all be guilty of jumping to conclusions on one’s situation at home  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Could anyone enlighten me on what the actual differences are in the *ahem* traditional sense or is it literally all just open to interpretation?"
I generally think cuck is more humiliation/domination style, like making the partner watch etc and not necessarily be with their blessing. Hotwife is with complete blessing from their partner and if they don’t like something it stops. I could be completely wrong though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Could anyone enlighten me on what the actual differences are in the *ahem* traditional sense or is it literally all just open to interpretation?
I generally think cuck is more humiliation/domination style, like making the partner watch etc and not necessarily be with their blessing. Hotwife is with complete blessing from their partner and if they don’t like something it stops. I could be completely wrong though "
No you're bang on.
But most associate hotwife and cuck. Which as I said, is wrong.
It's interesting to see Lacey and Rosie have the same problem. I'm pleased it's not just me. I play as a single as a result. It's bizzarly less hassle to just not mention I'm married, no one cares anyway xx |
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"Could anyone enlighten me on what the actual differences are in the *ahem* traditional sense or is it literally all just open to interpretation?
I generally think cuck is more humiliation/domination style, like making the partner watch etc and not necessarily be with their blessing. Hotwife is with complete blessing from their partner and if they don’t like something it stops. I could be completely wrong though
No you're bang on.
But most associate hotwife and cuck. Which as I said, is wrong.
It's interesting to see Lacey and Rosie have the same problem. I'm pleased it's not just me. I play as a single as a result. It's bizzarly less hassle to just not mention I'm married, no one cares anyway xx"
Right, I get that distinction, but then what are a stag and vixen couple? How are they different? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Could anyone enlighten me on what the actual differences are in the *ahem* traditional sense or is it literally all just open to interpretation?
I generally think cuck is more humiliation/domination style, like making the partner watch etc and not necessarily be with their blessing. Hotwife is with complete blessing from their partner and if they don’t like something it stops. I could be completely wrong though
No you're bang on.
But most associate hotwife and cuck. Which as I said, is wrong.
It's interesting to see Lacey and Rosie have the same problem. I'm pleased it's not just me. I play as a single as a result. It's bizzarly less hassle to just not mention I'm married, no one cares anyway xx
Right, I get that distinction, but then what are a stag and vixen couple? How are they different?"
Stag & Vixen has no degredation element. The husband either watches for his own enjoyment or joins in for MFM xx |
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"Could anyone enlighten me on what the actual differences are in the *ahem* traditional sense or is it literally all just open to interpretation?
I generally think cuck is more humiliation/domination style, like making the partner watch etc and not necessarily be with their blessing. Hotwife is with complete blessing from their partner and if they don’t like something it stops. I could be completely wrong though
No you're bang on.
But most associate hotwife and cuck. Which as I said, is wrong.
It's interesting to see Lacey and Rosie have the same problem. I'm pleased it's not just me. I play as a single as a result. It's bizzarly less hassle to just not mention I'm married, no one cares anyway xx
Right, I get that distinction, but then what are a stag and vixen couple? How are they different?"
Stags don't get off on being denied while his partner is satisfied elsewhere and doesn't find it humiliating. He gets off off on it and often wants to hear about it or even watch. Sometimes stags organise the vixens meets. They find it arousing and it often leads to very passionate sex between the couple. Not my dynamic with my partner either but this is what I know of it. |
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"Could anyone enlighten me on what the actual differences are in the *ahem* traditional sense or is it literally all just open to interpretation?
I generally think cuck is more humiliation/domination style, like making the partner watch etc and not necessarily be with their blessing. Hotwife is with complete blessing from their partner and if they don’t like something it stops. I could be completely wrong though
No you're bang on.
But most associate hotwife and cuck. Which as I said, is wrong.
It's interesting to see Lacey and Rosie have the same problem. I'm pleased it's not just me. I play as a single as a result. It's bizzarly less hassle to just not mention I'm married, no one cares anyway xx
Right, I get that distinction, but then what are a stag and vixen couple? How are they different?
Stag & Vixen has no degredation element. The husband either watches for his own enjoyment or joins in for MFM xx"
Ahhh right I see, thank you for clarifying. Every day is a school day  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Could anyone enlighten me on what the actual differences are in the *ahem* traditional sense or is it literally all just open to interpretation?
I generally think cuck is more humiliation/domination style, like making the partner watch etc and not necessarily be with their blessing. Hotwife is with complete blessing from their partner and if they don’t like something it stops. I could be completely wrong though
No you're bang on.
But most associate hotwife and cuck. Which as I said, is wrong.
It's interesting to see Lacey and Rosie have the same problem. I'm pleased it's not just me. I play as a single as a result. It's bizzarly less hassle to just not mention I'm married, no one cares anyway xx
Right, I get that distinction, but then what are a stag and vixen couple? How are they different?
Stags don't get off on being denied while his partner is satisfied elsewhere and doesn't find it humiliating. He gets off off on it and often wants to hear about it or even watch. Sometimes stags organise the vixens meets. They find it arousing and it often leads to very passionate sex between the couple. Not my dynamic with my partner either but this is what I know of it. "
Yeah the stag usually wants to reclaim his partner I believe as soon as possible, and gets off on the fact she’s just been with another guy maybe even just a few minutes ago |
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"I've given up on terms, they tend to cause too much confusion and incorrect interpretation or assumptions. I've even given up staying I'm married. He was never involved, so I do what I want, and my relationships are no one else's business.
If he does get involved at any point then I'd change my stance and we'd probably be a Stag and Vixen couple. But atm it's just me xx
Makes a lot of sense not using terms, means everyone knows exactly where they stand and no grey areas.
Yeah. Most people assume he's a cuck, or want to swap, or have him to watch or whatever. It was just a pain sometimes. So single profile, single girl so to speak, if you ask why I'm wearing a ring I'll tell you, but it's got nothing to do with how I look to play on here xx
I feel your pain. We meet separately and have no involvement in each others meets but people often assume he's a cuck or that he wants to watch. It's annoying when people assume. "
Would you not have that on your profile? |
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"I've given up on terms, they tend to cause too much confusion and incorrect interpretation or assumptions. I've even given up staying I'm married. He was never involved, so I do what I want, and my relationships are no one else's business.
If he does get involved at any point then I'd change my stance and we'd probably be a Stag and Vixen couple. But atm it's just me xx
Makes a lot of sense not using terms, means everyone knows exactly where they stand and no grey areas.
Yeah. Most people assume he's a cuck, or want to swap, or have him to watch or whatever. It was just a pain sometimes. So single profile, single girl so to speak, if you ask why I'm wearing a ring I'll tell you, but it's got nothing to do with how I look to play on here xx
I feel your pain. We meet separately and have no involvement in each others meets but people often assume he's a cuck or that he wants to watch. It's annoying when people assume.
Would you not have that on your profile?"
Have what? |
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Sorry I was reading this section
Yeah. Most people assume he's a cuck, or want to swap, or have him to watch or whatever. It was just a pain sometimes. So single profile, single girl so to speak, if you ask why I'm wearing a ring I'll tell you, but it's got nothing to do with how I look to play on here xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry I was reading this section
Yeah. Most people assume he's a cuck, or want to swap, or have him to watch or whatever. It was just a pain sometimes. So single profile, single girl so to speak, if you ask why I'm wearing a ring I'll tell you, but it's got nothing to do with how I look to play on here xx"
What about it? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don’t want people presuming your partner is a certain way then maybe be more specific in your profile xx"
Maybe. I've tried and still got shit. There is no golden bullet xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I’m reading a profile I find the best ones are the “to the point” ones, No golden bullet just silver ones for the scary werewolf’s out there
Love you pics X"
Thanks darling xx |
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