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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Meet people in the flesh?
Obviously not in this past year but usually- when there isn't a nasty cough going around?
Are the majority of foramites just voyeurs and using Fab like Facebook with boobs and willys 
And before anyone says it - yes I know the answer is 42  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet people in the flesh?
Obviously not in this past year but usually- when there isn't a nasty cough going around?
Are the majority of foramites just voyeurs and using Fab like Facebook with boobs and willys
And before anyone says it - yes I know the answer is 42 "
Fort.....sorry.
Hopefully things will change but of course it’s only forum chat at the moment. Meeting up with people only becomes an option if you get on with people doesn’t it? ... and that takes time.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only joined the site a few months before the pandemic started sadly, but in that time I met up with a few guys. So yes, once things are safe I imagine I will do so again. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Hmmm... judging by forum posts, and maybe I'm wrong, I'd say a fair few have met and then met in a biblical sense.
I meet people but not very often at all. I think I'll be seeing friends soon. |
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"It takes me ages to agree to a social meet usually. Because I seek regular, I have to feel we have enough in common through mail to consider spending regular time together."
We'll have to base it round Cottage Pie then   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet people in the flesh?
Obviously not in this past year but usually- when there isn't a nasty cough going around?
Are the majority of foramites just voyeurs and using Fab like Facebook with boobs and willys
And before anyone says it - yes I know the answer is 42 "
Outside of the last year then yes absolutely meet people socially! For me it would be the only way to find out if I actually like a person or not ... good communication and flirting only happens in the flesh, I'm not an online person to be honest! |
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Fab is great for me, someone with limited initial social skills (I get better the more you know me), I’m never going to be the guy who walks over to someone at a bar.
I’ve met people for socials on here
I’ve met people for more on here
And I hope to meet more in the future. |
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By *P994Man
over a year ago
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Yes definitely, here to meet people in person and make proper connections. For me just online chatting doesn’t online do anything other than seeing if I’m compatible with people or just having a bit of a natter |
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"It takes me ages to agree to a social meet usually. Because I seek regular, I have to feel we have enough in common through mail to consider spending regular time together.
We'll have to base it round Cottage Pie then "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m a fab heretic. Although I don’t use Facebook so I must be just a boobs and willies guy.  "
I wasn't judging - we're all here for our own reasons.
Maybe I should have worded it differently-
Who used to meet but is disenchanted with it all?
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Years ago I used to be fairly active , meets, parties and clubs then I sort of lost interest. Partly due to a change in working hours pattern , meeting guys the organic way and dating vanilla .
The lockdown has definitely renewed my enthusiasm and I expect that I will "dip my toes" once again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have in the past and hope to again. I'm very discerning and won't just meet anyone though. Life is too short for meeting nutters!"
Are you fever tree the tonic that was here a while ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started using the forum during COVID but not very sociable so probably be an on/off forum user for now."
And I barely notice the boobs and willies. They're just part of the furniture of Fab. |
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I've had the pleasure of meeting some lovely people in the past, both socially and in a more biblical sense...and I'm lucky enough to be able to call some of them friends.
Will I in the future? There are a couple of people that I hope to meet socially. And there's a possibility of me attending some club nights when they're open again. But one on one meets? There's currently nobody that tickles my pickle enough to tempt me away from my special someone, and I don't have any enthusiasm to find anyone if I'm honest  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I've had the pleasure of meeting some lovely people in the past, both socially and in a more biblical sense...and I'm lucky enough to be able to call some of them friends.
Will I in the future? There are a couple of people that I hope to meet socially. And there's a possibility of me attending some club nights when they're open again. But one on one meets? There's currently nobody that tickles my pickle enough to tempt me away from my special someone, and I don't have any enthusiasm to find anyone if I'm honest "
Every time you post something like this I want to post this emote in response.
I can't keep doing it because it will look weird but please remember that my face goes like this when you post like this.
(Also we are meeting for a social! No cow will stop me now) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had the pleasure of meeting some lovely people in the past, both socially and in a more biblical sense...and I'm lucky enough to be able to call some of them friends.
Will I in the future? There are a couple of people that I hope to meet socially. And there's a possibility of me attending some club nights when they're open again. But one on one meets? There's currently nobody that tickles my pickle enough to tempt me away from my special someone, and I don't have any enthusiasm to find anyone if I'm honest "
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"I've had the pleasure of meeting some lovely people in the past, both socially and in a more biblical sense...and I'm lucky enough to be able to call some of them friends.
Will I in the future? There are a couple of people that I hope to meet socially. And there's a possibility of me attending some club nights when they're open again. But one on one meets? There's currently nobody that tickles my pickle enough to tempt me away from my special someone, and I don't have any enthusiasm to find anyone if I'm honest
Every time you post something like this I want to post this emote in response.
I can't keep doing it because it will look weird but please remember that my face goes like this when you post like this.
(Also we are meeting for a social! No cow will stop me now)"
you do make me chuckle Meli dear
And damn right no cow will stop you...you promised me I could have cake, and I'm bloody well going to eat cake in your company! But can we make it a sunny day please? I've just bought the loveliest summer dress and I want to look pretty while we eat cake |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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(Also we are meeting for a social! No cow will stop me now)
you do make me chuckle Meli dear
And damn right no cow will stop you...you promised me I could have cake, and I'm bloody well going to eat cake in your company! But can we make it a sunny day please? I've just bought the loveliest summer dress and I want to look pretty while we eat cake "
Yes we can! I'm excited about it already, you can have all the cake! And the dress? The dress will almost be as radiant as you on a summer's day...
 That was overkill I know |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Yes, always for socials initially & occasionally at clubs, but I'm very fussy about who I will meet and never do meets at short notice.
Still undecided about when/if I will go back to meeting from here. |
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I’m a clubbing type of TV, it doesn’t really matter what type of place as long as it’s inclusive. So gay, fetish, parties or swingers as long as I meet likeminded people and have a good time it’s why I’m here.
The site is just a way to meet others and find out about events that are on. So for me the last year has been a nightmare as I don’t miss the sex I miss the social side  |
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Yes I will meet for social chats ,fun or know fun , it’s good to chat to like minded people ,a few have led to meet with wife , you can usual get to judge the genuine ones , wife will only meet at club and partys ,as she does not feel safe meeting alone for first time ,she will always let me know if she wants a liitle while alone when she finds those she likes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have in the past and hope to again. I'm very discerning and won't just meet anyone though. Life is too short for meeting nutters!
Are you fever tree the tonic that was here a while ago "
Guilty as charged. Whether I'm a tonic is up for debate but I'm a good mixer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Back in the day I did actually have quite a few meets. Which I know will surprise many as much as it surprised me.
None for ages now .. I think my last meet was December 2018, mind you I’ve been mostly UNLOSed since and haven’t been looking to meet on those occasions I have been briefly back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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(Also we are meeting for a social! No cow will stop me now)
you do make me chuckle Meli dear
And damn right no cow will stop you...you promised me I could have cake, and I'm bloody well going to eat cake in your company! But can we make it a sunny day please? I've just bought the loveliest summer dress and I want to look pretty while we eat cake
Yes we can! I'm excited about it already, you can have all the cake! And the dress? The dress will almost be as radiant as you on a summer's day...
That was overkill I know "
And she said she can't flirt (insert smug, I told ya so emoji here) |
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"I’m a fab heretic. Although I don’t use Facebook so I must be just a boobs and willies guy.
I wasn't judging - we're all here for our own reasons.
Maybe I should have worded it differently-
Who used to meet but is disenchanted with it all?
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Don’t worry there’s only One who can judge me in this world.........
That Judge John Deed, he’s marvellous isn’t he |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've met loads of Forumites at large social gatherings, for coffee, picnics, glass of wlne, Xmas lunch and even rumpy pumpy. I have also met a fair few locals for sex, been to parties and clubs and I've even shagged in a field
So I'm definitely not just all chat and no action. But, as you know, my health has stopped all that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll meet again, don't know where, don't know when.
But I know I'll meet again, some sunny day."
And I will just say hello to the folks that you know
Tell them you won't be long
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met loads of Forumites at large social gatherings, for coffee, picnics, glass of wlne, Xmas lunch and even rumpy pumpy. I have also met a fair few locals for sex, been to parties and clubs and I've even shagged in a field
So I'm definitely not just all chat and no action. But, as you know, my health has stopped all that "
Can you still go to socials? STP will be back.. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't met anyone yet but staying positive, lockdown will be over soon, right?
Think I joined the community in the worst possible time...
My social skills aren't the best but I have lots to offer for someone who will get to know me better.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met loads of Forumites at large social gatherings, for coffee, picnics, glass of wlne, Xmas lunch and even rumpy pumpy. I have also met a fair few locals for sex, been to parties and clubs and I've even shagged in a field
So I'm definitely not just all chat and no action. But, as you know, my health has stopped all that
Can you still go to socials? STP will be back.. x"
I doubt I'll do even socials this year as my treatment makes me too poorly and I'm waiting for the surgery to remove the evil thing growing inside me. But possibly next year. Never say never. Have done 4 STPs. |
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I used to really enjoy a weekend away meeting different people, then I made a few good connections and only meet those people, now I don’t meet any people, that may change but for now that’s how it is for me |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I find meeting new folk more and more stressful and uncomfortable and this past year hasn’t helped that. To me I don’t want to waste my time making casual acquaintances when I could make more meaningful acquaintances, but then I can’t really be arsed (at the moment) to get out of my comfort zone to meet and make either kind of acquaintance.
I’m sure when the Summer horn kicks in I’ll reconsider my life choices, until then, I’m fairly content as I am.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met loads of Forumites at large social gatherings, for coffee, picnics, glass of wlne, Xmas lunch and even rumpy pumpy. I have also met a fair few locals for sex, been to parties and clubs and I've even shagged in a field
So I'm definitely not just all chat and no action. But, as you know, my health has stopped all that
Can you still go to socials? STP will be back.. x
I doubt I'll do even socials this year as my treatment makes me too poorly and I'm waiting for the surgery to remove the evil thing growing inside me. But possibly next year. Never say never. Have done 4 STPs. "
Hope it goes ok. |
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