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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I am not interested in chasing a particular look. I am more attracted, physically, to some than others but it is hard to define. Far more important than looks in the swing scene are personlaity, intelligence, humour, banter and confidence. Nothing like a sexy confident (nice smelling ) man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to find someone attractive to want to meet them but they don't have to be stunning. They must appeal to me in terms of looks but other factors are just as important.
I got a message from someone young, gorgeous and with a killer body yesterday and said no thanks because I didn't like his profile. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I got a message from someone young, gorgeous and with a killer body yesterday and said no thanks because I didn't like his profile."
Spot on - I had a lovely guy message me a few days ago, drop dead gorgeous looking, really nice in personality and meeting most criteria except for two... so I wont meet . |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I have to find someone attractive to want to meet them but they don't have to be stunning. They must appeal to me in terms of looks but other factors are just as important.
I got a message from someone young, gorgeous and with a killer body yesterday and said no thanks because I didn't like his profile."
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"i have to like the look of someone a bit.
dont like scruffy looking people.
i only want to meet them if i think we will get on ok."
I agree, I have to like their looks - but it is not a stereotypical "good look" - it can more rugged or more polished, it depends ton the whole picture |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not interested in chasing a particular look. I am more attracted, physically, to some than others but it is hard to define. Far more important than looks in the swing scene are personlaity, intelligence, humour, banter and confidence. Nothing like a sexy confident (nice smelling ) man "
What she said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not interested in chasing a particular look. I am more attracted, physically, to some than others but it is hard to define. Far more important than looks in the swing scene are personlaity, intelligence, humour, banter and confidence. Nothing like a sexy confident (nice smelling ) man
What she said! "
also agree on this one |
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an average guy to others can be very attractive to me because of his personality, same as what others may find attractive i dont because of personality. obviously i have to be attracted to them but it there personality that makes them attractive.
There are obviously some that no matter how good there personality is i wouldnt shag them.
Having said that i think the guys i know are good looking as well as good personality, win win situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"personality is more important but i am sucker for nice eyes and arse  "
I agree and a smile with a full set of teeth, don't care if they are false just as long as they have them in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personal preferences and attraction is what makes the world go round, but when u say are looks important I assume u mean good looks which is obviously subjective to the individual so in my opinion on every level looks are important |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Personality is of course important, but unless there is a physical atraction the best personality in the world wouldn't persuade me to have sex with them...."
Im with ya there...Ive met some lovely guys for social meets, but if I just dont fancy them, theres no way in hell Im having sex with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks" have been regularly mentioned here, but what exactly is meant by that?
Is it the face? Or in the case of ladies, certain other attributes? lol
I recently suggested to a lady that she should maybe visit her local SpecSavers. She commented that the first thing she noticed in my pic were my eyes!
So yes, looks, but there are looks...... and looks!! 
More important though, is personality and a chemistry between the 2 people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say yes from experience , everything is good till I send a face pic but we all have our tastes 
Ur face pic ain't that scary lol "
Your biased cos you want me lol  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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""Looks" have been regularly mentioned here, but what exactly is meant by that?
Is it the face? Or in the case of ladies, certain other attributes? lol
I recently suggested to a lady that she should maybe visit her local SpecSavers. She commented that the first thing she noticed in my pic were my eyes!
So yes, looks, but there are looks...... and looks!!
More important though, is personality and a chemistry between the 2 people. "
the whole package for me |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"is everyone just interested in how a person looks or do any of you not care?"
I don't think it is a case of not caring.... but I do think that for some it is solely looks and nothing on personality.... which is why you get people saying "i have a great body/six pack, why can i not get a meet?"
for me it is a mixture of looks and personality... if miss world has a really shitty persona i would not be interested... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes looks are impotant to me but I dont have a type but I do ask for a pic and if i think MMMmmm then oyur my type. Then comes the personality, laugh and then the rest is history |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is everyone just interested in how a person looks or do any of you not care?"
Are you asking if people would fuck a fugly? Me I wouldn't but one persons fugly is another's stunner. Me if it doesn't look good I won't eat it, if it doesn't look good i wont stick my cock in it and if it doesn't look good there is fuck all wood in my boxers. |
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This is pure fantasy for me so looks are what attract. However, my meets are not one offs, therefore if there's no substance behind the looks it's not going to happen.
I have a low tolerance threshold towards the inane and terminally dull.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there has to be something about them that makes you bite your lips. Thats how i choose who i message lol. If i bite my lips too much it means maybe i should just give them a wink too with a message lol.
If someone gets me pouting my lips as im reading their profile. It means, im interested in them, but i may not be what they are looking for. So, a wink shall suffice (im not being lazy, just up to them if they want to reciprocate in our communications lol).
So, yeah..there has to be some spark x but for me, personality wins. Love someone who can make me laugh and banter with. Always leads to amazing antics which i shan't discuss lol x  |
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I also think looks are important as thats the first thing you see when you open the door......if a good persoanlity is attatched then thats even better and then if they strip down to tight white boxers Im slavering and when they come off all hell breaks lose
Hopefully
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality is of course important, but unless there is a physical atraction the best personality in the world wouldn't persuade me to have sex with them....i hear ya sister!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How someone looks is important, if I am not attracted to them, I wouldn't arrange to meet them again. And whether they are slim, fit or carrying a few pounds is not particularly relevant either as it is about the whole person so to use what Mistress said if they are dull and inane, what point is there in meeting again even if they are the hottest thing on two legs? I have had a few meets where the conversation has become a one sided affair and I have chosen not to meet them again even though they have wanted to meet me. If they were great conversationalists but I didn't feel attracted to them, I wouldn't arrange to meet them again as it needs to be an overall attraction not wholly about looks |
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It's not about 'just interested in looks', it's that looks are important.
Models with gorgeous bodies and looks, but the wrong personality are of no interest, though would gimp out a stunner, to stop him speaking, whilst having a good fuck, at a push in desperate times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is pure fantasy for me so looks are what attract. However, my meets are not one offs, therefore if there's no substance behind the looks it's not going to happen.
I have a low tolerance threshold towards the inane and terminally dull.
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Agreed.
Looks make you look, personality keeps you interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks make you look, personality keeps you interested .. I meet this man he was not the normal sort i would go for but a lovely lovely man his personality Was out of this world. Rear you meet a person so open and lovely . I tell you he give me some of the best sex ever i had in my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess I'm in a minority as looks don't really bother me.
I chat to guys with or without pics and if we have chemistry in our chats that's what turns me on most. It's my mind that needs stimulated. Having said that I have yet to click with anyone I don't find sexy when we meet but looks are def not high on my list of priorities.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there has to be something about them that makes you bite your lips. Thats how i choose who i message lol. If i bite my lips too much it means maybe i should just give them a wink too with a message lol.
If someone gets me pouting my lips as im reading their profile. It means, im interested in them, but i may not be what they are looking for. So, a wink shall suffice (im not being lazy, just up to them if they want to reciprocate in our communications lol).
So, yeah..there has to be some spark x but for me, personality wins. Love someone who can make me laugh and banter with. Always leads to amazing antics which i shan't discuss lol x "
Ditto!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks are a must...but thankfully subjective.
I fancy very "alternative looking" men and women"
define alternative looking? im very alternative..hence, no meets lol x |
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