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over a year ago
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when i left my husband.
realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.
Px |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"when i left my husband.
realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.
Px "
If I could place a heart on this I would sister |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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How my sexual worth different from my self worth.
I know my self worth and always have, if you mean comfertable with sex, again I always was as I was brought to understand that sex is not shameful but is a path to experience some great things.
Other peoples response to me is a reflection of their self worth, if they are negative or posative. That is their issue not mine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What the fuck is sexual worth?
I think as individuals only we can truly answer these questions to ourselves
I have no idea what sexual worth is either? Do you mean sexual confidence? "
No I mean worth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when i left my husband.
realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.
Px "
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"What the fuck is sexual worth?
I think as individuals only we can truly answer these questions to ourselves
I have no idea what sexual worth is either? Do you mean sexual confidence?
No I mean worth "
Like it’s some sort of commodity? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What the fuck is sexual worth?
I think as individuals only we can truly answer these questions to ourselves
I have no idea what sexual worth is either? Do you mean sexual confidence?
No I mean worth
Like it’s some sort of commodity? "
Is it ok if I ask you to answer that ? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't even know what it is"
Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.
Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.
All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't even know what it is
Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.
Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.
All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me."
That isn’t to say the posts are pointless, but they scream self worth not sexual worth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when i left my husband.
realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.
Px "
Cuddles xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't even know what it is
Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.
Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.
All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me."
Not everyone gets it as responses have shown |
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"I don't even know what it is
Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.
Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.
All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me.
That isn’t to say the posts are pointless, but they scream self worth not sexual worth. "
Exactly what I was thinking, more self worth, self affirmation not just sexual worth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't even know what it is
Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.
Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.
All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me.
That isn’t to say the posts are pointless, but they scream self worth not sexual worth. "
That's what I thought. Self worth. Knowing who we are as a person.
Then comes sexual confidence once discoriveing are own self worth?
I'm probably wrong still tho. |
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"I don't even know what it is
Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.
Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.
All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me.
That isn’t to say the posts are pointless, but they scream self worth not sexual worth.
That's what I thought. Self worth. Knowing who we are as a person.
Then comes sexual confidence once discoriveing are own self worth?
I'm probably wrong still tho."
I don’t think you are wrong, feeling good about ourselves runs through all factors of life including sex |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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When I was 43. I was chatting to a 22 year old on a Facebook app for a while, then on MSN.
After a few months he asked to meet me and I said yes.
He was 23 by then and his age never entered my head.
Anyway, we met up and had amazing sex, and he said "You're everything I imagined you to be".
We had a sexual relationship for 2 years which made me realise that I actually was attractive to other men (even though I was now fat-husband's words) and had something they wanted.
He kick started my online sexual adventures, and here I am now, still attracting men with the promise of sexual heaven. |
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over a year ago
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"When I was 43. I was chatting to a 22 year old on a Facebook app for a while, then on MSN.
After a few months he asked to meet me and I said yes.
He was 23 by then and his age never entered my head.
Anyway, we met up and had amazing sex, and he said "You're everything I imagined you to be".
We had a sexual relationship for 2 years which made me realise that I actually was attractive to other men (even though I was now fat-husband's words) and had something they wanted.
He kick started my online sexual adventures, and here I am now, still attracting men with the promise of sexual heaven."
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I've never heard of "sexual worth", the OP seems to suggest that is because I havent found it yet, Google also doesn't seem familiar with the term but does talk at length about self worth & the relationship between that & sexual/romantic relationships.
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"I've never heard of "sexual worth", the OP seems to suggest that is because I havent found it yet, Google also doesn't seem familiar with the term but does talk at length about self worth & the relationship between that & sexual/romantic relationships.
K (fem) "
Beat me to it!
Mrs kf x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have just discovered an interesting article about Sexual Market Value, perhaps that's what the OP means? "
Not entirely as personally I view myself as in fact priceless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when i left my husband.
realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.
Px "
You are phenomenal
Thanks for sharing |
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Only recently, in the last maybe 6 years?
I always thought it was something I had to do to please or keep a man.
Now I realise that it's the woman that really has the power.
It's my body and I can set the boundaries, whereas I was always scared to say no before.
Now if there's anything I don't like I will happily get up and walk away.
And have no qualms about telling people my wants and needs in the bedroom. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Only recently, in the last maybe 6 years?
I always thought it was something I had to do to please or keep a man.
Now I realise that it's the woman that really has the power.
It's my body and I can set the boundaries, whereas I was always scared to say no before.
Now if there's anything I don't like I will happily get up and walk away.
And have no qualms about telling people my wants and needs in the bedroom."
I feel you
Not literally but I do feel you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sexual worth.
That's not a thing.
Are you asking when did I realise I was good at sex? The answer to that was when I was 30. I'm not good at the cock in pussy for 40 min type of sex but I'm really good at the tease a woman for days, keeping her on edge and not letting her cum type of sex.
Or when I realised that I wasn't going to fuck just anyone because I didn't need to and that it didn't make any differencetome as a person? I realised that as soon as puberty ended. |
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