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By *bbandflow OP Couple
over a year ago
South Devon |
Just finished an article dealing with Group Dynamics in society..it points out that when in a group situation, because of relative anonymity, we are capable of committing acts that we would never dream of doing as individuals. And this mimics similar behaviour found in the animal kingdom.
Do any of you fabsters, who have participated in group sex, ie more than eight..think this probable. For instance, having sex with someone who you wouldn't with as an individual..or taking part in bisexual activity when you are normally straight.
And if so, do you think it indicates that behind all the cultural, and moral restraints society demands, we are never very far from regressing back to our more primitive instincts.
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In group situations I am much less picky. If I look up (or down) and see it's someone I wouldn't have picked to join me I judge them on technique - if it's good then I don't stop them!  Male or female  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i do both
I will only play with women in a group situation, i wouldnt really class myself as bi really but if im playing in a group and theres a spare fanny doing nothing i'll give it a lick for me its just a the moment things, i couldnt spend hours playing with a woman as i dont enjoy it that much but when in a group i can just move on when ive had enough
As for guys, yes i'll play with guys i wouldnt play with one one one, if they are really REALLY not my type i'll move away but if its a case of...hummm they ok i suppose....i will play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had group fun once. As its a group then, for me, there is not much kissing and sometimes I wasn't always aware of who was where! So spark and looks aren't really required. I probably wouldn't have met most of them on a 1:1 basis though. |
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Nearly, I think there were seven of us, so whether that is group sex I will let others decide, but it was dark and I very nearly started sucking what I thought was a nice nipple, fortunately somebody moved and I saw it belonged to, shall we say a curvy GUY!!!!!!
A close shave Gromit!
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a weird one for us - I (male ) find it varies according to the dynamic of the folk playing - so if it's more women than men I feel more comfortable and am more likely to engage in a more freestyle play . And more than likely do more primitive carnal stuff lol
If it's more guys then I usually take a more cuck role - enjoying the spectacle as opposed to getting involved .
As we only ever play together she has the ability to adapt to any situation with the same gusto - and undoubtably plays with folk she wouldn't normally be attracted to on a one to one meet .
So I think it depends on your mindset - I seem to be very much on the same level whatever we do - she goes into predator / primeval mode in group play ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just finished an article dealing with Group Dynamics in society..it points out that when in a group situation, because of relative anonymity, we are capable of committing acts that we would never dream of doing as individuals. And this mimics similar behaviour found in the animal kingdom.
Do any of you fabsters, who have participated in group sex, ie more than eight..think this probable. For instance, having sex with someone who you wouldn't with as an individual..or taking part in bisexual activity when you are normally straight.
And if so, do you think it indicates that behind all the cultural, and moral restraints society demands, we are never very far from regressing back to our more primitive instincts.
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First thing I thought of was the Milgram exeriment. I guess that's not what you were getting at.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes I'm heterosexual..I thought..never go with a man on own..but a female of couple wanted me to play with her man..it was her watching that made me wonder about my sexuality!!.. |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
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It is a very different situation whilst in a group sex scenario, and I'm possibly no different to most others who have been in this position, and doing things with people you normally wouldn't. I just normally go with the flow and do what needs to be done  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have enjoyed a few group sex meets in a clubs. I feel that I still only play with the same people as if we were on a 1 to 1 or cpl to cpl.
But can see why some people have not so many issues with group fun. |
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By *bbandflow OP Couple
over a year ago
South Devon |
"Just finished an article dealing with Group Dynamics in society..it points out that when in a group situation, because of relative anonymity, we are capable of committing acts that we would never dream of doing as individuals. And this mimics similar behaviour found in the animal kingdom.
Do any of you fabsters, who have participated in group sex, ie more than eight..think this probable. For instance, having sex with someone who you wouldn't with as an individual..or taking part in bisexual activity when you are normally straight.
And if so, do you think it indicates that behind all the cultural, and moral restraints society demands, we are never very far from regressing back to our more primitive instincts.
First thing I thought of was the Milgram exeriment. I guess that's not what you were getting at. "
I get where you were coming from, but as I understand it the Milgram experiment was to explore how individuals responded to authority, when given orders that in normal circumstances they would think abhorrent to obey....in the case of group behaviour it's the relative anonymity of being part of a group that allows us to behave in a different way than they would do as an individual. |
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"Just finished an article dealing with Group Dynamics in society..it points out that when in a group situation, because of relative anonymity, we are capable of committing acts that we would never dream of doing as individuals. And this mimics similar behaviour found in the animal kingdom.
Do any of you fabsters, who have participated in group sex, ie more than eight..think this probable. For instance, having sex with someone who you wouldn't with as an individual..or taking part in bisexual activity when you are normally straight.
And if so, do you think it indicates that behind all the cultural, and moral restraints society demands, we are never very far from regressing back to our more primitive instincts.
First thing I thought of was the Milgram exeriment. I guess that's not what you were getting at.
I get where you were coming from, but as I understand it the Milgram experiment was to explore how individuals responded to authority, when given orders that in normal circumstances they would think abhorrent to obey....in the case of group behaviour it's the relative anonymity of being part of a group that allows us to behave in a different way than they would do as an individual. "
Yes it was an authority experiment, but it was this that made me think of it- 'when in a group situation.... we are capable of committing acts that we would never dream of doing as individuals'.
I hadn't read on at that point to see that you were referring to people's behaviour within a group situation. It was just me not reading properly. Still a cool experiment though. |
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