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Where the hell is mother nature?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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She's supposed to show up regularly, but she's dam useless. She's either two weeks late or two weeks early.
She's late again.... Can someone have a word please because she's doing my head in! I don't like waiting on her it's a tad irritating.
I mean I've been wearing my granny pants especially for her and it's all been a complete waste.
Dare me to wear white pretty ones?
What can I do to get her to come? Ideas please? Or can someone go have a word? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can I have my pants back please?
You obvs have a six week cycle - just em brace it. "
No, they're really comfy and I like them!
I don't what my cycle is other than messed up
It went like this in days... 40,28,26,13,28, to.. where the hell is she? |
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"I find having a wank can help bring it on, but only if I know I'm due on.
I track mine on Clue.
You could ask the docs for some blood tests to see if it's anything hormonal? "
I use clue too! Brilliant app!
Yeah, sex works for me, or hot bath, or making plans. Piss take.
I'd rather she didn't visit....surely with covid it's just unsafe!!!
Her x |
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"I find having a wank can help bring it on, but only if I know I'm due on.
I track mine on Clue.
You could ask the docs for some blood tests to see if it's anything hormonal?
I use clue too! Brilliant app!
Yeah, sex works for me, or hot bath, or making plans. Piss take.
I'd rather she didn't visit....surely with covid it's just unsafe!!!
Her x"
Thanks for the app tip, just downloaded. Not keen on the one I'm currently using  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's with all the period chat 
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand. "
A bit immature and unnecessary |
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary "
How is talking about the menstrual cycle immature? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary "
Periods are a part of life, there’s nothing wrong with talking about them, particularly as the op is asking advice.
We need to be more open about them, after all, without them, life literally would cease to exist |
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary "
I personally can't see any immature comments. I've downloaded an app to track my cycle so I've learnt something useful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary "
What makes you feel that way? I never understand the discomfort some women feel about discussing these things. It's part of life. As normal as washing your hair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary "
If only there was away to avoid threads you don’t like |
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Sorry OP, but I reckon you're heading towards menopause.
I started peri-menopause (I think thats the right term) in my early 30s
Next is the mind fog, increase in weight and hot flushes.
Thank goodness for HRT  |
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I was put on the pill to regulate mine. Every 28 days like clockwork on a Saturday morning (gave me 2 days to get the sickness & fainting out the way before work on Monday) Having everything whipped out 2 years ago (12 years later than promised) was the best thing ever!!!
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"Sorry OP, but I reckon you're heading towards menopause.
I started peri-menopause (I think thats the right term) in my early 30s
Next is the mind fog, increase in weight and hot flushes.
Thank goodness for HRT "
I think I'm starting perimenopause. My cycles are a bit bonkers and I get variable hormonal weirdness, random each month. Urgh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary
If only there was away to avoid threads you don’t like "
Are you trying to invalidate my feelings? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary
How is talking about the menstrual cycle immature? "
It's not....when you're with a bunch of pals having a natter |
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary
How is talking about the menstrual cycle immature?
It's not....when you're with a bunch of pals having a natter"
I could understand if people were taking the piss and using stupid language around it all, but it seems to have been a very sensible discussion to me, at least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary
How is talking about the menstrual cycle immature?
It's not....when you're with a bunch of pals having a natter
I could understand if people were taking the piss and using stupid language around it all, but it seems to have been a very sensible discussion to me, at least."
Absolutely. Why the need to not talk openly about menstruation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shes visiting with me but I'm happy to send her your way. Shes being an absolute pain!!
Mine were all over the place until I stopped taking the pill. Now they've calmed down and regular |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's with all the period chat
Why not?
It's the equivalent of the guys locker room chat for me
How so? I don't understand.
A bit immature and unnecessary
If only there was away to avoid threads you don’t like
Are you trying to invalidate my feelings?"
Does it invalidate mine if someone questions my thread?
If you don't like it scroll on past it. It's done in a nice enough way and isn't full of graphic descriptions or worse so what is the problem?
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always had a bad relationship with mother nature. My cycles were 6 weeks onwards and the worst experiences ever.
For many years I lived my life thinking constantly of my cycle. I have had the joy and heartache of experiencing 8 years of fertility treatment. By creating a cycle to kick start treatment, being scanned on various days of my cycle, injecting myself on various days of my cycle, and having procedures on specific days of my cycle.
At 41 I had a hysterectomy and retained my ovaries, so I am now going through the menopause and on HRT which I have adjusted rather well to.
I am also pleased to see such a thread, menstruation affects all women and for differing reasons....
I am however delighted that me and mother nature made friends and worked together to give me 2 beautiful children and 3 pregnancies but we have agreed that we needed to go our separate ways.
Whatever stages you're in your relationship with mother nature I wish for it to be a healthy one for you.
Her x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I always had a bad relationship with mother nature. My cycles were 6 weeks onwards and the worst experiences ever.
For many years I lived my life thinking constantly of my cycle. I have had the joy and heartache of experiencing 8 years of fertility treatment. By creating a cycle to kick start treatment, being scanned on various days of my cycle, injecting myself on various days of my cycle, and having procedures on specific days of my cycle.
At 41 I had a hysterectomy and retained my ovaries, so I am now going through the menopause and on HRT which I have adjusted rather well to.
I am also pleased to see such a thread, menstruation affects all women and for differing reasons....
I am however delighted that me and mother nature made friends and worked together to give me 2 beautiful children and 3 pregnancies but we have agreed that we needed to go our separate ways.
Whatever stages you're in your relationship with mother nature I wish for it to be a healthy one for you.
Her x
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I'm not sure where I am at the moment. I had a coil removed a few months ago so I'm waiting for my cycle to settle. I narrowly missed having it surgically removed as they couldn't find the threads.
Prior to that I was on HRT in 2019 but in the pandemic came off. I was sheilding and they wouldn't deliver my hormone gel despite delivering my sheilding persons medications.
Since I went on HRT they have been all the place.
It's lovely to read your treatment worked and you got two children.
I had a bit of a fight to get mine too but not like you have.
So I'm trying to work out if mines the coil removal settling down or the perimenopause and if I should have another coil or go back on HRT.
All good fun! |
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"She's supposed to show up regularly, but she's dam useless. She's either two weeks late or two weeks early.
She's late again.... Can someone have a word please because she's doing my head in! I don't like waiting on her it's a tad irritating.
I mean I've been wearing my granny pants especially for her and it's all been a complete waste.
Dare me to wear white pretty ones?
What can I do to get her to come? Ideas please? Or can someone go have a word? "
Well, if the main reason she’s late is the big one, I’d just like to say “It wasn’t me” |
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