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over a year ago
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After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz "
Lol it’s got you xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz "
I'm surprised it's taken you this long to notice it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz
I'm surprised it's taken you this long to notice it "
I noticed long time ago lol |
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz "
I know exactly the thread you’re talking about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz
I'm surprised it's taken you this long to notice it
I noticed long time ago lol "
So what's the issue with it then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without knowing the context, it's hard to comment.
What thread.
'WOMEN WHY' THREAD "
I live by the rule of "Not my Monkeys, Not my Circus.
Haters hate, taters tate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Without knowing the context, it's hard to comment.
What thread.
'WOMEN WHY' THREAD
I live by the rule of "Not my Monkeys, Not my Circus.
Haters hate, taters tate. "
True that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People feeling hard done by? It's easier to blame others than to look within. I get it. "
No growth in looking out the window instead of the mirror is there  |
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"Without knowing the context, it's hard to comment.
What thread.
'WOMEN WHY' THREAD
I live by the rule of "Not my Monkeys, Not my Circus.
Haters hate, taters tate. "
Maters mate , Raters rate, Paters pate. Gaitors gait , Skaters skate, Platers plate......
Just sayin' ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without knowing the context, it's hard to comment.
What thread.
'WOMEN WHY' THREAD
I live by the rule of "Not my Monkeys, Not my Circus.
Haters hate, taters tate.
Maters mate , Raters rate, Paters pate. Gaitors gait , Skaters skate, Platers plate......
Just sayin' ...... "
Totes legit Granny  |
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz "
Can guess which thread this is about lol
Has to be fabs number one charmer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's face it, it was an attention seeking post, ill thought, smacks of entitlement and desperation "
Maybe he vented out of frustration of his situation. But people find it easier to jump on him than think about the reasons behind. One starts they all pile in, then that looks nastier than the OP ever could
#empathyisararity
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really get the purpose of these "spin off" threads. Not really sure what they achieve other than to have a dig at another?"
My thoughts exactly. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Without knowing the context, it's hard to comment.
What thread.
'WOMEN WHY' THREAD "
That one, agreed.
I'm currently looking at a cheesecake but it will not rise up and place itself in my mouth by itself.
I'm going to starve myself to death just to make it feel guilty. |
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"I don't really get the purpose of these "spin off" threads. Not really sure what they achieve other than to have a dig at another?"
They allow the O.P. to express an opinion or ask a question which seems to be the purpose of every thread.
People choose how to respond. They don't have to have a dig when they express an opinion. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Let's face it, it was an attention seeking post, ill thought, smacks of entitlement and desperation
Maybe he vented out of frustration of his situation. But people find it easier to jump on him than think about the reasons behind. One starts they all pile in, then that looks nastier than the OP ever could
#empathyisararity
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We can all suffer from frustration at times, and a lot of people post on the forums about theirs.
However, it never goes well when they run down the very people they are trying to attract.
Saying the people they look for sex with aren't attractive anyway, when they refuse their advances is kind of shooting yourself in the foot.
I feel for men on here who struggle, but it's not always because of how they look.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't really get the purpose of these "spin off" threads. Not really sure what they achieve other than to have a dig at another?"
No intention to dig any one out, for what they post, its freedom of choice, thats why no particular thread was mentioned till asked!!, there doesn't have to be any attacking of anybody in an open ended question! more intrested in ppls thoughts on it is all |
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They allow the O.P. to express an opinion or ask a question which seems to be the purpose of every thread.
People choose how to respond. They don't have to have a dig when they express an opinion."
This ^^ 
Some can’t help with the sly digs when an OP asks a valid question. |
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"More interestingly though, are men really turning bi as it's less effort than finding a woman? Really, I don't know maybe."
Really funny thread about the male experience posted a while back by a T.V. whose name evades me right now ..... really so funny .... Not sure if it was Clare or Claire or some name no where near that...... |
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"Let's face it, it was an attention seeking post, ill thought, smacks of entitlement and desperation
Maybe he vented out of frustration of his situation. But people find it easier to jump on him than think about the reasons behind. One starts they all pile in, then that looks nastier than the OP ever could
#empathyisararity
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Yup. Standard fab. |
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"More interestingly though, are men really turning bi as it's less effort than finding a woman? Really, I don't know maybe.
Really funny thread about the male experience posted a while back by a T.V. whose name evades me right now ..... really so funny .... Not sure if it was Clare or Claire or some name no where near that...... "
Oh sounds interesting, I might have to try find it. |
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I think it’s easy to just roll your eyes and slate a badly written post. It’s far harder to sit and think about how another may be feeling in themselves. Maybe some twenty somethings are inexperienced, poorly informed, not one of the cool kids that just fit in anywhere.. I know I was a nightmare at 20 and didn’t know a fraction of what I know now.
Yes everyone is only responsible for their own profile, attitudes and responses. But the words people choose to respond often says a lot more about them than the original post.
You can be informative without being rude and a lot of people here seem to forget that.
Kindness isn’t just to those you fancy folks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it’s easy to just roll your eyes and slate a badly written post. It’s far harder to sit and think about how another may be feeling in themselves. Maybe some twenty somethings are inexperienced, poorly informed, not one of the cool kids that just fit in anywhere.. I know I was a nightmare at 20 and didn’t know a fraction of what I know now.
Yes everyone is only responsible for their own profile, attitudes and responses. But the words people choose to respond often says a lot more about them than the original post.
You can be informative without being rude and a lot of people here seem to forget that.
Kindness isn’t just to those you fancy folks. "
Really agree with this thinking. Some people may be clumsy, uninformed or plain daft, but I do think some get a bit personal or forget about that person behind a post, no matter how odd or ‘stupid’ they sound in the mind of others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s easy to just roll your eyes and slate a badly written post. It’s far harder to sit and think about how another may be feeling in themselves. Maybe some twenty somethings are inexperienced, poorly informed, not one of the cool kids that just fit in anywhere.. I know I was a nightmare at 20 and didn’t know a fraction of what I know now.
Yes everyone is only responsible for their own profile, attitudes and responses. But the words people choose to respond often says a lot more about them than the original post.
You can be informative without being rude and a lot of people here seem to forget that.
Kindness isn’t just to those you fancy folks. "
Echoed my post and said so succinctly. This is what I mean, the replies are looking nastier than the original posting ever could. |
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz "
I just type the first thing that comes to mind. No planning, no train of thought
Often gets me in trouble haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think I've missed something  
But.
Morning   Px
Nah ..... you really haven't.
ive caught up now
fab su!cide.. Great way to go young chap Px
It's called Fabacide"
Thank you for educating me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think I've missed something
But.
Morning Px
Nah ..... you really haven't.
ive caught up now
fab su!cide.. Great way to go young chap Px "
Did he jump or was he pushed though? 
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"i think I've missed something
But.
Morning Px
Nah ..... you really haven't.
ive caught up now
fab su!cide.. Great way to go young chap Px
It's called Fabacide
Thank you for educating me "
No problimo, I always like help where ever I can |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"i think I've missed something
But.
Morning Px
Nah ..... you really haven't.
ive caught up now
fab su!cide.. Great way to go young chap Px "
We all make mistakes and say silly things when we're frustrated. Maybe when he reflects back on the thread he may learn from it which might help him come across better in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's face it, it was an attention seeking post, ill thought, smacks of entitlement and desperation
Maybe he vented out of frustration of his situation. But people find it easier to jump on him than think about the reasons behind. One starts they all pile in, then that looks nastier than the OP ever could
#empathyisararity
Yup. Standard fab. "
This. Hunting in packs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it’s easy to just roll your eyes and slate a badly written post. It’s far harder to sit and think about how another may be feeling in themselves. Maybe some twenty somethings are inexperienced, poorly informed, not one of the cool kids that just fit in anywhere.. I know I was a nightmare at 20 and didn’t know a fraction of what I know now.
Yes everyone is only responsible for their own profile, attitudes and responses. But the words people choose to respond often says a lot more about them than the original post.
You can be informative without being rude and a lot of people here seem to forget that.
Kindness isn’t just to those you fancy folks. "
This 100%. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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IMHO it’s a shame he’s got to this point!
Fab should be a place where he can expand his wants & desires.
I remember when I first joined and I didn’t have a clue, no filters etc and had a full mail box within minutes!
Learnt my lesson the hard way and now manage this account very well!
Yes there is a sense of entitlement on here, not only from the men though.
I see many ‘new’ female profiles who believe they are in the clique that push people’s limits and it’s very much a ‘look at me!’ time at the moment.
I think there will be a major shift in the dynamics on here once we hit all stages and people can meet without limits.
What he said was rude, plain & simple, but new guys are treated badly in here.
It’s almost like they have to pass a test to get people to talk to them.
And we all know that mental health concerns are hugely heightened at the moment.
I hope he takes a step back and looks at what has happened on this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I read the thread, or will that be half an hour of ma life that I'll never get back "
Skim it.... it’s a regular topic so you’ll get the jist early on Ace x |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz "
Everyone is different
Kindness goes a long way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's face it, it was an attention seeking post, ill thought, smacks of entitlement and desperation
Maybe he vented out of frustration of his situation. But people find it easier to jump on him than think about the reasons behind. One starts they all pile in, then that looks nastier than the OP ever could
#empathyisararity
Yup. Standard fab.
This. Hunting in packs."
Ohhh absolutely this as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz "
I would definitely say entitlement after reading the post lmao |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz
Everyone is different
Kindness goes a long way
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who is not being kind?, no particular thread was mentioned in initial question, it wasent mentioned till the question was asked, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After reading a thread ...I'm curious as to what goes through ppls minds, when coming up with such a bright idea...
Delusion, entitlement, rejection, jealously the list goes on, the mind boggles, anyone else's
Answers on a post card plz "
I was impressed that, amidst the crass comments, there was some thoughtful and helpful advice, which the guy clearly needs. |
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