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over a year ago
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"I no that just trying get be more open x"
As sed no is no and this post is complete fab suicide
As I definitely wouldn’t meet anyone who’s pushy and can’t take no for a answer and leave it at that
As will lot off other people who see this forum posts don’t go away and will fallow you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I no that just trying get be more open x"
Why are you with her if you're not compatible?
Talk to her about things. Look up 'mojo upgrade' website.
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over a year ago
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Quick! Everyone! Come join in and tar and feather the OP!!
Just kidding.
The best thing to do, imho, is when you are both relaxed and chilled and in the right frame of mind, to have a discussion with her about both of your mutual sexual likes and dislikes, try and understand in a non-judgemental way what her objections or fears are about oral sex, and if there is anything that can be done to alleviate those fears. It’s possible there may be a way forwards where she’s prepared to experiment and give it a go, but of course don’t put her any pressure and if she still doesn’t want to do it then you should, of course, respect that.
And don’t worry about people asking if she’s aware you’re on the site .. how you operate your own personal life (whether morally acceptable to them or not) is none of their f*cking business! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quick! Everyone! Come join in and tar and feather the OP!!
Just kidding.
The best thing to do, imho, is when you are both relaxed and chilled and in the right frame of mind, to have a discussion with her about both of your mutual sexual likes and dislikes, try and understand in a non-judgemental way what her objections or fears are about oral sex, and if there is anything that can be done to alleviate those fears. It’s possible there may be a way forwards where she’s prepared to experiment and give it a go, but of course don’t put her any pressure and if she still doesn’t want to do it then you should, of course, respect that.
And don’t worry about people asking if she’s aware you’re on the site .. how you operate your own personal life (whether morally acceptable to them or not) is none of their f*cking business!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quick! Everyone! Come join in and tar and feather the OP!!
Just kidding.
The best thing to do, imho, is when you are both relaxed and chilled and in the right frame of mind, to have a discussion with her about both of your mutual sexual likes and dislikes, try and understand in a non-judgemental way what her objections or fears are about oral sex, and if there is anything that can be done to alleviate those fears. It’s possible there may be a way forwards where she’s prepared to experiment and give it a go, but of course don’t put her any pressure and if she still doesn’t want to do it then you should, of course, respect that.
And don’t worry about people asking if she’s aware you’re on the site .. how you operate your own personal life (whether morally acceptable to them or not) is none of their f*cking business!"
There’s no place for that kind of sensitive, sensible and well thought out advice here.
You should be ashamed that you’ve actually given such a helpful piece of advice.
I don’t think fabswingers is the right platform for your kind of open minded thinking.
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"And don’t worry about people asking if she’s aware you’re on the site .. how you operate your own personal life (whether morally acceptable to them or not) is none of their f*cking business!"
Sorry but this is so wrong if your in my bed then it is my business just simple I don’t want someone wife or girlfriend or boyfriend or husband turning up at my door shouting to the whole world about how I was shagging her or his wife or husband or boyfriend or girlfriend
Plus I know how it feels to be cheat on and wouldn’t want that on anyone |
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"And don’t worry about people asking if she’s aware you’re on the site .. how you operate your own personal life (whether morally acceptable to them or not) is none of their f*cking business!
Sorry but this is so wrong if your in my bed then it is my business just simple I don’t want someone wife or girlfriend or boyfriend or husband turning up at my door shouting to the whole world about how I was shagging her or his wife or husband or boyfriend or girlfriend
Plus I know how it feels to be cheat on and wouldn’t want that on anyone "
Yeah if you’re considering meeting them I absolutely get it and agree.
But just responding to a question in the forum that has nothing to do with meeting?
Nah, fuck ‘em. |
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