Hi everyone,
So we’ve been part of this world for about a year now and had some amazing experiences, we’d love to experience more with the right people... the problem is I feel a bit like I’ve lost my bottle?!
I get so anxious of what others will think of me that it ruins the fun... not that anyone has ever even snubbed us or me, I guess it just comes down to self confidence, but I just wondered if anyone else ever felt the same and if so, how did you overcome it? X |
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over a year ago
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I think we all get that feeling, especially when meeting someone new. Throwing yourself out there is a lot easier online than in person. If you get to know someone before you meet and be honest with each other, the meets usually go pretty well. I think I will always shit myself before every meet but ultimately they are already meeting you for a good reason. I know it's hard but try not to put your own doubts on the other person, you look great.. have confidence in yourself |
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over a year ago
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It’s probably like riding a bike.
Get your leg over, and off you go...
It’s the mental leap to get on the bike that’s the fear, once you’re on it then it’ll all come back naturally I’m sure! |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone,
So we’ve been part of this world for about a year now and had some amazing experiences, we’d love to experience more with the right people... the problem is I feel a bit like I’ve lost my bottle?!
I get so anxious of what others will think of me that it ruins the fun... not that anyone has ever even snubbed us or me, I guess it just comes down to self confidence, but I just wondered if anyone else ever felt the same and if so, how did you overcome it? X"
It’s an issue that most have, I guess deep breaths and try to put it to the back of your mind  |
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"Hi everyone,
So we’ve been part of this world for about a year now and had some amazing experiences, we’d love to experience more with the right people... the problem is I feel a bit like I’ve lost my bottle?!
I get so anxious of what others will think of me that it ruins the fun... not that anyone has ever even snubbed us or me, I guess it just comes down to self confidence, but I just wondered if anyone else ever felt the same and if so, how did you overcome it? X
It’s an issue that most have, I guess deep breaths and try to put it to the back of your mind "
Those are some cracking legs you’ve got there, love a good thigh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure these feelings are very common at the moment when we haven't met new people for a while. I don't think there is an easy answer, just concentrate on people who you feel really comfortable with in advance, and have a social meet first if you have any reservations. And you two look great and have a strong profile, I'm sure your confidence will return in no time.  |
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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago
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You look absolutely gorgeous
I'm sure you will find your confidence once you get back out there. Big breath, head up high, smile on your face and go for it.
Chat to some nice friendly people, make connections and they will give you confidence.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tough for everyone ,has it been a yr? On a personal level l cant wait to get out there,got over 160 pr of heels ,cleaning them in readyness, l reckon people will have more respect for each other and their boundaries after what we all been through |
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Glad I’m not alone - this is me to a tee. I want to be confident and sassy but lose my bottle often! I’m much better in a party/club environment - intimate socials scare the begeebers out of me! X
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone,
So we’ve been part of this world for about a year now and had some amazing experiences, we’d love to experience more with the right people... the problem is I feel a bit like I’ve lost my bottle?!
I get so anxious of what others will think of me that it ruins the fun... not that anyone has ever even snubbed us or me, I guess it just comes down to self confidence, but I just wondered if anyone else ever felt the same and if so, how did you overcome it? X"
We.all go through self doubt we'll I know I do, anxiety is normal born out of fear of will.match up to expe rations n all that stuff, your not alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking forward to doing empire for the first time when it re opens. Going to be really nervous when I do go. Understandable to be nervous about getting back out there after being in isolation for so long. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone,
So we’ve been part of this world for about a year now and had some amazing experiences, we’d love to experience more with the right people... the problem is I feel a bit like I’ve lost my bottle?!
I get so anxious of what others will think of me that it ruins the fun... not that anyone has ever even snubbed us or me, I guess it just comes down to self confidence, but I just wondered if anyone else ever felt the same and if so, how did you overcome it? X"
Self confidence is a bitch. Af times it can be mistaken as arrogance.
I am of the opinion that no one is better than me, and I am not better than them. They may have different capabilities, but that doesn’t make who I am any less valuable.
Some of it comes down to what we see as measures of success, be that looks, physicality, wealth, job etc. and how we value ourselves.
You need to remember its your life you are living, you don’t live it for others. |
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