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"Why? Why send a message if you haven't even got a profile picture? And people wonder why they aren't having any success.
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Where does it state its a rule of the site to have a profile pic? People can have pics in their private gallery that they choose to share with people. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I have my message filters set to block messages from profiles with no public pics, it doesn't seem to stop them all but it gets most of them.
I work on the theory that if they aren't prepared to put the effort in to create a decent profile, then they are unlikely to put effort into anything else. |
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"I agree really. It doesn’t have to be a face or anything in particular, but just a pic really.
Lots of women say they don’t reply to shadow avatars."
Indeed. So much so I even made a video about it. I personally don't give a fuck if they ain't got a pic in so much I'll just bypass them, but what gives me tits a rash is when the same people are bitching about no interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why? Why send a message if you haven't even got a profile picture? And people wonder why they aren't having any success.
I get a lot of that. It'd like what's the point. Doesn't even warrant a second look.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why? Why send a message if you haven't even got a profile picture? And people wonder why they aren't having any success.
Not everyone is hung up on looks
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And yet your very first word on your profile describes you as attractive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why? Why send a message if you haven't even got a profile picture? And people wonder why they aren't having any success.
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Some even ask would you be interested in chatting and meeting. No profile pic and no Bio.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set message filters to block those without public pictures  "
We've chosen to do this but you can still have public pictures without having a profile pic - we don't reply to none profile pic accounts now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why? Why send a message if you haven't even got a profile picture? And people wonder why they aren't having any success.
Not everyone is hung up on looks
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Don't you always respond to messages, even when they're is no photo or info? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why? Why send a message if you haven't even got a profile picture? And people wonder why they aren't having any success.
Where does it state its a rule of the site to have a profile pic? People can have pics in their private gallery that they choose to share with people. "
I don't know about you, but I don't become friends with a very one who asks without some communication first, so a profile pic is a good idea, surely? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I agree really. It doesn’t have to be a face or anything in particular, but just a pic really.
Lots of women say they don’t reply to shadow avatars."
There's a name for it? Good to know |
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"I agree really. It doesn’t have to be a face or anything in particular, but just a pic really.
Lots of women say they don’t reply to shadow avatars.
There's a name for it? Good to know "
I call them Alfred Hitchcocks |
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"Why? Why send a message if you haven't even got a profile picture? And people wonder why they aren't having any success.
Not everyone is hung up on looks
R
And yet your very first word on your profile describes you as attractive "
It also says chat over face pics 
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"Why? Why send a message if you haven't even got a profile picture? And people wonder why they aren't having any success.
Not everyone is hung up on looks
R
Don't you always respond to messages, even when they're is no photo or info? "
I reply to every message yes
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why? Why send a message if you haven't even got a profile picture? And people wonder why they aren't having any success.
Not everyone is hung up on looks
R
Don't you always respond to messages, even when they're is no photo or info? "
Just for balance, I've got chatting to someone who is lovely, respectful, interesting and someone I'd like to meet when it's OK to do so. He has no photo on his profile, I have seen him since but initially it was the chat that piqued interest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Or maybe they did have still got no message back or nothing made them feel ugly so took off "
Which is a shame, but do you think having no picture will get a better response? |
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"Or maybe they did have still got no message back or nothing made them feel ugly so took off "
Hardly anyone has been getting return messages during the pandemic, especially single males who've not been here that long. Every day there's been threads bitching about it.
People ain't been chatty.
People have been particularly unchatty with folks they don't know. Just because you want to chat doesn't mean the person you're messaging does. Believe me I could have had a Ryan Reynolds double in my inbox, and I'd still have ignored him |
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"Because they are shy as it said on the other post
Doesn't need a face pic, but surely a few photos isn't too much an ask for an online platform? "
I just changed my filters so people without pics can't msg me. |
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