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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Really like to share ?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

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Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really like to share ?

"

Not even so much as a taxi

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing."

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Really like to share ?

"

Not all women, no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Really like to share ?

Not even so much as a taxi "

Guess I'm walking then

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sexually? I do.

#notallwomen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?"

Are you asking if we want to tell you about it?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?"

Then probably not no. If a guy was that good I'd rather have more 1 on 1 time with him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I haven't got a partner to share but I'm happy to share someone else's

Obviously I do not speak for all women

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By *layful HarlequinMan  over a year ago

iver heath

Should I just put a rollo chocolate out there ....!

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

I love it.

I love hearing what my long term partners is doing with other women.

Occasionally they send me a video.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?

Are you asking if we want to tell you about it? "

NO I'm asking if you'd share the best sex you've ever had and could easily be the best your likely to get ?

It's a fare question

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

with some things, yes.

other things, née fucking chance.

Px

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?

Are you asking if we want to tell you about it?

NO I'm asking if you'd share the best sex you've ever had and could easily be the best your likely to get ?

It's a fare question "

How will I know it's the best sex before I get it?

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?"

I would share that. I'm not greedy and I don't get jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?

Are you asking if we want to tell you about it?

NO I'm asking if you'd share the best sex you've ever had and could easily be the best your likely to get ?

It's a fare question "

no need to shout. I was just trying to understand what you were asking.

Seemed a fair question to ask but perhaps not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?

Are you asking if we want to tell you about it?

NO I'm asking if you'd share the best sex you've ever had and could easily be the best your likely to get ?

It's a fare question

no need to shout. I was just trying to understand what you were asking.

Seemed a fair question to ask but perhaps not. "

Auto correct turned the No into NO

Appologies

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Not on this site they don’t

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sharing is caring, except with some things, unless I’m there too

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not on this site they don’t "

I'm asking because I ain't really ever fucked a woman that wants me to fuck another woman or is even ok with the idea of me fucking another woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

That's mine

It don't go near another woman

That's mine all mine

It don't look at another woman

I don't share

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Men, yes! Chocolate, no fucking chance, get your own!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Share what?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My man?... YES

But you better keep your hands OFF my food & wine

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By *sm265Woman  over a year ago

Shangri-la

Personally I find sharing very enjoyable, but not everyone does! I've had some experiences where jealousy has kicked in & ruined the fun

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By *uliaChrisCouple  over a year ago

westerham


"That's mine

It don't go near another woman

That's mine all mine

It don't look at another woman

I don't share "

I'm gonna go ahead and take a wild guess that those women were not into swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" Personally I find sharing very enjoyable, but not everyone does! I've had some experiences where jealousy has kicked in & ruined the fun "

I don't have room in my life for jealousy and that's all iv ever seen or experienced

I wanted to be me but I couldn't

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Men, yes! Chocolate, no fucking chance, get your own! "

Beat me to it! Chocolate, no way.

Sex, yes. I have the best sex with Mr. We know each other intimately. He loves to share me with other men and I would love to share him with other women. The coming back together and talking about it afterwards is hot as fuck

Mrs kf x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

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By *luebellRacerCouple  over a year ago

Shropshire

Food. No.

Touch my food, feel my fork

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"That's mine

It don't go near another woman

That's mine all mine

It don't look at another woman

I don't share

I'm gonna go ahead and take a wild guess that those women were not into swinging."

I actually wonder if any are without being coerced into it by there fellas?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular "

I totally agree

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

I totally agree "

Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle

Cock yes

Food no

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

I totally agree

Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion. "

Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?

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By *sm265Woman  over a year ago

Shangri-la


"That's mine

It don't go near another woman

That's mine all mine

It don't look at another woman

I don't share

I'm gonna go ahead and take a wild guess that those women were not into swinging.

I actually wonder if any are without being coerced into it by there fellas?"

I don't have a partner so no coercion here. My preference in recent years has been regular meets with couples I know well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good sharing everyone

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham

Yes because the hottest bit is fucking them after and having them tell me about it. How different they were to me, how they smelt, how they tasted, how they felt.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

I totally agree

Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.

Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend? "

Bordem who knows

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

I totally agree

Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.

Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?

Bordem who knows "

Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?

Mrs kf x

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By * Lexi xWoman  over a year ago

stockport

No I hate sharing.

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By *o new WinksMan  over a year ago

BSE


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

I totally agree

Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.

Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?

Bordem who knows

Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?

Mrs kf x"

I think he is wanted to be shared.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

I totally agree

Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.

Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?

Bordem who knows

Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?

Mrs kf x"

Of course I want to hear answers

That was the whole point of me posting it

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By *arol321Woman  over a year ago

Poole

If by sharing you mean mff no it’s not for me.

If you mean would I get upset that someone I’m meeting with on here is meeting others on here then of course I wouldn’t get upset after all I’m not prepared to be monogamous so why should they be.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

I totally agree

Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.

Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?

Bordem who knows

Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?

Mrs kf x

Of course I want to hear answers

That was the whole point of me posting it "

OK So some women have posted that they do enjoy it. And you then agreed with a poster that thinks lots of women are pretending to enjoy it. I'm wondering why you ignored the former but agreed with the latter?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

I totally agree

Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.

Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?

Bordem who knows

Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?

Mrs kf x

I think he is wanted to be shared. "

Correct and his Mrs won't let him

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's not for me

I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular

I totally agree

Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.

Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?

Bordem who knows

Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?

Mrs kf x

I think he is wanted to be shared.

Correct and his Mrs won't let him

"

I'm single and don't have a mrs but if I did I'd not be controlled and told what I can and can't do just the same ways I'd never try controlling a woman in those ways.

It's wrong and it's control

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By *sm265Woman  over a year ago

Shangri-la

Always surprised at just how many people join a swingers site that actually don't understand or agree with swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Always surprised at just how many people join a swingers site that actually don't understand or agree with swinging. "

Madness

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Chocolate.....no way, nope never unless it's my last rolo then yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Always surprised at just how many people join a swingers site that actually don't understand or agree with swinging. "

To be fair, we all have our reasons for being here, whatever they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Always surprised at just how many people join a swingers site that actually don't understand or agree with swinging.

To be fair, we all have our reasons for being here, whatever they are "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My perception is based on observation of forum threads, posts, profiles and status updates.

The hurt, the huffs, the lamp post pissing, the not so sly digs.

I accept that sometimes though it's perhaps the way the 'sharing ' has happened, rather than the sharing itself

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

Think alot say so but when it comes to it not! X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really like to share ?

"

All of them? No

Some of them? Yes

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time.

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich


"Really like to share ?

"

To share or be shared?

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

If we’re all sharing then yeah I’m more than happy I’ve had friends over the years that met other people and there wasn’t any issues or jealousy on my part, funny how some of the other domen didn’t always feel the same about the men meeting me tho

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By *layful HarlequinMan  over a year ago

iver heath


"Chocolate.....no way, nope never unless it's my last rolo then yes "

I knew it had to be you x

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Chocolate.....no way, nope never unless it's my last rolo then yes

I knew it had to be you x"

Sharing is caring x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"My perception is based on observation of forum threads, posts, profiles and status updates.

The hurt, the huffs, the lamp post pissing, the not so sly digs.

I accept that sometimes though it's perhaps the way the 'sharing ' has happened, rather than the sharing itself "

I think the fantasy isn't always the same as the reality. I also think it's a bit of "who shouts loudest" — if everything is fine and dandy in your swinging relationship you're less likely to be posting about it than those who have had a bad experience.

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By *ancer36Woman  over a year ago

Stirling

Sexually yes...food..never! X

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

Well that depends on a whole host of things

Is someone with me but they spend a ton of time on their phone responding to other cock docks? No I wouldn't be happy with that.

Is a man who's wife knows he's with me and checking in with her? No issues whatsoever.

If we're talking partners, actual relationship then no. 2 reasons. 1) the chances of me having another relationship are slim to none. 2) I'd be too insecure due to past experiences.

Entering as the 3rd person in someone else's relationship though, may sound hypocritical but I have no issue at all. In fact, I think it's something utterly beautiful when the couple are so in love and secure that they're comfortable enough to do it and enjoy it. I have no reason to feel insecure and trust myself enough to believe I'd not do anything to harm their relationship.

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By *uliaChrisCouple  over a year ago

westerham


"That's mine

It don't go near another woman

That's mine all mine

It don't look at another woman

I don't share

I'm gonna go ahead and take a wild guess that those women were not into swinging.

I actually wonder if any are without being coerced into it by there fellas?"

Nah, 99% of the couples we've met have been totally genuine and both up for it

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By *layful HarlequinMan  over a year ago

iver heath


"Chocolate.....no way, nope never unless it's my last rolo then yes

I knew it had to be you x

Sharing is caring x"

I’m all into caring me I’m a modern day saint me

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"My perception is based on observation of forum threads, posts, profiles and status updates.

The hurt, the huffs, the lamp post pissing, the not so sly digs.

I accept that sometimes though it's perhaps the way the 'sharing ' has happened, rather than the sharing itself

I think the fantasy isn't always the same as the reality. I also think it's a bit of "who shouts loudest" — if everything is fine and dandy in your swinging relationship you're less likely to be posting about it than those who have had a bad experience. "

This is true but I think the poster means the huffs etc from single women when they discover they are having to share the object of their cocklust.

A lot of the time that is down to the cock but sometimes, as this thread clearly shows, women really don't like to share men.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Share my man? Yes

If that's what you was asking.

Her x

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In reality I think that some don’t have an issue with sharing sexually and some really do (they just don’t want to admit it).

In my experience a fair few women say that they are happy to share but when they realise that they’re not the only person on a guys radar, they have issues

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By *layful HarlequinMan  over a year ago

iver heath


"Share my man? Yes

If that's what you was asking.

Her x"

Did you get his ok with this

Him x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Share my man? Yes

If that's what you was asking.

Her x

Did you get his ok with this

Him x "

Naaaaah I'm the boss

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think sharing sexually is one thing and sharing emotionally is another. And part of the problem is that a lot of people, often women, find it hard to separate the two.

For me, confidence is a big thing, and I find it hard to get my head around being desired equally to or more than another woman, but in a loving relationship, where he knows that and is willing and happy to reassure me and to work on my confidence, I'd love to see "my man" playing with others.

It's just the getting to that point within the relationship.

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By *elle xWoman  over a year ago

Doire Theas

Nope

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By *uliaChrisCouple  over a year ago

westerham


"I think sharing sexually is one thing and sharing emotionally is another. And part of the problem is that a lot of people, often women, find it hard to separate the two.

For me, confidence is a big thing, and I find it hard to get my head around being desired equally to or more than another woman, but in a loving relationship, where he knows that and is willing and happy to reassure me and to work on my confidence, I'd love to see "my man" playing with others.

It's just the getting to that point within the relationship."

Yep, got to be a cold fish in this game

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

In my experience no they don’t

When I try and help her finish her meal, any attempts to take a bite or two are met with a fork in the hand!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My opinion has changed from no to yes but depending on circumstances, boundaries and definition of sharing... sharing in one scenario may be awesome but another may not.

In our case he likes group fun, I like group fun, group fun together is omfg awesome, group fun separately is hot especially if we find ways to share it during or after. I'd love him to meet a couple or go to a party and tell me about it after, I've done it and know how hot it can be. I don't have the same view on solo meets, one on one is fun we can have together. But I also know through talking fantasies, trying and experiencing things and relationships developing, opionions on what's hot and what boundaries exist also change. Swinging is definitely a journey, it's not like flipping a switch!

Tabitha xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together

Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time

In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging.

So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence

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By *rder66Man  over a year ago

Tatooine


"Cock yes

Food no "

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together

Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time

In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging.

So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence "

Yep. I found not having the "reclaim" time that other couples have when one of them met separately left me feeling incredibly disappointed and almost discarded. The time we had together was already limited which added to the sense of me not being secure.

OK, now I understand that I wasn't ever gonna feel secure as I wasn't privy to the whole picture, but the pain I felt during the time he met alone has put me off taking that route again

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By *rder66Man  over a year ago

Tatooine


"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together

Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time

In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging.

So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence "

This is a good explanation.

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together

Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time

In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging.

So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence "

That's a damn good explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hell no.

I don't know how my partner does it.

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t. But then I’m an only child as well so make of that what you will.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I am there, then very much so.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together

Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time

In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging.

So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence

That's a damn good explanation."

It really is isn't it? I've liked the honesty in this thread a lot, it's refreshing.

On a similar theme... I wouldn't share with a close friend. Not because I'm a bunny boiler but because my self doubt kicks in enough that I remove myself from the situation.

I'd much rather see my close friend and a penis wielder happy together than be worrying about things changing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm happy to share, would even chat or be friends with those I was sharing with.

But some don't feel the same or can't handle it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together

Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time

In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging.

So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence

That's a damn good explanation.

It really is isn't it? I've liked the honesty in this thread a lot, it's refreshing.

On a similar theme... I wouldn't share with a close friend. Not because I'm a bunny boiler but because my self doubt kicks in enough that I remove myself from the situation.

I'd much rather see my close friend and a penis wielder happy together than be worrying about things changing. "

This bit : because my self doubt kicks in enough that I remove myself from the situation.

Is exactly what I do... I step back /or remove myself totally from the equation

.... But I don't know if it's self doubt, or the fear of losing ... What if they are the preference overall... Oh maybe that is self doubt, hmmm maybe I'm putting myself on a popularity contest lol

Either way my head will flick a switch amd that person could be a complete stranger to me from then on. I am an ice queen when this happens.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t have a partner but if I did I’d be happy to share with other men. Other women, not so much. I realise this is probably not going to make me popular in the swinging world so it’s something I’m working on. I just don’t want any other women involved in my sex life

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together

Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time

In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging.

So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence "

This is very accurate for me too.

I think the dynamic you’re in affects the way you deal with things too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't share well no!

Especially not if it's someone I'm really keen on.

I'm with toddlers on this one...if I've licked it/them, it's/they're mine

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By *etite_delightWoman  over a year ago

BunnyLand

Depends on the person! I’m always happy to share however sharing together is a different scenario... it’s a case of me believing whether the play going to enhance the pleasure for me and others or not.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, what's mine is mine.

Chocolate or man

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"No, what's mine is mine.

Chocolate or man "

Pfffffft. Ill take my cake and leave then.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't share well no!

Especially not if it's someone I'm really keen on.

I'm with toddlers on this one...if I've licked it/them, it's/they're mine "

Haha! I use this one. I’ve licked him so he’s mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So between the mens thread and the women thread it seems the majority do not like to share.. So who is actually swinging

And are they in 'relationships' to all appearances, if they are not swinging

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"So between the mens thread and the women thread it seems the majority do not like to share.. So who is actually swinging

And are they in 'relationships' to all appearances, if they are not swinging "

I think quite a few wouldn't mind being shared... they just don't want to share their main person? Or maybe it's any person? I don't know.

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By *ex-BombsCouple  over a year ago

Flitwick

We only play with couples that way everyone shares

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By *elethWoman  over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Very happy to share

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By *ily WhiteWoman  over a year ago

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"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time."

This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones.

I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?"

.some do... personally I love to x and its not about sharing the best sex.. it's about watching the person I care about enjoy themselves x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't share well no!

Especially not if it's someone I'm really keen on.

I'm with toddlers on this one...if I've licked it/them, it's/they're mine

Haha! I use this one. I’ve licked him so he’s mine "

Haha...I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time.

This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones.

I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit!"

That’s the issue for me, it’s the emotional side, not the actual sex.

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By *layful HarlequinMan  over a year ago

iver heath

Ok share me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yeah. We are the caring , sharing half of the species. Always giving, always making sure others have what they need before we do. We are so nice.

Am I still asleep ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Men, dick and wine.. Yes

Haribo and chocolate.. Only with my besties

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes but I am polyamourous. I reached compersion a long time ago and sharing partners with others emotionally and physically brings me Joy

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Yes but I am polyamourous. I reached compersion a long time ago and sharing partners with others emotionally and physically brings me Joy "

What about if you don't like the person they've chosen to spend emotional and physical intimacy with. How do you deal with that?

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time.

This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones.

I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit!

That’s the issue for me, it’s the emotional side, not the actual sex. "

Does that you mean share physically but not emotionally as well? Or is it the emotional worries stopping you wanting to share physically?

Sharing a partner emotionally can be wonderful, of course it can. But like any relationship it can bring its own difficulties.

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Yes but I am polyamourous. I reached compersion a long time ago and sharing partners with others emotionally and physically brings me Joy

What about if you don't like the person they've chosen to spend emotional and physical intimacy with. How do you deal with that? "

Its never about us liking the other person, it's about us having a pleasurable time. I am happy when he is happy, and vice versa. Who we achieve that with is never an issue unless drama is encountered, but that would be down to Individual unwise choices and we would discuss how to avoid those people in the future

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By *edeWoman  over a year ago

the abyss

Well if we are talking about sharing a guy then I have done before.

Would I now? Yes but he better have an awful lot of stamina to satisfy me aswell as someone else

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By *ily WhiteWoman  over a year ago

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"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time.

This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones.

I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit!

That’s the issue for me, it’s the emotional side, not the actual sex.

Does that you mean share physically but not emotionally as well? Or is it the emotional worries stopping you wanting to share physically?

Sharing a partner emotionally can be wonderful, of course it can. But like any relationship it can bring its own difficulties.

"

For me it means that I share physically but not emotionally - I recognise that I'm not capable of a poly relationship, I need to be my partners sole romantic emotional attachment.

Sex is purely an enjoyable physical act...much like him going and having a game of tennis with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Women have vaginas and for that reason will do what they want to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Women have vaginas and for that reason will do what they want to do"

Having a vagina does not entitle anyone to do what they want

If that's the case

Of a nice big cock and I shall do the same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time.

This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones.

I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit!

That’s the issue for me, it’s the emotional side, not the actual sex.

Does that you mean share physically but not emotionally as well? Or is it the emotional worries stopping you wanting to share physically?

Sharing a partner emotionally can be wonderful, of course it can. But like any relationship it can bring its own difficulties.

For me it means that I share physically but not emotionally - I recognise that I'm not capable of a poly relationship, I need to be my partners sole romantic emotional attachment.

Sex is purely an enjoyable physical act...much like him going and having a game of tennis with someone. "

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes but I am polyamourous. I reached compersion a long time ago and sharing partners with others emotionally and physically brings me Joy

What about if you don't like the person they've chosen to spend emotional and physical intimacy with. How do you deal with that?

Its never about us liking the other person, it's about us having a pleasurable time. I am happy when he is happy, and vice versa. Who we achieve that with is never an issue unless drama is encountered, but that would be down to Individual unwise choices and we would discuss how to avoid those people in the future "

Would you expect to know about other meets before they happened?

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By *vasexperimentWoman  over a year ago

huddersfield


"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing.

The best sex you've ever had in your life ?

Then probably not no. If a guy was that good I'd rather have more 1 on 1 time with him."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women have vaginas and for that reason will do what they want to do

Having a vagina does not entitle anyone to do what they want

If that's the case

Of a nice big cock and I shall do the same "

anyone can do as they wish thats kind of my point

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By *vasexperimentWoman  over a year ago

huddersfield


" Personally I find sharing very enjoyable, but not everyone does! I've had some experiences where jealousy has kicked in & ruined the fun

I don't have room in my life for jealousy and that's all iv ever seen or experienced

I wanted to be me but I couldn't "

Maybe you could share her with your best mate

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple  over a year ago

Northern


"Not on this site they don’t

I'm asking because I ain't really ever fucked a woman that wants me to fuck another woman or is even ok with the idea of me fucking another woman "

Mrs C loves sharing me with other women and vice versa, to be fair we know plenty of other couples that have exactly the same approach.

Mr C

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By *viatrixWoman  over a year ago

Redhill

I don’t, no.

I could try to fool you guys or fool myself and say yeh of course but Aviatrix does not share... food or men. *said like JOEY DOES NOT SHARE FOOD!*

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