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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How often do you view it? I see loads of incomplete headlines, because they dont realise there is a limit!
Do you tweak it?
I deleted the text on mine to discourage new messages, made no difference! |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
I tweak it regularly and do a complete overhaul occasionally, vast majority of people don't read it though so I do wonder why I bother. Have previously experimented with writing an absolutely ridiculous profile, it made no difference to the number or quality of the messages received. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do you view it? I see loads of incomplete headlines, because they dont realise there is a limit!
Do you tweak it?
I deleted the text on mine to discourage new messages, made no difference!"
I have made the odd change and sometimes shuffle pics around but it’s a wasted effort I believe but meh “onwards and upwards”  |
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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago
Market Harborough / Kettering |
I occasionally read mine but normally because someone has asked me a question about it and I have to check to see what the hell they are on about. Then it all makes sense even though it shouldn't as its all bollocks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently updated mine with a little more about me and what I’m looking for and still get people asking how long I’ve been on fab and if I’ve had success? Lol  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
Tweaker here - usually in response to the latest kind of messages I receive; if despite best efforts I STILL receive pictures of cock in an initial message I tweak it to reflect that I want to chat to a person rather than a dick. Or if somebody bombards me with messages, I will put something along those lines in the update.
Not sure it helps much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tweak it every now and again but I'm a single guy, I don't think it gets looked at very often  "
You would be shocked. Women ALWAYS read profiles. It's you men who rarely do! |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I tweak it every now and again but I'm a single guy, I don't think it gets looked at very often
You would be shocked. Women ALWAYS read profiles. It's you men who rarely do!"
Agreed. It's why i've always tried to write mine so as to appeal to the target audience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we decide to get back into swinging then we will put effort in again.
I did look at it last week and deleted some of the shite I had put on it last year.
I think pics are more important than words tho. No one wants to talk to a shadow skull. But a few fluffy boob pics and an open shirt/ beard pic and people seem to want to talk |
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Update about 3-4 times a year, not that it’s worthwhile as the majority of the messages I receive clearly haven’t bothered to read it.
I wish the text was above the photos, as it would encourage one or two to read the bio first.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Update about 3-4 times a year, not that it’s worthwhile as the majority of the messages I receive clearly haven’t bothered to read it.
I wish the text was above the photos, as it would encourage one or two to read the bio first.
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Eh? There's no text on profiles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Changed my tag line recently guess people like a nightmare 
Never really look at my profile text but I probably should "
Yeah I like that it’s a good one! I changed mine a few months ago... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to update mine all the time.
Fake joke veris
"Fill in later"
Masses of text of absolute bollocks
Jokes
Some people do read profiles.
Some don't... my absolute favourite is when I have no text, just a cleavage pic that could belong to anyone from Britney Spears to Dame Edna. They send messages saying something like "you sound great!"
I ask what they like about my profile.
30 seconds of silence where they go and read my profile for the very first time.
Their reply....
"Woman"
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"I used to update mine all the time.
Fake joke veris
"Fill in later"
Masses of text of absolute bollocks
Jokes
Some people do read profiles.
Some don't... my absolute favourite is when I have no text, just a cleavage pic that could belong to anyone from Britney Spears to Dame Edna. They send messages saying something like "you sound great!"
I ask what they like about my profile.
30 seconds of silence where they go and read my profile for the very first time.
Their reply....
"Woman"
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Vagina |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I rarely look at mine. Occasionally if I think something is relevant I may add to it.
Although about a month ago I did remove a chunk and then put another lump in.
Occasionally someone will read it as I received a message a few days ago mentioning part of it. |
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We only started out in October so our profile is relatively new so nothing needs updating yet.
We didn’t bother putting about not meeting during Covid as we thought it was obvious so nothing really to change.
We also didn’t want to put a list of no’s on our profile...so it can remain positive
K |
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"We only started out in October so our profile is relatively new so nothing needs updating yet.
We didn’t bother putting about not meeting during Covid as we thought it was obvious so nothing really to change.
We also didn’t want to put a list of no’s on our profile...so it can remain positive
K"
Tbf I'd be too busy checking out both of your awesome artistry pictures to read it |
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I updated mine recently, but that was the first time in ages.
Over the years it has completely changed...and I've found that the type of messages I receive differ depending on what my profile says |
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"Update about 3-4 times a year, not that it’s worthwhile as the majority of the messages I receive clearly haven’t bothered to read it.
I wish the text was above the photos, as it would encourage one or two to read the bio first.
Eh? There's no text on profiles! "
Doing mine in French next time ...that’ll teach them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I'll admit the only way to get your self out there are advertise guys is the forum .are the chat rooms on cam if possible ,think about it don't knock a good profile, up date as much as you can
Leave nothing for granted when it comes to wemon .(smiles) after we've said our piece in forum and made an impression Guess where ladies like to go next to find out about us guys .yep you've guessed it. |
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"I updated mine recently, but that was the first time in ages.
Over the years it has completely changed...and I've found that the type of messages I receive differ depending on what my profile says "
Lovely!! x |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Recently updated mine. It more accurately reflects current circumstances.
As for status updates, I hardly use that feature.
Yey thats so cute "
One way of putting it I guess |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Recently updated mine. It more accurately reflects current circumstances.
As for status updates, I hardly use that feature.
Yey thats so cute
One way of putting it I guess "
Oh wait.  You've updated your profile? Cor, it's all happening isn't it?
Anyway Chilly, that's so awwww!  |
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"Recently updated mine. It more accurately reflects current circumstances.
As for status updates, I hardly use that feature.
Yey thats so cute
One way of putting it I guess
Oh wait. You've updated your profile? Cor, it's all happening isn't it?
Anyway Chilly, that's so awwww! "
I think it may have melted my icy heart a tad!! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Recently updated mine. It more accurately reflects current circumstances.
As for status updates, I hardly use that feature.
Yey thats so cute
One way of putting it I guess
Oh wait. You've updated your profile? Cor, it's all happening isn't it?
Anyway Chilly, that's so awwww!
I think it may have melted my icy heart a tad!! "
It's just so lovely isn't it? Between Estragon's very rare display of wit and now this? It's shaping up to be a good day. |
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"Recently updated mine. It more accurately reflects current circumstances.
As for status updates, I hardly use that feature.
Yey thats so cute
One way of putting it I guess
Oh wait. You've updated your profile? Cor, it's all happening isn't it?
Anyway Chilly, that's so awwww!
I think it may have melted my icy heart a tad!!
It's just so lovely isn't it? Between Estragon's very rare display of wit and now this? It's shaping up to be a good day. "
I concur on both points |
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I always proof read mine because, correct spelling, and punctuation seems to cut a dash with the teaching profession who are all too eager to mark it like some kiddies essay. I can honestly say that I am on of the rare guys, in the history of internet dating, and throughout the depths of cyberspace courtship, who has managed to get his end away with teachers for getting 18 out of 20 for his English homework on a dating site, or swinging site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I regularly check mine... to make sure hubby hasn't changed it for me... and to make sure it's not too difficult to decipher... because sometimes I wonder... |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
As Swiss Toni would no doubt comment about a Fab profile...
‘Paul, being on Fab is very much like making love to a beautiful woman. Your profile is the chance encounter where she glimpses you across a crowded room. You must be attractive, giving an air of confidence and worldly knowledge, hinting at experience and quality you offer, but a crowded room is not the place to bare all, Paul....’ |
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I sometimes check it when a message asks something that I'm pretty sure is already answered in our profile.
Other than that I read it occasionally to make sure M hasn't changed anything without me noticing!
K |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
"Recently updated mine. It more accurately reflects current circumstances.
As for status updates, I hardly use that feature.
Yey thats so cute
One way of putting it I guess
Oh wait. You've updated your profile? Cor, it's all happening isn't it?
Anyway Chilly, that's so awwww!
I think it may have melted my icy heart a tad!! "
Now that’s a miracle!!
Congratulations! So happy for you both.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Occasionally. I sometimes look at it because a message we receive makes me think I've remembered the contents incorrectly  "
I do this too. I can never remember what my profile says or doesn't say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tweak it now and then.. I often use it as a shortcut to check which photos are public
I have lots of nightmares that my account got hacked and wake up in the middle of the night and have to check it haha |
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"Mine has been the same for the last 18 months
Same as your knickers
If they don’t stick to the wall I put them back on!
Plus you do like to sniff them for pudding "
The pungent smell cleanses the blockages |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"Oh.. I couldn't understand why I was getting gym related messages.. Then realised I'd put a status on... Doh!
Only you weirdo 
Where have ya been xx"
Here there and nowhere did you miss me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wrote it .... why would I ever want to go back and read it
Its been there so long spiders ?? have moved in, the crayon has faded and anyone reading it may need the Rosetta Stone to unravel the pictograms... |
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