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over a year ago
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her )  "
Move on with your life.
Revenge isn’t nice or healthy. |
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
I would! go all out and have fun! (I;ve actually been debating the same with my ex. Why stop at FB? change passwords and wreak havok everywhere). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
do you still love her? |
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her )
I would! go all out and have fun! (I;ve actually been debating the same with my ex. Why stop at FB? change passwords and wreak havok everywhere)."
Been reading her messages and she has certainly not moved on
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) do you still love her?"
Nope only thing I miss about her is she brought guys into my life lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) do you still love her?
Nope only thing I miss about her is she brought guys into my life lol"
then why are you clearly obsessing over her why care is it a pride thing? |
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) do you still love her?
Nope only thing I miss about her is she brought guys into my life lolthen why are you clearly obsessing over her why care is it a pride thing?"
Not obsessing just a general
Question if you was in same situation what would anyone do
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her )
I would! go all out and have fun! (I;ve actually been debating the same with my ex. Why stop at FB? change passwords and wreak havok everywhere).
Been reading her messages and she has certainly not moved on
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What a horrific invasion of her privacy! How disgusting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) do you still love her?
Nope only thing I miss about her is she brought guys into my life lolthen why are you clearly obsessing over her why care is it a pride thing?
Not obsessing just a general
Question if you was in same situation what would anyone do
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if snooping thru her mail and contemplating worse is anything to go by maybe theres a reason things ended the way they did me personally would rather her be happy and safe and if i didnt love her i wouldnt care at all so probly best to log out theres no real winning here good luck |
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
Logout. Do the right thing. |
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her )
Logout. Do the right thing. "
He already read her messages!! |
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
Be the bigger and better person. Sign out. Move on. |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
london |
"So you are aware such a breach of privacy is illegal and you have made us all witnesses to it for your own benefit and ares do nothing log out of her account "
OP, whatever you decide to do ^ this is something you should bear in mind |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I cut all connection with my ex, deleted her account off the laptop and any shared social media accounts.
I don't want to know what she is doing.
Leave it be, clear her log in and get on with your life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her )
I would! go all out and have fun! (I;ve actually been debating the same with my ex. Why stop at FB? change passwords and wreak havok everywhere).
Been reading her messages and she has certainly not moved on
What a horrific invasion of her privacy! How disgusting. "
Totally agree...got to leave it pal and take the higher ground  |
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Interesting legal situation, apparently this is all covered by the computer misuse act 1990.
I don't entirely understand the wording but it says if you haven't been given the password to someone's account it's an offence to access it, it might be the case that if permission wasn't explicitly withdraw OP could argue there was no offence as the password was originally presumably shared. However it is also an offence to deny legitimate access by for example changing someone's password.
Yes you can go to prison for it.
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Not really bothered what the OP does, that’s for him and his conscience.
It has however highlighted something to me.
I never log out of here on my phone, I just close the app, so when I re-open it I don’t have to fart around logging in.
Beginning to think maybe not such a good idea. If I was to loose my phone and someone found it and gained access they would be able to access my account on here.
A total stranger could be on here pretending to be me and accessing photos etc.  |
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Why publicly humiliate yourself? She will soon rectify it and everyone you both know will see the pettyness of your actions.
Yes you may be hurting from her betrayal, but this comes across as immature teenager behaviour in my opinion.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Logged out of it already "
I’m reading that as ‘logged out of it eventually’
Probably because you didn’t get the replies you expected on the forum backing up your vendetta against the woman who left you for someone you were both playing with. She was the one cheated on, according to your op. |
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"Not really bothered what the OP does, that’s for him and his conscience.
It has however highlighted something to me.
I never log out of here on my phone, I just close the app, so when I re-open it I don’t have to fart around logging in.
Beginning to think maybe not such a good idea. If I was to loose my phone and someone found it and gained access they would be able to access my account on here.
A total stranger could be on here pretending to be me and accessing photos etc. "
Might actually start logging out properly myself for that reason |
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"Not really bothered what the OP does, that’s for him and his conscience.
It has however highlighted something to me.
I never log out of here on my phone, I just close the app, so when I re-open it I don’t have to fart around logging in.
Beginning to think maybe not such a good idea. If I was to loose my phone and someone found it and gained access they would be able to access my account on here.
A total stranger could be on here pretending to be me and accessing photos etc. "
Even my 70 quid fab phone has face lock, that should be enough?
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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She's an ex you shouldn't have even looked in there in the first place. It's a total breach of privacy regardless of what the person did or didn't do in the past and actually says more about you than he.Especially the fact that you read her messages and debated trying to embarrass her.And a post like this would be a red flag for a lot of people on here . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really bothered what the OP does, that’s for him and his conscience.
It has however highlighted something to me.
I never log out of here on my phone, I just close the app, so when I re-open it I don’t have to fart around logging in.
Beginning to think maybe not such a good idea. If I was to loose my phone and someone found it and gained access they would be able to access my account on here.
A total stranger could be on here pretending to be me and accessing photos etc.
Even my 70 quid fab phone has face lock, that should be enough?
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Depends if it’s android then no easy to unlock if you know how
If it’s a iPhone then yes as iPhones are paper wights when locked
And op really log out leve in Alown you will come off the worst
As now she can spin the you don’t know what went on behind closed doors thing to friends and because off your actions they tend to bleve it
As you sound vindictive that she left you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's technically breaking the law. More generally, I'd say move on. You'll have a happier life. Those are minutes and hours of your life you won't get back when you could be doing something more fun. I know someone who still obsesses about what her ex is up to 5 years after their divorce. I periodically get calls where she goes on about how much better he is doing than her. No good ever comes from it. Just feeds her misery. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the purposes of the forum and wanting to appear like a jolly good egg, I’d say “log out and let her have her privacy”
But in private, where I wouldn’t have to publically virtue signal to curry favour with the opposite sex on here I’d say “hell yeah man, keep that site open and see EXACTLY what she’s up to!”  |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
Bigger person to just move on .... |
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"So you are aware such a breach of privacy is illegal and you have made us all witnesses to it for your own benefit and ares do nothing log out of her account "
So will all the members on the thread have to go to Court? Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
Just sign out mate,if you're a man just move on,and if you're over her,just laugh it off.
Your story is a scary reminder that these things can happen on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
I'm intrigued
What did you do?
Do you feel better for the course of action you took? |
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
Do what makes you happy and what you've already decided. Don't ask for other people's opinions,you already know what you want to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really bothered what the OP does, that’s for him and his conscience.
It has however highlighted something to me.
I never log out of here on my phone, I just close the app, so when I re-open it I don’t have to fart around logging in.
Beginning to think maybe not such a good idea. If I was to loose my phone and someone found it and gained access they would be able to access my account on here.
A total stranger could be on here pretending to be me and accessing photos etc. "
Why do you not use fingerprint or face recognition on your phone? Silly to keep a record of anything on your phone history or stay signed in if you don’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fucking hell. Does anyone read the thread... just can't help with the "oh log out" boring. He's got the picture... he said he logged off ages ago. People just can't help having a dig and trying to look good to everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking hell. Does anyone read the thread... just can't help with the "oh log out" boring. He's got the picture... he said he logged off ages ago. People just can't help having a dig and trying to look good to everyone else. "
Come on now be reasonable, there’s over 70 replies now, I’m a busy man I can’t be arsed to read all that, I’m diving in headfirst with a flaming torch and pitchfork and tarring & feathering the OP!  |
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"So you are aware such a breach of privacy is illegal and you have made us all witnesses to it for your own benefit and ares do nothing log out of her account
So will all the members on the thread have to go to Court? Lol. "
Just to be clear, because I'm a stickler for legal things like this, it's not the breach of privacy that's illegal, there's no such law in the UK. I explained the position above where this case is covered by the computer misuse act 1990, that concerns password access to accounts, and denying legitimate access to accounts. |
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
Haven't read the whole thread just first couple.
Log out turn pad off forget about her.
Get on with your life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her ) "
Sign out and let it go.
Also it might have legal implications. Privacy laws and all that.
It's not worth it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking hell. Does anyone read the thread... just can't help with the "oh log out" boring. He's got the picture... he said he logged off ages ago. People just can't help having a dig and trying to look good to everyone else. "
I think you are missing a point tho. This is a place where people can Express what they would do I his situation. Sharing information about your world view. We talk here firva reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just found a old tablet that's signed In to my ex's Facebook
Do I sign out or be a evil ex husband (foot note she left me for our fxxk buddy who then cheated on her )
I would! go all out and have fun! (I;ve actually been debating the same with my ex. Why stop at FB? change passwords and wreak havok everywhere).
Been reading her messages and she has certainly not moved on
What a horrific invasion of her privacy! How disgusting. "
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Just because she treated you badly, that doesn't mean you have to behave like an arsehole. Messing with her accounts is not going to fix anything or bring her back. It will just increase animosity. There is nothing of value to be gained with this sort of behaviour.
Take the high ground. Man up. Show her you are better than that. Move on and get on with your life. |
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Logged out of it already
I’m reading that as ‘logged out of it eventually’
Probably because you didn’t get the replies you expected on the forum backing up your vendetta against the woman who left you for someone you were both playing with. She was the one cheated on, according to your op. "
For your information I logged out as decided I didn't want to be the person she was as she sent links to another site I was on and my user name to all my family and my investors hoping that I would lose everything .As it happened my bothers know about what i do and my bussiness partner is also a swinger that's how we met I have moved was just going to forward some of the sly remarked she had made to the "friends" she had made them about hope this clears up any discussion on on how despicable I am |
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"Logged out of it already
I’m reading that as ‘logged out of it eventually’
Probably because you didn’t get the replies you expected on the forum backing up your vendetta against the woman who left you for someone you were both playing with. She was the one cheated on, according to your op.
For your information I logged out as decided I didn't want to be the person she was as she sent links to another site I was on and my user name to all my family and my investors hoping that I would lose everything .As it happened my bothers know about what i do and my bussiness partner is also a swinger that's how we met I have moved was just going to forward some of the sly remarked she had made to the "friends" she had made them about hope this clears up any discussion on on how despicable I am "
It took you a while to make that up eh.
Two wrongs and all that tho |
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"Logged out of it already
I’m reading that as ‘logged out of it eventually’
Probably because you didn’t get the replies you expected on the forum backing up your vendetta against the woman who left you for someone you were both playing with. She was the one cheated on, according to your op.
For your information I logged out as decided I didn't want to be the person she was as she sent links to another site I was on and my user name to all my family and my investors hoping that I would lose everything .As it happened my bothers know about what i do and my bussiness partner is also a swinger that's how we met I have moved was just going to forward some of the sly remarked she had made to the "friends" she had made them about hope this clears up any discussion on on how despicable I am "
This doesn't make you appear any better.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes when a thread doesn’t go your way it’s better to let it vanish down the list rather than to keep resurrecting it by coming up with more excuses |
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