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over a year ago
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"I'm pretty indifferent. They're part of a story of a life lived. I've got a few myself"
Same here... mine have never bothered me so why would someone else’s  |
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Absolutely adore scars and if anything find them a turn on. We both have scars and love to spend time caressing and kissing each others.
Part of life and personally we wear our scars with pride.
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"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think  "
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular  |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular "
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are what they are, I now have scars on my face for to recent surgery, so I would hope they don't scare anyone!"
Well...maybe if I see those scars wouldn't be scared...  |
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"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over "
My Dad has a titanium rod screwed into his skull for his bone anchored hearing aid - his is a talking point for sure! Hopefully your shoulder isn't too badly impacted long term? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over "
Definitely trauma. Scar far too large to be arthroscopy. Not hit and run I hope?  |
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"What kind of scars are you talking about?
There was once a woman who shared pictures of her mastectomy. She was beautiful and I felt strong and brave. Her whole attiwqs inspiring."
I couldn't agree with you more, there's so much more to a woman than skin deep. That said the OP is asking about scars on guys, I think there's been at least one thread about scars from operations on here, I'll have a look....xx
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over
Definitely trauma. Scar far too large to be arthroscopy. Not hit and run I hope? "
Not hit and run the driver thankfully stopped, a proximal humerus fracture, the ball part was approx 1cm away from the shaft |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
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"...what do you think about the scars on a man’s body? Do you consider them disgusting, scary, manly, maybe somehow sexy ...?"
The journey of life. Just cause he has scars doesnt define who he is as a person |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think "
That pic can be your profile photo (nice scar, good job)
Unfortunately, I can't put mine in public  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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I don't take any notice of them.
Well, I might ask how they got them, if I feel comfortable enough asking.
One of my buddies from way back had had bowel surgery and had an ileostomy. He always had a big plaster on so I guessed what it was.
He was a little worried when we first undressed and covered his scars up. So I pushed him gently back onto the bed and kissed them.
We didn't talk about them again. |
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"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over
Definitely trauma. Scar far too large to be arthroscopy. Not hit and run I hope?
Not hit and run the driver thankfully stopped, a proximal humerus fracture, the ball part was approx 1cm away from the shaft "
I had the same fracture after falling off a horse ages ago. Fortunately it didn't need surgery. You have my empathy - it hurt and I'm sure it did for you too. How's it now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They all tell a story, man or woman I’m always interested to hear about them if the person wanted to tell, and I do find a rugged scarred man somewhat attractive and masculine. Worldly even. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I find them interesting - they are part of the person and I'd love to know the stories behind them. Maybe I'm just nosey  "
So am I.
I was seeing a soldier in an artillery regiment who went through all of his scars for me, and told me all the interesting stories behind them, then got to the last one and said "Fell down some stairs".
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find them interesting - they are part of the person and I'd love to know the stories behind them. Maybe I'm just nosey
So am I.
I was seeing a soldier in an artillery regiment who went through all of his scars for me, and told me all the interesting stories behind them, then got to the last one and said "Fell down some stairs".
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over
Definitely trauma. Scar far too large to be arthroscopy. Not hit and run I hope?
Not hit and run the driver thankfully stopped, a proximal humerus fracture, the ball part was approx 1cm away from the shaft
I had the same fracture after falling off a horse ages ago. Fortunately it didn't need surgery. You have my empathy - it hurt and I'm sure it did for you too. How's it now?"
It’s not too bad now, the surgeon has decided to leave the plate in for now although there’s a very high chance of arthritis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scars are a life tattoo, and I am not put off by them.
I have my own body scars from pregnancies, operations, weight loss, accidents.
Her x"
Life tattoo. I like that |
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"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over
Definitely trauma. Scar far too large to be arthroscopy. Not hit and run I hope?
Not hit and run the driver thankfully stopped, a proximal humerus fracture, the ball part was approx 1cm away from the shaft
I had the same fracture after falling off a horse ages ago. Fortunately it didn't need surgery. You have my empathy - it hurt and I'm sure it did for you too. How's it now?
It’s not too bad now, the surgeon has decided to leave the plate in for now although there’s a very high chance of arthritis "
My shoulder never went back to normal. Weaker for sure and now I use the wheelchair, it gives me impingement type gip. Hopefully yours doesn't give you a lot of problems. |
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"Can I just say that I think scars on ladies are very sexy
Surely that depends on the scars  "
not really. I just like them. They add character, tell a story and show (when on show) that the person is confident to show me and I like that in a woman. |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over
Definitely trauma. Scar far too large to be arthroscopy. Not hit and run I hope?
Not hit and run the driver thankfully stopped, a proximal humerus fracture, the ball part was approx 1cm away from the shaft
I had the same fracture after falling off a horse ages ago. Fortunately it didn't need surgery. You have my empathy - it hurt and I'm sure it did for you too. How's it now?
It’s not too bad now, the surgeon has decided to leave the plate in for now although there’s a very high chance of arthritis
My shoulder never went back to normal. Weaker for sure and now I use the wheelchair, it gives me impingement type gip. Hopefully yours doesn't give you a lot of problems."
It aches at times but nothing bad so I’m quite lucky |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"They all tell a story, man or woman I’m always interested to hear about them if the person wanted to tell, and I do find a rugged scarred man somewhat attractive and masculine. Worldly even. "
There’s not much to tell, wrong place wring time really |
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My man had a double transplant ,it tells a story and it's part of him , his journey and a new lease of life we are forever greatfull to his donor she was amazing to give this gift and we thank her family too xx
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"My man had a double transplant ,it tells a story and it's part of him , his journey and a new lease of life we are forever greatfull to his donor she was amazing to give this gift and we thank her family too xx
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Wow...to make such a difference to someone's life by translant is truly wonderful and what a gift!
Glad hubby is doing well x |
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"My man had a double transplant ,it tells a story and it's part of him , his journey and a new lease of life we are forever greatfull to his donor she was amazing to give this gift and we thank her family too xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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After an op, hubby has a scar from his chest bone to below his belly button... He hates it, utterly self conscious.. Rightly or wrongly, I pay it extra attention... It say he's fought a battle and won.. Its a cliche, but scars are sexy. |
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"After an op, hubby has a scar from his chest bone to below his belly button... He hates it, utterly self conscious.. Rightly or wrongly, I pay it extra attention... It say he's fought a battle and won.. Its a cliche, but scars are sexy. "
FWB is an amputee and I pay his stump scar attention. Apparently it's put others off, but I don't see the issue. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over
Definitely trauma. Scar far too large to be arthroscopy. Not hit and run I hope?
Not hit and run the driver thankfully stopped, a proximal humerus fracture, the ball part was approx 1cm away from the shaft
I had the same fracture after falling off a horse ages ago. Fortunately it didn't need surgery. You have my empathy - it hurt and I'm sure it did for you too. How's it now?
It’s not too bad now, the surgeon has decided to leave the plate in for now although there’s a very high chance of arthritis
My shoulder never went back to normal. Weaker for sure and now I use the wheelchair, it gives me impingement type gip. Hopefully yours doesn't give you a lot of problems.
It aches at times but nothing bad so I’m quite lucky "
Proximal humeral fractures often cause some restriction in shoulder movement. Most ORIFs i've come across are permanent and not removed afterwards. |
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"After an op, hubby has a scar from his chest bone to below his belly button... He hates it, utterly self conscious.. Rightly or wrongly, I pay it extra attention... It say he's fought a battle and won.. Its a cliche, but scars are sexy. "
Oh I love this.
I was ashamed of my first surgical scars, until I had my third surgery (that scar is much bigger). The first two, I could well have died. I won.
I'm not... proud of any of them, but they're more just part of me now. |
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Proximal humeral fractures often cause some restriction in shoulder movement. Most ORIFs i've come across are permanent and not removed afterwards."
Yes, I don't expect mine will improve and I do abuse it with wheelchairing (often exuberant). Oh well |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"After seeing this thread I’ve just uploaded a pic of mine, interesting to see what folk think
Looks like shoulder surgery...
Mr KC had a lump removed from his neck in November 2020 so he's got something similar but across his jugular
Yep I have a Titanium plate in there after being run over
Definitely trauma. Scar far too large to be arthroscopy. Not hit and run I hope?
Not hit and run the driver thankfully stopped, a proximal humerus fracture, the ball part was approx 1cm away from the shaft
I had the same fracture after falling off a horse ages ago. Fortunately it didn't need surgery. You have my empathy - it hurt and I'm sure it did for you too. How's it now?
It’s not too bad now, the surgeon has decided to leave the plate in for now although there’s a very high chance of arthritis
My shoulder never went back to normal. Weaker for sure and now I use the wheelchair, it gives me impingement type gip. Hopefully yours doesn't give you a lot of problems.
It aches at times but nothing bad so I’m quite lucky
Proximal humeral fractures often cause some restriction in shoulder movement. Most ORIFs i've come across are permanent and not removed afterwards."
I hope it doesn’t need to be removed as I don’t want to have another op and the subsequent recovery |
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I like scars. One of my ex boyfriends had a disfigured face. He had gone through a car windowscreen and had to have over a 150 stitches in his face. All down the left side. After i had been with him a while i stopped noticing. They where bad and people used to stare |
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I have a few scars...got them in one part of my life...and I am proud of every single one I have. Sometimes those scars remind me what I survived and that makes me proud even more. |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"I have a few scars...got them in one part of my life...and I am proud of every single one I have. Sometimes those scars remind me what I survived and that makes me proud even more."
That’s good to hear, I’m still a bit reluctant about mine |
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"I have a few scars...got them in one part of my life...and I am proud of every single one I have. Sometimes those scars remind me what I survived and that makes me proud even more.
That’s good to hear, I’m still a bit reluctant about mine "
If it helps a tiny bit, you've absolutely nothing to be worried about, my friend |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
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"I have a few scars...got them in one part of my life...and I am proud of every single one I have. Sometimes those scars remind me what I survived and that makes me proud even more.
That’s good to hear, I’m still a bit reluctant about mine
If it helps a tiny bit, you've absolutely nothing to be worried about, my friend "
Thank you |
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"I have a few scars...got them in one part of my life...and I am proud of every single one I have. Sometimes those scars remind me what I survived and that makes me proud even more.
That’s good to hear, I’m still a bit reluctant about mine "
Don't worry man...it's yours life tatoo |
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