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"i am so empty inside, i feel i will nerver be happy , i dont believe in my self ,i am not optimistic about my future ,i find it hard 2 engage with people ,i am allways afraid of taking risks ,nobody would find me interesting ,I feel like i am retreating in 2 my shell ,i feel unnatractive ,i cant remember what its like 2 have fun ,i cant remember when i laughed ,i am not happy with my job , i am no good in my job ,i feel like i have screwed up my chances 2 find happiness ,i cant remember the last time i was content in my self ,i know i will be on my own for the rest of my life an it scares me , i miss company ,i hate pretending everything is ok with people when its not , i feel like a failour ,what good am i to anyone , i feel i dont fit in 2 the world anymore ,what good am i 2 anyone , i hate feeling this way "If it's of any help... I feel like this too | |||
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"I'm glass half full, sorry for you that you are not." That’s not helpful | |||
"i am so empty inside, i feel i will nerver be happy , i dont believe in my self ,i am not optimistic about my future ,i find it hard 2 engage with people ,i am allways afraid of taking risks ,nobody would find me interesting ,I feel like i am retreating in 2 my shell ,i feel unnatractive ,i cant remember what its like 2 have fun ,i cant remember when i laughed ,i am not happy with my job , i am no good in my job ,i feel like i have screwed up my chances 2 find happiness ,i cant remember the last time i was content in my self ,i know i will be on my own for the rest of my life an it scares me , i miss company ,i hate pretending everything is ok with people when its not , i feel like a failour ,what good am i to anyone , i feel i dont fit in 2 the world anymore ,what good am i 2 anyone , i hate feeling this way "please remember that you are someone’s son you’re also someone’s friend you’re part of peoples life’s weather you think you’re not and you are loved by people who know you  | |||
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"i am so empty inside, i feel i will nerver be happy , i dont believe in my self ,i am not optimistic about my future ,i find it hard 2 engage with people ,i am allways afraid of taking risks ,nobody would find me interesting ,I feel like i am retreating in 2 my shell ,i feel unnatractive ,i cant remember what its like 2 have fun ,i cant remember when i laughed ,i am not happy with my job , i am no good in my job ,i feel like i have screwed up my chances 2 find happiness ,i cant remember the last time i was content in my self ,i know i will be on my own for the rest of my life an it scares me , i miss company ,i hate pretending everything is ok with people when its not , i feel like a failour ,what good am i to anyone , i feel i dont fit in 2 the world anymore ,what good am i 2 anyone , i hate feeling this way
If it's of any help... I feel like this too"Guys, sorry to hear that you’re both feeling like this. These unusual times are really hard, if you need to chat message me do not sit in silence bottling things up. If not Are there any friends or family that you can turn to? | |||
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"i am so empty inside, i feel i will nerver be happy , i dont believe in my self ,i am not optimistic about my future ,i find it hard 2 engage with people ,i am allways afraid of taking risks ,nobody would find me interesting ,I feel like i am retreating in 2 my shell ,i feel unnatractive ,i cant remember what its like 2 have fun ,i cant remember when i laughed ,i am not happy with my job , i am no good in my job ,i feel like i have screwed up my chances 2 find happiness ,i cant remember the last time i was content in my self ,i know i will be on my own for the rest of my life an it scares me , i miss company ,i hate pretending everything is ok with people when its not , i feel like a failour ,what good am i to anyone , i feel i dont fit in 2 the world anymore ,what good am i 2 anyone , i hate feeling this way "Hugs xx | |||
"I am sorry that you're feeling this way. You sound so overwhelmed and when things build up and yiu feel this way it can be really difficult to see anything positive. It's good that you've opened up here. You don't or shouldn't have to pretend everything is OK. And if you talk about it you may be pleasantly surprised with the reactions that you get back. You are not alone in feeling this way..I know that's probably much help but it's true. Reach out to people who will listen to you. Please don't lose the faith! Things can only get better...give yourself some time xx" | |||
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"the only thing that saving me i am a good talker " Well that's a good thing and can only be helpful. Good luck with everything x | |||
"i am so empty inside, i feel i will nerver be happy , i dont believe in my self ,i am not optimistic about my future ,i find it hard 2 engage with people ,i am allways afraid of taking risks ,nobody would find me interesting ,I feel like i am retreating in 2 my shell ,i feel unnatractive ,i cant remember what its like 2 have fun ,i cant remember when i laughed ,i am not happy with my job , i am no good in my job ,i feel like i have screwed up my chances 2 find happiness ,i cant remember the last time i was content in my self ,i know i will be on my own for the rest of my life an it scares me , i miss company ,i hate pretending everything is ok with people when its not , i feel like a failour ,what good am i to anyone , i feel i dont fit in 2 the world anymore ,what good am i 2 anyone , i hate feeling this way
If it's of any help... I feel like this too"people says there lots of people feeling the same , i dont want anybody else feeling the same pain i am feeling , i would not wish it on my worst enemy | |||
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"i am so empty inside, i feel i will nerver be happy , i dont believe in my self ,i am not optimistic about my future ,i find it hard 2 engage with people ,i am allways afraid of taking risks ,nobody would find me interesting ,I feel like i am retreating in 2 my shell ,i feel unnatractive ,i cant remember what its like 2 have fun ,i cant remember when i laughed ,i am not happy with my job , i am no good in my job ,i feel like i have screwed up my chances 2 find happiness ,i cant remember the last time i was content in my self ,i know i will be on my own for the rest of my life an it scares me , i miss company ,i hate pretending everything is ok with people when its not , i feel like a failour ,what good am i to anyone , i feel i dont fit in 2 the world anymore ,what good am i 2 anyone , i hate feeling this way "Try to have positive thoughts in your days OP. Mix up your environments and get outdoors, exercise, try to connect with people, however that works best for you, be honest with those you are close to, and utilise support available, I’d recommend GP and ensure you really help them understand how you feel on your worst days and best days. Plenty of online support too through charities mentioned. Perhaps try a new hobby to occupy your mind and distract your thought process too. Nothing is ever as bad as it can feel at times. | |||
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"the only thing that saving me i am a good talker " That helps. To talk it all through and rationalise these beliefs. Think how you could put it to a good use.  | |||
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"i am so empty inside, i feel i will nerver be happy , i dont believe in my self ..." I know you feel like you are alone in this but these are very common feelings for people who've had some time on their own. You definitely need to talk to somebody, a counsellor or psychological therapist of some sort, but I would suggest you go to your GP first to rule out any physical problem. By the way, if you're taking drugs or alcohol regularly, that can affect your mood - try to get off them. It seems clear that your problem is that for some reason your self-esteem is low and that's affecting everything else. Your mind is working in bleak circles. But remember your life can change in a moment. Don't give into despair. There's always hope. Circles can be broken. | |||
