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First meet - nerves of steel
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was shitting myself like a pigeon on a beach! It turned out great though, getting to know people first really makes the difference! And let's face it once the cumming starts your nerves disappear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was shitting myself like a pigeon on a beach! It turned out great though, getting to know people first really makes the difference! And let's face it once the cumming starts your nerves disappear "
So true. Once we’ve made the decision we like to get naked ASAP. Apart from anything else, it gives everybody something to do as well as feeling horny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first meet (old account) was a social in a costa, we arranged to meet the next day and we’ve been seeing each other since, nearly a year and a half.
I was terrified getting naked (deer in the headlights), but he was really relaxed, confident and reassuring. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
My first meet was just a social. We went on a mini hike at my local forest. BIG MISTAKE! It was hilly. He was a fast Walker, I’m fat. I spent most of the meet out of breath. He asked if he could kiss me, I said yes, but had to pull away as I couldn’t breathe.
That was 2016 and we still chat now. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
My first meet was a couple in a club, so first meet, threesome and club night all in one!
I was absolutely bricking it but nerves aren’t necessarily a bad thing. I had a great night and it’s a very fond memory |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"My first meet was just a social. We went on a mini hike at my local forest. BIG MISTAKE! It was hilly. He was a fast Walker, I’m fat. I spent most of the meet out of breath. He asked if he could kiss me, I said yes, but had to pull away as I couldn’t breathe.
That was 2016 and we still chat now. "
A great idea for first meet though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was shitting myself on the drive, then at the front door (knees almost shaking). Was so nervous!
He opened the door, grabbed me, pinned me to the wall by my throat, and had his cock in me within 90 seconds. We went on to have sex 7 times in the next 12-15 hours. Including outside and in the shower. So all in all, it went very well! Xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first coffee meet I had to drive 4 hours to meet her and she drove nearly 3 hours to meet me. We lived at opposite ends of the country. We had been chatting for weeks and had a great connection. There was a hole in my stomach and my brains turned into pancake batter.
The kiss was out of this world and we both commented that it was good we hadn't decided to meet at a hotel because I didnt have permission to do anything.
It just ratcheted up the tension even more and 3 months later the three of us had our hotel meet and it was mind blowing. One of the best nights of my life. |
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Social in a local pub. I forgot to send a face picture  but green swing dress gave me away. He wasn't sure I was real until he saw me.
Was I nervous? Absolutely.
Chatted about swinging, sneaky kiss at the end. Still very good friends, talk every day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was shitting myself on the drive, then at the front door (knees almost shaking). Was so nervous!
He opened the door, grabbed me, pinned me to the wall by my throat, and had his cock in me within 90 seconds. We went on to have sex 7 times in the next 12-15 hours. Including outside and in the shower. So all in all, it went very well! Xx "
Fuck that sounds soooo hot!  x |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
My first fab meet was a meet up fir a drink on a saturday night after a few days of back and forth texting. I felt no pressure or expectations. We had a wonderful social which then resulted in an invite back to hers and a sleep over.
Brilliant start i'd say  |
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1st meet was at her shop, we'd been chatting on here for a day or so, then to another platform . We decided to try a meet and if there was nothing there then fine..
Arrived and was let in the back ( as she had just closed up) ...some nervous chat for a few min before we moved closer to kiss...then ...right there on the shop floor ,..just out of view of the floor to ceiling windows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First was a social. I really was nervous. I remember driving to it thinking what the hell am I doing? But we got along fine.
Met him again and was very nervous and shake with it but he soon took my mind off the nerves and it was brilliant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first several meets were in a club, no nerves after the first half hour of being in the club tbh.
Second visit I did a swap with another couple (i was with someone) and havnt looked back since.
Had lots of house meets but in the end decided they were not for me, way too many catfishes on here for that lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was chatting to this woman. Was told to get to her just after 7.30 not before so said OK no worries. Got down to it within minutes of being in the house and told I had to be out the house within the hour. Turns out she was married and he was down the pub and was coming home an hour later to have his dinner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was shitting myself on the drive, then at the front door (knees almost shaking). Was so nervous!
He opened the door, grabbed me, pinned me to the wall by my throat, and had his cock in me within 90 seconds. We went on to have sex 7 times in the next 12-15 hours. Including outside and in the shower. So all in all, it went very well! Xx
Fuck that sounds soooo hot! x"
Was thinking the same!
My first ever meet the guy strode in confidently, had had tongue in my mouth and his fingers inside me without having said a word. Was hot af. Got up to all sorts of filth for the next few hours.
Met him again a few times afterwards. Incredibly sexy guy. Hello if you're reading this.  |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
"Was shitting myself on the drive, then at the front door (knees almost shaking). Was so nervous!
He opened the door, grabbed me, pinned me to the wall by my throat, and had his cock in me within 90 seconds. We went on to have sex 7 times in the next 12-15 hours. Including outside and in the shower. So all in all, it went very well! Xx "
Penance for fouling his drive I think. Wtf would have happened if you were preggers and your waters had of broke. The big guy in the sky only knows. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Was shitting myself on the drive, then at the front door (knees almost shaking). Was so nervous!
He opened the door, grabbed me, pinned me to the wall by my throat, and had his cock in me within 90 seconds. We went on to have sex 7 times in the next 12-15 hours. Including outside and in the shower. So all in all, it went very well! Xx
Now u put it that way it’s so sexy
Penance for fouling his drive I think. Wtf would have happened if you were preggers and your waters had of broke. The big guy in the sky only knows."
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
It was over pretty quickly, he then blocked me!!
A couple of years later, he comes back on and apologised to me and tried to meet again.
I said I forgave him, but no second chances,there was no need for it,knocked my confidence.
I didn't meet for ages after and always do a social now first too. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
My first meet wasn’t great, I have to say. I felt used.  fortunately, it’s been the only one.
So the one I want to think as my first meet is actually the second one- I think I could write a book about it. Social meet turning into a bit of naughty play. Amazing. We keep things platonic now as we are too close to home but the chemistry is electrifying... and he has been one of my best friends for almost 3 years now.  |
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1st meet was initially for a drink with a couple. We had a few drinks and they invited me back to theirs. Spent 2 hours or more having a great time. Mrs was stunning and still is. Just wish I went to Chesterfield more often. It was ace. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was shitting myself on the drive, then at the front door (knees almost shaking). Was so nervous!
He opened the door, grabbed me, pinned me to the wall by my throat, and had his cock in me within 90 seconds. We went on to have sex 7 times in the next 12-15 hours. Including outside and in the shower. So all in all, it went very well! Xx "
If it's not like this then I don't want it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fortunately I don’t get nervous on first meets, I’m quite go with the flow guy and just try to have a little laugh it always seems to work. My first meet I would say was good, no awkwardness and a right giggle and of course it was a very naughty time |
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