 |
By *bat OP Man
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
Got talking to a couple I met in a bar in a small Spanish village. I got the feeling I was getting discreet "swinger" messages from them.
Here's the question. How close to home is too close to home? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *bat OP Man
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
I get where you're coming from about the gossip.
I suppose my reluctance stems from my concern over how it would fit with village life if we fell out.
On the over hand, I'd love to help him satisfy her!!!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I get where you're coming from about the gossip.
I suppose my reluctance stems from my concern over how it would fit with village life if we fell out.
On the over hand, I'd love to help him satisfy her!!!!"
Living for part of the year in Rural France I would recommend that you suggest to them going to a weekend away - separate rooms ostensibly to see another area and see how it goes.
I would def not suggest swinging at home - bound to be tears before bedtime. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I wouldn't want to incase I die and my family are Holding a wake in the house neighbours are present.
One of my family casually ask
"How do you know (blank)?"
Reply
"Oh we are swinger's and we have fucked a few times and we are next-door neighbours"
Awkward! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Got talking to a couple I met in a bar in a small Spanish village. I got the feeling I was getting discreet "swinger" messages from them.
Here's the question. How close to home is too close to home?"
We live in a small rural area. Everyone knows everyone else.
We played with a neighbour. It was a great night but it was also uncomfortable. We trusted her and she never broke that trust.
But one day during a family event my brother in law shared news about a website for people who cheat on their partners and have orgies. AND they were in our area AND they even had a thing where you could drive around and see who was close to you. Him and his mates where looking to see who was around our area.
As he was telling us this I deleted our profile pics and I changed our location
I only tell you this to explain there are positives and negatives to playing in small communities. We could have been outted by our verification to a perfectly trustworthy play partner.
Be careful |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
