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over a year ago
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Productivity has helped me, plenty online courses to look into, if your a PT there are many specialist areas to research, even social media influence techniques.. plenty to be looking at to keep the mind busy  |
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over a year ago
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"No I'm not in contact with family they live abroad and I got a couple mates but it's not like that I guess I just mix the comfort of having someone close  "
I hear you. It’s really tough at the moment.
Hang in there. |
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over a year ago
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I understand. as a PT you are probably used to a lot of physical touch. its a human need. hard to love without. well done on keeping going so far. try a bolster pillow along along you in the bed, or a teddy or pet also people say weighted blankets are good for that sensation of contact. |
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"I understand. as a PT you are probably used to a lot of physical touch. its a human need. hard to love without. well done on keeping going so far. try a bolster pillow along along you in the bed, or a teddy or pet also people say weighted blankets are good for that sensation of contact. "
Yeah was thinking about getting a kitten just for something to be around lol |
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"I understand. as a PT you are probably used to a lot of physical touch. its a human need. hard to love without. well done on keeping going so far. try a bolster pillow along along you in the bed, or a teddy or pet also people say weighted blankets are good for that sensation of contact.
Yeah was thinking about getting a kitten just for something to be around lol "
Only get a pet if you know you can meet its needs for the whole of its life, which for a cat can be 20yrs plus. Too many lockdown pets are being handed to rescue places and they are overwhelmed. |
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"I understand. as a PT you are probably used to a lot of physical touch. its a human need. hard to love without. well done on keeping going so far. try a bolster pillow along along you in the bed, or a teddy or pet also people say weighted blankets are good for that sensation of contact.
Yeah was thinking about getting a kitten just for something to be around lol "
Please don't get a pet for that reason. |
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"Yeah nah on second thoughts you guys are totally right "
You could always foster a pet, rescues always need foster homes! All the fun and no long term commitment. Cats are great company. It can be very rewarding. |
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"I understand. as a PT you are probably used to a lot of physical touch. its a human need. hard to love without. well done on keeping going so far. try a bolster pillow along along you in the bed, or a teddy or pet also people say weighted blankets are good for that sensation of contact.
Yeah was thinking about getting a kitten just for something to be around lol
Only get a pet if you know you can meet its needs for the whole of its life, which for a cat can be 20yrs plus. Too many lockdown pets are being handed to rescue places and they are overwhelmed. "
This is the reason I've not got one. I've sobbed at times so overwhelmed by the feeling of wanting another fur baby, knowing that I could offer it a loving home. Yeah, that's all well and good until I go back to work which wouldn't be fair on any animal and wouldn't be fair on myself by restricting my earning capacity by refusing extra hours coz I need to get home for the dog/cat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have found this second lockdown much tougher than the first and had periods of feeling alone
After all my clothes had been sorted in to type/style/colour.
I bought plain shoe boxes because the mismatched ones I had got on my tits, then photographed the shoes in each box and stuck the picture on the front of each box. I soon realised why I was single !!
Can I suggest if PT is the job you absolutely love, use this time to really think how you can develop that.
Lots of businesses are considering home working as the new normal after Covid, can you see how you could work with companies to provide PT services to their homeworkers ? Group sessions on line would keep people connected to their co workers as well as help with posture.
What else could you add? things like mental well-being is such a critical issue, diet advice ?
Just a thought to keep you occupied and help get your business to grow in what will be a very different working environment
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over a year ago
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At times during lockdowns I've found spending time outside helpful , potting in the garden, just doing odd jobs.
Going for a walk/ run the fresh air is just cathartic.
Im also a creative person so have been occupying myself that way too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have found this second lockdown much tougher than the first and had periods of feeling alone
After all my clothes had been sorted in to type/style/colour.
I bought plain shoe boxes because the mismatched ones I had got on my tits, then photographed the shoes in each box and stuck the picture on the front of each box. I soon realised why I was single !!
Can I suggest if PT is the job you absolutely love, use this time to really think how you can develop that.
Lots of businesses are considering home working as the new normal after Covid, can you see how you could work with companies to provide PT services to their homeworkers ? Group sessions on line would keep people connected to their co workers as well as help with posture.
What else could you add? things like mental well-being is such a critical issue, diet advice ?
Just a thought to keep you occupied and help get your business to grow in what will be a very different working environment
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That is really good advice
Providing PT services to homeworkers. |
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over a year ago
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The only emotional link i have to the uk is my parents who are both in their 60's. What this pandemic highlighted to me is that i need to get back to college and look to build a new career for myself and build a new life for myself. That initself will be exciting and fun. So i'd be able to go anywhere i want. This pandemic has been like a rollercoaster ups and down's, it should be treated like a marathon, concentrate on reaching the finishing line. |
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over a year ago
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Been dealing with loneliness for years. The only thing I can suggest is keeping busy in some way shape or form and look after your health as far as possible. |
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"The only emotional link i have to the uk is my parents who are both in their 60's. What this pandemic highlighted to me is that i need to get back to college and look to build a new career for myself and build a new life for myself. That initself will be exciting and fun. So i'd be able to go anywhere i want. This pandemic has been like a rollercoaster ups and down's, it should be treated like a marathon, concentrate on reaching the finishing line. "
I think that is a great attitude, the pandemic has damaged so many lives in so many ways.
However it will create opportunities as well, I’m not talking about profiting on the backs of others misfortunes. Home working is going to be a significant shift in the way many people work.
Whist it’s been a necessity for many it has been done with makeshift solutions. If an employer insists on homeworking then there is a legal obligation to ensure the environment is appropriate, desks chairs etc.
So a whole industry can be supported to create efficient office spaces in homes, or I have seen small prefrabicated office “sheds” that can be cranes into gardens. All these will need power, WIFI etc.
As per my earlier post employers would see health and well-being given to their staff as a benefit and also a recruitment tool.
So I apologise to the OP this won’t stop the loneliness but it could give you a real positive outlook for the future
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Yeah I hate being single, and not good at making friends even worse due to pubs being shut. and no hope for singletons when they open as you have to book tables and not able to prop up the bar and chat to random people which I really miss. My new skill to keep my mind off the negative is leather making. I think a lot of single people are in the same boat at the moment. I guess enjoy the little things and keep in contact with people you can  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Loneliness is a very individual issue and where it is perceived to be a problem the potential solutions differ for each person.
Generally, the best solution is to keep as busy as possible in activities that you really enjoy.
This last 18 months have been very difficult for everyone, with the lockdown restrictions.
I lost my only employment last year due to a work-induced injury; my employers sacked me because I was unable to return and wete not prepared to until I had rehabilitated this injury.
I have designed my life to have 'multiple strings to my bow', but this does not generally involve contact with anyone, although I am active online.
Thankfully, although I was raised in an abusive and dysfunctional family culture I have never had to deal with any mental health issues, such as clinical depression.
Daily exercise is a proven method of raising one's mood, by stimulating natural hormonal processes such as endorphin release; the high enjoyed by runners.
If depression is leading to extreme lethargy or suicidal ideation, a visit to the GP is advised.
So, get out and get active.
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I find it a state of mind to a large extent. I’m not one who is frightened by my own company, but even for me this is getting a bit much, especially through the week sitting at home working on my own. Best thing I do is make sure I go out for a walk and also go into town and get a coffee and sit on a bench. I find that just being in the vicinity of other people helps.
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It's difficult at the moment but it does look as if the restrictions are slowly being lifted.
I don't have any great suggestions other than to say you can usually find someone to chat to on the forums. Also feel free to message me x |
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"Whats some good idea to keep this horrible feeling at bay?"
Hey, it's a tough time for a lot of us at the moment so you aren't alone.. Most go to PT or some sort of exercise. Which for you will be like busmans holiday!
You could try learning something.. An instrument perhaps.. I'm learning guitar in lockdown just to keep my brain working.. But anything really.. Draw, paint, write etc
If it gets too much make sure yiu reach out to those who are near you.. Best of luck OP.. This will all be over one day soon hopefully |
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