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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?! |
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Mine is Impatience with others, when I can clearly see a conclusion but they need to work it out on their own, I have to stop steam rollering my opinion on them and give them space to grow as I am only depowering them |
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"Mine is Impatience with others, when I can clearly see a conclusion but they need to work it out on their own, I have to stop steam rollering my opinion on them and give them space to grow as I am only depowering them"
I get that totally, I'm like that too sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have many toxic traits or defects of character......if I was to put on at the top. It would be arrogance thinking im better than then displaying thst in words and actions...
All though I've done the work on myself that I'm highly aware of myself and recognise when I'm in this, and what's going on fir me to resort to this trait...
Generally being because I feel inferior, insecure or that you remind me of somebody, so I feel I can't trust hence fir it to be used as a defence mechanism to keep ppl away |
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"Mine is Impatience with others, when I can clearly see a conclusion but they need to work it out on their own, I have to stop steam rollering my opinion on them and give them space to grow as I am only depowering them
I get that totally, I'm like that too sometimes "
Me also, although I wouldn't regard it as 'toxic'. Just a difference in temperament you need to take account of in certain situations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find people and situations predictable so I'm usually bored before things have been said or happened.
The air of boredom makes me toxic and a handful to be around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doubt myself way to much.
Like I won't go for that job I want as I will convince myself I won't be any good at it.
Or leave my husband as I'm scared I won't be ok on my own."
This one made me sad. Don’t doubt your potential for happiness. |
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Mine is probably having no toxic traits. I’d love the opportunity to grow as a person but it’s really hard to overcome shortcomings when you’re perfect with no known flaws
Everyone else is so lucky to have room for improvement. |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
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"Doubt myself way to much.
Like I won't go for that job I want as I will convince myself I won't be any good at it.
Or leave my husband as I'm scared I won't be ok on my own.
This one made me sad. Don’t doubt your potential for happiness."
Thanks. I'm working on both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Overthinking every single thing "
I’m with you on that ... toyed with the idea of calling us Kinky & Overthinky when we rejoined ... but I overthought what would people make of it lol
... and I annoy myself saying sorry - like if someone bumps into me but it’s their fault I’ve said oh sorry before I even think about it |
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"Overthinking every single thing
I’m with you on that ... toyed with the idea of calling us Kinky & Overthinky when we rejoined ... but I overthought what would people make of it lol
... and I annoy myself saying sorry - like if someone bumps into me but it’s their fault I’ve said oh sorry before I even think about it "
Aw, that's quite sweet |
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When I go on holiday with a lady the first thing I do is pull the bed away from the wall and tuck the bedsheets in so they are not touching the floor... It's in case insects or cockroaches crawl up in the night. When the ladies work it out I just say they are being ridiculous.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am just blunt at times in conversations but In a level calculated logical driven way. I don’t see it toxic as such but it can make people feel I am harsh at times with how I speak , emotionally driven people struggle with me at first until they grasp it’s just how my thought process works and I am not being rude per se .
My brain works so fast and mathematically with every aspect of life it can really put some people off guard , equally I find it odd when people are emotionally driven rather than by pure logical process.
Looking away while talking sometimes annoys people when I do that this
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!"
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill. "
Cod loves a fryer |
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer "
Sole destroying comedy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy"
The stuff of Breams. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams. "
Not the time or the plaice |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice"
Dear Cod, I thought better of you all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice"
I'm dory |
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory"
You two still carping on? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory"
Too many puns in a roe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe"
You haddock nuff? |
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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe"
This is like open pike night |
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff? "
Pair of pollocks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff? "
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ? "
Ide thought of another. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another."
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back "
True. Wouldn't want to knock you off your perch. |
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back "
Just finish then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
True. Wouldn't want to knock you off your perch. "
If you can think of anymore, let minnow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then"
Eel do another - just you watch. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch. "
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now |
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now "
You’re making him ^ crabby |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now
You’re making him ^ crabby"
He's the shellfish sort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking my mind when people piss me off. I use to soak it up but as i got older my tolerence for arrogant and full of them people is now low. Braggers, bigheads and disrespectful people are the toxic ones i cannot put up with anymore. |
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"Mine is Impatience with others, when I can clearly see a conclusion but they need to work it out on their own, I have to stop steam rollering my opinion on them and give them space to grow as I am only depowering them"
This resonates. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now
You’re making him ^ crabby
He's the shellfish sort. "
It makes me crabby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now
You’re making him ^ crabby
He's the shellfish sort.
It makes me crabby "
BUZZ! Repetition. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now
You’re making him ^ crabby
He's the shellfish sort.
It makes me crabby
BUZZ! Repetition. "
I must have clammed up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now
You’re making him ^ crabby
He's the shellfish sort.
It makes me crabby
BUZZ! Repetition.
I must have clammed up "
Saury to hear that. |
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Not standing up for myself. Not in fights, but getting my point across.
Dwelling too much and berating myself on my mistakes that I made in my past, I find it hard to just accept it and move on.
Only concentrating on my negatives, never my positives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now
You’re making him ^ crabby
He's the shellfish sort.
It makes me crabby
BUZZ! Repetition.
I must have clammed up
Saury to hear that. "
This is why I love the forums. |
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now
You’re making him ^ crabby
He's the shellfish sort.
It makes me crabby
BUZZ! Repetition.
I must have clammed up
Saury to hear that.
This is why I love the forums."
Fora... Not Forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now
You’re making him ^ crabby
He's the shellfish sort.
It makes me crabby
BUZZ! Repetition.
I must have clammed up
Saury to hear that.
This is why I love the forums.
Fora... Not Forums "
I am sorry Tom!
I'll say fora from now on as it makes me feel all posh and proper. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Carrying on from the self awareness threads, what is your worse toxic trait. Mine is whenever anyone mentions fish I have to shoe horn fish related puns into the conversation just for the halibut ?!
Where are all the fish puns? They're Brill.
Cod loves a fryer
Sole destroying comedy
The stuff of Breams.
Not the time or the plaice
I'm dory
Too many puns in a roe
You haddock nuff?
Not yet, you took your time, are you floundering ?
Ide thought of another.
I thought of posting more, but think we need to scale back
Just finish then
Eel do another - just you watch.
He dolphinitely has to be out of fish puns now
You’re making him ^ crabby
He's the shellfish sort.
It makes me crabby
BUZZ! Repetition.
I must have clammed up
Saury to hear that.
This is why I love the forums.
Fora... Not Forums
I am sorry Tom!
I'll say fora from now on as it makes me feel all posh and proper. "
Forums xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely 100% agree with what the attachment quiz summarised about me. Its actually a bit painfully accurate to be honest eeek
I got fearful avoident. All my toxic traits come within that really. I used to think I was a nice person before doing that quiz |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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In the past, I have been reluctant to confront people who simply wanted to exploit me; I now find that I have to potray a veneer of 'toxicity' in order to protect myself.
This runs counter to my generous, pro-social inner core, that I now have to suppress within this ruthless, nasty, acquisitive, and self-interested society that misinterprets decency and kindness as a weakness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am easily bored
I have a short fuse when I see gaslighting or manipulation, I spot the signs and it winds me up alot
I need allllll the attention otherwise I will die.
Maybe over confident too for some people. They say confidence is attractive but I have found some men can get intimidated by this |
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I doubt myself and care way too much about what people think. I know that if I just went for it and not worrying of people's opinions I would be a lot more courageous and potentially more 'successful'
I know the solution for this is 'just don't worry about other people' but I feel it's easier said than done sometimes |
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I don't deal well with stupidity and try to stop people from doing stupid things but my worst one I think is the levels I will go to to rail against narcissist as ive been almost destroyed by one in my past. |
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