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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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....but there are plus sides.
I'm currently laying in the dark in bed singing at the top of my voice.
What slightly mental reason do you have for enjoying living on your tod? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sleeping partner is way out off wack don’t think anyone would put up with it
For instance went to bed at 5pm this afternoon up at 12 ish and that probably be me up till about 5-6ish to night |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"My sleeping partner is way out off wack don’t think anyone would put up with it
For instance went to bed at 5pm this afternoon up at 12 ish and that probably be me up till about 5-6ish to night "
Hmmmm..... you're as bad as me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My sleeping partner is way out off wack don’t think anyone would put up with it
For instance went to bed at 5pm this afternoon up at 12 ish and that probably be me up till about 5-6ish to night
Hmmmm..... you're as bad as me!"
Yes would seem that way I am terrible for it but I have gotten use to it over the years |
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By *azza12Man
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"....but there are plus sides.
I'm currently laying in the dark in bed singing at the top of my voice.
What slightly mental reason do you have for enjoying living on your tod?"
I get the bed to myself and able to snore in peace lol |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"My sleeping partner is way out off wack don’t think anyone would put up with it
For instance went to bed at 5pm this afternoon up at 12 ish and that probably be me up till about 5-6ish to night
Hmmmm..... you're as bad as me!
Yes would seem that way I am terrible for it but I have gotten use to it over the years "
We are creatures of habit it seems |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"....but there are plus sides.
I'm currently laying in the dark in bed singing at the top of my voice.
What slightly mental reason do you have for enjoying living on your tod?I get the bed to myself and able to snore in peace lol"
Oh good times!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My sleeping partner is way out off wack don’t think anyone would put up with it
For instance went to bed at 5pm this afternoon up at 12 ish and that probably be me up till about 5-6ish to night
Hmmmm..... you're as bad as me!
Yes would seem that way I am terrible for it but I have gotten use to it over the years
We are creatures of habit it seems"
Yes it would seem so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love living alone 
I cant think of anything I don't like about it.
I was 44yrs old until I lived alone for the first time - I feel free for the first time in my life 
Everything is mine and on my terms - there is no better feeling! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I dont currently live alone, I have done for a long time before.
I do also have my own room in shared house so:
Naked time
Bed to myself
Peace and quiet (i often sit in silence for hours on my phone or reading)
Doesnt matter what you look like
Farting without offending someone elses nose
All the food in the house is yours  |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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"I prefer living alone but not so keen on being alone if that makes sense. "
That makes complete sense, I have been living alone for 44 years and still sometimes have doubts about whether I am doing the right thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer living alone but not so keen on being alone if that makes sense.
That makes complete sense, I have been living alone for 44 years and still sometimes have doubts about whether I am doing the right thing. "
Oh I've no doubts that it's the better choice for me,sometimes company would be welcome but not the full on live in type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live with two of my mates. They rent rooms from me... I have my own space and company in good balance. Although sometimes I wish I had the whole place to myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....but there are plus sides.
I'm currently laying in the dark in bed singing at the top of my voice.
What slightly mental reason do you have for enjoying living on your tod?"
Do you have neighbours?  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"....but there are plus sides.
I'm currently laying in the dark in bed singing at the top of my voice.
What slightly mental reason do you have for enjoying living on your tod?
Do you have neighbours? "
My mostly deaf parents are my only neighbours lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha. I had a dream of living on my own a couple of days ago. Trust me...I don’t deal with it well, and it showed.
A run down shack of a house without curtains in a run down part of town. I was sat in the middle of an Undecorated room playing with myself on a wooden dining chair... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It only me and the Kevin like teenager who sometimes emerges from his room grunting for food, so it's like living alone.
Share my bed with 4 cats who constantly play a game of musical chairs to gain prime positioning.
Good things are I only have to answer for myself , can play music as loud as I want and sing loud and proud and do all the tap dancing I want.
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Haha. I had a dream of living on my own a couple of days ago. Trust me...I don’t deal with it well, and it showed.
A run down shack of a house without curtains in a run down part of town. I was sat in the middle of an Undecorated room playing with myself on a wooden dining chair... "
That's my life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer living alone but not so keen on being alone if that makes sense.
That makes complete sense, I have been living alone for 44 years and still sometimes have doubts about whether I am doing the right thing.
Oh I've no doubts that it's the better choice for me,sometimes company would be welcome but not the full on live in type. "
Exactly this, Im at the stage where I cant ever see myself actually living with someone again, even a long term partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha. I had a dream of living on my own a couple of days ago. Trust me...I don’t deal with it well, and it showed.
A run down shack of a house without curtains in a run down part of town. I was sat in the middle of an Undecorated room playing with myself on a wooden dining chair...
That's my life!"
If we are happy it’s great the next week dependant on our mood it’s soul destroying. Then again being in a relationship is exactly the same. Grass is never greener |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It only me and the Kevin like teenager who sometimes emerges from his room grunting for food, so it's like living alone.
Share my bed with 4 cats who constantly play a game of musical chairs to gain prime positioning.
Good things are I only have to answer for myself , can play music as loud as I want and sing loud and proud and do all the tap dancing I want.
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This is my life
Except 2 teenagers
Add 1 dog
No tap dancing
I do love the music bit though, my choice of things to play, whenever I like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being on my own!!!
Especially when the house is emptied of kids it’s me n the dog and I can just be!!
I don’t think I want to share that space again!
So what I want when I want! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha. I had a dream of living on my own a couple of days ago. Trust me...I don’t deal with it well, and it showed.
A run down shack of a house without curtains in a run down part of town. I was sat in the middle of an Undecorated room playing with myself on a wooden dining chair...
That's my life!"
Living the dream eh, wait....Living my dream? Haha. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Haha. I had a dream of living on my own a couple of days ago. Trust me...I don’t deal with it well, and it showed.
A run down shack of a house without curtains in a run down part of town. I was sat in the middle of an Undecorated room playing with myself on a wooden dining chair...
That's my life!
Living the dream eh, wait....Living my dream? Haha. "
Seems like it.... weird! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....but there are plus sides.
I'm currently laying in the dark in bed singing at the top of my voice.
What slightly mental reason do you have for enjoying living on your tod?
Do you have neighbours?
My mostly deaf parents are my only neighbours lol"
Phew!  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"....but there are plus sides.
I'm currently laying in the dark in bed singing at the top of my voice.
What slightly mental reason do you have for enjoying living on your tod?
Do you have neighbours?
My mostly deaf parents are my only neighbours lol
Phew! "
And they spawned me. Even if they could hear me they'd have to put up with it! |
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"....but there are plus sides.
I'm currently laying in the dark in bed singing at the top of my voice.
What slightly mental reason do you have for enjoying living on your tod?"
If I was you I’d be thinking living alone is great. I’d play with those lovely boobs in the living room and the kitchen and cupboard under the sink.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....but there are plus sides.
I'm currently laying in the dark in bed singing at the top of my voice.
What slightly mental reason do you have for enjoying living on your tod?"
This is what I love I can sing so loud without being told off or told to shut up lol xxxxxx |
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In non-plague times it's great to be able to do completely random shit without having to explain it to anyone.
If I decide after work one night to take a 2 hour round trip to visit a coffee shop I quite like, I don't need to tell anyone about it, that I won't be home for dinner.
If I get home from work feeling socialled-out then I can sit in complete silence looking at the sea all night with nobody constantly disturbing me with noise.
There's nobody there to judge how I spend my time.
I don't have to compromise, I don't have to explain myself, I don't have to justify anything. Under normal circumstances it's pretty much perfect. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"In non-plague times it's great to be able to do completely random shit without having to explain it to anyone.
If I decide after work one night to take a 2 hour round trip to visit a coffee shop I quite like, I don't need to tell anyone about it, that I won't be home for dinner.
If I get home from work feeling socialled-out then I can sit in complete silence looking at the sea all night with nobody constantly disturbing me with noise.
There's nobody there to judge how I spend my time.
I don't have to compromise, I don't have to explain myself, I don't have to justify anything. Under normal circumstances it's pretty much perfect."
In normal times I love it for all those reasons.
It's these "new normal" times. It's so hard to have no freedom of choice! |
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"In non-plague times it's great to be able to do completely random shit without having to explain it to anyone.
If I decide after work one night to take a 2 hour round trip to visit a coffee shop I quite like, I don't need to tell anyone about it, that I won't be home for dinner.
If I get home from work feeling socialled-out then I can sit in complete silence looking at the sea all night with nobody constantly disturbing me with noise.
There's nobody there to judge how I spend my time.
I don't have to compromise, I don't have to explain myself, I don't have to justify anything. Under normal circumstances it's pretty much perfect.
In normal times I love it for all those reasons.
It's these "new normal" times. It's so hard to have no freedom of choice!"
It is! It's also tough working from home, as seeing nobody for days at a time can feel incredibly lonely. |
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Living alone does definitely suck at times but there are definite positives.
I can work late until my hearts content and not worry about going home to an unhappy girlfriend or wife. That's a huge bonus
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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Living alone does definitely suck at times but there are definite positives.
I can work late until my hearts content and not worry about going home to an unhappy girlfriend or wife. That's a huge bonus
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There's more to life than work though. |
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