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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you accept them graceful on here (even from people you know) or just think "what a load of bull" ??"
All depends hiw im feeling about myself,
If I feel shit n view myself as worthless etc, then there hard to accept n find compliments really cringe...
If I'm good then I can accept them...I never think there a load of bull tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you accept them graceful on here (even from people you know) or just think "what a load of bull" ??"
I think it bull but don’t get many but I am very genuine when I give them x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not sure. On the forum I'd politely acknowledge it depending on who from. In private messages, some are clearly untrue and designed to make my knickers slick. The ones I perceive to be genuine and/or from those I care about and/or on certain things, I'll accept gratefully and gracefully.
It's lovely to hear positive things about yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always compliment people who I feel deserve it, foot in the door or not as some may say, I just try to be myself and pass compliments on as I see fit, I don't expect anything or anything to come of it, just being truthful to all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people have taken the time to complement me i am greatful , its jolly kind of them to do so  
To be fair you do deserve the compliments x"
you are to kind ans thank you .
Ypu know i think you're rather spiffing too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I give them when I feel I want to, if others need a little reassurance or explanation of context I’ll try to give it. I recognise some people are wary or feel like it’s an indirect way to get something.
For instance, if someone is hundreds of miles away but I feel like I liked a picture I’d try to explain that it’s extremely likely we won’t meet so please just accept me wanting to share the love, so to speak. Same goes for a forum post, if I privately messaged someone off the back of a particular thread, I’d stick to that, not use it as a platform to get into someone’s private space.
I receive and accept them with manners and gratitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I find them hard to accept deep down, but I always say thank you if I've opened the message and it's a compliment. It's all to do with how's confident I'm feeling in myself, I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the compliment
If it’s a your beautiful or stunning or something along those lines just by it’s self I take it for what it is
If they tell me I the most beautiful person on hear or such I will just chuckle and desmis it as there’s a lot more beautifuler than me
Or if they even dire say I have a better ass than they girlfriend or wife or what ever I will also turn my nose up to it |
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By *opilotMan
over a year ago
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"If someone has taken the time to compliment me I will always say thanks, it’s kind of them to do so and brings a smile which can never be a bad thing  "
Same for me, its not often a guy receives a compliment, so I would assume it is genuine, otherwise why would they bother to send one. I can understand why women would be wary though, as Meli said it could be just to make their knickers slick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends who it’s from, you can’t always trust peoples motives on here.
I guess most of us have had the message that says they are sending a compliment with no agenda, but when you reply thanking them, the agenda appears!
In the forum I tend to accept them, as I think people probably know me a bit. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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Even from friends I tend to gloss over and change the subject. Not sure why, guess I just like to turn the attention away from myself.
So yeah, usually a thank you and change the conversation |
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