Just be careful who you think is verified as genuine on here. Ive been chatting to someone who was photo verified only to find out later they had replaced their photo verified picture with 4 other pics stolen from a Facebook account. Obviously photo verified is not a guarantee you are chatting to the person in the picture. Beware!! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"So you only meet someone who is verified, how do you get verified if you only meet verified ?"
I've met unverified men. I chat on the phone or they send a photo.
I've met verified men who were 20 years older than their photos and profile suggested.
Nothing is certain on here. |
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"So you only meet someone who is verified, how do you get verified if you only meet verified ?
I've met unverified men. I chat on the phone or they send a photo.
I've met verified men who were 20 years older than their photos and profile suggested.
Nothing is certain on here."
 
I really don't understand why anyone would assume a verification proves anything.
There's a real person behind every profile, no bots. I'm an adult and don't need babysitting. Especially not on a sex site.  |
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"Maybe they should make it so have to display at least one veri photo. Doesn't have to show face as can tell by body shape or tattoos etc"
What would that prove?
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Indeed, it can be easy to assume everyone is genuine regardless of verification status, but sadly thats not the case.
It sucks when it happens, no one wants or likes being cat fished. Just remember it speaks more of their character, that they are deceitful scumbags, than your own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you only meet someone who is verified, how do you get verified if you only meet verified ? they verify you after you've met them."
I know, being verified doesn’t change anything in fact I’ve had the opposite where some one said I am not seeing you because you have been with them was on my last account |
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"So you only meet someone who is verified, how do you get verified if you only meet verified ?
I've met unverified men. I chat on the phone or they send a photo.
I've met verified men who were 20 years older than their photos and profile suggested.
Nothing is certain on here.
I really don't understand why anyone would assume a verification proves anything.
There's a real person behind every profile, no bots. I'm an adult and don't need babysitting. Especially not on a sex site. "
I was beginning to think I was the only one with common sense on here.
Why do people relinquish responsibility for their own wellbeing to others?!!  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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While verifications (of any kind) *can* be an "indication" (and nothing more) that someone is who they say they are - they're not an absolute guarantee either.
It's down to common sense, gut instinct and spending time getting to know someone before diving into anything that all add up to build a level of trust that the person is who they say they are and even then that may not be an accurate picture in some cases. |
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It's sad when people create fake profiles but trust your gut and always try to search for the photos online and request a personal video or photo if things are progressing well.
I wouldn't ever give my verification photo to anyone on here who asked. It has my face and me holding a piece of paper with my username on. I'd have to have major trust in someone before I sent that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s quite sad the lengths people go to pretend to be real... I always think surely it’s easier just to be real...
I generally try and get to know someone before taking things further gut instinct and can generally tell they are real or fake  |
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"Maybe they should make it so have to display at least one veri photo. Doesn't have to show face as can tell by body shape or tattoos etc
What would that prove?
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Well if the veri photo matches the other photos they upload over time then it would prove they're who they say they're. You could even get them to right your username on paper and hold it |
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"I prefer to make my own decisions when it comes to meeting people. What one total stranger has to say about another total stranger is pointless and useless to me.
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this is true. After all, one lady on my verifications said that I’m slightly better than a wank and I can assure you than I’m ever so much better |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe they should make it so have to display at least one veri photo. Doesn't have to show face as can tell by body shape or tattoos etc"
My body changes year to year. And there's no way I'm putting up a naked one. |
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"Maybe they should make it so have to display at least one veri photo. Doesn't have to show face as can tell by body shape or tattoos etc
My body changes year to year. And there's no way I'm putting up a naked one."
There's always the half face option, top or bottom |
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"I prefer to make my own decisions when it comes to meeting people. What one total stranger has to say about another total stranger is pointless and useless to me.
this is true. After all, one lady on my verifications said that I’m slightly better than a wank and I can assure you than I’m ever so much better "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's sad when people create fake profiles but trust your gut and always try to search for the photos online and request a personal video or photo if things are progressing well.
I wouldn't ever give my verification photo to anyone on here who asked. It has my face and me holding a piece of paper with my username on. I'd have to have major trust in someone before I sent that. "
Who knows where the pic would end up! |
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