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Things that people do that annoy the hell out of you...
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Okay so I’m driving home from work today listening to the radio and a chap is selected to enter a competition, he is asked where he is from by the DJ, he answered Hull then told the DJ how he must say Hull how Hull people say it. I’ve nothing against Hull people but that guy just annoyed me so much.
Also I sat on a bench in town today and a random woman sat on the end with no mask on....real annoying.
So what annoys you about people?
I really need to get out more and before you say it ‘lockdown’ is getting to me a bit.
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
london |
Lending money to someone then having to ask for it back because they are forward about doing so themselves |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
london |
"Lending money to someone then having to ask for it back because they are forward about doing so themselves"
*Aren't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talking....Like shut the fuck up, I don't give a shit about your neighbours daughters mothers sisters cousins haemorrhoids
Or how your cat went missing for a week and was found in a shed like 50 mile away
Shush |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
People who smoke outside in towns when people are around them, erm nope I don’t want to breathe in your smoke...! Put it out. |
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For me it’s breathing noisily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chewing with your mouth open, feet on the car of the dash really bugs me for some reason |
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When you borrow someone book/cd/dvd and they dont give it back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally everything"
People person eh?  |
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By *pYaMan
over a year ago
whereever you are… |
There are many...
- People that stink of
- people that use the block button instead of delete or say not interested
- Noisy Eaters
That will do for starters... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you borrow someone book/cd/dvd and they dont give it back."
When people say lend instead of borrow as in "can I lend your car" to which I usually reply "depends who you're lending it to"
This is the first time I've seen the words mixed the other way 
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By *pYaMan
over a year ago
whereever you are… |
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By *pYaMan
over a year ago
whereever you are… |
"There are many...
- People that stink of
- people that use the block button instead of delete or say not interested
- Noisy Eaters
That will do for starters..."
for some reason fab block the word w.e.e.d |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who smoke outside in towns when people are around them, erm nope I don’t want to breathe in your smoke...! Put it out. "
This, totally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tiktok'ers... seriously get a life.
Those that spend their life on facebook,
'did you see what he/she said on Facebook' bla bla bla...
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
Recently? Stand too near me!
Seriously move the F away - I didn't stop two metres away for you to close the distance! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who think shouting at parties and Pubs means their having a better time than anyone else. |
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By *pYaMan
over a year ago
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"Recently? Stand too near me!
Seriously move the F away - I didn't stop two metres away for you to close the distance! "
this and when you are talking to someone, and they keep getting closer and closer and each time you step away and open the gap and they still get closer! |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Men on Fab who don’t reply to messages! Now then that’s a new annoyance lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not that easily annoyed really |
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By *pYaMan
over a year ago
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"Men on Fab who don’t reply to messages! Now then that’s a new annoyance lol. "
is this even a thing?
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DJs that go that was freedue mercury and queen or Debbie Harry and blondie,also Zoey ball annoys me every time she goes on about a programme by saying did u see on the telebox the .... FFS it's a TV u silly woman also Amanda Holden's constant self marketing of herself is annoying |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
People spitting when they talk....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men on Fab who don’t reply to messages! Now then that’s a new annoyance lol. is this even a thing?"
My inbox shows 5 unread  |
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By *pYaMan
over a year ago
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"Men on Fab who don’t reply to messages! Now then that’s a new annoyance lol. is this even a thing?
My inbox shows 5 unread "
I reply to all messages and my sent shows lots of unread! |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Men on Fab who don’t reply to messages! Now then that’s a new annoyance lol. is this even a thing?
My inbox shows 5 unread I reply to all messages and my sent shows lots of unread! "
So do I...... |
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Tardiness ... I'm OCD about timekeeping , mine and theirs ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men on Fab who don’t reply to messages! Now then that’s a new annoyance lol. is this even a thing?
My inbox shows 5 unread I reply to all messages and my sent shows lots of unread!
So do I......"
I usually do. 3 of them are local to me pestering to meet when ive already said no.
2 are blokes... that have attachments, i dont particularly want to see a penis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Noisy eaters sitting near me, (sorry men...but when you wee on the toilet seat or leave the seat up )
And in the context of fab, fake profiles |
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Dithering....
Just make a poxy decision  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that stand closer than 2 metres.... Its a bit like those drivers that make your safe distance unsafe.
Only a fool breaks the 2 metre/second rule. |
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By *pYaMan
over a year ago
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"Dithering....
Just make a poxy decision "
Oh don’t start me on that one... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men on Fab who don’t reply to messages! Now then that’s a new annoyance lol. "
OMG lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Traffic...... I’ve worked all the way through lockdown and could make it to work and hone in about 10-15 minutes ..... since the schools have gone back and peeps are going back to work in took me 45 mins to get home..... I know I shouldn’t moan as it’s brilliant peeps are getting out again .... but can they not drive my way xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who leave their rubbish in parks/ on the beach.
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When they wake me in the morning and tell me it’s time to get up !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Preach things they don't practice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crack their joints. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Men who pee and it sounds like a waterfall....absolutely hideous it is......I can hear men in the toilets at work if I’m passing on the corridor! Stick some loo roll in the pan! Yuk! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who leave their rubbish in parks/ on the beach.
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It drives me insane. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Men on Fab who don’t reply to messages! Now then that’s a new annoyance lol. is this even a thing?
My inbox shows 5 unread I reply to all messages and my sent shows lots of unread!
So do I......
I usually do. 3 of them are local to me pestering to meet when ive already said no.
2 are blokes... that have attachments, i dont particularly want to see a penis. "
Block button is your friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Noisy eating. I have misophonia and eating noises make me feel stabby  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talking....Like shut the fuck up, I don't give a shit about your neighbours daughters mothers sisters cousins haemorrhoids
Or how your cat went missing for a week and was found in a shed like 50 mile away
Shush "
Yep some people just don't know when to shut up!
Incessant talking about nothing must be a sign of mental illness - surely they must give themselves a headache 
People that tap and drum everything or hum, whistle etc ..
SHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
Stay still and shut up!
This is why I don't like children - they never shut the fuck up  |
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Hate women who stand at the supermarket till chating for ages holding up the que,noisy eaters ,people that swear alot especially ladys it sounds so cheap, poor hygiene.people who vape loads of smoke and you have to walk through the cloud ,parents that dont control there kids while out .. |
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By *oss25Man
over a year ago
Flitwick and Fakenham |
People driving down the middle lane of motorways at 65.......I want to kill them all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In real life, too many things to name. On here, people who try to derail threads just because they don't like the subject being discussed annoy me greatly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who moan about what everyone else does with their lives.
We are all different and to someone, you will be the most annoying person in the world.
Dont sweat the small stuff  |
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"People driving down the middle lane of motorways at 65.......I want to kill them all!"
why don’t you just overtake them ?
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Not keeping dogs on leads in public.
I don't care how friendly, soft, harmless the dog is, I don't want it jumping at me! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Very little annoys me. Negative people maybe , but I tend not to know them for long !
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Smokers who think the world is their litter bin. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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Not annoying as such but confuses the whatsit out of me ... when you drive into a car park and the person behind you is on your bumper. Why do they do that? It’s a car park so I’m going to be parking my car, I will be driving slowly and stopping. I always reverse park but they do make it hard for you when they are so close. I just don’t understand it. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
People who think I don’t have a life away from Fab....I do. |
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Where do I start!?
People who are rude to retail workers/wait staff/nhs staff etc grow the f*ck up!
People who walk down the street and instead of moving aside, decide to stop suddenly in middle of the path
People who play music via loudspeaker when walking around by themselves, get some f*cking headphones!
Slow walkers (I don't get road rage, I get pavement rage)
Groups of people who occupy an entire pathway and dont move aside for the 5 seconds needed for me to walk past without getting hit by a bus!
Ignorant people
People
People who feel they MUST remind me how tall I am (I'm 6ft10), yes I know, I have owned a ceiling fan...I KNOW
Entitled people
Its been mentioned before but people who eat with their mouth open
I could go on but I don't want to bore anyone  |
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People at the supermarket who stand in front of the 1 damn thing you need staring at things, picking them and putting them back for like 5 minutes. Seriously, how little spacial awareness do you have? |
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"People who moan about what everyone else does with their lives.
We are all different and to someone, you will be the most annoying person in the world.
Dont sweat the small stuff "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sitting in the middle lane on motorway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not much really. I'm chill. |
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"Lending money to someone then having to ask for it back because they are forward about doing so themselves"
tend to call them thieves rather than debtors after a certain time... |
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people who drive using mobile phones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chewing with mouth open, people you don’t know who get too personal , people who need to feel me when talking to me... give me space!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m totally zen, nothing bothers me. Except them giant eyelashes on car headlights. |
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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago
Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel |
People who show off. It is just not necessary and can be annoying. |
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honestly, there is not the server space for my list but recently added are various mask annoyances including not covering your nose and pulling it down to talk or weirdly to listen. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
Currently some people just have to be near me to grind my gears and that's before they open their mouths and spout what ever crap that's come into their head.
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"honestly, there is not the server space for my list but recently added are various mask annoyances including not covering your nose and pulling it down to talk or weirdly to listen. "
Sums up Hastings quite well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who get around in life but just look exceedingly annoying doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Snoring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who get pleasure out of deliberately annoying others.
Constant creators of drama who feign innocence. Just  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With sone breathing is enough lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that stand closer than 2 metres.... Its a bit like those drivers that make your safe distance unsafe.
Only a fool breaks the 2 metre/second rule. "
off topic but i love that picture with all the black and white |
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People who slop when they eat, and eat chewing gum with their mouths open so we get the full on sound effects!!! Eew it grosses me out massively! Oh and heavy breathers and snorers! Miss PC x |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
People not taking their litter home or putting it in a bin!! Can’t believe there are so many people leaving their rubbish lying around these days, what the hells gone wrong!! Grrrr!! |
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"Crack their joints. "
Bookmarking this to make sure LvM sees it.
It makes me feel good that I'm not the only one who finds it annoying, in fact I shudder every time he does it.
The other thing I find annoying is if someone calls me mate, especially if it's a stranger.
And Fab related: if a man tries to direct me when we are on cam, I go into Hulk smash mode 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Leaving lids off butter, jam etc. Using one knife to spread said butter then jam. Cross-contamination drives me bonkers!! |
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Fairly trivial, but , people who go into a takeaway, for example, and say ‘Can I get........’
Nooooo , just nooo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fairly trivial, but , people who go into a takeaway, for example, and say ‘Can I get........’
Nooooo , just nooo "
what do you say instead? |
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Neighbours who have bonfires when I've got washing on the line.
Randoms that shout "ginger" at me in the street.
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"Fairly trivial, but , people who go into a takeaway, for example, and say ‘Can I get........’
Nooooo , just nooo
what do you say instead? "
I say ‘ please may I have a............’
I just absolutely hate can I get.
I had a friend who worked behind the bar in a busy holiday park during summers and he would refuse to serve people who didn’t ask politely.
He used to get fed up with people banging a glass on the bar and just saying ‘pint on their mate’, the glass would get left there until they asked politely. People soon twigged and added the ‘please’ on the end.
Like I said, it’s trivial, but not hard to say please. |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
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The feckers that load their shopping onto the conveyour belt at the supermarket, and it was such a chore, that they hadn't the energy, to put the divider thingy on the conveyor belt after loading all their shopping. |
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By *htcMan
over a year ago
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the guy at work, the toilet has no window or vent or van, takes a shit 3-5 times a day, closes the door every time. so when ever you go in to wash hands or piss, his shit smell is there. |
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Vaping
Just think adult babies sucking on a pacifier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fairly trivial, but , people who go into a takeaway, for example, and say ‘Can I get........’
Nooooo , just nooo
what do you say instead?
I say ‘ please may I have a............’
I just absolutely hate can I get.
I had a friend who worked behind the bar in a busy holiday park during summers and he would refuse to serve people who didn’t ask politely.
He used to get fed up with people banging a glass on the bar and just saying ‘pint on their mate’, the glass would get left there until they asked politely. People soon twigged and added the ‘please’ on the end.
Like I said, it’s trivial, but not hard to say please. "
ahhh ok i wasn’t realising you meant it has no manners ... i say can i get but please is always at the end of the sentence ... i am common as muck but not rude with it haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Vaping
Just think adult babies sucking on a pacifier "
Nothing like it and has helped millions stop smoking, myself included |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who seem to be performing acceptably, till they default to being people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that shut their eyes for a while when they are talking to you.
People that don't indicate when driving.
Flailing their arms around when talking.
Talking over you repeatedly in a conversation....
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"Recently? Stand too near me!
Seriously move the F away - I didn't stop two metres away for you to close the distance! "
funny that been saying this for years bout folk skipping into my braking space when driving....okay so you see how big my car is yes, longer braking distance than your yes, & you want that up your ass...no probs, cos you just removed my braking space.
I've never liked people squashed up next to me even before now. |
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"People that shut their eyes for a while when they are talking to you.
People that don't indicate when driving.
Flailing their arms around when talking.
Talking over you repeatedly in a conversation....
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erm 3&4 are adhd symtoms, they might not actually be able to help it. avoiding eye contact is another. just saying cos its like trying to tell a torretes person not to swear or blurt out stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that shut their eyes for a while when they are talking to you."
Autism trait, eye contact can be painful for them
" People that don't indicate when driving."
Genuine dangerous idiots
" Flailing their arms around when talking. "
Autism trait called stimming
" Talking over you repeatedly in a conversation....
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Autism trait, lack of social awareness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Snoring "
Oh god yes...i would never tire of hitting them with a cricket bat..grrr.
Also when trying to get to sleep when their noses make whistling sounds..grr..blow your nose. |
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"Talking....Like shut the fuck up, I don't give a shit about your neighbours daughters mothers sisters cousins haemorrhoids
Or how your cat went missing for a week and was found in a shed like 50 mile away
Shush
Yep some people just don't know when to shut up!
Incessant talking about nothing must be a sign of mental illness - surely they must give themselves a headache
People that tap and drum everything or hum, whistle etc ..
SHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
Stay still and shut up!
This is why I don't like children - they never shut the fuck up "
ERM All of these are ADHD traits again ,don't mean them, can't help them, can't stop them either.
what was the other someone mention oh yeah timekeeping...not with and adhd person, they have no/little concept of time, alarms & reminders every where and will still manage to be late somehow. no matter how hard we try. sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that shut their eyes for a while when they are talking to you.
People that don't indicate when driving.
Flailing their arms around when talking.
Talking over you repeatedly in a conversation....
erm 3&4 are adhd symtoms, they might not actually be able to help it. avoiding eye contact is another. just saying cos its like trying to tell a torretes person not to swear or blurt out stuff. "
And for some its just a habit..i work with students that have ADHD and have no issue with that. |
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and yes bofore someone says anything to myself or ivy as to how can these traits be of both autism and adhd well basically this is why they call it the spectrum because many have similar traits, it depends on how they are displayed and when and frequency as to which, you can be co morbid meaning you have more than one mental health disorder.
i.e just cos you forget your keys once in a blue moon does not make you adhd who losses their keys daily, even when they are right where you put them....my son found keys he lost in a boot years later.
its multiple times a day. |
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"People that shut their eyes for a while when they are talking to you.
People that don't indicate when driving.
Flailing their arms around when talking.
Talking over you repeatedly in a conversation....
erm 3&4 are adhd symtoms, they might not actually be able to help it. avoiding eye contact is another. just saying cos its like trying to tell a torretes person not to swear or blurt out stuff.
And for some its just a habit..i work with students that have ADHD and have no issue with that."
funny, I have a whole household of ADHD inc me, know lots of ADHD folk. and most especially the ones who have the hyperactive or combined ADHD talk with their hands and are loud unless heavily medicated which given yours are students, they more than likely are to be able to sit in the class and learn in the first place, especially without disturbing others by fidgeting, talking, daydreaming etc. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
What's really annoying me at the moment (and it takes a lot to annoy me) are people on here trying to convince me that Covid is nothing to worry about and it's ok to meet them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and yes bofore someone says anything to myself or ivy as to how can these traits be of both autism and adhd well basically this is why they call it the spectrum because many have similar traits, it depends on how they are displayed and when and frequency as to which, you can be co morbid meaning you have more than one mental health disorder.
i.e just cos you forget your keys once in a blue moon does not make you adhd who losses their keys daily, even when they are right where you put them....my son found keys he lost in a boot years later.
its multiple times a day."
Both my kids are Autistic and display these trait, my son moreso and every single day, espescially the talking/interrupting and hand flapping |
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People saying "Bless you" when somebody sneezes. It's a completely pointless thing to do. |
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"and yes bofore someone says anything to myself or ivy as to how can these traits be of both autism and adhd well basically this is why they call it the spectrum because many have similar traits, it depends on how they are displayed and when and frequency as to which, you can be co morbid meaning you have more than one mental health disorder.
i.e just cos you forget your keys once in a blue moon does not make you adhd who losses their keys daily, even when they are right where you put them....my son found keys he lost in a boot years later.
its multiple times a day.
Both my kids are Autistic and display these trait, my son moreso and every single day, espescially the talking/interrupting and hand flapping"
I know with my autistic nephew part of his was his lack of understanding over social situations, consequences and appropriate responses...like if he liked you when he was little he'd run up & bite you ass!!
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From reading the thread , it's fair to say that our tolerance level is rather low ... |
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People that go out in public with B.O. that could peel wallpaper off, get a wash! |
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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago
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People at tills who are in
a state of surprise when asked to pay and start rummaging and faffing for purse, wallet, cards.
Dog owners who let dogs off leads in residential areas so they can pee n poo at will and owners dont pick up.
And people who leave litter, fag boxes, cans, bottles, chip wrappers in parks and beaches where I live.
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Eating with mouths open, as it's just avoidable and unpleasant
Overtaking lanes not used for overtaking
Disrespect for others, animals and the natural world
People talking at extreme levels of unnecessary detail. Especially if they want to interject with other unrelated tales of similarly elaborate detail. Less is more, much of the time. |
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"Recently? Stand too near me!
Seriously move the F away - I didn't stop two metres away for you to close the distance! this and when you are talking to someone, and they keep getting closer and closer and each time you step away and open the gap and they still get closer!"
That's what cattle prods are for |
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"and yes bofore someone says anything to myself or ivy as to how can these traits be of both autism and adhd well basically this is why they call it the spectrum because many have similar traits, it depends on how they are displayed and when and frequency as to which, you can be co morbid meaning you have more than one mental health disorder.
i.e just cos you forget your keys once in a blue moon does not make you adhd who losses their keys daily, even when they are right where you put them....my son found keys he lost in a boot years later.
its multiple times a day."
There's a high degree of comorbidity between ADHD and the Autism Spectrum Disorder. For people on the spectrum, they will have their own unique expression of traits, so 1 person will seem very different from the next. The forum has a fair few wonderful people with these conditions. Many adults are unaware that they may be affected and many adults are not diagnosed, partly as appropriate services didn't exist when they were younger.
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Sloppy use of the English language: for example- I had went, instead of: I had gone; inappropriate use of the words underestimate and overestimate which have very different meanings; ditto overstate and understate.
The most irritating behaviour is youthful socialists and idealistic communists who become middle aged conservatives and are equally dogmatic about both, albeit at different stages of their lives. |
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over a year ago
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People that Constantly reply to their own thread |
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Vaping just annoys me really son does it n gets right on my nerves |
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Vapping just annoys me really son does it n gets right on my nerves |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"People that Constantly reply to their own thread"
What do you mean by reply? |
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"and yes bofore someone says anything to myself or ivy as to how can these traits be of both autism and adhd well basically this is why they call it the spectrum because many have similar traits, it depends on how they are displayed and when and frequency as to which, you can be co morbid meaning you have more than one mental health disorder.
i.e just cos you forget your keys once in a blue moon does not make you adhd who losses their keys daily, even when they are right where you put them....my son found keys he lost in a boot years later.
its multiple times a day.
There's a high degree of comorbidity between ADHD and the Autism Spectrum Disorder. For people on the spectrum, they will have their own unique expression of traits, so 1 person will seem very different from the next. The forum has a fair few wonderful people with these conditions. Many adults are unaware that they may be affected and many adults are not diagnosed, partly as appropriate services didn't exist when they were younger.
I am somewhat intolerant of others' behaviour but a little understanding of issues can increase our sensitivity and empathy. "
not when you put a bunch of adhd in the same room lol, there's slight differences but most traits are the same, likely different frequencies and triggers though.
mind these aren't personality but a gene in the body we were born with that makes us behave these ways (you should totally get this body/soul thing)
it's my big stories & not staying on topic lol well, to me I am as they are related and all is connected
I do get people struggle to comprehend my tone & what I mean, though can be incredibly frustrating cos to me it makes perfect sense. I do try honest & sometime the nippyness is frustration on my side not nastyness.
sarcasm is often lost on my in here cos I cant read tone.
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"People that Constantly reply to their own thread
What do you mean by reply?"
is that not the point? post, people comment, you reply to comments?
or has sarcasm been lost on me again here? |
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People who litter properly fuck me off. How hard is it to use a bin or take your rubbish home with you?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talking....Like shut the fuck up, I don't give a shit about your neighbours daughters mothers sisters cousins haemorrhoids
Or how your cat went missing for a week and was found in a shed like 50 mile away
Shush
Yep some people just don't know when to shut up!
Incessant talking about nothing must be a sign of mental illness - surely they must give themselves a headache
People that tap and drum everything or hum, whistle etc ..
SHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
Stay still and shut up!
This is why I don't like children - they never shut the fuck up
ERM All of these are ADHD traits again ,don't mean them, can't help them, can't stop them either.
what was the other someone mention oh yeah timekeeping...not with and adhd person, they have no/little concept of time, alarms & reminders every where and will still manage to be late somehow. no matter how hard we try. sorry"
Just because a mannerism is labelled as a mental health disorder it doesn't make it less annoying.
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People of FAB who do not know that the art of conversation is that you have to ask questions to continue a conversation
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
People on Fab who go with the charm offensive approach. I don’t want to know how gorgeous I am and to be agreed with all the time, I like people who are ballsy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noisy eaters sitting near me, (sorry men...but when you wee on the toilet seat or leave the seat up )
And in the context of fab, fake profiles "
Women that always leaves the toilet seat down |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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My car parking issue seems very trivial now |
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People who start a sentence with "so" aaaaagggggghhhh! |
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And yawning without covering their mouths !! |
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People going out to the park and leaving rubbish all over the grass.
Also dog walkers who don't poop ?? scoop |
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By *ltrMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
Talking on mobiles when been served by a shop assistant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who let things annoy them |
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People who lie but are not clever enough to not let things slip and reveal exactly as you thought... it was a lie! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Middle Lane hoggers on motorway
People who don’t say thanks when you hold a door open for them or move to let people pass through |
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By *inBleuMan
over a year ago
Sunny Yorkshire |
"People who leave their rubbish in parks/ on the beach.
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Hate it too... If you can be bothered to bring it along full, it’s even easier to take it home empty!
There should be no need for litter pickers whatsoever! |
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From this thread I've learned I'm really easy going
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People who post all over social media pics of them clearly breaking lockdown rules. A hairdresser who is clearly still working is one example and another who is taking her kids to places miles away for days out.
People who have to label every trait...i like a clean house so they say i must have OCD...no i just enjoy it being clean. Or labelling their child with whatever is in the headlines atm. |
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By *omino51Man
over a year ago
loughborough |
People on here who keep coming back with over the top smart replys in the forum posts. Its surposed to be a fun site. If i had wanted a lecture i would have gone uni.
Oh and bo, ffs shower and smell nice its not hard and trust me ppl will like you more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just don't like people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Interviewees (on radio, TV or on webinars) who emm and aaah when asked to express their expertise on a particular issue. Some are absolutely dreadful. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
That weird way news presenters speak, not sure what it’s called, they speak louder on certain words to emphasise it, there is a snooker commentator who does it and I’ve to hit silence on the remote to ignore him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lateness.
Lazy behaviour.
Littering.
Bullying. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
When people use generalizations terms to bash other people!! Oh that really brings my gears haha |
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People with their heads down looking at mobile phones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who continue to exist, when its probably better that they don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Breath mostly at the moment. |
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"and yes bofore someone says anything to myself or ivy as to how can these traits be of both autism and adhd well basically this is why they call it the spectrum because many have similar traits, it depends on how they are displayed and when and frequency as to which, you can be co morbid meaning you have more than one mental health disorder.
i.e just cos you forget your keys once in a blue moon does not make you adhd who losses their keys daily, even when they are right where you put them....my son found keys he lost in a boot years later.
its multiple times a day.
There's a high degree of comorbidity between ADHD and the Autism Spectrum Disorder. For people on the spectrum, they will have their own unique expression of traits, so 1 person will seem very different from the next. The forum has a fair few wonderful people with these conditions. Many adults are unaware that they may be affected and many adults are not diagnosed, partly as appropriate services didn't exist when they were younger.
I am somewhat intolerant of others' behaviour but a little understanding of issues can increase our sensitivity and empathy.
not when you put a bunch of adhd in the same room lol, there's slight differences but most traits are the same, likely different frequencies and triggers though.
mind these aren't personality but a gene in the body we were born with that makes us behave these ways (you should totally get this body/soul thing)
it's my big stories & not staying on topic lol well, to me I am as they are related and all is connected
I do get people struggle to comprehend my tone & what I mean, though can be incredibly frustrating cos to me it makes perfect sense. I do try honest & sometime the nippyness is frustration on my side not nastyness.
sarcasm is often lost on my in here cos I cant read tone.
I try "
I have both and was referring to the ASD spectrum, where the presentation of symptoms can be very unique to each person. There are similarities and matches between people. Some people may have very little of one trait group and an abundance of another. |
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People who leave all their fast food packaging on the bench in town when there's a bin about 2 yards away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who leave all their fast food packaging on the bench in town when there's a bin about 2 yards away "
Or just leave it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Influencers. If you want to "influence" how about influencing good things like caring, sharing, supporting others. |
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People showing me 100 pictures of their children, I’m not a child person and it bores me senseless.
Lily |
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Hot topic right now, litter! Why? Ignorant, lazy scumbags!! |
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"Talking....Like shut the fuck up, I don't give a shit about your neighbours daughters mothers sisters cousins haemorrhoids
Or how your cat went missing for a week and was found in a shed like 50 mile away
Shush
Yep some people just don't know when to shut up!
Incessant talking about nothing must be a sign of mental illness - surely they must give themselves a headache
People that tap and drum everything or hum, whistle etc ..
SHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
Stay still and shut up!
This is why I don't like children - they never shut the fuck up
ERM All of these are ADHD traits again ,don't mean them, can't help them, can't stop them either.
what was the other someone mention oh yeah timekeeping...not with and adhd person, they have no/little concept of time, alarms & reminders every where and will still manage to be late somehow. no matter how hard we try. sorry
Just because a mannerism is labelled as a mental health disorder it doesn't make it less annoying.
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Looking back on reflection of this i can totally agree the difference as i get annoyed at things the kids do that i know are adhd and i do some or different ones too (facepalm)....that is one m-?
misunderstanding & getting wrong vibes as is telling stories/lectures. I am aware i need reminded sometimes too cos i just don't get social constructs or ques and i appreciate when folk do as other wise i'm unaware of it even being an issue. So thank you
It is a bit of a like or lump it situation unfortunately. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"People showing me 100 pictures of their children, I’m not a child person and it bores me senseless.
Lily "
I’ve had this so I return the favour in showing them 100 pics of my cats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve just had a guy come and explain the best way to cut my bush, whilst I was cutting it. Then stood there for a few minutes like he was supervising.. at this point I was basically finished and the bush was looking very tidy if I do say so myself. So annoying
This was a bush in the front garden.. otherwise that would have been weird and more annoying |
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By *ljamMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
People who queue across the pavement at a cash machine, instead of queuing along the pavement |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
People that talk about tantra yoga without having any idea of spiritual kundalini energy or the notion of right handed or left handed tantra simply thinking it is a sexual act. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"I’ve just had a guy come and explain the best way to cut my bush, whilst I was cutting it. Then stood there for a few minutes like he was supervising.. at this point I was basically finished and the bush was looking very tidy if I do say so myself. So annoying
This was a bush in the front garden.. otherwise that would have been weird and more annoying "
He was lucky it wasn’t me he was doing that to. I don’t tolerate busy bodies like him! When I had a hedge I had a guy who had the local Post Office tell me it needed cutting, so the day after I took a pair of shears in and left them on the counter and I left the hedge another two weeks before I cut it, then went in and told him it was cut and to quit interfering again. He never mentioned it again. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
"I’ve just had a guy come and explain the best way to cut my bush, whilst I was cutting it. Then stood there for a few minutes like he was supervising.. at this point I was basically finished and the bush was looking very tidy if I do say so myself. So annoying
This was a bush in the front garden.. otherwise that would have been weird and more annoying
He was lucky it wasn’t me he was doing that to. I don’t tolerate busy bodies like him! When I had a hedge I had a guy who had the local Post Office tell me it needed cutting, so the day after I took a pair of shears in and left them on the counter and I left the hedge another two weeks before I cut it, then went in and told him it was cut and to quit interfering again. He never mentioned it again. "
This sounds like a monologue from Are You Being Served. |
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Currently; the wild campers who think it’s fine to visit my beautiful part of the world, have a party, then just leave all their detritus behind If I find who these people are, I will be gathering a group of friends together, and we will be going around to empty our bins in these people’s gardens |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"I’ve just had a guy come and explain the best way to cut my bush, whilst I was cutting it. Then stood there for a few minutes like he was supervising.. at this point I was basically finished and the bush was looking very tidy if I do say so myself. So annoying
This was a bush in the front garden.. otherwise that would have been weird and more annoying
He was lucky it wasn’t me he was doing that to. I don’t tolerate busy bodies like him! When I had a hedge I had a guy who had the local Post Office tell me it needed cutting, so the day after I took a pair of shears in and left them on the counter and I left the hedge another two weeks before I cut it, then went in and told him it was cut and to quit interfering again. He never mentioned it again. This sounds like a monologue from Are You Being Served. "
Sounds funny but I doubt the twat would have told a bloke about his hedge needing cutting. I thought I dealt with him well...! |
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"Interviewees (on radio & TV) who ‘errmm’ and ‘aaah’ when asked to express their expertise on a particular issue. Some are absolutely dreadful."
This.
Also, the Americanisms that are penetrating our language, such as mom  |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve just had a guy come and explain the best way to cut my bush, whilst I was cutting it. Then stood there for a few minutes like he was supervising.. at this point I was basically finished and the bush was looking very tidy if I do say so myself. So annoying
This was a bush in the front garden.. otherwise that would have been weird and more annoying
He was lucky it wasn’t me he was doing that to. I don’t tolerate busy bodies like him! When I had a hedge I had a guy who had the local Post Office tell me it needed cutting, so the day after I took a pair of shears in and left them on the counter and I left the hedge another two weeks before I cut it, then went in and told him it was cut and to quit interfering again. He never mentioned it again. This sounds like a monologue from Are You Being Served.
Sounds funny but I doubt the twat would have told a bloke about his hedge needing cutting. I thought I dealt with him well...! "
Love that |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
People. Just people in general.
Perhaps it’s lockdown but being out in public is a trauma in itself |
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over a year ago
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"People. Just people in general.
Perhaps it’s lockdown but being out in public is a trauma in itself "
I agree |
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"Currently; the wild campers who think it’s fine to visit my beautiful part of the world, have a party, then just leave all their detritus behind If I find who these people are, I will be gathering a group of friends together, and we will be going around to empty our bins in these people’s gardens "
I think this is a growing problem in parks, beaches and open countryside in general |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Park in an empty car park come out the shop and someone has parked next to you and the car park is still empty |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Breath"
I don’t like people who breath, it’s so annoying. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
People who always talk about doing something but never actually do it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People. Just people in general.
Perhaps it’s lockdown but being out in public is a trauma in itself "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Indecisive people. |
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"Currently; the wild campers who think it’s fine to visit my beautiful part of the world, have a party, then just leave all their detritus behind If I find who these people are, I will be gathering a group of friends together, and we will be going around to empty our bins in these people’s gardens "
I found a bin bag of household waste dumped in one of my gateways, so I put me marigolds on and went through it. Found an envelope with an address in the village. Took the bin bag round to the address and managed to get all the contents through their letter box.
Maybe a bit puerile but very satisfying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently; the wild campers who think it’s fine to visit my beautiful part of the world, have a party, then just leave all their detritus behind If I find who these people are, I will be gathering a group of friends together, and we will be going around to empty our bins in these people’s gardens
I found a bin bag of household waste dumped in one of my gateways, so I put me marigolds on and went through it. Found an envelope with an address in the village. Took the bin bag round to the address and managed to get all the contents through their letter box.
Maybe a bit puerile but very satisfying. "
absolutely love this!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Park in an empty car park come out the shop and someone has parked next to you and the car park is still empty "
Yes!! |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Currently; the wild campers who think it’s fine to visit my beautiful part of the world, have a party, then just leave all their detritus behind If I find who these people are, I will be gathering a group of friends together, and we will be going around to empty our bins in these people’s gardens
I found a bin bag of household waste dumped in one of my gateways, so I put me marigolds on and went through it. Found an envelope with an address in the village. Took the bin bag round to the address and managed to get all the contents through their letter box.
Maybe a bit puerile but very satisfying. "
Nope it’s brilliant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who talk endlessly about their diets when they have been on them for years and never lose any weight!
The host of Tenable. I literally cannot stand him!!! Wooden, annoying and not the least bit funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One picture, no verified comments and been on here a while |
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