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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I have just had an off site message from an old ex.
She heard about my spitting up with my last partner and wanted to know if I fancy meeting for a chat.
She became an ex for a reason, and I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I don't want to go back there.
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
Thank her for her concern and explain to her your reason for not wanting to talk to about it. You can still be nice to her regardless, if she get nasty then block her.
She might could just be being friendly. |
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The thing is that you don't *have* to meet her. You aren't obliged to get involved at all and even if you do and she asks if you can get back together you aren't obliged to agree.
You say you don't want to hurt her feelings but in my experience trying to avoid upset actually leads to worse in the long run whereas polite honesty leaves everyone knowing where they stand. |
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Do you think she wants to rekindle that old flame? Is it possible she just wants a friendly chat?
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