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"What's your naughtiest fantasy " Getting caught by the Queen and Duke as I'm balls deep in Kate  | |||
"What's your naughtiest fantasy Getting caught by the Queen and Duke as I'm balls deep in Kate l "Haha | |||
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"DDlg and/or CNC. "CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves. | |||
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"CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves. " Requires trust, communication and safewords.  | |||
"CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves. Requires trust, communication and safewords. "It requires a great deal more than that. | |||
"It requires a great deal more than that." Ooh, do go on. Always looking to learn more. | |||
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"So....Ddlg and CNC? Sounds like you’re not too keen on consent, my friend, if these are your fantasies?" Do... do you know what CNC stands for??  | |||
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"So....Ddlg and CNC? Sounds like you’re not too keen on consent, my friend, if these are your fantasies? Do... do you know what CNC stands for?? "Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent. Not here to kink-shame. | |||
"DDlg and/or CNC.
CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves. "What is CNC? | |||
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"DDlg and/or CNC.
CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves.
What is CNC?"Nice profile x | |||
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"DDlg and/or CNC.
CNC is one to be treated with a great deal of caution, on both halves.
What is CNC?
Nice profile x"Thanks | |||
"Consent non consent" That's bad if it means that shouldn't let people on here like that | |||
"Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent. Not here to kink-shame." Okay fair enough. In the interest of clarity, then, let me just say that consent is EXTREMELY important to me, and is, in fact, FUNDAMENTAL to having and enjoying these types of kinks / fantasies. And I'd be lying if I said I didn't kinda resent the insinuation to the contrary. | |||
"Consent non consent That's bad if it means that shouldn't let people on here like that" Totally agree | |||
"Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent. Not here to kink-shame. Okay fair enough. In the interest of clarity, then, let me just say that consent is EXTREMELY important to me, and is, in fact, FUNDAMENTAL to having and enjoying these types of kinks / fantasies. And I'd be lying if I said I didn't kinda resent the insinuation to the contrary." Fantasy is heavily laced with taboo, for most people. Dark place, the mind... | |||
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"Or should it be consensual non-consent? I don’t know. Tonight’s the first time I’ve heard of it!" Oh, I'm confused then as you said you knew what it meant. But yes, it stands for Consensual Non-Consent. Emphasis on the first word: consensual. | |||
"Consent non consent That's bad if it means that shouldn't let people on here like that" Well I guess I should be thankful that sites like this aren't at the whim of such morality and decency police, eh? | |||
"Or should it be consensual non-consent? I don’t know. Tonight’s the first time I’ve heard of it! Oh, I'm confused then as you said you knew what it meant. But yes, it stands for Consensual Non-Consent. Emphasis on the first word: consensual." I did know, after Googling it. I wasn’t born with the knowledge but acquired it, like most people do, I imagine. | |||
"I did know, after Googling it. I wasn’t born with the knowledge but acquired it, like most people do, I imagine." We all start out ignorant. Every day's a school day, etc.  | |||
"I did know, after Googling it. I wasn’t born with the knowledge but acquired it, like most people do, I imagine. We all start out ignorant. Every day's a school day, etc. "Ah...“Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise!” | |||
"Ah...“Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise!”" Indeed. But also; the more I learn, the less I know. | |||
"Ah...“Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise!” Indeed. But also; the more I learn, the less I know." Haha! The more of Fab I learn, the less I want to! | |||
"Haha! The more of Fab I learn, the less I want to!" Yes, be careful when venturing into deeper waters... better turn back before it's too late! | |||
"Haha! The more of Fab I learn, the less I want to! Yes, be careful when venturing into deeper waters... better turn back before it's too late! "As an adventurous Domme for many years, I’ve done my share of deep sea diving. It taught me a lot about the male psyche. I find that I prefer paddling in the shallows, these days. | |||
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"As an adventurous Domme for many years, I’ve done my share of deep sea diving. It taught me a lot about the male psyche. I find that I prefer paddling in the shallows, these days." Oh snap. Seems I'm the one who should swim away! I tend to find nothing is static, or permenant. We're malleable, and ever-changing / evolving. Well, at least most of us, to an extent. | |||
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"Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent. Not here to kink-shame. Okay fair enough. In the interest of clarity, then, let me just say that consent is EXTREMELY important to me, and is, in fact, FUNDAMENTAL to having and enjoying these types of kinks / fantasies. And I'd be lying if I said I didn't kinda resent the insinuation to the contrary. Fantasy is heavily laced with taboo, for most people. Dark place, the mind..." Cnc is all about consent, it’s the most important part, and it absolutely is about trust, communication and safe words. I would also add, being with someone who knows you extremely well, and can read your reactions/body language. | |||
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"So....Ddlg and CNC? Sounds like you’re not too keen on consent, my friend, if these are your fantasies? Do... do you know what CNC stands for??
Yes, which is why I asked! Your fetish seems to be a lack of consent, in one way or another. Either someone too young to give consent, and someone pretending that they do not consent.
Not here to kink-shame. "Umm no... DDLG does not always equate to age regression, and even if it does it never removes the ability to consent.Its a caregiver relationship. This is taken from a little website and gives an idea of what makes up those dynamics: Caring Compassion Understanding Gentleness Kindness Tenderness Affectionate Self-sacrificing The drive to guide, nurture, and protect. Happiness from cherishing their partner's uniqueness and childish personality. The ultimate desire to "take care of" their partner. As someone who has a DDLG relationship with one kf our play partners, the notion that she is unable to consent is ludicrous. I also don’t believe reading up about CNC really gives you an understanding of what it is about. Communication, negotiation and consent being the cornerstones of any BDSM dynamic, speaking with people about what CNC means to them is a far better way to gain that understanding. And as for not letting people like us on this site.... yes because we act to thirsty and needy all the fucking time, white knighting in the hope of getting a sniff of a woman’s loins... | |||
" I did know, after Googling it. I wasn’t born with the knowledge but acquired it, like most people do, I imagine." You're my new favourite writer | |||
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"As an adventurous Domme for many years, I’ve done my share of deep sea diving. It taught me a lot about the male psyche. I find that I prefer paddling in the shallows, these days. Oh snap. Seems I'm the one who should swim away! I tend to find nothing is static, or permenant. We're malleable, and ever-changing / evolving. Well, at least most of us, to an extent." If you see the constant dopamine chase of trying more and more extreme forms of sex as 'evolving', maybe. I once thought that way. But you’re young. You do you. Enjoy those fantasies, but not too much, eh? | |||
"If you see the constant dopamine chase of trying more and more extreme forms of sex as 'evolving', maybe. I once thought that way. But you’re young. You do you. Enjoy those fantasies, but not too much, eh?" That’s not what I was saying at all, but yes, you’ve raised another valid point. Any journey into these things require caution and consideration. | |||
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"What's your naughtiest fantasy " It’s too naughty to say in here ...   | |||
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