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Have you not considered when restrictions are lifted and you can get out to meet people in person at clubs and socials that they may chat to you there? And continue that chat afterwards?
It seems to me that you're expectations are too high given the pandemic and you're not allowing for future change. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Leaving here today not working for me ,know one chats to be stay safe and look after yourselfs"
Pal you joined 2 months ago and even at this we are going through difficult times with this pandemic so technically you haven't had the opportunity to fully enjoy the experience of not only the site but also the company of most of the lovely people on here I hope you take my information on board as it can be difficult being a new member so stick around pal and add more photos whilst we all wait so it's safe hopefully in between your luck changes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And additional information in your bio makes it interesting for another remember your trying to catch someone's attention so a little bit of effort goes along way "
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Just stick around for the Forums, I've been on here for coming up to 15 years, even pre Covid malarkey, I never expected to get laid every other week, but I've made some good acquaintances and a few awesome friends into the bargain  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Leaving here today not working for me ,know one chats to be stay safe and look after yourselfs"
Were you on here before under a different name?
Good luck. If people are shitty on your thread don't let it get you down. X |
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See now a wana laugh at this because why people feel the need to announce it baffles me!! Makes you look needy and childish.
Try putting a bit more into your bio tell us women what we are missing!
Anyway either way good luck x
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The forums can be a hard place if you are new... We've been on here 2 years and still feel like newbies in the forums. There are the same people who chat to each other and in groups and on loads of threads but have known each other years, met in person and have built that rapport with each other. We kind of feel like the annoying outsiders at times but nothing is going to change unless you get amongst it and start having interactions with people  if you aren't happy then by all mean do what you think is best for you but take it from us you really do need to give it time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See now a wana laugh at this because why people feel the need to announce it baffles me!! Makes you look needy and childish.
Try putting a bit more into your bio tell us women what we are missing!
Anyway either way good luck x
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Maybe he wants to say goodbye to people he’s got to know. |
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...”It's always tease, tease, tease
You're happy when I'm on my knees
One day it's fine and next it's black
So if you want me off your back
Well, come on and let me know
Should I stay or should I go?...”
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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I can understand frustration but with the current situation a lot of people aren't chatting the way they normally would. I was on here nearly a year before I even got the guts to comment on the forums. It is east to feel by passed sometimes but then other times you make amazing connections through them. Maybe just hide your profile and take a break? I do that often  |
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"...”It's always tease, tease, tease
You're happy when I'm on my knees
One day it's fine and next it's black
So if you want me off your back
Well, come on and let me know
Should I stay or should I go?...”
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Stevieboi's clashing personalities again  |
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"Who was it ?
I need to know to see if I knew and then if I knew I'll know I knew - you know? it was flatulent and bearded or whatever his name is. "
No it wasn't, I'm off to nick some more of his watermelons tonight  |
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"Who was it ?
I need to know to see if I knew and then if I knew I'll know I knew - you know? it was flatulent and bearded or whatever his name is.
No it wasn't, I'm off to nick some more of his watermelons tonight "
has he rejoined already?!  |
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"Who was it ?
I need to know to see if I knew and then if I knew I'll know I knew - you know? it was flatulent and bearded or whatever his name is.
No it wasn't, I'm off to nick some more of his watermelons tonight has he rejoined already?! "
Yeah, I think he's moved in with Jim |
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"I see. I saw that coming. It was seen by those that see and I saw ....... it's such a see-saw at times...... see ?
But what about the sea I see?? "
The sea was seen by Cede
Cede saw the sea.
The sea she saw dripped on the floor
Once it dribbled past her knee. |
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"He did say he was going
He didn't offer to get anybody anything from the shop though, did he?  "
I'll have a large chocolate bar please Ace......
I don't eat sweets but im feeling evil.
That's about as evil as I get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I went back and checked. There are 2 non positive comments and they weren't too bad .....
Bye and Large...... people were positive. "
Being snide is being nasty...yet people go on and on about mental health yet if your not part of the gang it dont matter as much...shame |
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"Noochie .....
Did you just give yourself 3 smiles and 5 thumbs up ?
Yep....dont think anyone else will lol"
Well I know you are lovely and I agree with your sentiment re online 'fwends' but 5 ...... FIVE thumbs up ????? |
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"I went back and checked. There are 2 non positive comments and they weren't too bad .....
Bye and Large...... people were positive.
Who are Bye and Large?
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Just the very latest thing.... if you are in the know you'd know you know. |
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"I went back and checked. There are 2 non positive comments and they weren't too bad .....
Bye and Large...... people were positive.
Who are Bye and Large?
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Walk on Bye & Eddie Large, Syd Little is now considering his future |
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"I went back and checked. There are 2 non positive comments and they weren't too bad .....
Bye and Large...... people were positive.
Being snide is being nasty...yet people go on and on about mental health yet if your not part of the gang it dont matter as much...shame"
No one's been snide or nasty. They just didn't beg him to stay. |
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If people are shitty on your thread don't let it get you down. X
It won't get him down. He is leaving
If you left a job and people said "thank fuck for that, bye". Would it not upset you?"
No. I'm leaving the job, why do I care? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I went back and checked. There are 2 non positive comments and they weren't too bad .....
Bye and Large...... people were positive.
Being snide is being nasty...yet people go on and on about mental health yet if your not part of the gang it dont matter as much...shame
No one's been snide or nasty. They just didn't beg him to stay. "
You all waited till he had gone then started with the snidey bye see you dont go.....snide |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go."
Thats fair enough...but maybe he just needed someone to chat to and decide people here are not that chatty to newbies.... |
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go."
Mine is gonna be epic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Mine is gonna be epic."
How would you feel if no one cared you left? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Mine is gonna be epic."
Please don’t leave before I’ve had chance to brush your hair and kiss your forehead. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Mine is gonna be epic."
. Hopefully it won’t be for a long time |
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Thats fair enough...but maybe he just needed someone to chat to and decide people here are not that chatty to newbies...."
....so he decided to leave? People leave for all sorts of unknown reasons - people move on, change their minds. He was already thinking of leaving because his experience of fab during lockdown wasn’t comparative to his expectations. *sings*...”let it go, let it go, through the rain and snooooowww!” |
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Mine is gonna be epic.
How would you feel if no one cared you left?"
Noochie, they would have left, so wouldn’t know. If they don’t know, they can’t care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Mine is gonna be epic.
How would you feel if no one cared you left?"
I’d personally feel like I hadn’t put much effort into making friends and perhaps it’s a good time to reflect on things I could be doing differently if I want to make friends. |
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If people are shitty on your thread don't let it get you down. X
It won't get him down. He is leaving
If you left a job and people said "thank fuck for that, bye". Would it not upset you?
No. I'm leaving the job, why do I care? "
Cool |
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Mine is gonna be epic.
How would you feel if no one cared you left?"
Id have left. Why would I care? Those who I want to stay in touch with would know where to find me I'm sure.
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx"
How incredibly supportive and empathetic of you to call people names.
You spout off about people being kind and then dismiss people as awful. When you point a finger, 3 point back at you, sunshine.
You are the only one on here being negative towards people. It's quite hilarious. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Mine is gonna be epic.
How would you feel if no one cared you left?"
. I don’t think too many people would notice which is cool as I am on Fabs on my terms. |
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Mine is gonna be epic.
How would you feel if no one cared you left?"
I don't get sad when I walk out of a supermarket and nobody waves me goodbye. I don't know these people.
I'm under no illusion when I leave some will shed tears others will throw a street party. That's because I've built a bond and connection with people over 5 years. That's because when I go, I will be genuinely wishing people well and telling others I hope they get squished by a rogue hailstone the size of a grand piano.
He said he was thinking of leaving because nobody would chat. Sounded to me like he had his expectations way off and it was getting him down. If that's the case then it's a good thing he left as it was doing more harm than good.
Yes, I do feel some comments are sharp and unnecessary. Had he approached it differently and expressed he wasn't feeling great then the response would have been far different I feel. When leaving threads are done saying "you aren't giving me what I want" (which is essentially what he was saying) it will either get on peoples tits and out come the "bye then" comments or they'll offer advise or constructive criticism.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why people need to start a thread to say they are leaving Fabs but each to there own.When my time comes to leave Fabs I will just delete the account and go.
Mine is gonna be epic.
How would you feel if no one cared you left?
I don't get sad when I walk out of a supermarket and nobody waves me goodbye. I don't know these people.
I'm under no illusion when I leave some will shed tears others will throw a street party. That's because I've built a bond and connection with people over 5 years. That's because when I go, I will be genuinely wishing people well and telling others I hope they get squished by a rogue hailstone the size of a grand piano.
He said he was thinking of leaving because nobody would chat. Sounded to me like he had his expectations way off and it was getting him down. If that's the case then it's a good thing he left as it was doing more harm than good.
Yes, I do feel some comments are sharp and unnecessary. Had he approached it differently and expressed he wasn't feeling great then the response would have been far different I feel. When leaving threads are done saying "you aren't giving me what I want" (which is essentially what he was saying) it will either get on peoples tits and out come the "bye then" comments or they'll offer advise or constructive criticism.
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Perfectly put |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx"
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The man joined and left on his own free will, I see people talking about mental health and support....I'm sure he has a wider network outside of fab...
Ppl aren't nasty, on these forums it's a bit of banter, if you leave you don't advertise it, if he needed support, a diffrent thread have been put up, reaching out and asking for help...I have no doubt ppl woukd have responded in a diffrent manner...
The forums are not the place, if you feel, not a part off, instead of looking out the windows, look in the mirror as to what I can do differently
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"Id have left. Why would I care? Those who I want to stay in touch with would know where to find me I'm sure.
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Exactly, Jim sends out a search party for me if I don't log in for a couple of weeks  |
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"Id have left. Why would I care? Those who I want to stay in touch with would know where to find me I'm sure.
Exactly, Jim sends out a search party for me if I don't log in for a couple of weeks "
he tells you that, Ace |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See now a wana laugh at this because why people feel the need to announce it baffles me!! Makes you look needy and childish.
Try putting a bit more into your bio tell us women what we are missing!
Anyway either way good luck x
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It's hard for us all. Can't wait to get back to Church  |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
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. You are not a awful person you are going through a difficult time.Your family , friends and your own strength will get you through it.Stay strong |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"I see. I saw that coming. It was seen by those that see and I saw ....... it's such a see-saw at times...... see ?
But what about the sea I see??
The sea was seen by Cede
Cede saw the sea.
The sea she saw dripped on the floor
Once it dribbled past her knee. "
How did I miss this before? I love it  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I care enough which matters to me but not enough that it matters to others but because I care enough is more than the next person which brightens a little bit of hope that brings a little bit of joy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
. You are not a awful person you are going through a difficult time.Your family , friends and your own strength will get you through it.Stay strong "
You couldn't say that to the op? He might have been feeling the same? Of course not and we know why lol |
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over a year ago
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
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Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated |
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"these forums are full of nasty fuckers
Correct. Never been on another forum like it. you should see the ‘Friends of Hove Beach’ group 
you have NO Authority there Brighton Steve !!!"
Believe me, pointing out that a sandy beach might be a tad more pleasant to sit on than horrid pebbles got me shown the door but quick! Metaphorically speaking, of course. |
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"You 'orrible lot.
How long has he been gone for?
Have you all just been talking amongst yourselves for 4 hours? "
I’m incredibly subtle - I’ve been chatting up the Liverpudlian lady - but she don’t know it but I bet she’s starting to stick to her leather sofa. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"You 'orrible lot.
How long has he been gone for?
Have you all just been talking amongst yourselves for 4 hours?
I’m incredibly subtle - I’ve been chatting up the Liverpudlian lady - but she don’t know it but I bet she’s starting to stick to her leather sofa. "
She's probably rubbing herself along the arm of the sofa. |
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"You 'orrible lot.
How long has he been gone for?
Have you all just been talking amongst yourselves for 4 hours?
I’m incredibly subtle - I’ve been chatting up the Liverpudlian lady - but she don’t know it but I bet she’s starting to stick to her leather sofa.
She's probably rubbing herself along the arm of the sofa."
Yeah! YEAH! |
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"You 'orrible lot.
How long has he been gone for?
Have you all just been talking amongst yourselves for 4 hours?
I’m incredibly subtle - I’ve been chatting up the Liverpudlian lady - but she don’t know it but I bet she’s starting to stick to her leather sofa.
She's probably rubbing herself along the arm of the sofa.
Yeah! YEAH! "
Leather sofa’s are so hard to disengage from. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"You 'orrible lot.
How long has he been gone for?
Have you all just been talking amongst yourselves for 4 hours?
I’m incredibly subtle - I’ve been chatting up the Liverpudlian lady - but she don’t know it but I bet she’s starting to stick to her leather sofa.
She's probably rubbing herself along the arm of the sofa.
Yeah! YEAH!
Leather sofa’s are so hard to disengage from. "
She likes the feel of the suction |
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"You 'orrible lot.
How long has he been gone for?
Have you all just been talking amongst yourselves for 4 hours?
I’m incredibly subtle - I’ve been chatting up the Liverpudlian lady - but she don’t know it but I bet she’s starting to stick to her leather sofa.
She's probably rubbing herself along the arm of the sofa.
Yeah! YEAH!
Leather sofa’s are so hard to disengage from.
She likes the feel of the suction "
She ain’t replying to me it this thread cos her fingers are busy busy busy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You 'orrible lot.
How long has he been gone for?
Have you all just been talking amongst yourselves for 4 hours? "
It’s an abandoned thread by its op so it’s fair game |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
You’re my favourite nut job.
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated"
You awful person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Leaving here today not working for me ,know one chats to be stay safe and look after yourselfs"
All the best to you, stay safe, look after yourself too. Peace, love, empathy |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated"
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His opening comment wasn't a rant or desperate cry for attention.
Such a shame people can't treat unknowns the same way they treat forum regulars.
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Well said |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move."
Theres always one who thinks there high n mighty.. think he turned it nasty by calling us all nasty! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"You 'orrible lot.
How long has he been gone for?
Have you all just been talking amongst yourselves for 4 hours?
It’s an abandoned thread by its op so it’s fair game "
It's like when the teacher leaves the room and says talk amongst yourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move."
Did I name or directly name and call you awful? Dont think I used anyones name |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Did I name or directly name and call you awful? Dont think I used anyones name"
I quote: "I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Theres always one who thinks there high n mighty.. think he turned it nasty by calling us all nasty! "
Dont think im high and mighty just fed up with "the gang" who run newbies out of the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Theres always one who thinks there high n mighty.. think he turned it nasty by calling us all nasty!
Dont think im high and mighty just fed up with "the gang" who run newbies out of the forums "
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I went back and checked. There are 2 non positive comments and they weren't too bad .....
Bye and Large...... people were positive.
Being snide is being nasty...yet people go on and on about mental health yet if your not part of the gang it dont matter as much...shame
No one's been snide or nasty. They just didn't beg him to stay. "
Like they do with forum regulars |
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over a year ago
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Did I name or directly name and call you awful? Dont think I used anyones name
I quote: "I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx""
And I directed that to you personally? Or was it a general statement I made? I dont you you don't know me you didn't know the op but your all came out of the woodwork to mock someone who wasn't enjoying his time on fab....and I can see why |
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Jesus H fucking Christ.
Talk about a storm in a fucking tea cup, shhh you lot or I'll bang your heads together Nana style.
Rearrange the following word's to make a well known saying or phrase.
Twist knickers in a.
The guy left simple, some light hearted BANTER ensued.
No one called him a nasty name or shit, suddenly it's assumed he's having a breakdown.
He just fucking left exactly as he decided to join. And the bickering bloody hell leave it be.
Jeeezzee
Anyway I'm leaving...to look at another thread. |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Did I name or directly name and call you awful? Dont think I used anyones name
I quote: "I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx"
And I directed that to you personally? Or was it a general statement I made? I dont you you don't know me you didn't know the op but your all came out of the woodwork to mock someone who wasn't enjoying his time on fab....and I can see why"
Once again. All. Don't accuse me of stuff I haven't done.
Your general statement wasn't general. It was aimed at everyone who's had mental health issues and posted on the thread. And now you're saying we ALL came out the woodwork to mock someone.
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Theres always one who thinks there high n mighty.. think he turned it nasty by calling us all nasty!
Dont think im high and mighty just fed up with "the gang" who run newbies out of the forums
They won't change. They can't see it. "
How exactly was the op run out? He didn't like the fact that no one wpuld chat to him because his profile was shit and we're in a pandemic.
No one was nasty to him. They just didn't beg him to stay. In fact that's wrong. Some did encourage him to stay around and use the forums.
One guy decided he was poorly treated after coming in after the op actually hit the delete button and branded everyone who was less that he seems appropriate as awful people and you swoop in and proclaim clique! |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Did I name or directly name and call you awful? Dont think I used anyones name
I quote: "I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx"
And I directed that to you personally? Or was it a general statement I made? I dont you you don't know me you didn't know the op but your all came out of the woodwork to mock someone who wasn't enjoying his time on fab....and I can see why"
Maybe consider the feeling of others with your ‘general statement’ and direct your issue to the specific post that bothers you?!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How can what us meant to be a fun open minded site, where we all have the same common purpose, turn into such base level snidy jibes attach other...
The man made his choices "you pays your money, you takes your chances" peace n live all |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Theres always one who thinks there high n mighty.. think he turned it nasty by calling us all nasty!
Dont think im high and mighty just fed up with "the gang" who run newbies out of the forums
They won't change. They can't see it.
How exactly was the op run out? He didn't like the fact that no one wpuld chat to him because his profile was shit and we're in a pandemic.
No one was nasty to him. They just didn't beg him to stay. In fact that's wrong. Some did encourage him to stay around and use the forums.
One guy decided he was poorly treated after coming in after the op actually hit the delete button and branded everyone who was less that he seems appropriate as awful people and you swoop in and proclaim clique! "
The point i was trying to make is the op may not have been strong enough to ask for help..him saying no one chats could be a sign he wanted to chat and ask for help...but most people mocked him for announcing he was leaving...its very hard as a newbie on the forums to crack the wall thats put up by the "gang" i know I've tried and failed because most of you stick together regardless of what the threads are about.. |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Did I name or directly name and call you awful? Dont think I used anyones name
I quote: "I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx"
And I directed that to you personally? Or was it a general statement I made? I dont you you don't know me you didn't know the op but your all came out of the woodwork to mock someone who wasn't enjoying his time on fab....and I can see why
Maybe consider the feeling of others with your ‘general statement’ and direct your issue to the specific post that bothers you?!? "
Like everyone considered the ops? Oh wait he left and most of you took pleasure in mocking him |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Did I name or directly name and call you awful? Dont think I used anyones name
I quote: "I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx"
And I directed that to you personally? Or was it a general statement I made? I dont you you don't know me you didn't know the op but your all came out of the woodwork to mock someone who wasn't enjoying his time on fab....and I can see why
Maybe consider the feeling of others with your ‘general statement’ and direct your issue to the specific post that bothers you?!?
Like everyone considered the ops? Oh wait he left and most of you took pleasure in mocking him"
I think that you’re projecting a little bit and taking the thread to heart maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Theres always one who thinks there high n mighty.. think he turned it nasty by calling us all nasty!
Dont think im high and mighty just fed up with "the gang" who run newbies out of the forums
They won't change. They can't see it.
How exactly was the op run out? He didn't like the fact that no one wpuld chat to him because his profile was shit and we're in a pandemic.
No one was nasty to him. They just didn't beg him to stay. In fact that's wrong. Some did encourage him to stay around and use the forums.
One guy decided he was poorly treated after coming in after the op actually hit the delete button and branded everyone who was less that he seems appropriate as awful people and you swoop in and proclaim clique!
The point i was trying to make is the op may not have been strong enough to ask for help..him saying no one chats could be a sign he wanted to chat and ask for help...but most people mocked him for announcing he was leaving...its very hard as a newbie on the forums to crack the wall thats put up by the "gang" i know I've tried and failed because most of you stick together regardless of what the threads are about.."
That is his responsibility to ask for help, nobody else's, I've been taught no ones coming to save me, I have to reach out n save myself if I'm struggling |
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I loves a good old flounce off the site, I've done it once and returned.
Getting banter at said flounce is almost a rite of passage.
And I will say as a couple we have been here for some time I(Mr) post regularly on the forum I'm usually one of the first to have a dig at the" clique" and"sycophants" but I will say this had the guy come on claiming deep depression and sadness he would have most definitely got offered support and encouragement to stay I have no doubt.
I read his post as a simple" I haven't had a shag I'm off" post nothing more.
Reading more into this is just taking all the fun , banter and the life out of the forum.
It's a harsh place at times but hey life is harsh.
But it can be supportive when required, just like life. |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Did I name or directly name and call you awful? Dont think I used anyones name
I quote: "I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx"
And I directed that to you personally? Or was it a general statement I made? I dont you you don't know me you didn't know the op but your all came out of the woodwork to mock someone who wasn't enjoying his time on fab....and I can see why
Maybe consider the feeling of others with your ‘general statement’ and direct your issue to the specific post that bothers you?!?
Like everyone considered the ops? Oh wait he left and most of you took pleasure in mocking him"
Genuinely think you need to choose your words more carefully too. I didn’t comment so there was no ‘you’. You have no idea of the OPs intent or state of mind. Nor do you seem to take any other comment as constructive when many were... you don’t achieve anything by blanket calling a group that aren’t even linked by anything but stumbling upon a thread. If you see something you don’t like then question it with the individual. You’ve reacted to what you refer to as mockery with aggression and blanket insults. Is that what you wanted to achieve? |
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I thought the op sounded pretty cheerful about leaving, didnt seem too much of a desperate plea just a bit of a ñiggle no one chatted much. He seemed happy enough with his decision. |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Theres always one who thinks there high n mighty.. think he turned it nasty by calling us all nasty!
Dont think im high and mighty just fed up with "the gang" who run newbies out of the forums
They won't change. They can't see it.
How exactly was the op run out? He didn't like the fact that no one wpuld chat to him because his profile was shit and we're in a pandemic.
No one was nasty to him. They just didn't beg him to stay. In fact that's wrong. Some did encourage him to stay around and use the forums.
One guy decided he was poorly treated after coming in after the op actually hit the delete button and branded everyone who was less that he seems appropriate as awful people and you swoop in and proclaim clique!
The point i was trying to make is the op may not have been strong enough to ask for help..him saying no one chats could be a sign he wanted to chat and ask for help...but most people mocked him for announcing he was leaving...its very hard as a newbie on the forums to crack the wall thats put up by the "gang" i know I've tried and failed because most of you stick together regardless of what the threads are about.."
Is it you that needs to talk but can't ask for help? Is that what this is? |
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"I loves a good old flounce off the site, I've done it once and returned.
Getting banter at said flounce is almost a rite of passage.
And I will say as a couple we have been here for some time I(Mr) post regularly on the forum I'm usually one of the first to have a dig at the" clique" and"sycophants" but I will say this had the guy come on claiming deep depression and sadness he would have most definitely got offered support and encouragement to stay I have no doubt.
I read his post as a simple" I haven't had a shag I'm off" post nothing more.
Reading more into this is just taking all the fun , banter and the life out of the forum.
It's a harsh place at times but hey life is harsh.
But it can be supportive when required, just like life."
It comes across as nasty and I've experienced that on the forums myself from groups on here so maybe I do see something that may or may not be there... |
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"I loves a good old flounce off the site, I've done it once and returned.
Getting banter at said flounce is almost a rite of passage.
And I will say as a couple we have been here for some time I(Mr) post regularly on the forum I'm usually one of the first to have a dig at the" clique" and"sycophants" but I will say this had the guy come on claiming deep depression and sadness he would have most definitely got offered support and encouragement to stay I have no doubt.
I read his post as a simple" I haven't had a shag I'm off" post nothing more.
Reading more into this is just taking all the fun , banter and the life out of the forum.
It's a harsh place at times but hey life is harsh.
But it can be supportive when required, just like life.
It comes across as nasty and I've experienced that on the forums myself from groups on here so maybe I do see something that may or may not be there..."
Best thing is,take a deep breath stop overthinking things relax and maybe come back tomorrow.
I'm a terminal overthinker it'll be the death of me but I have learned to rationalize stuff and not make everything a personal crusade.
This will just spoil your time on here.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Great to see everyone’s having a good time anyway, this is what it’s all about. "
Yeah! Beats talking about cake and crying over not being on the top 10 list of obscure forumites who are not funny at all |
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"Great to see everyone’s having a good time anyway, this is what it’s all about.
Yeah! Beats talking about cake and crying over not being on the top 10 list of obscure forumites who are not funny at all "
that’s not true! I’ve hooted with laughter every time I post a joke! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I thought the op sounded pretty cheerful about leaving, didnt seem too much of a desperate plea just a bit of a ñiggle no one chatted much. He seemed happy enough with his decision. "
I wonder if he's reading this thread from the other world and laughing about it. |
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"Great to see everyone’s having a good time anyway, this is what it’s all about.
Yeah! Beats talking about cake and crying over not being on the top 10 list of obscure forumites who are not funny at all that’s not true! I’ve hooted with laughter every time I post a joke! "
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"I thought the op sounded pretty cheerful about leaving, didnt seem too much of a desperate plea just a bit of a ñiggle no one chatted much. He seemed happy enough with his decision.
I wonder if he's reading this thread from the other world and laughing about it."
And thinking damn look at all that chatting going on. Its gonna be a 175'er! |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Theres always one who thinks there high n mighty.. think he turned it nasty by calling us all nasty!
Dont think im high and mighty just fed up with "the gang" who run newbies out of the forums
They won't change. They can't see it. "
It is a shame but every dog has its day and not always able to hide on a keyboard that's when the monster turns into a mouse and feel very small and hopeless shit happens when you least expect it... |
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"I hope there is no one who has struggled mentally on this thread...if there is then you are a awful person....peace out xxx
I've had a full on breakdown. I've fucking struggled, I'm still fucking struggling.
And I'm an awful person. Stunning.
Not everyone has your strength to admit it and ask for help...treat others how you like to be treated
And if you look at my first post, before he left I think you'll find I did, so calling me awful is a shit move.
Theres always one who thinks there high n mighty.. think he turned it nasty by calling us all nasty!
Dont think im high and mighty just fed up with "the gang" who run newbies out of the forums "
Am in no gang and to be honest think he ment talking to him via his profile not on the forum |
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