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"for a quicky, i dont think so, but a relationship, i think thye do. especially big gaps (ie, younger partner is 20's and older is 50's) simply because the younger party will want to be going out all the time, if not straight away but later in life definitely. when they turn 40, and want to start living life again, will the other party want to be going out in thier 60's? course not. and thats when the cracks start appearing and things happen." I think for anything other than a nsa friendship it can be risky but for fun and good times it works peoples needs change as we get older I think | |||
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"for a quicky, i dont think so, but a relationship, i think thye do. especially big gaps (ie, younger partner is 20's and older is 50's) simply because the younger party will want to be going out all the time, if not straight away but later in life definitely. when they turn 40, and want to start living life again, will the other party want to be going out in thier 60's? course not. and thats when the cracks start appearing and things happen." Have you been in such relationship? I was 41 when i met jay he was 63, we are now 47 and 69. Would i ever have thought id be with someone that much older then my answer would be no. However, instead of cracks our relationship just gets stronger and stronger, and i wouldnt care if he was 79 as long as he was the person he is. He changed my life | |||
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"the thing about being with a much older man is, they have seen it all and done it all, well not quite. so nothing is so interesting and exciting as it is to you. they also think they are smarter than you." i dont get any of that, jay has taught me so much about life he is far more knowledgable than me | |||
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"the thing about being with a much older man is, they have seen it all and done it all, well not quite. so nothing is so interesting and exciting as it is to you. they also think they are smarter than you.i dont get any of that, jay has taught me so much about life he is far more knowledgable than me" thats good. people are all differnt. not saying its all bad. i do like having a father figure. | |||
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"for a quicky, i dont think so, but a relationship, i think thye do. especially big gaps (ie, younger partner is 20's and older is 50's) simply because the younger party will want to be going out all the time, if not straight away but later in life definitely. when they turn 40, and want to start living life again, will the other party want to be going out in thier 60's? course not. and thats when the cracks start appearing and things happen.Have you been in such relationship? I was 41 when i met jay he was 63, we are now 47 and 69. Would i ever have thought id be with someone that much older then my answer would be no. However, instead of cracks our relationship just gets stronger and stronger, and i wouldnt care if he was 79 as long as he was the person he is. He changed my life" not so much to that extreme, but i got with my ex in her mid teens, and i was in my mid 20's. i had already done all the clubbing shite and wasnt really interested, yet 10 years onto it, she wanted to start going out on a saturdya night the music scene wasnt what i was interested in, so she went out with her friends. hence she is my ex. | |||
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"for a quicky, i dont think so, but a relationship, i think thye do. especially big gaps (ie, younger partner is 20's and older is 50's) simply because the younger party will want to be going out all the time, if not straight away but later in life definitely. when they turn 40, and want to start living life again, will the other party want to be going out in thier 60's? course not. and thats when the cracks start appearing and things happen.Have you been in such relationship? I was 41 when i met jay he was 63, we are now 47 and 69. Would i ever have thought id be with someone that much older then my answer would be no. However, instead of cracks our relationship just gets stronger and stronger, and i wouldnt care if he was 79 as long as he was the person he is. He changed my life" I so happy to see it can work hope for me then maybe | |||
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"for a quicky, i dont think so, but a relationship, i think thye do. especially big gaps (ie, younger partner is 20's and older is 50's) simply because the younger party will want to be going out all the time, if not straight away but later in life definitely. when they turn 40, and want to start living life again, will the other party want to be going out in thier 60's? course not. and thats when the cracks start appearing and things happen.Have you been in such relationship? I was 41 when i met jay he was 63, we are now 47 and 69. Would i ever have thought id be with someone that much older then my answer would be no. However, instead of cracks our relationship just gets stronger and stronger, and i wouldnt care if he was 79 as long as he was the person he is. He changed my life I so happy to see it can work hope for me then maybe" it will work if you want it to, as ive said before on threaes, the only time i think about the age is when i respond to threads on here. of cause we have some interests that are different but doesnt everyone, but we have much more in common than not. Not sure what the age gap is between you and your partner, but something attracted you to them. I was conscious of the age gap to start with but not now and we have never had any negative comments(not so ive heard anyway lol) Good lookxx | |||
"for a quicky, i dont think so, but a relationship, i think thye do. especially big gaps (ie, younger partner is 20's and older is 50's) simply because the younger party will want to be going out all the time, if not straight away but later in life definitely. when they turn 40, and want to start living life again, will the other party want to be going out in thier 60's? course not. and thats when the cracks start appearing and things happen.Have you been in such relationship? I was 41 when i met jay he was 63, we are now 47 and 69. Would i ever have thought id be with someone that much older then my answer would be no. However, instead of cracks our relationship just gets stronger and stronger, and i wouldnt care if he was 79 as long as he was the person he is. He changed my life I so happy to see it can work hope for me then maybe it will work if you want it to, as ive said before on threaes, the only time i think about the age is when i respond to threads on here. of cause we have some interests that are different but doesnt everyone, but we have much more in common than not. Not sure what the age gap is between you and your partner, but something attracted you to them. I was conscious of the age gap to start with but not now and we have never had any negative comments(not so ive heard anyway lol) Good lookxx" you have give me hope I have tried to finish it lots times but we have far too much in common and he reads my mind most the time he says age just a number aswell | |||
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"But is it more accepted if the man is older rather than the women feels like more frowned on is the women a lot older "only to some people not to me though. my brother is married to an older woman they seem quite happy. it wouldnt bother me if my son married a woman who was 20 years older than him either. if she didnt have any kids and was a nice person. | |||
"But is it more accepted if the man is older rather than the women feels like more frowned on is the women a lot older "Do you feel you need to be accepted. Go with what you want, family and friends im sure will support you and does it really matter what strangers think. You look young for your age so im sure that will narrow down how much the age gap looks. But go with what you want and dont think about other people | |||
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"I am a complete hypocrite on this subject, it makes my skin crawl when I see a man double the age of any female smoozing and slithering with compliments, yet when it is the older female and younger guy, I think 'good on ya, have fun'... told you... hypocrite ". Sam Taylor-Wood, good on her I'd say! | |||
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"Maybe the large age gaps spoken of by a few of the posters only work because they are on Fab. This is by no means a negative but I wonder if this helps keep some relationships going " But sex is only part of any relationship, it takes much more than sex to hold a relationship together, its just one of our common interests | |||
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"Maybe the large age gaps spoken of by a few of the posters only work because they are on Fab. This is by no means a negative but I wonder if this helps keep some relationships going " i know sex isnt everything, you need to be good friends with someone as well. only sex is a lot more important to some people than it is to others. | |||
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"Would I have a relationship with a gent in his 20s? If he ticks all the boxes, then yes, and why not?! "Exactl. If you meet someone who is right for you then you dismiss them just because of their date of birth that would be so sad. People worry about strange things imo x | |||
"I agree it takes more than sex to keep people together. But it is a very big deal when its not there " True but isnt that true of any relationship, people dont have a cut off point to stop having sex. Jays like a rat up a drain pipe | |||
"I agree it takes more than sex to keep people together. But it is a very big deal when its not there True but isnt that true of any relationship, people dont have a cut off point to stop having sex. Jays like a rat up a drain pipe" LOl....it sounds like you have a lovely bloke there...cherish him | |||
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"Would I have a relationship with a gent in his 20s? If he ticks all the boxes, then yes, and why not?!
Exactl. If you meet someone who is right for you then you dismiss them just because of their date of birth that would be so sad. People worry about strange things imo x"I don't think worrying about the date of birth is strange, its my choice, I have never fancied or been attracted to anyone outside of my age as I was growing up so for me, my own age group is the norm not strange | |||
"Does age gaps matter or does it depend on what sort realationship we looking for " Yep they matter if the gap means the other partner has more crinkles than a Foxes Crinkle Crunch?  | |||
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"Does age gaps matter or does it depend on what sort realationship we looking for " Some matter some dont I wouldn't meet anyone my parents age though. | |||
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"I have been in a relationship with a guy twice my age (I'm 31, he's 62), for 5 years and its been the only relationship that has worked for me. He has been my everything, emotionally and physically. I have always felt safe with him. Only downside is that he fusses so much, but thats because he has witnessed me going from a healthy, vivacious 26 year old, to a very poorly 31 year old. He's been the best thing ever in my life. My guardian angel " i couldnt have said that better it is identical to us | |||
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"Nah don't bother me at all.. I have a thing for older guys xx" Helloooooo..... We're older Xx | |||
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"Does age gaps matter or does it depend on what sort realationship we looking for " Invariably yes if you are after a specific type of playmate. Some want people older than their children, others want young studs so it matters if your criteria can be age related. | |||
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