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PDA's in the Forums! Do they wind you up?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No - not those rickety old electonic gizmos!
"Public Displays of Affection!"
I'm not talking about the general banter between regulars that know eachother and freindly remarks between posters. I mean the one liner 'Nice tits love' or 'Your pics are fantastic' type posts that crop up mid thread just because someon'e taken a liking to the avatar above!
No contribution to the discussion. No follow up remark on the posters opinion. Just the kind of posting that seems like a lot of the messages folk on fab confine straight to the bin.
I love the forums and the more people joining in and making an interesting contribution the better - but seems that recently there's an increase of people (and yes, sadly single guys!) that think it's a great way to 'impress' others!
Or am I barking up the wrong tree?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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forums are a tool to get meets for me, much like winks,fabbing pics,lookedatme feature...
of course I can have a laugh n chat like I would do in a chatroom...just at my own pace while also mailing in pvt/looking for a meet via browsing |
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Behave you!
Answering seriously, seeing it happen doesn't really wind me up, most times it makes me giggle.
If it's directed at me (yes, it's happened once or twice for those sniggering at the back!) it can be a bit embarrassing.
Love flirty forum banter tho! |
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"Behave you!
Answering seriously, seeing it happen doesn't really wind me up, most times it makes me giggle.
If it's directed at me (yes, it's happened once or twice for those sniggering at the back!) it can be a bit embarrassing.
Love flirty forum banter tho! "
Aw love you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Behave you!
Answering seriously, seeing it happen doesn't really wind me up, most times it makes me giggle.
If it's directed at me (yes, it's happened once or twice for those sniggering at the back!) it can be a bit embarrassing.
Love flirty forum banter tho!
Aw love you
Giggles"
Get a room! |
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i tend to feel exasberated at it rather than annoyed.
much like the 'and they say romance is dead' feeling to it.
i mean, has anyone really walked up to someone in a pub or club, said 'nice tits' and got anywhere? lol. |
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"Behave you!
Answering seriously, seeing it happen doesn't really wind me up, most times it makes me giggle.
If it's directed at me (yes, it's happened once or twice for those sniggering at the back!) it can be a bit embarrassing.
Love flirty forum banter tho!
Aw love you
Giggles
Get a room!"
you coming too sweetie? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say that.... but I would say that sometimes I see full on flirting between certain posters and I do think
"that would be better if it was taken to PM"
sometimes its does make me cringe......
it can be overpowering in some threads... and it does have its place and I can see how it would put some people off....
slush and fluff is for some, but it isn't for everyone, if i have something to say like that i tell them in a PM....
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"Behave you!
Answering seriously, seeing it happen doesn't really wind me up, most times it makes me giggle.
If it's directed at me (yes, it's happened once or twice for those sniggering at the back!) it can be a bit embarrassing.
Love flirty forum banter tho!
Aw love you
Giggles
Get a room!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No - not those rickety old electonic gizmos!
"Public Displays of Affection!"
I'm not talking about the general banter between regulars that know eachother and freindly remarks between posters. I mean the one liner 'Nice tits love' or 'Your pics are fantastic' type posts that crop up mid thread just because someon'e taken a liking to the avatar above!
No contribution to the discussion. No follow up remark on the posters opinion. Just the kind of posting that seems like a lot of the messages folk on fab confine straight to the bin.
I love the forums and the more people joining in and making an interesting contribution the better - but seems that recently there's an increase of people (and yes, sadly single guys!) that think it's a great way to 'impress' others!
Or am I barking up the wrong tree?
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Yes you are barking up the wrong tree and being a total misery guts too. If someone has gone to the trouble of taking a nice photo of their lovely tits/cock/arse/pussy and then uploaded it for all to see then compliments due should be given.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The one thing I have noticed - and sadly guys are more guilty of this than girls - but people who only respond to posts made by people they might want to fuck.
A guy posts a thread, another guy answers with a relevant response, nothing back from the from OP
Then a lady answers, bang 'thanks hun' 'cheers sweetie' 'nice pics' flirt, flirt, flirt
It is also generally not regular forumites that play this card.
But at the end of the day, the forums are here for all of to use as we sit fit within the guidelines, so if some want to use them to cast the nets a bit deeper, good luck to um. |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"some of the flirty posts are cringe worthy,and should sent as pms.
the forums are not the place for this kind of behavior grrrrrrrrr.  "
ooooooo saucy your looking so hot.
i'm getting a bit damp just looking at your avatar,and i'm a straight male,
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
ps bootynco,theres a cock pic on it's way.
pps your profiles so good,i almost read the words.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No - not those rickety old electonic gizmos!
"Public Displays of Affection!"
I'm not talking about the general banter between regulars that know eachother and freindly remarks between posters. I mean the one liner 'Nice tits love' or 'Your pics are fantastic' type posts that crop up mid thread just because someon'e taken a liking to the avatar above!
No contribution to the discussion. No follow up remark on the posters opinion. Just the kind of posting that seems like a lot of the messages folk on fab confine straight to the bin.
I love the forums and the more people joining in and making an interesting contribution the better - but seems that recently there's an increase of people (and yes, sadly single guys!) that think it's a great way to 'impress' others!
Or am I barking up the wrong tree?
Yes you are barking up the wrong tree and being a total misery guts too. If someone has gone to the trouble of taking a nice photo of their lovely tits/cock/arse/pussy and then uploaded it for all to see then compliments due should be given. "
My humble apologies! 
Nice legs!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i tend to feel exasberated at it rather than annoyed.
much like the 'and they say romance is dead' feeling to it.
i mean, has anyone really walked up to someone in a pub or club, said 'nice tits' and got anywhere? lol."
First thing I ever said to my Italian girlfriend was "Christ what an arse...!!"
We were together for eight years...;-) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i tend to feel exasberated at it rather than annoyed.
much like the 'and they say romance is dead' feeling to it.
i mean, has anyone really walked up to someone in a pub or club, said 'nice tits' and got anywhere? lol.
First thing I ever said to my Italian girlfriend was "Christ what an arse...!!"
We were together for eight years...;-)"
Hopefully that was a good 'Christ what an arse.....' - rather than a 'Christ, what an arse......guess i'll have to stand up for the whole tube journey!' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i tend to feel exasberated at it rather than annoyed.
much like the 'and they say romance is dead' feeling to it.
i mean, has anyone really walked up to someone in a pub or club, said 'nice tits' and got anywhere? lol.
First thing I ever said to my Italian girlfriend was "Christ what an arse...!!"
We were together for eight years...;-)
Hopefully that was a good 'Christ what an arse.....' - rather than a 'Christ, what an arse......guess i'll have to stand up for the whole tube journey!' "
Italian curves...;-);-) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i tend to feel exasberated at it rather than annoyed.
much like the 'and they say romance is dead' feeling to it.
i mean, has anyone really walked up to someone in a pub or club, said 'nice tits' and got anywhere? lol.
First thing I ever said to my Italian girlfriend was "Christ what an arse...!!"
We were together for eight years...;-)
Hopefully that was a good 'Christ what an arse.....' - rather than a 'Christ, what an arse......guess i'll have to stand up for the whole tube journey!'
Italian curves...;-);-)"
Having just been to Italy.......I know exactly what you mean!!!
Even the check out chicks in Rome look like supermodels!  |
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"The one thing I have noticed - and sadly guys are more guilty of this than girls - but people who only respond to posts made by people they might want to fuck.
A guy posts a thread, another guy answers with a relevant response, nothing back from the from OP
Then a lady answers, bang 'thanks hun' 'cheers sweetie' 'nice pics' flirt, flirt, flirt
It is also generally not regular forumites that play this card.
But at the end of the day, the forums are here for all of to use as we sit fit within the guidelines, so if some want to use them to cast the nets a bit deeper, good luck to um."
It's not just on here that you see this phenomenon... it's something that I see happen every day in the workplace.
My team at work is primarily made up of guys but there is an attractive female too. I've lost count of the number of times I've got her to make a suggestion in a meeting of something that I've thought of but I've known I'll get buy-in from people - or at least a lot less questioning from them - if it's the female with the nice eyes and great tits who does the talking.
I'm fully aware that it's wrong that this takes place, and it's degrading and disrespectful yada yada yada but I'd be foolish not to use this damned effective weapon from time to time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Italian curves...;-);-)
Having just been to Italy.......I know exactly what you mean!!!
Even the check out chicks in Rome look like supermodels! "
Next time ya go, try Tuscany... The Florentines are designed with an airbrush...;-)
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