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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I suppose this is aimed more at couples who have sex regularly, or the swinger singles who use to get plenty sex in haha...
Do you always go full out kink and experiment sexually, or do you have vanilla sessions too, or does that do nothing for you?
I feel like if I was to go full out every time I had sex it would get a bit much (I would want to do stuff most days) so vanilla pleasure and sensual sex would probably make up a large part of my sex life.. |
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"There's no way I was going full on kink with someone I didn't know very well.
Tried it once and it was a huge mistake and one I'm not wanting to make again.
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I think he meant, do people who meet regularly, always have full on kinky sex, or do they sometimes have vanilla sensual stuff. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"There's no way I was going full on kink with someone I didn't know very well.
Tried it once and it was a huge mistake and one I'm not wanting to make again.
I think he meant, do people who meet regularly, always have full on kinky sex, or do they sometimes have vanilla sensual stuff."
Ooohhh that makes much more sense 
Sometimes both in the same night. Variety is the spice of life after all  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's no way I was going full on kink with someone I didn't know very well.
Tried it once and it was a huge mistake and one I'm not wanting to make again.
I think he meant, do people who meet regularly, always have full on kinky sex, or do they sometimes have vanilla sensual stuff.
Ooohhh that makes much more sense
Sometimes both in the same night. Variety is the spice of life after all "
Maybe not worded well haha.
Yes I mainly mean couples who regularly (I hope) have sex together... is everyday an experiment, kink intense sex, or is there days or long periods of ‘normal vanilla’ sex |
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Variety is the spice of life.
The thing that is good about doing something different is that it isn't the same as normal. If you do it all the time, then it becomes normal... then you need to do something else for that "different-ness"
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By (user no longer on site)
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It depends, some people its pure kink, others its a mix of both 
Sometimes they barely make it into the room before the fun start,others we have a coffee and chat first
It all depends on the person and our mood at the time  |
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"There's no way I was going full on kink with someone I didn't know very well.
Tried it once and it was a huge mistake and one I'm not wanting to make again.
I think he meant, do people who meet regularly, always have full on kinky sex, or do they sometimes have vanilla sensual stuff.
Ooohhh that makes much more sense
Sometimes both in the same night. Variety is the spice of life after all
Maybe not worded well haha.
Yes I mainly mean couples who regularly (I hope) have sex together... is everyday an experiment, kink intense sex, or is there days or long periods of ‘normal vanilla’ sex "
I've not always been single ya know  and that was varied but defo more vanilla type than kink
When I was single and meeting fairly regularly, see the first bit ^ |
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Never had vanilla sex. It's just not us. There is always a bdsm element and I'm fully submissive so that is in every sex session. We don't do everything every time tho. Watersports and corner time for example is semi regular
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I get what you mean OP.
No, as a couple we don't go all out for every sex session we have, we don't always involve toys and extra bits, we like to make love or make it a bit more passionate without all that too. Don't go all out every time, would kill me off haha!
Like to mix things up
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We mostly have vanilla sex and sometimes with a dash of kink added in. Our more kinky sessions happen when we don't have the kids around and when we have more time to indulge each other.
It's definitely more vanilla at the moment 
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Depends on the situation. I tend to have an ice breaker fuck with couples or people - just to get used to each other, but I tend to find people I can play with regular and I find the kinks and trust build from there x |
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