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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No
However I don't see it as this terrible thing to happen.
Particularly if it's mutual.
It's like any situation really, if you're being intimate with someone there's always some level of feeling and the chance for our hearts to get involved.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. We met in a dungeon thanks to Obifox and their social and are hoping to get married in two years.
And then I met another at a social.
Clearly I'm a fool for love."
I love this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
But another interesting angle is... Would you still "use" them if they wanted more? 
Use them?"
They want love you give them sex. Or you tried to make things work but it doesn't, have you retrospectively wasted their time? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I don't see why it wouldn't/shouldn't be possible - just because of the underlying purpose of the site it's no different from anywhere else you might meet people you find a connection and chemistry with sufficient to form a lasting bond |
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I met my last partner on fab and we fell in love the minute we met. Spent 4 fantastic years together and he’s still my fb and best friend now. It’s not what I’m looking for but if it happens and it’s mutual then go with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, didn't intend for it to happen. Unfortunately it just ended, still hurts a little when I think about it.
Shes all loved up now, I'm happy for her but I avoid any contact with her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, something I'm not looking for on here. "
I was the same, it just happened. I certainly didn't want love from fab. As others have said, it's like any other meeting place and occasionally someone might come along when you least expect it and the feeling is very mutual.
It's life after all x |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
I have started to catch 'feelings' before and so called time on our meetings as I knew it wasn't what he was looking for.
Can still chat as friends though and thats the important thing to me. Would rather save a friendship than ruin it for sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some times u can't help but get the feels when you speak to someone every day and long for the touch of a person and to be with them. Its a tough one as u don't wanna get caught up and find out they don't feel the same and it's easy to get confused with love and last.
Thats all I will say on that matter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No but I intend to.
I will always be a swinger so I need to fall in love with a swinger, or not love at all, for I won't change who I am and go back to "vanilla" relationships |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have and it's been 5 wonderful years. We was definitely not looking for love as it's a funny situation for those that know us know why but it works for us. X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?
I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?
I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy"
No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?
I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy
No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. "
the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?
I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy
No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me "
Ask her ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?
I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy
No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me
Ask her ?"
that would be brave |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?
I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy
No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me
Ask her ? that would be brave"
Seize the day! You can do it. Be brave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The answers no for me.
I won’t be falling for anyone from fab as I wouldn’t date anyone from fab. I’m pretty good at keeping a handle on my emotions.
I don’t really believe in the whole you can’t help who you fall for saying. I keep men and meets at a distance from here. |
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Yes...I knew from the months of chatting before we met we had something good.
Meeting kind of confirmed it was different and then subsequent meets just brought us closer.
We both weren’t looking, but we couldn’t deny our feelings...
K
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?
I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy
No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me
Ask her ? that would be brave
Seize the day! You can do it. Be brave "
I'm sure seize the day is an avenged sevenfold song  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other thing to ask is can you fall for someone you have never even met?
I have been talking daily to one woman on gmfab now for over a year not always sexual stuff just day to day chat and I have developed feelings for her. Am I crazy
No not crazy.. its easy to fall for the persona rather than the person. the crazy thing is she has commented on the thread and I wonder if she means me
Ask her ? that would be brave
Seize the day! You can do it. Be brave I'm sure seize the day is an avenged sevenfold song "
Haha.
I just wouldn’t be able to help myself and ask. I ask any old crap that comes to mind ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, something I'm not looking for on here.
I was the same, it just happened. I certainly didn't want love from fab. As others have said, it's like any other meeting place and occasionally someone might come along when you least expect it and the feeling is very mutual.
It's life after all x"
So are you together ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we did! It wasn’t anything either of us intended and after a year of meeting on and off realised what was happening. Both of us terrified to tell the other, me trying to walk away from what I thought was complete madness. Thankfully took the plunge, opened up and now 7 years later we are still enjoying each other.
Mrs x |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Yes ive had 3 relationships from fab during my 9 years here and i couldnt imagine dating a vanilla person now...but sadly none lasted...not sure if its because im actually a horrid person or whether the guys ive fallen for are just not on the same page...either way its a spinster cat lady life for me now cos its just not worth the heartache of having to start over again  |
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