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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I know I have been away for fad for about 4 years, but it seems there are more prick teasers on than ever, several conversations where it's got to the point of fixing up a meet for post lockdown , then boom they delete and block.
Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I think that it’s easy to blame others and call people time wasters or as you put it; prick teasers. The truth of the matter though is usually far less simplistic.
Most of the time, people don’t cut contact for no reason and if you’ve done your due diligence, they won’t be time wasters. Which leaves it as someone changing their mind.
Blaming the other person, without a degree of introspection, is usually missing the point |
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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I wasn't actually having a rant, I know we all have choices, but when someone else sets the pace of the conversation and cuts you off in mid stream, it is a little annoying.
Hence I used the term.
Slate me for it if you will.
Rant over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People change their minds for various reason, they have that right to.
It could be something you said, it could be just a case that aren't that interested anymore."
Pity some don't realise that on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I have been away for fad for about 4 years, but it seems there are more prick teasers on than ever, several conversations where it's got to the point of fixing up a meet for post lockdown , then boom they delete and block.
Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating"
I thought this was going to be a new sex toy for us men by the heading..
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"What if, and bear with me here because ita a little outlandish, they weren't *really* women you were talking to? 
LvM that thought never crossed my mind actually.
Silly mistake on my part"
It happens unfortunately, you'll just have to trust your gut. If the smoking hot eighteen year old, who looks suspiciously like your favourite pornstar, and just joined the site a week ago, is desperate to gobble your cock and gargle your gravy... I've got bad news 
LvM |
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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"What if, and bear with me here because ita a little outlandish, they weren't *really* women you were talking to?
LvM that thought never crossed my mind actually.
Silly mistake on my part
It happens unfortunately, you'll just have to trust your gut. If the smoking hot eighteen year old, who looks suspiciously like your favourite pornstar, and just joined the site a week ago, is desperate to gobble your cock and gargle your gravy... I've got bad news
LvM"
I don't go that low age wise, but get your point.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if, and bear with me here because ita a little outlandish, they weren't *really* women you were talking to?
LvM that thought never crossed my mind actually.
Silly mistake on my part
It happens unfortunately, you'll just have to trust your gut. If the smoking hot eighteen year old, who looks suspiciously like your favourite pornstar, and just joined the site a week ago, is desperate to gobble your cock and gargle your gravy... I've got bad news
LvM
I don't go that low age wise, but get your point.
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We’re they very forward? Talking a bit racey? Chances are they’re not what they seem. |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
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"I know I have been away for fad for about 4 years, but it seems there are more prick teasers on than ever, several conversations where it's got to the point of fixing up a meet for post lockdown , then boom they delete and block.
Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating
I thought this was going to be a new sex toy for us men by the heading..
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Unlucky for you  |
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"It literally was setting the date and that came from them not me"
Did covid vanish while I wasn’t looking? You shouldn’t be setting a date.
And maybe she changed her mind because of your antiquated, sexist language. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I have been away for fad for about 4 years, but it seems there are more prick teasers on than ever, several conversations where it's got to the point of fixing up a meet for post lockdown , then boom they delete and block.
Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating
I thought this was going to be a new sex toy for us men by the heading..
Unlucky for you "
I know right.. damn |
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So whats the reverse called? Have met the same guy quite a few times over the years, and chat intermittently when neither of us are meeting. Then he usually goes "quiet". Just started the chatty thing again to find, Friday night he was all for the most delicious filthiest of chat. Same night- about 10 mins later - zip, nada. I'm suspecting the wife got hold of his phone!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So whats the reverse called? Have met the same guy quite a few times over the years, and chat intermittently when neither of us are meeting. Then he usually goes "quiet". Just started the chatty thing again to find, Friday night he was all for the most delicious filthiest of chat. Same night- about 10 mins later - zip, nada. I'm suspecting the wife got hold of his phone!!"
See my thread entitled Men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So whats the reverse called? Have met the same guy quite a few times over the years, and chat intermittently when neither of us are meeting. Then he usually goes "quiet". Just started the chatty thing again to find, Friday night he was all for the most delicious filthiest of chat. Same night- about 10 mins later - zip, nada. I'm suspecting the wife got hold of his phone!!"
Sounds like he was having a phone wank.
I never talk dirty for this reason. |
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I've had similar OP, even turned up outside where 1 woman on here was staying (after arranging a meet obviously), only to find she'd blocked me! Maybe a time waster, maybe nerves got the better of her, I'll never know.
Others just stop messaging, not from anything I've said I don't think.
Remember that as males, each female or couple we message might get 50/100 or even more messages off other males, so a change of heart is highly likely!
Just think, they missed out on a good meet, & move on  |
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I never get people that are in the mindset that anyone on here owes anyone anything (i.e. A reply, A face pic in return, explaining themselves and there choices) yes I get that it can be incredibly frustrating for some and we've been in the position where we've been ghosted ourselves but for God sake come on...... We are all adults so can we stop throwing the toys out the pram when we don't get what we want. Lifes a bitch and not all people conduct themselves in the same manner, take it on the chin and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I have been away for fad for about 4 years, but it seems there are more prick teasers on than ever, several conversations where it's got to the point of fixing up a meet for post lockdown , then boom they delete and block.
Not that I am bothered, but it is a little frustrating"
You say you aren't bothered, yet you post about it?
Something tells me it might be the way you communicate with them as this is itself is a little passive agressive.
Or as others have said they have simply changed their minds which everyone has the right to do so, even without explaination |
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