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Who do you have sex for?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does everyone have a exhibitionist streak?
In the day and age of cyber sex, recording everything, amateur porn and cam shows, do folk still have sex for themselves? No showing off, no point proving just pure enjoyable private pleasure. Just musing.   |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
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"I do but I'm curious about being watched. Obviously I've been seen having sex in clubs but I was always very absorbed in what I was doing and not paying much attention to anyone else. "
Ditto, it's for my and my partner at that time though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer intimate encounter, I’m more of a giver so the experience is more around enjoying pleasing whilst enjoying it myself too, don’t feel the need to involve others to enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much so, sex is private for me. Despite me having a few naughty solo videos on here (which is just a naughty turn on) when I have with someone it's just me and him, focused on each other.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very much so, sex is private for me. Despite me having a few naughty solo videos on here (which is just a naughty turn on) when I have with someone it's just me and him, focused on each other.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In the Facebook Instagram Tik Tok age, this question can be asked about any aspect of life.
Why bother doing it if no-one is watching.
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Sad state of affairs really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having sex in front of others in a club, IS having sex for myself.
It is a kink.
I get turned on being watched  "
In regards to cyber though, that does nothing for me.
I like to see my audience.
I also do still have private 1 on 1 sex x |
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I'm not much of a fan of having people watching if I know they're watching at the time.
When we went to a club my ex loved it, so I indulged. What I didn't like was the sense that it was to "show off" because he wouldn't have the same sex there that we had at home (and we'd have a lot of different sex at home)
It was more "jackhammer" and pounding and didn't feel natural or right, I didn't feel connected to him at that time, but that he was feeling connected to his audience.
I have videos and photos that are natural and I'm happy for others to see those (all parties permitting of course) so it feels like I'm sharing a story rather than being part of someone else's performance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does everyone have a exhibitionist streak?
In the day and age of cyber sex, recording everything, amateur porn and cam shows, do folk still have sex for themselves? No showing off, no point proving just pure enjoyable private pleasure. Just musing. "
Both really!
Private enjoyment is fantastic - and exploring each other and having fun is great.
But there’s something nice about recording it for the flashbacks and memories. And maybe sharing that a little.
Not one for live action though. Yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I am have sex no matter if it’s filmed private or people watching I am have sex for me and because I injoy it
Will say though sex for the camera and in front off people is different that my private sex
Yes I play to the crowed or the camera but I love all aspects off it |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I only ever have sex for myself and the person I am with - even when I used to go to clubs a fair bit.
There were two occasions in that time I was "aware" of being watched but even so on those occasions it was still very much about me and the person(s) I was with - although one of them gathered quite an audience and left me feeling "in the spotlight" a little more than I was comfortable with |
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We have sex for ourselves and each other...I doubt we’d change in a club or in a room with others. I certainly won’t get all porn starry 
We’ve done a couple of videos but they’ll never be shared with anyone else....they are for our eyes only.
I think C has an exhibitionist streak and enjoys the admiring glances and comments but I don’t think she cares when the action starts as she’s in her own bubble then.... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have sex for reciprocal pleasure. Sometimes I’m greedy and like things to be one sided often with my partner wanting the same kind of meet.
In terms of exhibitionism, I used to like being watched and recorded, I don’t mind so much but I just don’t think my body looks as good as it used to. Depends who is watching too I guess.
I do like photography anyway so taking naughty pictures and putting effort in to get a good shot is always fun! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Does everyone have a exhibitionist streak?
In the day and age of cyber sex, recording everything, amateur porn and cam shows, do folk still have sex for themselves? No showing off, no point proving just pure enjoyable private pleasure. Just musing. "
Its only recently that we started actively taking photos and video footage. Most of our kink play is for those involved only.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always wanted to be in the room, in the moment when making love or even having a quickie.
I had a lover once who loved being filmed. Took a while but I got used to it.
Preference by far is in the room in the experience with lots of time and not to be disturbed.
Socks off for sure. |
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