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over a year ago
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Spoken to like crap by the mrs work like a horse and still not happy feel trapped need a discreet woman for fun or either Sumone to talk and chill with xxx |
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"Spoken to like crap by the mrs work like a horse and still not happy feel trapped need a discreet woman for fun or either Sumone to talk and chill with xxx"
been there so understand. However if its that bad then escape. I did and have never regreted it
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over a year ago
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"Spoken to like crap by the mrs work like a horse and still not happy feel trapped need a discreet woman for fun or either Sumone to talk and chill with xxx"
Leave the lady!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't it's propa comPlicated, iv left my family mum dad sister brother aunty uncle u name it everyone for her and had a kid; if I leave I can't go back to my mum n dad iv got no one to go to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The thing about attached men is they usually want it all on their own terms.
You can't drop them a message if you happen to feel horny, you can only see them when they can get away and then they expect you to be on call and drop everything for them, and they treat you as a dirty secret (because you are).
Even with NSA fun it's not nice to feel like a temporary itch scratching service.
Plus a lot of women don't want to be complicit in hurting another woman, should she find out.
It's not even that she's lost interest in you in this case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't it's propa comPlicated, iv left my family mum dad sister brother aunty uncle u name it everyone for her and had a kid; if I leave I can't go back to my mum n dad iv got no one to go to "
Can't you send her back to HER mums?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thing about attached men is they usually want it all on their own terms.
You can't drop them a message if you happen to feel horny, you can only see them when they can get away and then they expect you to be on call and drop everything for them, and they treat you as a dirty secret (because you are).
Even with NSA fun it's not nice to feel like a temporary itch scratching service.
Plus a lot of women don't want to be complicit in hurting another woman, should she find out.
It's not even that she's lost interest in you in this case."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't it's propa comPlicated, iv left my family mum dad sister brother aunty uncle u name it everyone for her and had a kid; if I leave I can't go back to my mum n dad iv got no one to go to "
Sorry that sounds a bit pathetic man up and leave. Go it alone and you never know. And you can still see your kid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I will admit we do play with attached guys. It honestly doesn't bother me as long as they ops and honest about it rather than try and hide the fact. And based on those guys veris other couples must be willing too as they don't seem to struggle getting meets.
I know others feel differently and that's their choice but I just wanted to let you know there are those that will meet attached guys so don't give up hope.
And at least you honest snd not trying to hide fact you playing behind wife's back like so many on here  |
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"I can't it's propa comPlicated, iv left my family mum dad sister brother aunty uncle u name it everyone for her and had a kid; if I leave I can't go back to my mum n dad iv got no one to go to
Sorry that sounds a bit pathetic man up and leave. Go it alone and you never know. And you can still see your kid"
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Spoken to like crap by the mrs work like a horse and still not happy feel trapped need a discreet woman for fun or either Sumone to talk and chill with xxx"
If you cannot resolve the issues, perhaps through mediation or counselling, then think about whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life in misery or make a change. It may be harder to make a change than to put up with misery - if there are children involved that has to be a consideration.But bear in mind that children dont do well in an unhappy environment. Best of luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some find being single worse than sticking with someone when it's gone naff - trust me, it ain't going to get any better!
Leaving my last ex was the best thing I ever did. I walked out of a very very bad relationship that was heading for worse, had a rest then found my real life partner - couldn't say I'd found my life partner before, if you know what I mean - they were always nearly right, rather than really right.
Anyway good luck, whatever you do OP
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think people fear being alone but if you try hard enough and don't come across desperate you can usually meet a fair few people who turn out to be pretty good FWBs
Some relationships just have to end. |
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