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Ironic profile demands. ?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just read a profile that says

"only looking for athletic men...."

And ends with

"im curvy with bumps and lumps in wrong places".

(And the photos confirm it)

Why do people demand/ expect-to-be-entitled to perfection when they are waaaay less than perfect themselves ?

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

I'm sure this has probably been pointed out in the past.

What type of other contradictory ironic or sheer ridiculous profiles have you come across ?

Share and lets be bemused !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will watch this thread with interest

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By *melia DominaTV/TS over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Because people have the choice to want whatever they want. If that means they reduce the amount of individuals they have an oportunity to meet, so be it.

They can't complain if they don't meet anyone because their limits are do demanding.

It is like saying. My age range is from 27-28 and I'd like to meet bi sexual woman.

Absolutely Unrealistic expectations.

But it's choice... and it's human to be able to choose.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love it when men get but hurt cause women express preference and are free to do so and the patriarchy are like, wait what, when did this happen, we’ve had it our own way for sooo long and now women be like yeah this shit is gonna change and men be like, ‘my ego can’t deal with this!’ Boo fucking hoo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love it when men get but hurt cause women express preference and are free to do so and the patriarchy are like, wait what, when did this happen, we’ve had it our own way for sooo long and now women be like yeah this shit is gonna change and men be like, ‘my ego can’t deal with this!’ Boo fucking hoo. "

* butt

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By *s.KerryTV/TS over a year ago

Blackpool

Why on earth does it even matter to you O.P? Everyone is entitled to choose who they meet...

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

What has body shape to do with personality ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not sure it's about being hurt, more how ridiculous it was to read and see.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think it is ridiculous to prefer a body type different to your own. Some women like beards but don't have one themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What has body shape to do with personality ?"

They don't.

But if they have an amazing personality, looks may not matter.

So in this case, I'm asking about poor body shape AND poor personality.

Which clearly this person had, from various other stuff they had on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How dare us curvy women have a preference, we should all be glad of what we get..

Sometimes it saddens me that people think like this but it no longer surprises me.

As a curvy woman, lumps, bumps, rolls and fat, I make no apology for my preferences OP.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

If you don't like someone's profile just move on to another

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Preference no?

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By *tormchasingCouple over a year ago

Essex

What has body shape to do with personality ?

They don't.

But if they have an amazing personality, looks may not matter.

So in this case, I'm asking about poor body shape AND poor personality.

Which clearly this person had, from various other stuff they had on their profile. "

What is "poor" body shape please?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think it is ridiculous to prefer a body type different to your own. Some women like beards but don't have one themselves

Sally the voice of common sense in a sea of craziness!

Would you marry me?

The lady with the lumps and bumps was not being ironic she was merely expressing a choice as to whom she would like to meet in an intimate setting!

Thank heavens for choices and expressing desires!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure it's about being hurt, more how ridiculous it was to read and see. "

Nah. I’ve been here long enough to read between the lines. What’s ridiculous is that you think personality is relative to body shape and that people are all attracted to the same thing, Why shouldn’t women ask for athletic, regardless of what size they are, they’re in the box seats here and can pick and choose. Things have moved on from ‘Women know your limits’ Try and keep up.

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By *ydropoweredMan over a year ago

By the river

Some women don't have beards... Some have the odd moustache

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

How dare she, or anyone have a preference?!

And “awful body shape”? Please tell me I’ve interpreted that wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many gym fit athletic men are attracted to curvy women for starters mate.

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

If a lady decides she wants Cavier as opposed to a low grade microwave meal then a, she absolutely has that right and b, she's highly likely to get what she wants given the ratio numbers so more power to her.

Finally people come here for sexual experiences why should they settle for 2nd best just to apease someone else who's feeling butt hurt because they aren't getting anywhere.

The view your adopting is really not a good look, bitterness is most definitely not sexy and approachable. Continue to go down this path and your going ruin any chances you could have on fab before you start buddy.

No genuine single male swinger who embraces and is a valued part of the UK Swinging scene would post what you just posted. It's smacks of entitlement, bitterness and a total lack of awareness regarding the swinging lifestyle.

Most of the highly successful single male swingers we know are pretty average looking, with average cocks and standard bodies / dad boss etc.

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"How dare she, or anyone have a preference?!

And “awful body shape”? Please tell me I’ve interpreted that wrong

Sadly you haven't and it speaks volumes about the OP.

KJ"

Oh dear, I guess us curvier ladies have been put in their place. Back into our tower we go

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ?

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By *ydropoweredMan over a year ago

By the river

Even if someone stated on their profile what their perfect body would be

That's down to individual taste

There's no such thing as textbook perfection

If your looking for someone who matches you exactly - look in the mirror and have a play

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ? "

Regardless of the numbers ratio women can be picky, we don’t have to fall for any many that shows an interest and be grateful for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like athletic types and I am fat.

I like a hard body against my soft one.

'Some' men like petite, or lithe, or slim women, but I don't get my knickers in a twist over it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many gym fit athletic men are attracted to curvy women for starters mate.

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

Finally people come here for sexual experiences why should they settle for 2nd best just to apease someone else who's feeling butt hurt because they aren't getting anywhere.

Most of the highly successful single male swingers we know are pretty average looking, with average cocks and standard bodies / dad boss etc.

KJ"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ?

So having sex with a larger lady means a man is "lowering his standards" ?"

I don't know. Ask KJ. Thats what it seems they were saying in their reply.

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"How dare us curvy women have a preference, we should all be glad of what we get..

Sometimes it saddens me that people think like this but it no longer surprises me.

As a curvy woman, lumps, bumps, rolls and fat, I make no apology for my preferences OP.

It wasn't having the preference that was the issue.

It was that she also wrote "if youre not athletic don't bother. Ive got standards. expect a toned body if its coming anywhere near me.."

Which translates as saying anything not athletic is ugly.

Which i found ironic given how she describes her own body. "

I see my body similar to how she does, but that absolutely has no reflection on how I see other people, not in slightest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does that mean we should have sex with people who are like us? And if an athletic guy comes my way, I must reject him or be eternally grateful for him touching me without expressing disgust?

OP, your language towards that woman is absolutely disgusting. Rejection isn't easy to accept but body shaming is not acceptable.

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman over a year ago

St. Ives

"How dare us curvy women have a preference, we should all be glad of what we get..

Sometimes it saddens me that people think like this but it no longer surprises me.

As a curvy woman, lumps, bumps, rolls and fat, I make no apology for my preferences OP. "

Yes girl!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because there’s a difference between ‘preferring a type’ and ‘being a type,’ and people are free to prefer whoever the hell they like, irrespective of who they are themselves.

How do those grapes taste? Sour much?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because there’s a difference between ‘preferring a type’ and ‘being a type,’ and people are free to prefer whoever the hell they like, irrespective of who they are themselves.

How do those grapes taste? Sour much?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Demand/expect...???

That's bit harsh

This site is supposed to be about people exploring their fantasies abd sometimes those fantasies are specific. If the description doesn't match who you are or what you're looking for, then just move on! Everyone is entitled to ask for something they'd like or state a preference without judgement.

Tabitha x

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By *RSTCouple over a year ago

S. Northants

"I won't talk to anyone without a photo"... Said the silhouette with no photos.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ? "

I stared a fact nothing more how you interpreted that fact just further reinforces to people that you just don't get, embrace the swinging life style and are instead one of the countless men here padding the numbers hoping for a free fuck and then whinging when it doesn't happen.

When you take out the here for a free fuck guys out of the equation

The number of genuine single male swingers (i.e. guys known on the club scene, social circuit, private parties etc who have over time built up a respected profile and reputation in the swinging world) are fairly matched numbers wise to the number of single women and couples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What has body shape to do with personality ?

They don't.

But if they have an amazing personality, looks may not matter.

So in this case, I'm asking about poor body shape AND poor personality.

Which clearly this person had, from various other stuff they had on their profile. "

You've worked out the poor personality of the profile from what they've written. Thankfully, that works for all of us!

People often list what they want. Sometimes they get it, sometimes they don't. Welcome to the world

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the OP gets it ............he is just a pup after all?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just read a profile that says

"only looking for athletic men...."

And ends with

"im curvy with bumps and lumps in wrong places".

(And the photos confirm it)

Why do people demand/ expect-to-be-entitled to perfection when they are waaaay less than perfect themselves ?

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

I'm sure this has probably been pointed out in the past.

What type of other contradictory ironic or sheer ridiculous profiles have you come across ?

Share and lets be bemused !"

Not sure what shocks me more, your attitude or the fact you expect people to share their judgements too.

I'm potatoey shaped and pretty proud. I can change my shape though if I wish too. You can't change your 'awful personality'

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"Just read a profile that says

"only looking for athletic men...."

And ends with

"im curvy with bumps and lumps in wrong places".

(And the photos confirm it)

Why do people demand/ expect-to-be-entitled to perfection when they are waaaay less than perfect themselves ?

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

I'm sure this has probably been pointed out in the past.

What type of other contradictory ironic or sheer ridiculous profiles have you come across ?

Share and lets be bemused !"

Why can't a woman or a man set their sights high, it's called preference(although it'll be harder for a man) some women like dad bods as shown in many a thread.

Chances are she'll get someone who wants what she has and some gym fit men like bigger curvier women.

Very arrogant and sad to see that people think that only gym fit should meet gym fit, or is there a hint of jealousy ?

Life's short, try to have a more positive outlook on life and be happy that a curvy woman with lumps in the wrong places (her words) might get to have fun with her fantasy kind of guy

I wish her well and say good luck and fair play to her

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Suck it up, buttercup

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many gym fit athletic men are attracted to curvy women for starters mate.

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

Finally people come here for sexual experiences why should they settle for 2nd best just to apease someone else who's feeling butt hurt because they aren't getting anywhere.

Most of the highly successful single male swingers we know are pretty average looking, with average cocks and standard bodies / dad boss etc.

KJ"

Really well explained KJ. I have previously been a single male on the scene for nearly 20 years and attitude and respect are the main differences between swingers and the volume of single males who enter the scene now.

It's a shame as there are some genuinely nice guys out there, now drowned out by the tsunami of entitled wannabe cocksmiths who believe they deserve to get laid for signing up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How dare us curvy women have a preference, we should all be glad of what we get..

Sometimes it saddens me that people think like this but it no longer surprises me.

As a curvy woman, lumps, bumps, rolls and fat, I make no apology for my preferences OP.

It wasn't having the preference that was the issue.

It was that she also wrote "if youre not athletic don't bother. Ive got standards. expect a toned body if its coming anywhere near me.."

Which translates as saying anything not athletic is ugly.

Which i found ironic given how she describes her own body. "

Many toned, athletic types actually really like bigger people and wobbly bits. I've even met some!

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Absolutely agree OP, this place is full of hypocrisy. So many profiles stating they like big boobs when they're barely an A cup themselves or brag about their large appendage but when I get my big purple one out, suddenly big isn't best anymore

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Because people have the choice to want whatever they want. If that means they reduce the amount of individuals they have an oportunity to meet, so be it.

They can't complain if they don't meet anyone because their limits are do demanding.

It is like saying. My age range is from 27-28 and I'd like to meet bi sexual woman.

Absolutely Unrealistic expectations.

But it's choice... and it's human to be able to choose. "

Am I imaginary?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Because people have the choice to want whatever they want. If that means they reduce the amount of individuals they have an oportunity to meet, so be it.

They can't complain if they don't meet anyone because their limits are do demanding.

It is like saying. My age range is from 27-28 and I'd like to meet bi sexual woman.

Absolutely Unrealistic expectations.

But it's choice... and it's human to be able to choose.

Am I imaginary?

More like a fantasy

LvM

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By *oomarangMan over a year ago

Chester

It does seem to happen the younger men as well I find it funny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd bet that the people who feel they have to "give in" to get a meet are probably not doing well on here because they are shit. If anyone isn't getting the response they think they should have they should question their own profile and the message they give out rather than complain about everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, your profile clearly says that you are looking for someone you can have a laugh & a chat with, so does that mean that if you found someone here that did that for you but wasn’t what you fancied that you would still keep it going/arrange a meeting (post COVID of course), I very much doubt it as it is your preference & choice on who you choose to have fun with, but that doesn’t give you the right to publicly bash someone else for it, including putting it as your profile status

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Sounds like you're envious op,

Why don't you try focusing on your own fab goals, rather than spending time trying to destroy other people’s goals and happiness ?

At the end of the day you gain nothing but the sad satisfaction that you might have destroyed someone’s confidence.

Will you be happy with yourself if the woman who made the request reads your post and decides to leave Fab because of it ?

And how sad is it that you've even put it as your profile statement !

Hopefully A stunning gym fit woman was going to reply to you demanding a night of passion as she loves dad bods but has read this and seen you've not got good soul so isn't going to now, #karma

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This feels like a bit of a fishing thread? OP must have known it would cause a ruckus

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's called freedom of choice. The best bit is everyone is allowed to do it not just women op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a sad day when we can't say what we want, without the fear of men being downright nasty.

I ré wrote my profile once due to a man being upset as I had outlined my preferences said I was being a stuck up bitch, that I was being picky! He was clearly annoyed because I wouldn't chat with him or accept his request to meet.

It is a case of no matter what you put in a profile someone is offended. Swinging is a life choice and if I was picking a life partner I would have a preference, it's the same when I am interacting with swingers I have preferences and profiles need to be detailed so I can work out what they like and don't like. Men who message me, when I look at there profiles I realise I am not there type so I politely tell them, sometimes they apologise or they say ah it okay you appeal to me. This is hypocrisy OP to decide to change your own preference when it suits. Women should not be challenged in their profiles but rather respected by reading it and if it's not for you bypass.. Do not ridicule oe message person as it will result in wasting time which many men seem to be upset with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It sounds like the way the woman in question has expressed her preference isn’t ideal, but that doesn’t mean that she’s any less entitled to have one.

I wonder if you’d be so judgemental if it had been a slim, athletic woman who’d written that. Would you be so offended then? Or is it just that you deem her to be less worthy of respect because she’s overweight? Are slim people allowed to write abrasive, unpleasant things in their bio, but fat people aren’t?

It may come as a shock to you OP, but there are hot, athletic, muscular men that are attracted to overweight women. They like the curves and lumps and bumps and in no way see it as lowering their standards to meet one. You may think that larger women are unattractive, and that’s fine. But expecting that a larger women shouldn’t have her own tastes and preferences because she’s overweight is an appalling attitude to have.

In case it isn’t clear, it doesn’t make you better than someone else just because you weigh less than they do.

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By *aturing bullMan over a year ago

TOOTING

Many gym fit athletic men are attracted to curvy women for starters mate.

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

Finally people come here for sexual experiences why should they settle for 2nd best just to apease someone else who's feeling butt hurt because they aren't getting anywhere.

Most of the highly successful single male swingers we know are pretty average looking, with average cocks and standard bodies / dad boss etc.

KJ"

Brilliant. Thank you.

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By *ersey GirlCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

Females who want to be wined and dined but class themselves as yummy mummies. Go get a job and pay your way

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Just read a profile that says

"only looking for athletic men...."

And ends with

"im curvy with bumps and lumps in wrong places".

(And the photos confirm it)

Why do people demand/ expect-to-be-entitled to perfection when they are waaaay less than perfect themselves ?

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

I'm sure this has probably been pointed out in the past.

What type of other contradictory ironic or sheer ridiculous profiles have you come across ?

Share and lets be bemused !"

You're right. Us fatties should just be happy with whatever fucks get thrown out way like the scavengers if the swinging world we are. Hiding in the shadows so the beautiful people don't see our ugly, mishappen bodies.

Heaven forbid we should show our preferences and get turned on by specific things. What on earth are we thinking!

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By *rder66Man over a year ago

Tatooine

I'm not sure what your point is:

Are you just gutten that you are not her body type as you are not athletic looking.

Are you trying to body shame someone.

Are you saying people should look for their physical mirror image.

And why would you sleep with a 22 year old and not a 21 year old?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"How dare us curvy women have a preference, we should all be glad of what we get..

Sometimes it saddens me that people think like this but it no longer surprises me.

As a curvy woman, lumps, bumps, rolls and fat, I make no apology for my preferences OP.

It wasn't having the preference that was the issue.

It was that she also wrote "if youre not athletic don't bother. Ive got standards. expect a toned body if its coming anywhere near me.."

Which translates as saying anything not athletic is ugly.

Which i found ironic given how she describes her own body. "

Convenient how you missed this out. You surely studied this profile to be able to recall so much of it.

PM me the username. I want to verify your snippets.

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By *herry OnatopWoman over a year ago

Just over there

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ? "

Women can be picky! Absolutely! If I walk into a shop with a full purse and no need to stick to a shopping list then I'm going to pick the things that I want, that I will enjoy! If the shelves are only stocked with bread and pasta today then I'll wait until the goodies are in! Why settle for pasta when the Oreo ice cream can be mine?

I'd better go inject some coffee into myself...

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By *rder66Man over a year ago

Tatooine

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ?

I'd better go inject some coffee into myself...

"
I'll stick the kettle on.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

Would never judge or belittle anyone for their choices, body shape or be remotely bemused by it either. Why would anyone want to meet someone they aren’t attracted to

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By *herry OnatopWoman over a year ago

Just over there

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ?

I'd better go inject some coffee into myself...

I'll stick the kettle on.

Leave the door open, I'm running round in my pjs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ?

I'd better go inject some coffee into myself...

I’ve never been compared to an Oreo ice cream before

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What has body shape to do with personality ?

They don't.

But if they have an amazing personality, looks may not matter.

So in this case, I'm asking about poor body shape AND poor personality.

Which clearly this person had, from various other stuff they had on their profile. "

Judgey judgey much, personality can lost in writing...she could also be the funniest fucker you've met in person...

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By *herry OnatopWoman over a year ago

Just over there

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ?

I'd better go inject some coffee into myself...

I’ve never been compared to an Oreo ice cream before "

Small and sweet and slips down the throat easily.... Yeah you're right, not a product to compare you too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think actually some athletic men prefer curvy women... (And I'm sure others prefer athletic women too) so this profile you saw is just looking for a guy who falls within the first category.

It's just her preference. I can see in your comment that deep down, you just curvy people to be less worthy then athletic, even describing her as having an "awful body with an awfully personality", yet you're the one who has publicly judged and shamed her? Maybe reflect on how you view others with kindness.

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Op I did a similar post the general census was if you don't like what you read then avoid or ignore and move on but do agree some profiles do make you scratch your head but it's there wish list and good luck to them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think actually some athletic men prefer curvy women... (And I'm sure others prefer athletic women too) so this profile you saw is just looking for a guy who falls within the first category.

*Judge, not just

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not amazing. ^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do. "

That is such a mean thing to say

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do. "

Fab doesn't allow pics with animals in them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do. "

Wow. Just fucking wow

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A friend of mine said it best no matter the looks a man will always go blind when the golden triangles in sight

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman over a year ago

"It sounds like the way the woman in question has expressed her preference isn’t ideal, but that doesn’t mean that she’s any less entitled to have one.

In case it isn’t clear, it doesn’t make you better than someone else just because you weigh less than they do. "

Exactly! Spot on

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By *rder66Man over a year ago

Tatooine

Ultimately there's at least 100 single males on fab for every single female / couple (probably many more going by recent searches done).

So what you are saying is due to the numbers, women can be picky and men lower their standards ?

I'd better go inject some coffee into myself...

I'll stick the kettle on.

Leave the door open, I'm running round in my pjs

"
It's wide open for you

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

*Please don't feed the trolls*

LvM

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"A friend of mine said it best no matter the looks a man will always go blind when the golden triangles in sight "

The old any hole is a goal brigade!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do. "

Wtaf you just seriously wrote that, so on your rational women should lower there standards, just because they don't meet your maschanistic views, fucked up view for this day in age

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

"I think actually some athletic men prefer curvy women... (And I'm sure others prefer athletic women too) so this profile you saw is just looking for a guy who falls within the first category.

Worded perfectly xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd like to post a personal and heartfelt thank you to all the posters like the OP and not amazing. They're the FAB version of natural selection. The knackered gazelles at the back who get slaughtered by the lions because they can't keep up with the herd.

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I'm no bras Pitt op and I accept my limitations I'm short got bit of a belly just the right side of 50 but I have 18 to 65 on my search so should I just hang myself now?

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By *gent CoulsonMan over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It's simple, because they can, the ratio of men to women means they can be truly selective

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

That's Brad lol though I do have tits on the brain today

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do. "

A monkey? Who are you referring to there?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do. "

How does said larger lady fit into the dustbin with the monkey though? Asking for a friend...

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do.

A monkey? Who are you referring to there? "
probably someone like me

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do.

How does said larger lady fit into the dustbin with the monkey though? Asking for a friend... "
cut her legs off

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"*Please don't feed the trolls*

LvM"

Spoil sport.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because there’s a 1 to 30 female/male ratio so women have a very vast choice, and even larger women - that would stand a very slim chance to get laid with a fit guy if they met him in a club - get 1000s of messages and can be very picky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear

I need more coffee for this thread

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

How does said larger lady fit into the dustbin with the monkey though? Asking for a friend... "

A dumpster ?

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Because I can

I’m very wobbly and I’m attracted to all sorts of body shapes and one of them is very slim with athletically toned bodies. Luckily for me the men I adore who have those bodies seem to quite enjoy the fact that I’m soft and squishy.

Why do you care what anyone else puts on their profile?

V x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do.

How does said larger lady fit into the dustbin with the monkey though? Asking for a friend... "

Exactly. And which Monkey? There's so many on Fab, Mr. Monkey for instance would take up most of any bin...

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

How does said larger lady fit into the dustbin with the monkey though? Asking for a friend...

A dumpster ?"

Makes sense. Hope he hasn't left his discarded banana skins everywhere in there. Sounds like a health and safety nightmare.

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Because there’s a 1 to 30 female/male ratio so women have a very vast choice, and even larger women - that would stand a very slim chance to get laid with a fit guy if they met him in a club - get 1000s of messages and can be very picky "

Oh dear

V x

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often do.

How does said larger lady fit into the dustbin with the monkey though? Asking for a friend...

Exactly. And which Monkey? There's so many on Fab, Mr. Monkey for instance would take up most of any bin...

Might need to hire the whole bin lorry...

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

Really

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By *reatformeatWoman over a year ago

my own bubble

People are entitled to ask for whatever they want regardless of their size . A lot of bigger woman get gym fit guys on here , fact is most guys find any holes a goal so why do larger woman have to go with anything when they can choose ? It’s the men on here that can’t be fussy not the woman

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Hope he hasn't left his discarded banana skins everywhere in there. Sounds like a health and safety nightmare. "

Even worse if the organ grinder is in there too.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

How does said larger lady fit into the dustbin with the monkey though? Asking for a friend...

A dumpster ?my answer was better x"

Sounds a bit too permanent

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

"Just read a profile that says

"only looking for athletic men...."

And ends with

"im curvy with bumps and lumps in wrong places".

(And the photos confirm it)

Why do people demand/ expect-to-be-entitled to perfection when they are waaaay less than perfect themselves ?

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

I'm sure this has probably been pointed out in the past.

What type of other contradictory ironic or sheer ridiculous profiles have you come across ?

Share and lets be bemused !"

There's something deeply flawed in your thinking that doesn't deserve a reply!!! Ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to say that some of the males views on this thread is fucking shocking, like were in 1821 not 2021,

What happened to building ppl up not smashing them down, just because they don't match up to your ideals....

So what if a woman sets preferences no matter what she looks like......suck it up buttercup, n nurse those male egos

How fucking sad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face pictures first........no face pictures on profile. Always makes me laugh.

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

How does said larger lady fit into the dustbin with the monkey though? Asking for a friend...

A dumpster ?my answer was better x

Sounds a bit too permanent

"
boxing Helena springs to mind

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

I think someone put my mailbox on divert.... I never get 1000's messages lol

And plenty of fit guys attend bbw nights looking for sexy bigger ladies. If you're saying men are so desperate for a shag they'd travel hundreds of mile and pay club entry fees to fuck a fattie Well.... That says more about men than it does about women with unrealistic preferences.

And we're just going to ignore all of the men who want Angelina Jolie but look like Danny devito?! Works both ways baby.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

You tell us OP?

Has anyone met you?

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Because the opposite of what we are is more exciting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's be honest,the larger women asking for gym fit adonises are just setting a goal they know they'll be lucky enough to get but with nothing to lose.

In reality,theyd go with a monkey in a dustbin and judging by their pics often

Wtaf you just seriously wrote that, so on your rational women should lower there standards, just because they don't meet your maschanistic views, fucked up view for this day in age

My point remains valid regardless of your attempt to appear 'understanding' so as to look more appealing to the ladies.

Nice try."

I'm not trying to look appealing to any women, I do not agree with what you said, ill call you out on it despite what you think I'm doing it for it......you take is fucked up, n how you display yourself is fucking disgusting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It seems that no irony is so extreme that it will not be taken literally by someone. The future can lie in uncertainty: simply live and let live (each to their own as they say). No likey no looky, simply move on - no need for melodramatics (everyone’s entitled to their own choice).

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By *luebellRacerCouple over a year ago

Shropshire

This is why I like the forums... you can really get a feel for someone's personality.

Helps with the elimination process

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I quite like chunky men - is that allowed as I'm chunky too.

I must read the rule book on what we're allowed to find attractive

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I like really intelligent, super hot men, so I can be in awe of them and do anything they ask of me.

It's an incentive to work harder in bed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here we go.

Banned again.

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By *urvy ClarissaWoman over a year ago

wigan

On here it’s a different ball game altogether to real life and dating sites. Women on here can generally have their pick and men don’t generally choose to meet the same type of woman for sex as they would to date!

You tell me...I’d say having higher standards for someone you’re going to have sex with would be the right way to go but men are wired differently...go figure! Lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

Judging from my inbox i can confirm there are lots of men with great bodies who like my curves. I would never put it in my profile because I'm more interested in intelligence and personality but each to their own.

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Before covid can me along op I was seeing a lady who would be seen by many as a BBW to me she is a funny sexy temptation who has become a friend as well as lover if I had just made a snap judgment based on just pics and not taken the time to get the person I would of missed out on a wonderful person ,she took a chance on me as I'm not her usual type and 2 yrs on we still enjoy each others company,so my point don't judge a book by its cover or the preface take the time to read it,hope thatade sense as it sounded better in my head

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Op have you been turned down by a bbw by any chance ?"

Almost certainly

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"This is why I like the forums... you can really get a feel for someone's personality.

Helps with the elimination process

It really does.

The block button is wearing out I've used it so much recently

I just wish it hid people on the forums too

LvM

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By *reatformeatWoman over a year ago

my own bubble

"Here we go.

Banned again.

"
ssshhhhhhhhhh don’t say banned you will get. Banned for that

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I quite like chunky men - is that allowed as I'm chunky too.

I must read the rule book on what we're allowed to find attractive

"
getting chunkier here with age lol

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I don't know about club clientele and how they behave, but you might be surprised to know that some hot men actually like a big woman.

They might not want to be seen with us in public, but they will fuck us in private

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is why I like the forums... you can really get a feel for someone's personality.

Helps with the elimination process

It really does.

The block button is wearing out I've used it so much recently

I just wish it hid people on the forums too

LvM"

Me too! I’ve blocked so many recently for their blatantly sexist/racist/misogynistic posts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is why I like the forums... you can really get a feel for someone's personality.

Helps with the elimination process

It really does.

The block button is wearing out I've used it so much recently

I just wish it hid people on the forums too

LvM"

That would be amazing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the best and the worst of fab in one thread

more coffee needed.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"How dare us curvy women have a preference, we should all be glad of what we get..

Sometimes it saddens me that people think like this but it no longer surprises me.

As a curvy woman, lumps, bumps, rolls and fat, I make no apology for my preferences OP.

It wasn't having the preference that was the issue.

It was that she also wrote "if youre not athletic don't bother. Ive got standards. expect a toned body if its coming anywhere near me.."

Which translates as saying anything not athletic is ugly.

Which i found ironic given how she describes her own body. "

Sadly, some men will ignore her hypocrisy, just to get their dick wet.

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By *luebellRacerCouple over a year ago

Shropshire

"This is why I like the forums... you can really get a feel for someone's personality.

Helps with the elimination process

It really does.

The block button is wearing out I've used it so much recently

I just wish it hid people on the forums too

LvM"

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the best and the worst of fab in one thread

more coffee needed."

I didn’t know what thread it was Im until I answered and then caught on.

But you know. Popcorn and all that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is why I like the forums... you can really get a feel for someone's personality.

Helps with the elimination process

It really does.

The block button is wearing out I've used it so much recently

I just wish it hid people on the forums too

LvM

Me too! I’ve blocked so many recently for their blatantly sexist/racist/misogynistic posts."

For such a supposedly 'open minded ' community its like being in a room with a load of Daily Mail readers sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is why I like the forums... you can really get a feel for someone's personality.

Helps with the elimination process

It really does.

The block button is wearing out I've used it so much recently

I just wish it hid people on the forums too

LvM

That would be amazing

There should be an option to turn the comments hidden and if you feel their adiditon might actually added some value or it makes thread difficult to read.. you can unhid them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is why I like the forums... you can really get a feel for someone's personality.

Helps with the elimination process

It really does.

The block button is wearing out I've used it so much recently

I just wish it hid people on the forums too

LvM

Me too! I’ve blocked so many recently for their blatantly sexist/racist/misogynistic posts.

For such a supposedly 'open minded ' community its like being in a room with a load of Daily Mail readers sometimes

It’s seriously depressing reading sometimes

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"This is why I like the forums... you can really get a feel for someone's personality.

Helps with the elimination process

It really does.

The block button is wearing out I've used it so much recently

I just wish it hid people on the forums too

LvM

That would be amazing

There should be an option to turn the comments hidden and if you feel their adiditon might actually added some value or it makes thread difficult to read.. you can unhid them. "

Great idea

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you were to go to the pictures section of the site specifically page one of the most fabbed you will find a number of members who describe themselves as “curvy” or “ample”. They all seem pretty dammed gorgeous to me.

So life is all about preference and choice and the fundamental right to exercise both.

I am now going to send a cut and paste mail shot to all those most fabbed ladies asking if they would take pity on a middle aged dad bod guy punching far above his weight (no pun intended)

Apologies in advance to the quite gorgeous TV at number six but I am going to exercise my right to choice and preference and exclude you from the mailing list.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s all about preference, if I go to a profile that o don’t feel I fit the bill I respect that profile and don’t engage.

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

My first message to a lady who is new to site if I like her profile but it's sparse is hello miss I'm wondering if you have a preference in mind and would I be of interest,but often I don't get a reply as they're swamped with meet requests now and then I get a novel worded reply that says sorry no but I don't get all pissy pants about it as I know I'm not everyone's cuppa and not everyone's mine

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Tell her you're a sumo wrestler, they're deemed to be athletes

No need to thank me op

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

When it comes to body shaming, it always seems to come from the men, never the women. Sorry if that’s a sweeping statement but threads like this really do highlight it. X

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"My first message to a lady is hello miss "

I wouldn't reply as you had said "hello Miss"

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"My first message to a lady is hello miss

I wouldn't reply as you had said "hello Miss" "
but it shows a bit of respect which as a lady you deserve don't you think x

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"When it comes to body shaming, it always seems to come from the men, never the women. Sorry if that’s a sweeping statement but threads like this really do highlight it. X"
not always I got told the other day I wouldn't meet u as you have an ugly looking arse and I always thought after my eyes it was my best asset

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"My first message to a lady is hello miss

I wouldn't reply as you had said "hello Miss" but it shows a bit of respect which as a lady you deserve don't you think x"

You don’t know if they prefer Miss, Mrs, Ms or any other title. Better to just use the name on their profile, even if it is cockdestroyer1983.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

Are we at 175 yet?

LvM

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"When it comes to body shaming, it always seems to come from the men, never the women. Sorry if that’s a sweeping statement but threads like this really do highlight it. Xnot always I got told the other day I wouldn't meet u as you have an ugly looking arse and I always thought after my eyes it was my best asset"

Hey at least you got a reply, which is something a lot of other men wish for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we at 175 yet?

LvM"

This made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who said they was demanding perfection lol... For some people athletic may be considered the ideal and for others it could be a total off put, I wonder if your be making a post if the profile was a blond who stated she only wants to meet brunettes... Because what would she want something that isn't her identical male counterpart? People are aloud there preferance and there are a lot of athletic people who prefer curvy people just as there are curvy people who have a preferance for slimmer people, people are entitled to look for what they want regardless to if they have that quality themselfs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we at 175 yet?

LvM"

I dunno, but the Op had enough hours ago.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we at 175 yet?

LvM

I dunno, but the Op had enough hours ago."

I don't think the OP is coming back lol

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Are we at 175 yet?

LvM

I dunno, but the Op had enough hours ago."
I've been doing my best to get it there lol

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Hey at least you got a reply, which is something a lot of other men wish for."
manners cost nothing and always good to get a reply even if it's a no thankyou

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"My first message to a lady is hello miss

I wouldn't reply as you had said "hello Miss" but it shows a bit of respect which as a lady you deserve don't you think x

You don’t know if they prefer Miss, Mrs, Ms or any other title. Better to just use the name on their profile, even if it is cockdestroyer1983."
I'd abreviate that to hi 1983 lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey at least you got a reply, which is something a lot of other men wish for.manners cost nothing and always good to get a reply even if it's a no thankyou"

Don't agree with this, but that's for another thread probably lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve just had a coffee and a bun

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By *xtrafun4youMan over a year ago

Dunstable

"Just read a profile that says

"only looking for athletic men...."

And ends with

"im curvy with bumps and lumps in wrong places".

(And the photos confirm it)

Why do people demand/ expect-to-be-entitled to perfection when they are waaaay less than perfect themselves ?

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

I'm sure this has probably been pointed out in the past.

What type of other contradictory ironic or sheer ridiculous profiles have you come across ?

Share and lets be bemused !"
that's why meets are so hard. Everyone looks for their ideal perfect person although they are far from. It.

Must be descreet and clean. Then you see a messy. House in the background.

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By *icolerobbieCouple over a year ago

walsall

"When it comes to body shaming, it always seems to come from the men, never the women. Sorry if that’s a sweeping statement but threads like this really do highlight it. X"

I’d disagree and suggest that body shaming is not gender specific.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve just had a coffee and a bun

Early pop corn for me

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

"I’ve just had a coffee and a bun

What bun did you have? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve just had a coffee and a bun

What bun did you have? X"

Is a cream horn a bun ?

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

"Just read a profile that says

"only looking for athletic men...."

And ends with

"im curvy with bumps and lumps in wrong places".

(And the photos confirm it)

Why do people demand/ expect-to-be-entitled to perfection when they are waaaay less than perfect themselves ?

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

I'm sure this has probably been pointed out in the past.

What type of other contradictory ironic or sheer ridiculous profiles have you come across ?

Share and lets be bemused !"

You are aware there is a big difference between "seeking" and "feeling entitled to" aren't you?

Somebody's body type does not dictate what body type they are attracted to? You seem to be suggesting somebody should only seek their own body type in others.

You seem to be equating "would like to meet" with "demand to meet". I don't think you have any justification for that. I think your whole premise is based on a complete misunderstanding on your part.

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Hey at least you got a reply, which is something a lot of other men wish for.manners cost nothing and always good to get a reply even if it's a no thankyou

Don't agree with this, but that's for another thread probably lol"
so u wouldn't like a well mannered message you'd prefer a straight to the point message

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"I’ve just had a coffee and a bun

Early pop corn for me

Pop corn?

LvM

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Just read a profile that says

"only looking for athletic men...."

And ends with

"im curvy with bumps and lumps in wrong places".

(And the photos confirm it)

Why do people demand/ expect-to-be-entitled to perfection when they are waaaay less than perfect themselves ?

Do those with well defined bodies happily give in to meet with people with awful body shapes (who clearly also have awful personality) ?

I'm sure this has probably been pointed out in the past.

What type of other contradictory ironic or sheer ridiculous profiles have you come across ?

Share and lets be bemused !

You are aware there is a big difference between "seeking" and "feeling entitled to" aren't you?

Somebody's body type does not dictate what body type they are attracted to? You seem to be suggesting somebody should only seek their own body type in others.

You seem to be equating "would like to meet" with "demand to meet". I don't think you have any justification for that. I think your whole premise is based on a complete misunderstanding on your part. "
I'm fucked then being short and stumpywith a pot belly

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple over a year ago

Bexley

People are free to search for what they wish as are others to ignore them. We're all grown ups and able to make our own decisions about what we want. It'd be an odd world if people were only expected to look for those of a similar age, body type etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey at least you got a reply, which is something a lot of other men wish for.manners cost nothing and always good to get a reply even if it's a no thankyou

Don't agree with this, but that's for another thread probably lolso u wouldn't like a well mannered message you'd prefer a straight to the point message

I mean I don't agree with your statement that it's good manners to always reply... I had 500 odd messages yesterday, if you want to come over to my house and sit and reply to each one for the sake of manners, then please do. But I didn't have time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How dare us curvy women have a preference, we should all be glad of what we get..

Sometimes it saddens me that people think like this but it no longer surprises me.

As a curvy woman, lumps, bumps, rolls and fat, I make no apology for my preferences OP.

It wasn't having the preference that was the issue.

It was that she also wrote "if youre not athletic don't bother. Ive got standards. expect a toned body if its coming anywhere near me.."

Which translates as saying anything not athletic is ugly.

Which i found ironic given how she describes her own body. "

That's fair enough.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Here's the thing.

I'm fat, unfit and my joints are painful. If I had sex with the male equivalent of me there wouldn't be much sex going on, and we would be like 2 hippos trying to make a baby.

I need a slim, athletic man to do all the work and be able to do the manoeuvres around my fat body.

Plus, I can't get my legs around a big torso

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"Here we go.

Banned again.

At least you accept when you are being nasty and breaking rules

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

To the OP, you have broken rules also, don't come onto the forum just to discuss one persons profile as it is against forum rules, especially quoting from it

If the profile is not perfect enough for you, move onto the next one instead of doing this.

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