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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Feels weird saying this out loud on a swingers site but after 8 years of swinging as a married couple, we’ve discovered that we’d really like to explore romance with a sexy bisexual man who is open to getting to know us and who we can potentially connect with on a deeper level. Just wondered if there are any other couples and singles out there who feel the same? We’d love to hear from you if you want to get to know us, and enjoy flirting and romance, as well as intimacy. We’re very much sapiosexuals who prefer brains over brawn, but we do want a bi guy who likes guys and girls in equal measures x |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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To be honest, it sounds very much like a poly as opposed to a swingers arrangement? If that’s the case then maybe looking on here might not be the best option.
In my experience, most single guys are looking for what they want, not connections. That’s not to pour scorn on them, it’s just the nature of this site.
Whilst there are crossovers between a poly and swinging lifestyle (as you know) maybe looking in more ENM spaces or dating apps might yield more results.
I just think that you’ll get an awful lot of “ooh me!” swiftly followed by disappointment when they realise what is actually involved.
Good luck folks |
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OP, it’s a difficult question to answer succinctly. We swing and are both bi if we feel the attraction, but we don’t go looking for anything other than friendship.
That being said, we have a couple that we met and play with regularly that have crossed from swinging to being close friends that we share other aspects of our lives with.
To have swinging partners that have crossed into our real lives is a really nice experience and makes the time we spend together erotically even more fun, we even planned a holiday together that was unfortunately cancelled due to Covid.
We didn’t go looking for this though, it has organically grown over a couple of years.
We wouldn’t change it and we have genuine feelings for them now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be honest, it sounds very much like a poly as opposed to a swingers arrangement? If that’s the case then maybe looking on here might not be the best option.
In my experience, most single guys are looking for what they want, not connections. That’s not to pour scorn on them, it’s just the nature of this site.
Whilst there are crossovers between a poly and swinging lifestyle (as you know) maybe looking in more ENM spaces or dating apps might yield more results.
I just think that you’ll get an awful lot of “ooh me!” swiftly followed by disappointment when they realise what is actually involved.
Good luck folks"
Yes, think you’ve hit the nail on the head there. Not sure we would want a full blown relationship but romance is a lot to expect on here. Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP, it’s a difficult question to answer succinctly. We swing and are both bi if we feel the attraction, but we don’t go looking for anything other than friendship.
That being said, we have a couple that we met and play with regularly that have crossed from swinging to being close friends that we share other aspects of our lives with.
To have swinging partners that have crossed into our real lives is a really nice experience and makes the time we spend together erotically even more fun, we even planned a holiday together that was unfortunately cancelled due to Covid.
We didn’t go looking for this though, it has organically grown over a couple of years.
We wouldn’t change it and we have genuine feelings for them now. "
Thanks for sharing. That’s lovely to hear. We’ve also made some good friends along the way and it’s nice when things develop in unexpected ways.. and yes, it does make the sex better and more intimate  x |
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