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Still don’t understand why single guys do it!?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That’s having videos of them fucking other birds or doing things with other birds.

Was having nice chat with someone and saw he had some videos, watched them and they’re of him shagging a bird and finger blasting one till she squirts everywhere with porno type performance moans.

It’s just put me off now and I won’t speak to him any further.

Why do they do it? What women like to see these videos or pictures on single men’s profiles?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

To show off how studly they are of course

LvM

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By *icearmsMan over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

The same reason that women do it... if the functionality is there to show off thet will.

What else should the videos be used for?

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I'm not a fan.

It's weird coz I can have my own pics with past people and they're just that. A moment in time. Yet I can't seem to make the connection that on other people's profiles it could very well be the same for them, I dunno, single bloke profiles it just kinda feels braggy rather than "oh, that's a bloody good photo and was a hell of a night" that I get with my own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unsure, guess it’s just them being really open with that sorta thing but who really knows

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Video Cameras weren't invented the last time I had sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There's an entire world away from other women's genitals. If they can't think of something to film then there's not much going on between the ears and it's all about what's going on in their loins

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By *icearmsMan over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There's an entire world away from other women's genitals. If they can't think of something to film then there's not much going on between the ears and it's all about what's going on in their loins

Does the same apply to women doing this then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bit like those blokes posing next to dead lions/giraffes with their rifles!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There's an entire world away from other women's genitals. If they can't think of something to film then there's not much going on between the ears and it's all about what's going on in their loins

Does the same apply to women doing this then?"

I think it's target audience.

Not that many women enjoy seeing a dude with someone else but an awful lot of fellas adore watching women they wanna get down with "being active"

I personally wouldn't put videos up of myself with a bloke and I've got plenty of videos on here.

The question was, what else can they film? What would be more appealing? Almost anything unless he was having a shit, at least it would show a bit of personality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

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racing cars, being a dj or bungee jumping... adrenaline fueled activities like how much they can bench haha... would that be better?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

racing cars, being a dj or bungee jumping... adrenaline fueled activities like how much they can bench haha... would that be better?

Yeah literally show yourself off if that’s what you do why not show your personality

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

racing cars, being a dj or bungee jumping... adrenaline fueled activities like how much they can bench haha... would that be better?

If that was the sort of thing they enjoyed then yeah, to me it really would be more appealing. At least it would give me something to talk about rather than saying "so, erm, you got a bit wet in your finger blasting vid then"

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

racing cars, being a dj or bungee jumping... adrenaline fueled activities like how much they can bench haha... would that be better?

Yeah literally show yourself off if that’s what you do why not show your personality

You can cook for me anytime

See, this whole having a personality thing works!

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By *konCouple over a year ago

cardiff

I find it crass and off putting

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By *icearmsMan over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There's an entire world away from other women's genitals. If they can't think of something to film then there's not much going on between the ears and it's all about what's going on in their loins

Does the same apply to women doing this then?

I think it's target audience.

Not that many women enjoy seeing a dude with someone else but an awful lot of fellas adore watching women they wanna get down with "being active"

I personally wouldn't put videos up of myself with a bloke and I've got plenty of videos on here.

The question was, what else can they film? What would be more appealing? Almost anything unless he was having a shit, at least it would show a bit of personality."

I guess it is that target audience, but for every person that doesn't like it, there'll be a woman who does.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

Showers and walking downstairs are good choices

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

racing cars, being a dj or bungee jumping... adrenaline fueled activities like how much they can bench haha... would that be better?

Hahahaha “I see you go with the classic Jack hammer technique, I myself prefer going with my signature move... the tongue tornado” hahah

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There's an entire world away from other women's genitals. If they can't think of something to film then there's not much going on between the ears and it's all about what's going on in their loins

Does the same apply to women doing this then?

I think it's target audience.

Not that many women enjoy seeing a dude with someone else but an awful lot of fellas adore watching women they wanna get down with "being active"

I personally wouldn't put videos up of myself with a bloke and I've got plenty of videos on here.

The question was, what else can they film? What would be more appealing? Almost anything unless he was having a shit, at least it would show a bit of personality.

I guess it is that target audience, but for every person that doesn't like it, there'll be a woman who does.

I think the ratio is way more skewed than that but absolutely you're right, it will appeal to some.

It's those that don't understand it won't appeal to all and can't see why they get rejected because of it that get on my tits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But most of us know why most men do those kind of videos, its basically just to show off their so called "skills or performance". Bragging rights... so they can brag to their mates look at this babe I just bucked .. etc.

Me personally wouldnt do it, just not a needed thing to do I reckon.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

racing cars, being a dj or bungee jumping... adrenaline fueled activities like how much they can bench haha... would that be better?

Hahahaha “I see you go with the classic Jack hammer technique, I myself prefer going with my signature move... the tongue tornado” hahah

"Oh my old bean, you really should have filed your nails before cunt punching, could do hella damage"

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By *assy LassieWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

There is a guy who just chats. Shows personality. Puts a voice to the person. Defo preferable to a video with more female on show than the single guy.

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man over a year ago

rotherham

obviously i cant see a problem with pics/vids,after all we are on a sex/hookup sight are we not,maybe if u wanted pics of holidays night out vanilla then ur on the wrong site,maybe a vanilla dating site or facebook,this is a age restricted site and is for people that want to display it for all to see, provided permision is obtained from the partner involved,no differentt to what happens in swing clubs,its called swinging,if the opp doesnt want to see past meets in film/pics then u should put virgin wanted lol as i think most on here all have a history of having fun with others,its always been known females dont tend to reveal what their past is for fear of being labelled/name calling but has never been the case for men,take a look from another view on this where u view someone pics thats been through software to make better or taken their best shots which can be limited to the amount they upload thus not giving u a acurate impresion of the person where as video u get to see most of the body ,technique and sometimes how they speak and present themselves,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dont even like the still of guys hanging out another woman never mind videos of it - if i wanted to watch porn i would log onto a porn site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

racing cars, being a dj or bungee jumping... adrenaline fueled activities like how much they can bench haha... would that be better?

Hahahaha “I see you go with the classic Jack hammer technique, I myself prefer going with my signature move... the tongue tornado” hahah

"Oh my old bean, you really should have filed your nails before cunt punching, could do hella damage""

“Cunt punching, could do hella damage” name of the sex tape hahah

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By *icearmsMan over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There's an entire world away from other women's genitals. If they can't think of something to film then there's not much going on between the ears and it's all about what's going on in their loins

Does the same apply to women doing this then?

I think it's target audience.

Not that many women enjoy seeing a dude with someone else but an awful lot of fellas adore watching women they wanna get down with "being active"

I personally wouldn't put videos up of myself with a bloke and I've got plenty of videos on here.

The question was, what else can they film? What would be more appealing? Almost anything unless he was having a shit, at least it would show a bit of personality.

I guess it is that target audience, but for every person that doesn't like it, there'll be a woman who does.

I think the ratio is way more skewed than that but absolutely you're right, it will appeal to some.

It's those that don't understand it won't appeal to all and can't see why they get rejected because of it that get on my tits."

So many comments here...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a case of damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Some like watching videos and looking at photos, some don't.

The site is about live and let live.

Let's find something constructive to talk about eh...?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"obviously i cant see a problem with pics/vids,after all we are on a sex/hookup sight are we not,maybe if u wanted pics of holidays night out vanilla then ur on the wrong site,maybe a vanilla dating site or facebook,this is a age restricted site and is for people that want to display it for all to see, provided permision is obtained from the partner involved,no differentt to what happens in swing clubs,its called swinging,if the opp doesnt want to see past meets in film/pics then u should put virgin wanted lol as i think most on here all have a history of having fun with others,its always been known females dont tend to reveal what their past is for fear of being labelled/name calling but has never been the case for men,take a look from another view on this where u view someone pics thats been through software to make better or taken their best shots which can be limited to the amount they upload thus not giving u a acurate impresion of the person where as video u get to see most of the body ,technique and sometimes how they speak and present themselves,"

for me its not about it being age restricted content, its the (possible) delusion of the motivation behind it

if its being posted because they like to be exhibitionists crack on

if its being posted under the impression it will attract women then it probably puts off more than it attracts , yes we know people had sex before us, it doesn’t mean we need to witness it for ourselves

i guess its maybe a difference between men and women- i dont think pov porn where you can picture yourself in the video is as popular for women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

racing cars, being a dj or bungee jumping... adrenaline fueled activities like how much they can bench haha... would that be better?

Yeah literally show yourself off if that’s what you do why not show your personality

You can cook for me anytime

See, this whole having a personality thing works!"

Ooooft deal what’s your order

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guessin its like a peacock showing its feathers

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

for me its not about it being age restricted content, its the (possible) delusion of the motivation behind it

if its being posted because they like to be exhibitionists crack on

i guess its maybe a difference between men and women- i dont think pov porn where you can picture yourself in the video is as popular for women "

Nail on head.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Got to question what else can they really film?

Men having walks, playing with their dogs... cooking? Showing off fancy dresses?

Would that be more appealing?

There’s loads of things to film all about being creative!

racing cars, being a dj or bungee jumping... adrenaline fueled activities like how much they can bench haha... would that be better?

Yeah literally show yourself off if that’s what you do why not show your personality

You can cook for me anytime

See, this whole having a personality thing works!

Ooooft deal what’s your order

Oh, I dunno. I gone all shy

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Some say it's to show us what they are like in action.

Would be nice to see videos of them giving a woman oral instead of a woman sucking their cock though.

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"That’s having videos of them fucking other birds or doing things with other birds.

Was having nice chat with someone and saw he had some videos, watched them and they’re of him shagging a bird and finger blasting one till she squirts everywhere with porno type performance moans.

It’s just put me off now and I won’t speak to him any further.

Why do they do it? What women like to see these videos or pictures on single men’s profiles?"

Antlers not fully grown?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some say it's to show us what they are like in action.

Would be nice to see videos of them giving a woman oral instead of a woman sucking their cock though.

what a valid point haha

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Some say it's to show us what they are like in action.

Would be nice to see videos of them giving a woman oral instead of a woman sucking their cock though.

what a valid point haha "

Check out my laying back having my dick sucked skills.

I can only assume it's to prove they last longer than 3 head bobs

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Some say it's to show us what they are like in action.

Would be nice to see videos of them giving a woman oral instead of a woman sucking their cock though.

what a valid point haha

Check out my laying back having my dick sucked skills.

I can only assume it's to prove they last longer than 3 head bobs "

S head bob

That's going in my notes as a standard unit of measurement (SI unit)

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Some say it's to show us what they are like in action.

Would be nice to see videos of them giving a woman oral instead of a woman sucking their cock though.

what a valid point haha

Check out my laying back having my dick sucked skills.

I can only assume it's to prove they last longer than 3 head bobs

S head bob

That's going in my notes as a standard unit of measurement (SI unit)

yaaay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i think even watching someone technique from an earlier session with me would still do nothing for me

sex is all about what feels right in the moment for me - sometimes fast and hard sometimes slow and sensual sometimes flipping from one to the other

a cookie cutter here is how i do it doesn’t work for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm inside, any videos or pictures I have with other people in are for the eyes of parties involved only.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm inside, any videos or pictures I have with other people in are for the eyes of parties involved only. "

Unsure* bloody autocarrot!

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I personally think it's much the same as cock photos. Many have this idea in their heads that we'll see a bit of willy and go weak at the knees and wide at the fanny. And seeing that cock in action! "Oh my, however can I lure my throbbing vag away? I need it, I neeeeeeed it" *puts hand on head all dramatic*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like women down here don't upload videos with guys do the same thing!! It's a swinging site after not a church one!

Personally i don't share many details but others do! It's them thing.. Accept it, like it, move on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think they do it to prove they arent virgins

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But women like different things to men. For me it can put me off for two different reasons, if the woman he’s with looks unclean or a bit rough then I won’t want to go there, if the woman looks in better shape or super skilled or any area where I think I lack then I’ll be put off cos I’ll think well he’s had that he’s not gonna be happy with me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think they do it to prove they arent virgins"

Over this past year or so, I've regained my virginity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But women like different things to men. For me it can put me off for two different reasons, if the woman he’s with looks unclean or a bit rough then I won’t want to go there, if the woman looks in better shape or super skilled or any area where I think I lack then I’ll be put off cos I’ll think well he’s had that he’s not gonna be happy with me. "

Completely understand your point tbf, I’m sure quite a few people have similar opinions. At the end of the day I guess it all comes down to personal preference with what people upload to be perceived in a certain way?

Like dick pics I’ve never understood cause I’ve always wondered why guys send them to girls when they’re just kinda ugly haha like if a girl sends a nude, the majority of the time it’s sexy but with dick pics it’s normally the same thing every time with a close up pic holding there dick but yknow... guess that’s just preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I had no problem seeing a man another woman in his pictures or in his videos.

I would rather see that than the endless dick pics or the wank videos.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I had no problem seeing a man another woman in his pictures or in his videos.

I would rather see that than the endless dick pics or the wank videos.

Brilliant comment x

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

"Personally I had no problem seeing a man another woman in his pictures or in his videos.

I would rather see that than the endless dick pics or the wank videos.

Oh god the wank vids! Laying on his single bed in his parents house, naked but his socks on, tugging away...then...here it comes...the grunt...the gasp...the spurt of babyjuice like a dissapointing volcano eruption, its lava dripping pathetically down the shaft

Give me a sexy boing vid or a helicopter any day!

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Bugga!

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

"Bugga!"

Lava got on the wall PP?

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Bugga!

Lava got on the wall PP?

Not even close

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d never do that.

You’d see my spotty bum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To add a bit of depth to the verifications the birds give him.

It is more about the enjoyment of knowing that others will watch it

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By *innocentMan over a year ago

Littlehampton

Gosh, imagine if any of this was important enough to actually worry about.

Worlds gone absolutely mad.

It's like joining a library website and being put off that they advertise books.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That’s having videos of them fucking other birds or doing things with other birds.

Was having nice chat with someone and saw he had some videos, watched them and they’re of him shagging a bird and finger blasting one till she squirts everywhere with porno type performance moans.

It’s just put me off now and I won’t speak to him any further.

Why do they do it? What women like to see these videos or pictures on single men’s profiles?"

Did it show her face?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

To be fair I'd find lots of videos of just them wanking fairly boring (I like a few dance moves thrown in like wookie

)

I don't see why them fucking someone else is such a turn off.... But then I quite like watching and listening.

I'm quite noisy myself but it's never faked to sound like a porn star.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I had no problem seeing a man another woman in his pictures or in his videos.

I would rather see that than the endless dick pics or the wank videos.

It doesn’t have to be either or. I love a profile with good pics and someone who shows their personality, I don’t like seeing action shots/vids on there, it does nothing for me.

For those saying this is a sex site, that doesn’t make me ‘anything’ it means I have an choice and an opinion. If you don’t like the thread you don’t have to comment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And also, it comes down to consent.

I’ve had a pic used of me on here, even after I asked him not to, luckily I’m not recognisable.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I don’t like the video feature so I don’t use it.

It was inevitable that the videos would simply mirror the photos. I think the only photos, or videos, that should have two people in, are on a couples profile. That’s my take on it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t like the video feature so I don’t use it.

It was inevitable that the videos would simply mirror the photos. I think the only photos, or videos, that should have two people in, are on a couples profile. That’s my take on it

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Because it is their profile and they can put up whatever they want on it. Just like females and couples who have videos of them with others.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

To be honest, as much as it’s anecdotal, the overwhelming majority of ladies posting have said that they dislike them, yet the guys are still arguing that there’s nothing wrong with them and will continue.

It’s just another example of the disconnect between what women say that they want and what men think that they know what women want.

If you’re doing it for exhibitionism purposes, then great but if you think that it will attract ladies, you’re sadly mistaken

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"To add a bit of depth to the verifications the birds give him.

It is more about the enjoyment of knowing that others will watch it "

In most cases this is the reason

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Because it is their profile and they can put up whatever they want on it. Just like females and couples who have videos of them with others.

Absolutely. If they wanted to write an ode to the KKK in their profile text, they absolutely could and if it accurately represents them, they can crack on.

If they think that it’s going to attract buckets of women though, they’re mistaken

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That’s having videos of them fucking other birds or doing things with other birds.

Was having nice chat with someone and saw he had some videos, watched them and they’re of him shagging a bird and finger blasting one till she squirts everywhere with porno type performance moans.

It’s just put me off now and I won’t speak to him any further.

Why do they do it? What women like to see these videos or pictures on single men’s profiles?"

I'm really glad it's not just me. Big turn off unfortunately..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"To be honest, as much as it’s anecdotal, the overwhelming majority of ladies posting have said that they dislike them, yet the guys are still arguing that there’s nothing wrong with them and will continue.

It’s just another example of the disconnect between what women say that they want and what men think that they know what women want.

If you’re doing it for exhibitionism purposes, then great but if you think that it will attract ladies, you’re sadly mistaken"

To be honest the forum users are a small community on fab so while it seems the majority on the forums don't like it perhaps those who enjoy watching the live cams on the site do or perhaps those who simply enjoy the images (moving or otherwise) like those type of vids.

Sometimes I think we forget the forums are not the only section on fab. Especially over the last 12 months lol

Let's face it, there are other websites full of men fucking women that seem quite popular. Fab just gives people the chance to star in their own porno.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s just another example of the disconnect between what women say that they want and what men think that they know what women want.

If you’re doing it for exhibitionism purposes, then great but if you think that it will attract ladies, you’re sadly mistaken

Sometimes I think we forget the forums are not the only section on fab. Especially over the last 12 months lol

Let's face it, there are other websites full of men fucking women that seem quite popular. Fab just gives people the chance to star in their own porno. "

It often amuses me that the views of a handful or so women in the lounge are quite often considered to be representative of women in general

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Because it is their profile and they can put up whatever they want on it. Just like females and couples who have videos of them with others.

Absolutely. If they wanted to write an ode to the KKK in their profile text, they absolutely could and if it accurately represents them, they can crack on.

If they think that it’s going to attract buckets of women though, they’re mistaken"

But some women won't mind them and shock they may even like those videos and pics .

Just like men not all women think the same .

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It’s just another example of the disconnect between what women say that they want and what men think that they know what women want.

If you’re doing it for exhibitionism purposes, then great but if you think that it will attract ladies, you’re sadly mistaken

Sometimes I think we forget the forums are not the only section on fab. Especially over the last 12 months lol

Let's face it, there are other websites full of men fucking women that seem quite popular. Fab just gives people the chance to star in their own porno.

It often amuses me that the views of a handful or so women in the lounge are quite often considered to be representative of women in general "

This is spot on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe he posted it to indulge his exhibitionist side and be true to himself rather than try and anticipate what others want to see and cater for them.

I’m sorry you got disappointed, OP, but isn’t it better that people show who they are rather than what they think others want them to be?

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

At the end of the day it is obviously up to them if they want to put them up. Some will like it some really won't and in a way it is showing there personality in the sense that is what they think we'll want to see on here.

To me it kind of gives a warning that they may want to record it and that I'm definitely not into - I have had some try amd film without consent!

So yes, I have also been put off by someone's video's and said 'no thanks' and carried on

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s just another example of the disconnect between what women say that they want and what men think that they know what women want.

If you’re doing it for exhibitionism purposes, then great but if you think that it will attract ladies, you’re sadly mistaken

Sometimes I think we forget the forums are not the only section on fab. Especially over the last 12 months lol

Let's face it, there are other websites full of men fucking women that seem quite popular. Fab just gives people the chance to star in their own porno. "

This is very true, however when a group of your target audience says they don’t like it, why would the immediate reaction be ‘course you do!’

If I’m wrong, I couldn’t give a damn as I don’t have videos and never will on here, it’s not in my interests either way

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Sometimes I think we forget the forums are not the only section on fab. Especially over the last 12 months lol

Let's face it, there are other websites full of men fucking women that seem quite popular. Fab just gives people the chance to star in their own porno.

It often amuses me that the views of a handful or so women in the lounge are quite often considered to be representative of women in general "

It’s like any representative poll, if you only have one selection of data, that’s your basis of reference.

I never said that women think the same, only about majorities, which I still maintain, given the data to hand

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

It’s just another example of the disconnect between what women say that they want and what men think that they know what women want.

If you’re doing it for exhibitionism purposes, then great but if you think that it will attract ladies, you’re sadly mistaken

Sometimes I think we forget the forums are not the only section on fab. Especially over the last 12 months lol

Let's face it, there are other websites full of men fucking women that seem quite popular. Fab just gives people the chance to star in their own porno.

This is very true, however when a group of your target audience says they don’t like it, why would the immediate reaction be ‘course you do!’

If I’m wrong, I couldn’t give a damn as I don’t have videos and never will on here, it’s not in my interests either way"

Are they saying 'course you do' or are they, as you say in your first paragraph, just saying there is nothing wrong with them so still posting them?

I don't particularly enjoy seeing pics of cum on people yet people still post them. I don't think they're sticking 2 fingers up at me by doing so or ignoring my feelings on it. They are posting what they enjoy doing on their own profile.

Just feel that sometimes guys on here can't do anything without being bashed in some way or another.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

I don't care what guys stick on their profiles, if it's not to my taste then I just avoid. What does make me laugh though is all the status' you see from guys going why are men looking at my profile when I'm straight blah blah blah. Well of course if you have videos of you shagging loads of women on there of course men are going to look!!! More than the women probably will.

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

people sometimes behave in different ways. Sometimes it's difficult to second guess what's in there mind when they do or don't do something.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's the implied lack of consent that puts me off

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

I think it's good to see how people interact rather than just present themselves like a prize on the price is right

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

And I would always ask permission before posting a picture of me with anyone else

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Maybe he posted it to indulge his exhibitionist side and be true to himself rather than try and anticipate what others want to see and cater for them.

I’m sorry you got disappointed, OP, but isn’t it better that people show who they are rather than what they think others want them to be?

Agreed. I'd much rather this than another with a generic, designed to appeal to the mass market blandly profile.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Gosh, imagine if any of this was important enough to actually worry about.

Worlds gone absolutely mad.

It's like joining a library website and being put off that they advertise books. "

Depends on the books .... if they are there to appeal to the minority and are all one genre , then no one is going to browse for long.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s just another example of the disconnect between what women say that they want and what men think that they know what women want.

If you’re doing it for exhibitionism purposes, then great but if you think that it will attract ladies, you’re sadly mistaken

Sometimes I think we forget the forums are not the only section on fab. Especially over the last 12 months lol

Let's face it, there are other websites full of men fucking women that seem quite popular. Fab just gives people the chance to star in their own porno.

This is very true, however when a group of your target audience says they don’t like it, why would the immediate reaction be ‘course you do!’

If I’m wrong, I couldn’t give a damn as I don’t have videos and never will on here, it’s not in my interests either way

Are they saying 'course you do' or are they, as you say in your first paragraph, just saying there is nothing wrong with them so still posting them?

Just feel that sometimes guys on here can't do anything without being bashed in some way or another. "

If people want to post them, they’re free to do so, that’s their prerogative, I’ve said that several times. Arguing with what is in essence their target audience seems a bit weird though.

It’s like telling people that they really love the advert, when they’re telling them that they don’t!

There may be other reasons for posting, as I said but if the reasoning is ‘look I’ve had the sex’ then it’s not serving any purpose.

I’m not ‘bashing guys’, my point is that if it’s being done to elicit interest, then it’s clearly not working and it seems a very strange thought process to dismiss the opinion of those people that you’re targeting.

Either way, I couldn’t care whether people post them or not