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over a year ago
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Hi Fabbers
Genuine question. Fab has become very very busy this year.... it’s getting harder and harder to chat to people properly. Does anyone else think that’s the case?
Lots of love to y’all
Joe xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think it's necessarily because it's too busy, I think people don't have the headspace and energy to start conversations and continue them with people on here for the most part."
A couple of years ago I had much longer chats .. now it just feels much more cursory x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Fabbers
Genuine question. Fab has become very very busy this year.... it’s getting harder and harder to chat to people properly. Does anyone else think that’s the case?
Lots of love to y’all
Think I tend to agree...
Joe xx"
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"I don't think it's necessarily because it's too busy, I think people don't have the headspace and energy to start conversations and continue them with people on here for the most part.
A couple of years ago I had much longer chats .. now it just feels much more cursory x"
Do you not think that the current situation has played in to that? What is the point of chatting if you can't meet etc? |
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I guess it's mainly because Fab is a meets platform and in the absence of being able to meet people don't necessarily just want general chit chat that goes nowhere. I'm mainly here now just to keep in touch with friends rather than random chats with a stranger
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No.i can't be bothered to chat because meeting isn't gonna be imminent so what's the point? I'm sure a lot of (non forum users) have that exact mindset. |
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I try not to chat but sexy ladies keep messaging so it would be echurlish not to engage in convo with them. I’m not sure how many more times I can read ‘ooh ooh Steve you make me wet’ of an evening  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this year it has slowed down to a reasonable pace... Before covid it was impossible to attempted to open even like 50% of messages and now it's pretty easy to keep on top of my inbox |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think this year it has slowed down to a reasonable pace... Before covid it was impossible to attempted to open even like 50% of messages and now it's pretty easy to keep on top of my inbox "
You must get dosents of maseges |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it when is busy
More people to interact with
Its shame no one is London based
Everyone is from far spaces
Hardly any London crude hear
I feel so lonely lol
I love to chat to some London people daily |
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"I like it when is busy
More people to interact with
Its shame no one is London based
Everyone is from far spaces
Hardly any London crude hear
I feel so lonely lol
I love to chat to some London people daily "
. Cool poem  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think it's necessarily because it's too busy, I think people don't have the headspace and energy to start conversations and continue them with people on here for the most part.
A couple of years ago I had much longer chats .. now it just feels much more cursory x
Do you not think that the current situation has played in to that? What is the point of chatting if you can't meet etc? "
That’s a good point. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No.i can't be bothered to chat because meeting isn't gonna be imminent so what's the point? I'm sure a lot of (non forum users) have that exact mindset. "
Interesting. I guess most of my friendships on here have moved on kik and snapchat and whatsapp etc. I’m just finding it harder to engage with new people xx |
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"I like it when is busy
More people to interact with
Its shame no one is London based
Everyone is from far spaces
Hardly any London crude hear
I feel so lonely lol
I love to chat to some London people daily . Cool poem "
Shit haiku
It hurts my eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love normal conversations but when the conversation opens up with a dick pic. How is that impressive ? The majority of women on here get inundated with a sorts from tic tac to house pipes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Long conversations seem to be a thing of the past.
If men can’t get a meet (even during covid) within the first half dozen messages they wander off to find someone who will"
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"I don't think it's necessarily because it's too busy, I think people don't have the headspace and energy to start conversations and continue them with people on here for the most part."
Exactly this.
Im not in the headspace to think about meeting im happy to take part in abit of chat then crack on with the million & 1 things i have to do.  |
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I like the conversations. I only meet people I get along with. It seems some of the women have less patience though - conversation is less welcomed xx |
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