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over a year ago
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Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.  |
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My partner is Domme . Like totally and a bit ( ok a lot ) of a sexual sadist ..
She was on this site but left because of the silly messages . It wasent so much the amount , more the content and lack of thought .
We tried a couples profile but that was not much better , wrote what I believed a good profile explanation as to what we where about , no one seemed to get it though both singles and couples alike . It’s horses for courses really I suppose , we are on the other fetish site , and whilst there is still the odd daft message , generally the traffic is a lot less .
I’m not sure there is a way to attract Dominant women to a swingers site , less bombardment to the inbox may help , I’m not sure that is entirely feasible though given what and whom they are |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins. "
Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm retired, I used to a Domme. But subs are very demanding and it can be exhausting, emotionally and physically.
I do miss it though!"
I can imagine how it would be exhausting. But i can also imagine how you would totally rock the Domme scene. You look outstanding  |
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"I'm retired, I used to a Domme. But subs are very demanding and it can be exhausting, emotionally and physically.
I do miss it though!
I can imagine how it would be exhausting. But i can also imagine how you would totally rock the Domme scene. You look outstanding "
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"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.
Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head."
True, we also like to nurture our subs, improve them. happy sub, happy Mistress! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm retired, I used to a Domme. But subs are very demanding and it can be exhausting, emotionally and physically.
I do miss it though!
I can imagine how it would be exhausting. But i can also imagine how you would totally rock the Domme scene. You look outstanding
Thank you "
Haha, no. Thank you |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.
Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head.
True, we also like to nurture our subs, improve them. happy sub, happy Mistress!"
In a nutshell exactly that 
Dom/mes and subs are two sides of the same coin, and equally invested, the way I view the dynamic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.
Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head.
True, we also like to nurture our subs, improve them. happy sub, happy Mistress!
In a nutshell exactly that
Dom/mes and subs are two sides of the same coin, and equally invested, the way I view the dynamic "
BDSM is a complex phenomenon. At the individual level, it encompasses a wide variety of consensual interpersonal interactions that involve participants playing with power differentials, physical restraint and/or pain within a context that is frequently (though not always) sexualised.
They need to “exist” in order to exact punishment and humiliation which I agree is only a small part of the dynamics when involved in the art of BDSM. Many claim to be experts but it takes great skill to be a professional dominant. So many facets in the art of BDSM.
I’ve still lots to learn but care not to when it comes to extreme S&M.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.
Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head.
True, we also like to nurture our subs, improve them. happy sub, happy Mistress!"
Mistress Mimi you can discipline me anytime. Turning me from a naughty girl into a good gurl. A Cocksucking Anal Whore |
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We had previously mentioned she is Domme in our profile, and got swamped with messages. These varied from needy, so called sub guys, to Doms who thought she needed a good seeing to because, as a sub, I wasn't up to it 
If we want to scratch that itch, we look for subs on another well known site. Never here |
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