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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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A musing for a Tuesday....
The world of sex toys is a virtual smorgasbord for us ladies. And I would think that it is unlikely that many of us on fab either own no toys, or have never owned toys.
But men seem to have less toys marketed towards them on the whole. Does this bother you gentlemen? Do you say to hell with it, I love me a glittery lilac bullet vibrator? Are you happy with the available options? Or have you never delved into the world of the sex toy and just stick with your hand for your solo pleasure?
And on a side note, ladies in the know.... is it as uncomfortable as I think it looks if he's wearing a cock ring (especially the metal ones) during "the sex"? |
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I have a fleshlight i got years ago had a pump for playing with an old FB she had a pussy pump and i had the cock pump (not that it was really needed for full disclosure) i brought a mystery box a while ago and had a thing that you was ment to put over your cock it was ment to spin and feel like a tongue licking again couldnt use that due to size just wouldnt fit over me. But i would like to get more things to try. Buy ultimatly i enjoy tying the partner up and edging them with all sorts haha. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The only thing I own is a cockring.... but its not uncomfortable xx"
I didn't mean uncomfortable for you.... that would be weird! I'm concerned that particularly the metal ones, during a, shall we say, enthusiastic boinking, might hurt the sensitive lady parts.
(For someone as unsubtle as me I do seem to find it hard to describe "the sex"  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love toys. Sold them for a bit. Never really looked at toys for myself. Love to use them on others tho.
If i were to use toys on myself (which i may explore someday) i wouldnt really see whats for boys or girls. Some are marketed differently but id use what i wanna use.
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I'm looking to get some boy toys but im a total beginner and I don't know what toys I should get that's good for me to start with."
Hopefully you'll find inspiration here |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"To be honest, I don't use toys myself though not averse to having them used on me, but I do have a wee collection of toys for using on ladies I might be 'entertaining'.  "
That's another thing I wonder about, whether having other people's toys used on a person is a turn on for them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most toys are unisex depending on the proclivities of your gentlemen friend
I get that.... it's more the marketing angle I'm thinking of...."
Id say majority of brands would target women. Course there are male only brands. Where do people see the potential to make money. The more lads buy them the more they will be targeted. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I thought I was the toy x
4 me using the toys a women as on her gives me pleasure. Love dp with my cock and vibrater on full x "
You can be my toy any time..... 
So no toys just for you then? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I bought a prostate toy and fleshlight for lockdown, good fun but there really isnt too much out there for blokes. We are pretty easily pleased though  "
Is it not just that they're not marketed for men though? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I have a fleshlight i got years ago had a pump for playing with an old FB she had a pussy pump and i had the cock pump (not that it was really needed for full disclosure) i brought a mystery box a while ago and had a thing that you was ment to put over your cock it was ment to spin and feel like a tongue licking again couldnt use that due to size just wouldnt fit over me. But i would like to get more things to try. Buy ultimatly i enjoy tying the partner up and edging them with all sorts haha. "
I get the using toys on a partner, I meant just for you.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"its just a case of being open to the toys available and their possible uses.
I have a couple of items some have not been used in anger yet unfortunatly"
That's true.... being open to things is the key |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Love toys. Sold them for a bit. Never really looked at toys for myself. Love to use them on others tho.
If i were to use toys on myself (which i may explore someday) i wouldnt really see whats for boys or girls. Some are marketed differently but id use what i wanna use.
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That's the way to look at it, open to anything.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I have a chastity cage and a couple of cock rings."
Chastity cages.... while I get that people like them very much, and that's a personal choice and I'm all for that..... not my favourite item |
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I used to have a couple of vibrating cock rings and they made the orgasm more intense. Also had a silicone stroker but it wasn’t all that great. I definitely have a few I want to try out though... always been intrigued about a cock pump... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Most toys are unisex depending on the proclivities of your gentlemen friend
I get that.... it's more the marketing angle I'm thinking of....
Id say majority of brands would target women. Course there are male only brands. Where do people see the potential to make money. The more lads buy them the more they will be targeted. "
I feel we should start encouraging men then.....  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Ha, one of my play partners has more toys than I do! It all depends on what the person's inclinations I suppose.
I wouldn't say that I ever felt the cock ring during sex personally. "
You're right, it does depend on the inclinations of the person....
And thank you! |
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Had 2 now rings delivered today.
I have 2 steel rings, leather strap, glans ring and the steel triple ring, famously known as "Hells gate" cos once you've gotten past the semi hard stage the blood pressure forces you into full hardness and after that there's absolutely no way to get back out until you've cum and the release starts to subside you.
It doesn't hurt ladies from banging against them but the hugely increased blood supply makes for a very thick, longer,harder cock. So a very tight and full feeling could ensue |
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over a year ago
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"I have a chastity cage and a couple of cock rings.
Chastity cages.... while I get that people like them very much, and that's a personal choice and I'm all for that..... not my favourite item "
The first one that I had brought, the cage was quite tricky to fit into. I had to buy a bigger one in the end.
I would like to try more male toys out, but I don’t really know what to try. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I used to have a couple of vibrating cock rings and they made the orgasm more intense. Also had a silicone stroker but it wasn’t all that great. I definitely have a few I want to try out though... always been intrigued about a cock pump..."
Pumps scare me a little..... |
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One of my male partners has recently bought a doxy. It's too powerful for me personally. I've seen a sheath attachment for it for men and I've been tempted to buy him one.
As for cock rings, if they're just the ring they're often fine but if a guy is already girthy it can make them uncomfortably thick. The ones that have the attached vibrating bits are indeed uncomfortable unless he doesn't move. Who wants something haphazardly bashing into your clit as he thrusts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love toys. Sold them for a bit. Never really looked at toys for myself. Love to use them on others tho.
If i were to use toys on myself (which i may explore someday) i wouldnt really see whats for boys or girls. Some are marketed differently but id use what i wanna use.
That's the way to look at it, open to anything...."
If i were to use toys on myself (which i may explore someday) i wouldnt really see whats for boys or girls. Some are marketed differently but id use what i wanna use.
Seems painful, dont think id ever really be into it but lets use anal toys for an example...What will society say if i start using an anal toy as a lad... Dont know the correct answer but id lean towards they'd say im gay and then id loose my masculinity and a lot of men cant cope with that... when really no, Im using this toy in my bum cause i like it. We may not think we do, but majority of us care how other perceive us. The taboo is still there |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Had 2 now rings delivered today.
I have 2 steel rings, leather strap, glans ring and the steel triple ring, famously known as "Hells gate" cos once you've gotten past the semi hard stage the blood pressure forces you into full hardness and after that there's absolutely no way to get back out until you've cum and the release starts to subside you.
It doesn't hurt ladies from banging against them but the hugely increased blood supply makes for a very thick, longer,harder cock. So a very tight and full feeling could ensue "
I feel a demonstration is in order
So apart from the rings, anything else you've fancied? Toy wise, obvs |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I have a chastity cage and a couple of cock rings.
Chastity cages.... while I get that people like them very much, and that's a personal choice and I'm all for that..... not my favourite item
The first one that I had brought, the cage was quite tricky to fit into. I had to buy a bigger one in the end.
I would like to try more male toys out, but I don’t really know what to try."
I think that's the thing, some men don't really know... |
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"Had 2 now rings delivered today.
I have 2 steel rings, leather strap, glans ring and the steel triple ring, famously known as "Hells gate" cos once you've gotten past the semi hard stage the blood pressure forces you into full hardness and after that there's absolutely no way to get back out until you've cum and the release starts to subside you.
It doesn't hurt ladies from banging against them but the hugely increased blood supply makes for a very thick, longer,harder cock. So a very tight and full feeling could ensue
I feel a demonstration is in order
So apart from the rings, anything else you've fancied? Toy wise, obvs"
Posh your chuff is tighter than a gnats chuff... I'd break you in half like a lolly stick |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"One of my male partners has recently bought a doxy. It's too powerful for me personally. I've seen a sheath attachment for it for men and I've been tempted to buy him one.
As for cock rings, if they're just the ring they're often fine but if a guy is already girthy it can make them uncomfortably thick. The ones that have the attached vibrating bits are indeed uncomfortable unless he doesn't move. Who wants something haphazardly bashing into your clit as he thrusts? "
That's my logic! Those ones can't be comfy....
I do like the look of the wand attachments, if you do get one let me know how it goes? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Love toys. Sold them for a bit. Never really looked at toys for myself. Love to use them on others tho.
If i were to use toys on myself (which i may explore someday) i wouldnt really see whats for boys or girls. Some are marketed differently but id use what i wanna use.
That's the way to look at it, open to anything....
If i were to use toys on myself (which i may explore someday) i wouldnt really see whats for boys or girls. Some are marketed differently but id use what i wanna use.
Seems painful, dont think id ever really be into it but lets use anal toys for an example...What will society say if i start using an anal toy as a lad... Dont know the correct answer but id lean towards they'd say im gay and then id loose my masculinity and a lot of men cant cope with that... when really no, Im using this toy in my bum cause i like it. We may not think we do, but majority of us care how other perceive us. The taboo is still there"
That's very true sadly. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"To be honest, I don't use toys myself though not averse to having them used on me, but I do have a wee collection of toys for using on ladies I might be 'entertaining'.
That's another thing I wonder about, whether having other people's toys used on a person is a turn on for them?"
May I add, if they're being used between different people, they're always thoroughly washed and cleaned!!    |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Had 2 now rings delivered today.
I have 2 steel rings, leather strap, glans ring and the steel triple ring, famously known as "Hells gate" cos once you've gotten past the semi hard stage the blood pressure forces you into full hardness and after that there's absolutely no way to get back out until you've cum and the release starts to subside you.
It doesn't hurt ladies from banging against them but the hugely increased blood supply makes for a very thick, longer,harder cock. So a very tight and full feeling could ensue
I feel a demonstration is in order
So apart from the rings, anything else you've fancied? Toy wise, obvs
Posh your chuff is tighter than a gnats chuff... I'd break you in half like a lolly stick "
Challenge accepted.... you know I never back down from a dare  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t have any sex toys although have had them used on me in the past... I’m actually thinking of getting some to use when I am with others.
What would be people’s thoughts on this?"
Get as many as you can. fulfill yourself. Generally id say using toys with others will make you more comfortable, then hopefully you'll use them by yourself. Then hopefully you'll spread your knowledge and it will be an awesome cycle . One person at time |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"To be honest, I don't use toys myself though not averse to having them used on me, but I do have a wee collection of toys for using on ladies I might be 'entertaining'.
That's another thing I wonder about, whether having other people's toys used on a person is a turn on for them?
May I add, if they're being used between different people, they're always thoroughly washed and cleaned!! "
I figured they would be! |
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"One of my male partners has recently bought a doxy. It's too powerful for me personally. I've seen a sheath attachment for it for men and I've been tempted to buy him one.
As for cock rings, if they're just the ring they're often fine but if a guy is already girthy it can make them uncomfortably thick. The ones that have the attached vibrating bits are indeed uncomfortable unless he doesn't move. Who wants something haphazardly bashing into your clit as he thrusts?
That's my logic! Those ones can't be comfy....
I do like the look of the wand attachments, if you do get one let me know how it goes? "
I certainly will . |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I don’t have any sex toys although have had them used on me in the past... I’m actually thinking of getting some to use when I am with others.
What would be people’s thoughts on this?"
That's what I wonder too |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"NB:
If i get a majority vote I'll display the pic as my avatar....
Start the campaign.
Enough votes and it goes up  "
Just get it up..... you know you want to |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I have a tenga toy...feels incredible to play with.
I’d say the orgasms are better than your hand but less than a BJ....but are prolonged, maybe because you are cumming into something.
K"
Ooh that's not one I'd heard of.... |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
There are plenty of toys marketed towards men if you look at retailers aimed at the gay community instead of sites like lovehoney.
Regulation have a shop in London which, while not massive, stocks a lot of male otientated toys and kink gear.
There are also those aimed at male chastity, cock rings and their various forms amd medfet play.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Love toys. Sold them for a bit. Never really looked at toys for myself. Love to use them on others tho.
If i were to use toys on myself (which i may explore someday) i wouldnt really see whats for boys or girls. Some are marketed differently but id use what i wanna use.
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Some are angled to rub against the prostate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex had a huge box of sex toys when we met. Several cockrings, butt plugs, vibtators, anal beads....as well as things to use with a partner like bondage gear, hot wax, blindfolds, whips, floggers etc. Pre-fab that would have shocked me, but since I found him on here it wasn't really a surprise. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There are plenty of toys marketed towards men if you look at retailers aimed at the gay community instead of sites like lovehoney.
Regulation have a shop in London which, while not massive, stocks a lot of male otientated toys and kink gear.
There are also those aimed at male chastity, cock rings and their various forms amd medfet play.
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I think that's the thing, women's toys are marketed everywhere, whereas men's tend to be less so, and therefore maybe tend towards being stereotyped as being for gay men? |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"To be honest, I don't use toys myself though not averse to having them used on me, but I do have a wee collection of toys for using on ladies I might be 'entertaining'.
That's another thing I wonder about, whether having other people's toys used on a person is a turn on for them?
May I add, if they're being used between different people, they're always thoroughly washed and cleaned!! "
What, you don't suck them clean? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"One of my male partners has recently bought a doxy. It's too powerful for me personally. I've seen a sheath attachment for it for men and I've been tempted to buy him one.
As for cock rings, if they're just the ring they're often fine but if a guy is already girthy it can make them uncomfortably thick. The ones that have the attached vibrating bits are indeed uncomfortable unless he doesn't move. Who wants something haphazardly bashing into your clit as he thrusts? "
We got a wevibe wand before the doxies which came with a sheath.
I profess it did little for me outside of just vibrate, however I would assume they work on some people otherwise they wouldn’t sell them. Them again I didn’t get in with the flesh lights we picked up either so have just accepted those kinds of male sex toys just are not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love toys. Sold them for a bit. Never really looked at toys for myself. Love to use them on others tho.
If i were to use toys on myself (which i may explore someday) i wouldnt really see whats for boys or girls. Some are marketed differently but id use what i wanna use.
Some are angled to rub against the prostate. "
Yes 100%...Heard a lot about the prostate. Something to explore in the future i guess. Heard lots of good ! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I think that's the thing, women's toys are marketed everywhere, whereas men's tend to be less so, and therefore maybe tend towards being stereotyped as being for gay men?"
Indeed, especially if said toy involves anal play! Once you get over any perceived stigma you may feel shopping in said places you will be surprised at what there is on offer that can be used on both males and females alike.
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I think that's the thing, women's toys are marketed everywhere, whereas men's tend to be less so, and therefore maybe tend towards being stereotyped as being for gay men?
Indeed, especially if said toy involves anal play! Once you get over any perceived stigma you may feel shopping in said places you will be surprised at what there is on offer that can be used on both males and females alike.
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Indeed so! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Plenty of men's toys on the market and you girls know that.
That's why you buy gay porn stars dildos online.
Go on admit it!"
Hi stranger
Also.... one moment.... you can get gay porn star dildos? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I just have my hand  . And my phone
And what exactly do you do with your phone?
You can use your phone to control app linked toys, like Lovense "
I've got one of those |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair you can’t go wrong with your hand and a good imagination x and the odd apple pie x
But what if something could make it so much better?"
Do you mean you x |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I just have my hand . And my phone
And what exactly do you do with your phone?
You can use your phone to control app linked toys, like Lovense
I've got one of those
Me too "
Good aren't they |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"To be fair you can’t go wrong with your hand and a good imagination x and the odd apple pie x
But what if something could make it so much better? Do you mean you x"
I could be used as a toy.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I just have my hand . And my phone
And what exactly do you do with your phone?
Stare at ur boobs what did you think I do "
They do get about a bit.... sorry |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
KIDLINGTON |
I have delved and then adapted I guess.
I have a stroker which I don't use often but is nice to change the sensation with. Sometimes I'll use the wand as a way to get an intense feeling.
Mostly I stick to using my hand and lube.. that does then job and is great for those just bash one out moment when you're supper horny. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I have delved and then adapted I guess.
I have a stroker which I don't use often but is nice to change the sensation with. Sometimes I'll use the wand as a way to get an intense feeling.
Mostly I stick to using my hand and lube.. that does then job and is great for those just bash one out moment when you're supper horny. "
Strokers are things I often wonder about.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A musing for a Tuesday....
The world of sex toys is a virtual smorgasbord for us ladies. And I would think that it is unlikely that many of us on fab either own no toys, or have never owned toys.
But men seem to have less toys marketed towards them on the whole. Does this bother you gentlemen? Do you say to hell with it, I love me a glittery lilac bullet vibrator? Are you happy with the available options? Or have you never delved into the world of the sex toy and just stick with your hand for your solo pleasure?
And on a side note, ladies in the know.... is it as uncomfortable as I think it looks if he's wearing a cock ring (especially the metal ones) during "the sex"?"
Its because we can happily use our hand to do the job, and most toys would be too bulky and cumbersome to keep discretely.
Also, its a pleasure to lick clean a womans toy after she used, definitely not the same for a mans toy haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always stuck to my hand but fab it's broadening my horizons so I'm going to look into some stuff for men.. do vibrating butt plugs exist? Or can someone recommend something to start myself off easy with? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A musing for a Tuesday....
The world of sex toys is a virtual smorgasbord for us ladies. And I would think that it is unlikely that many of us on fab either own no toys, or have never owned toys.
But men seem to have less toys marketed towards them on the whole. Does this bother you gentlemen? Do you say to hell with it, I love me a glittery lilac bullet vibrator? Are you happy with the available options? Or have you never delved into the world of the sex toy and just stick with your hand for your solo pleasure?
And on a side note, ladies in the know.... is it as uncomfortable as I think it looks if he's wearing a cock ring (especially the metal ones) during "the sex"?"
The only toy I've ever had is my hand. And let me just say it's never let me down. Yet.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not interested in toys at all
I don't like my arse touched let alone anything up it, I don't like my nipples played with, I loathe cock rings and ball weights, I will never, ever, be tied up or restrained, them wanky tube things don't interest me in the slightest
Sexy underwear is OK on others, not on me
Using toys on other people bores me
I am way too vanilla for this site |
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Over recent years I have come to enjoy a number of toys ... and not talking Action Man or Lego here!!, and my collection has grown over that period.
I now have quite a few lovely anal toys and a couple of Fleshlights .. and other bits too!! .... I soooo enjoy a prolonged period of getting them out and having a lovely play.
Just need a lady or couple to join me here
R xxx |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"To be honest, I don't use toys myself though not averse to having them used on me, but I do have a wee collection of toys for using on ladies I might be 'entertaining'.
That's another thing I wonder about, whether having other people's toys used on a person is a turn on for them?
May I add, if they're being used between different people, they're always thoroughly washed and cleaned!!
What, you don't suck them clean? "
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It's so funny past two weeks I've bought a number of toys and the final one is arriving tomorrow - Can't wait!!
"A musing for a Tuesday....
The world of sex toys is a virtual smorgasbord for us ladies. And I would think that it is unlikely that many of us on fab either own no toys, or have never owned toys.
But men seem to have less toys marketed towards them on the whole. Does this bother you gentlemen? Do you say to hell with it, I love me a glittery lilac bullet vibrator? Are you happy with the available options? Or have you never delved into the world of the sex toy and just stick with your hand for your solo pleasure?
And on a side note, ladies in the know.... is it as uncomfortable as I think it looks if he's wearing a cock ring (especially the metal ones) during "the sex"?"
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"I have delved and then adapted I guess.
I have a stroker which I don't use often but is nice to change the sensation with. Sometimes I'll use the wand as a way to get an intense feeling.
Mostly I stick to using my hand and lube.. that does then job and is great for those just bash one out moment when you're supper horny.
Strokers are things I often wonder about...."
Tbf I guess the more money you spend on them the better they are. Mine was part of a toy set that I purchased and it's OK as long at you use plenty of lube. Sometimes it's just a faff to use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t use sex toys on myself. Just not that into it. Feels a little odd. People turn me on, yes I know feelings can you get aroused, but it’s just not The same as someone else getting me off. If that explains it.
I do like watching a woman use them though |
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