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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When it go to meeting at certain person what is the thing that puts you off men or women mine would be is it the woman spent a lot of the time on her mobile phone when she is literally meeting me for a coffee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it go to meeting at certain person what is the thing that puts you off men or women mine would be is it the woman spent a lot of the time on her mobile phone when she is literally meeting me for a coffee"
If they smell like a dump I'm gone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, constant mobile phone use would put me off too.
And someone who doesn't make a good effort to keep the conversation going and doesn't ask open questions and just talks about themselves. Bad hygiene, obviously. Someone who is rude to staff if we are out to eat or drink etc. I'd definitely be running home.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Arrogance would put me off a man. "
I think I love guys and women these days do come across a little bit arrogant sometimes it is better just to be brutally honest if you don't like that person the minute you see them be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Snobbery, poor hygiene, and sometimes poor dress sense. I don't mean look like a model or latest fashion, but at least try to wear clothes that fit/match and look tidy.
And if they Really gobby/ loud / obnoxious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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theres no one thing ?? can me anything but lets say they smells ok and look as they should and like the pic they sent and not lied about there age .. then the biggest off put for me is the sense of entitlement some have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’ |
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"If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’"
I would have left before the first sentence of this finished |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"theres no one thing ?? can me anything but lets say they smells ok and look as they should and like the pic they sent and not lied about there age .. then the biggest off put for me is the sense of entitlement some have"
I think there is a lot of people on here that do lie about a lot of stuff especially their age just to get somewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’
I would have left before the first sentence of this finished "
But she’s hot and I sort of admire her confidence to wear a headset out in public, even though she’s incredibly annoying, I’m gonna stick with it, see where it goes. |
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"If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’
I would have left before the first sentence of this finished
But she’s hot and I sort of admire her confidence to wear a headset out in public, even though she’s incredibly annoying, I’m gonna stick with it, see where it goes."
Well I hope she hangs up soon so you can find out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a girl openly say on a date that "she'd always wanted a little brown baby with curly hair"
I'm mixed race.
Did you give her one?"
Was it waynetta? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Arrogance would put me off a man.
Do you think sometimes Arrogance and Confidence is a very fine line...especially in a message? "
Yes absolutely a fine line between the two. Someone with confidence just has an easier way about them that is far more appealing and attractive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My main put off is people who have lied about their appearance.
I once met someone who clearly wasn’t the person in their photos. When I mentioned it they claimed to have “accidentally” sent pictures of their cousin without realising.
(Disclaimer: this wasn’t from fab) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a girl openly say on a date that "she'd always wanted a little brown baby with curly hair"
I'm mixed race.
Did you give her one?
Was it waynetta?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a girl openly say on a date that "she'd always wanted a little brown baby with curly hair"
I'm mixed race.
Did you give her one?
Was it waynetta?
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No i got up n walked away lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, constant mobile phone use would put me off too.
And someone who doesn't make a good effort to keep the conversation going and doesn't ask open questions and just talks about themselves. Bad hygiene, obviously. Someone who is rude to staff if we are out to eat or drink etc. I'd definitely be running home.
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All of the above! 
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’
I would have left before the first sentence of this finished
But she’s hot and I sort of admire her confidence to wear a headset out in public, even though she’s incredibly annoying, I’m gonna stick with it, see where it goes.
Well I hope she hangs up soon so you can find out "
Thank you  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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Someone looking around the pub/bar at other women while we're chatting.
Someone trying to look down my top or asking me to stand up so they can see my bum.
Someone talking in East End geezer talk.
Someone who stinks of sewers because he came from work and wanting a blow job in the back of his transit.
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
"Arrogance would put me off a man.
Do you think sometimes Arrogance and Confidence is a very fine line...especially in a message? "
Absolutely agree with this, my perception is that women like men to be confident but if we are not confident by nature we might try to hard and come over as arrogant. I'm shy ish but have an on stage persona as a musician/singer and I have been accused of being arrogant at gigs so abviously tried too hard to hide my lack of confidence. |
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