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over a year ago
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Love the thread title! 
It's tough for pretty much all single men and especially at the moment. Socials and clubs might be your best bet when the world opens up again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though I know it is going to be tough, try to focus on women's profiles that do not state that they don't want Asian guys to message them.
They do exist, I swear I have seen one or two |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha thank you for your reply, i just want to chat to be honest and then maybe meet once business is back to usual"
People chat in the forums but not so much in private messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know that guy that is playing the baddie in The Unforgotten...... he's hot.
Not the lovely policeman. The horrible one....... sexy tho....
Its difficult for all males on here. Regardless. "
That's not actually true |
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"You know that guy that is playing the baddie in The Unforgotten...... he's hot.
Not the lovely policeman. The horrible one....... sexy tho....
Its difficult for all males on here. Regardless.
That's not actually true"
You don't think the mean policeman is hot ?? Are you blind ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know that guy that is playing the baddie in The Unforgotten...... he's hot.
Not the lovely policeman. The horrible one....... sexy tho....
Its difficult for all males on here. Regardless.
That's not actually true
You don't think the mean policeman is hot ?? Are you blind ?"
You know exactly what I meant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but you could have played along.
There are exceptions but they are few and far between. "
Not really actually. The amount of profile I have seen with 'no asian' is far from few. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haha thank you for your reply, i just want to chat to be honest and then maybe meet once business is back to usual
People chat in the forums but not so much in private messages.
Use Reply + quote and we will know who you are replying to.
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Can you tell im still trying to work my way round how this works?
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"Yes but you could have played along.
There are exceptions but they are few and far between.
Not really actually. The amount of profile I have seen with 'no asian' is far from few. "
Yes your not wrong there just when you see a person who you would like to message then scroll down and see the no Asians puts the dampers on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Also guys, ive never been to a club before and played, ive always worried about whether it would be friendly for a single Asian and if i'd be accepted. Can anyone make me feel better about this lol? |
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"Yes but you could have played along.
There are exceptions but they are few and far between.
Not really actually. The amount of profile I have seen with 'no asian' is far from few.
Yes your not wrong there just when you see a person who you would like to message then scroll down and see the no Asians puts the dampers on."
Sometimes they say ‘no bi men’ too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thank you for your reply, i just want to chat to be honest and then maybe meet once business is back to usual
People chat in the forums but not so much in private messages.
Use Reply + quote and we will know who you are replying to.
Can you tell im still trying to work my way round how this works?
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Yes that's why I'm helping |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Haha thank you for your reply, i just want to chat to be honest and then maybe meet once business is back to usual
People chat in the forums but not so much in private messages.
Use Reply + quote and we will know who you are replying to.
Can you tell im still trying to work my way round how this works?
Yes that's why I'm helping "
I appreciate it, Thank you for being kind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also guys, ive never been to a club before and played, ive always worried about whether it would be friendly for a single Asian and if i'd be accepted. Can anyone make me feel better about this lol?"
I've not been to a club yet but it's on my list. The best thing I could say is have no expectations, style it out and just enjoy the experience. Confidence is a big plus for a lot of people and if any 'extras' come from the night then happy days. If not, you're not disappointed and hopefully you will have still had a good night meeting some new people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Asian problem #81:
“Where are you from?”
“Oh, I was born here”
“No, I meant, where are you REALLY from?”
Desi Humour
Dad, I want to be an actor.
Beta, it’s pronounced Doctor.
Be patient, enjoy site (lots of lovely peeps, only a matter of time before you meet someone nice and have plenty fun).
Be lucky.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Asian problem #81:
“Where are you from?”
“Oh, I was born here”
“No, I meant, where are you REALLY from?”
Desi Humour
Dad, I want to be an actor.
Beta, it’s pronounced Doctor.
Be patient, enjoy site (lots of lovely peeps, only a matter of time before you meet someone nice and have plenty fun).
Be lucky. "
I do feel like I always have to clarify that I was born here not knowing if that actually makes a blind bit of difference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Asian problem #81:
“Where are you from?”
“Oh, I was born here”
“No, I meant, where are you REALLY from?”
Desi Humour
Dad, I want to be an actor.
Beta, it’s pronounced Doctor.
Be patient, enjoy site (lots of lovely peeps, only a matter of time before you meet someone nice and have plenty fun).
Be lucky. "
I HATE the "Where are you REALLY from?" question 
The Dr line was quality |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Asian problem #81:
“Where are you from?”
“Oh, I was born here”
“No, I meant, where are you REALLY from?”
Desi Humour
Dad, I want to be an actor.
Beta, it’s pronounced Doctor.
Be patient, enjoy site (lots of lovely peeps, only a matter of time before you meet someone nice and have plenty fun).
Be lucky.
I HATE the "Where are you REALLY from?" question
The Dr line was quality "
YESSS I hate that question!!!
Also: "I can't believe you weren't born here, your English is so good!" sometimes I want to reply "yeah I know, it's even better than yours mate.". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am drawn towards Asian men. I love their skin tone, dark hair, eyes and eyelshes."
Have to say that pic. of yours dated 18 June 2020 certainly has a WoW factor. |
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