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"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown "two months isn't long ? | |||
"You've been on here 2 months, and no one should be meeting due to the pandemic... as you state on your profile "I mean its not that I haven't met anyone i understand that part but people don't even hold a convo with you | |||
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"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown "and I beg to differ , I have only been on here for two months and speaking out side of lockdown for to months is different because be meeting up ect before then even if it to chill nothing sexaul | |||
"Yeah we do actually meet people but only when as a country we are not grounded and actually allowed to meet people so effectively not again untill 21st June " okay forget about the meeting part , im more so talking about the actual convos female won't bat a eye lid a you on here being there type or not | |||
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"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown and I beg to differ , I have only been on here for two months and speaking out side of lockdown for to months is different because be meeting up ect before then even if it to chill nothing sexaul
"Then you’ve got wildly high expectations of Fab OP. Even before covid it could take a single male years to strike up even a conversation. Especially if their profile is completely bare. | |||
"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown two months isn't long ? "No, it's almost a nanosecond, it took me nearly 9 months to get my first meet, and that was about 14 years ago  | |||
"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown two months isn't long ?
No, it's almost a nanosecond, it took me nearly 9 months to get my first meet, and that was about 14 years ago "See OP? ^ | |||
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"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown two months isn't long ?
No, it's almost a nanosecond, it took me nearly 9 months to get my first meet, and that was about 14 years ago "so I guess what your saying is it starts so then picks up ? | |||
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"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown two months isn't long ?
No, it's almost a nanosecond, it took me nearly 9 months to get my first meet, and that was about 14 years ago so I guess what your saying is it starts so then picks up ? "With no pics on a profile and an attitude that this site was going to have them knee deep in pussy, pandemic or no pandemic that person will most likely struggle | |||
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"You have alot to learn lad, my advice would be go away do some research read some blogs, listen to podcasts and then have a serious think if its the right place for you. " Go on then, we'll meet you. Just stop with the messages, Martyn  | |||
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"You have alot to learn lad, my advice would be go away do some research read some blogs, listen to podcasts and then have a serious think if its the right place for you. Go on then, we'll meet you. Just stop with the messages, Martyn "thanks but no thanks | |||
"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown two months isn't long ?
No, it's almost a nanosecond, it took me nearly 9 months to get my first meet, and that was about 14 years ago so I guess what your saying is it starts so then picks up ?
With no pics on a profile and an attitude that this site was going to have them knee deep in pussy, pandemic or no pandemic that person will most likely struggle "fair point on that one I guess I do have a lot to learn , in regards of a profile would you say more nude or just normal pic ? | |||
"You have alot to learn lad, my advice would be go away do some research read some blogs, listen to podcasts and then have a serious think if its the right place for you. Go on then, we'll meet you. Just stop with the messages, Martyn "Ok KC, i just cant stop like that though its not easy that  | |||
"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown two months isn't long ?
No, it's almost a nanosecond, it took me nearly 9 months to get my first meet, and that was about 14 years ago so I guess what your saying is it starts so then picks up ? "Yeah, you should get yourself known, post positive things on the Forums, take a couple of tasteful pics(they don't have to be face pics), and as others have said, wait until all this Covid malarkey is over  | |||
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"You have alot to learn lad, my advice would be go away do some research read some blogs, listen to podcasts and then have a serious think if its the right place for you. Go on then, we'll meet you. Just stop with the messages, Martyn thanks but no thanks "Are you also called Martyn? How coincidental. | |||
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"You have alot to learn lad, my advice would be go away do some research read some blogs, listen to podcasts and then have a serious think if its the right place for you. Go on then, we'll meet you. Just stop with the messages, Martyn
Ok KC, i just cant stop like that though its not easy that " | |||
"It all honesty, I guess I was sold a dream in some way " Well I hope you kept the receipt mate | |||
"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown two months isn't long ?
No, it's almost a nanosecond, it took me nearly 9 months to get my first meet, and that was about 14 years ago so I guess what your saying is it starts so then picks up ?
Yeah, you should get yourself known, post positive things on the Forums, take a couple of tasteful pics(they don't have to be face pics), and as others have said, wait until all this Covid malarkey is over "thanks for the advice and ace clock what would you say it tasteful | |||
"You have alot to learn lad, my advice would be go away do some research read some blogs, listen to podcasts and then have a serious think if its the right place for you. Go on then, we'll meet you. Just stop with the messages, Martyn thanks but no thanks
Are you also called Martyn? How coincidental."my bad on that one I didn't realise you wasn't talking to me | |||
"You have alot to learn lad, my advice would be go away do some research read some blogs, listen to podcasts and then have a serious think if its the right place for you. Go on then, we'll meet you. Just stop with the messages, Martyn thanks but no thanks
Are you also called Martyn? How coincidental."Only one Martyn KC  | |||
"It all honesty, I guess I was sold a dream in some way " You must have sold yourself a dream then. Fab is just a swingers site that you can use to make connections. There are no guarantees, and it does actually require effort. | |||
"You have alot to learn lad, my advice would be go away do some research read some blogs, listen to podcasts and then have a serious think if its the right place for you. Go on then, we'll meet you. Just stop with the messages, Martyn thanks but no thanks
Are you also called Martyn? How coincidental.
Only one Martyn KC "*Singing* you are the one and only, nobody I'd rather meet | |||
"It all honesty, I guess I was sold a dream in some way You must have sold yourself a dream then. Fab is just a swingers site that you can use to make connections. There are no guarantees, and it does actually require effort." I mean my older brother told me about this site and yh I did think aint nobody just gonna give out their pussy or cock , straight away but I haven't even got to the stage of talking | |||
"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown two months isn't long ?
No, it's almost a nanosecond, it took me nearly 9 months to get my first meet, and that was about 14 years ago so I guess what your saying is it starts so then picks up ?
Yeah, you should get yourself known, post positive things on the Forums, take a couple of tasteful pics(they don't have to be face pics), and as others have said, wait until all this Covid malarkey is over thanks for the advice and ace clock what would you say it tasteful "Well that's a question for the Ladies to answer, I'm crap at taking selfies anyway | |||
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"You have alot to learn lad, my advice would be go away do some research read some blogs, listen to podcasts and then have a serious think if its the right place for you. Go on then, we'll meet you. Just stop with the messages, Martyn thanks but no thanks
Are you also called Martyn? How coincidental.
Only one Martyn KC
*Singing* you are the one and only, nobody I'd rather meet "of course my anthem | |||
"Something funny sexy and says something about myself ? I'm thinking " You want some ideas around profiles and pictures by all means have a look at some of the other male profiles on the site and get some ideas | |||
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"Lots of advice posts on the forum but this one may help with your expectations; https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538 Good luck OP "Hello you long time you ok? X | |||
"Lots of advice posts on the forum but this one may help with your expectations; https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538 Good luck OP "I can click on it , im on my phone | |||
"Something funny sexy and says something about myself ? I'm thinking You want some ideas around profiles and pictures by all means have a look at some of the other male profiles on the site and get some ideas " Oh nice to see you around
Would recommend checking out Moreno's pics if you are stuck for ideas as they are pretty darn sexy   | |||
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"Damn I need a cowboy hat "I've got a couple of those  | |||
"Damn I need a cowboy hat "They're popular. Also check out Tmontana1 for cowboy hat inspired pics. | |||
"Something funny sexy and says something about myself ? I'm thinking You want some ideas around profiles and pictures by all means have a look at some of the other male profiles on the site and get some ideas Oh nice to see you around
Would recommend checking out Moreno's pics if you are stuck for ideas as they are pretty darn sexy "Aww thank you beautiful i really appreciate that you pictures are always a pleasure to view when eveythings sane again I will be taking a long trip to Scotland X | |||
"Damn I need a cowboy hat
I've got a couple of those "That and the boots would be a great pic | |||
"Damn I need a cowboy hat
They're popular. Also check out Tmontana1 for cowboy hat inspired pics."thanks | |||
"Damn I need a cowboy hat "Youll be suptised mate those are around middle ground for popular pictures | |||
"Something funny sexy and says something about myself ? I'm thinking You want some ideas around profiles and pictures by all means have a look at some of the other male profiles on the site and get some ideas Oh nice to see you around
Would recommend checking out Moreno's pics if you are stuck for ideas as they are pretty darn sexy
Aww thank you beautiful i really appreciate that you pictures are always a pleasure to view when eveythings sane again I will be taking a long trip to Scotland X"Oh well a trip to Scotland does sound interesting...is that a promise?
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"Something funny sexy and says something about myself ? I'm thinking You want some ideas around profiles and pictures by all means have a look at some of the other male profiles on the site and get some ideas Oh nice to see you around
Would recommend checking out Moreno's pics if you are stuck for ideas as they are pretty darn sexy
Aww thank you beautiful i really appreciate that you pictures are always a pleasure to view when eveythings sane again I will be taking a long trip to Scotland X
Oh well a trip to Scotland does sound interesting...is that a promise?
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"Damn I need a cowboy hat
I've got a couple of those
That and the boots would be a great pic"Unfortunately the pair that I bought in Arizona in 1986 died a death quite some time ago  Might invest in a new pair when the shops open again though | |||
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"Really seems I have had more luck on tinder and this is a website made for this but 9 months that is long I guess for males its a lot harder on here " Do you show your face on Tinder? | |||
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"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "There has been lots of good advice offered to you OP, do make the most of it while the restrictions are still in place. I can confirm though, that Fab is a great site, and couples and solo females do indeed, meet solo males | |||
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"Bro are those your hats in you dp " A) you don’t have an avatar B) you’ve only been here 2 months C) you’re the same age as some members children D) you say people don’t chat - most people chat in English not some fake nouveau gangsta style E) pandemic | |||
"It all honesty, I guess I was sold a dream in some way " You and me both, my love | |||
"She will have in her bio, her type you pop and all you see if read or deleted not I don't mean to sound sour but man that she really be damaging my confidence, and I aint even ugly " Don't let it get you down. Many women get too many messages to reply to. Some men are abusive when women say no thanks so the women find it better not to reply at all. Many people aren't chatting because there isn't much point if there's no chance of a meet. Stick around the forums for a few months and decide if Fab is the site for you. | |||
"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "If you're serious about meeting try socials and swingers clubs still not guaranteed sex but you gain verification hopefully leading to meet.. Remember you a little fish in a big pond so try not to get out of you depth. | |||
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"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "1- there is a lockdown pandemic 2- 2 months is very little time on here. Most People are looking for swinging meets and partners, for a fulfilling night. 3- you haven't set a profile photo 4- you have a childish emoji covering your face, which will really put off most women. It makes you look childish. You might get lucky with some of the younger 18-20s who are also here accidentally. Until you change it for something more mature. 5- its a lockdown. 6- no body photos. All fully clothed. 7- have you tried sending messages trying to start a decent interesting conversation with any women? Bear in mind that women usually get around 100 messages a day, so yours has to stand out. | |||
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"Yes, plenty thanks. The whole it's hard for guys etc. Is bollocks in my opinion, it really isn't. " You think they are lying? Not all men have thighs like you do. | |||
"Yes, plenty thanks. The whole it's hard for guys etc. Is bollocks in my opinion, it really isn't. You think they are lying? Not all men have thighs like you do. " Is that what it takes, strong thighs ? | |||
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"Yes, plenty thanks. The whole it's hard for guys etc. Is bollocks in my opinion, it really isn't. You think they are lying? Not all men have thighs like you do. Is that what it takes, strong thighs ?" Yep, all about the thighs
Not lying as such but they dont help themselves with they way they conduct themselves on here and the way they present.
Threads day in day out giving advice on profiles, how to approach people but many just ignore and carry on as they were, then complain again in a few weeks that they still haven't been able to start a conversation with someone. | |||
"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown and I beg to differ , I have only been on here for two months and speaking out side of lockdown for to months is different because be meeting up ect before then even if it to chill nothing sexaul
Then you’ve got wildly high expectations of Fab OP. Even before covid it could take a single male years to strike up even a conversation. Especially if their profile is completely bare. "Why? Does anyone actually look at how long someone has been a member before engaging with them? | |||
Come on, seriously?
Is say the only thing wrong is your expectations.
This isn't instashag.
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"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "Aside from the points raised above, your profile states you're only looking to meet single females or female couples aged under 30. How many of those do you think there are here? | |||
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"2 months isn’t a while, even outside of lockdown two months isn't long ? "Look at my profile then you will know | |||
"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "Work on your profile. Your pictures are not sparkling and your bio goes on too much about your needs... Oh and nobody likes a whiner | |||
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"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "Did you think covid restrictions didnt apply on here? | |||
"7 years, 2 social meets..I'm improving "But..... "you got a friend in me. You got a friend in me" | |||
"7 years, 2 social meets..I'm improving
But..... "you got a friend in me. You got a friend in me""True, you're like that sibling that I think 'what the fuck has she done now?'..and thanks. | |||
"Look at your own profile objectively and work out what message it sends. My opinion only but your pics shout out chav or wannabe gangsta. Thats fine if youre looking for that kinda lady. Most active ladies on here wont fall into that category, so smarten up. Run the numbers. If there are 1000 members within 5 miles of you, 800 are guys, 150 MF couples, 45 women and 5 miscellaneous. So YOU have a 'market' of 45. 35 are outside your age range, 5 dont like smokers. Youve got 5 ladies left. You cant accomodate, how many of the 5 will allow a strange man into their house? Dont try to appeal to everyone, it doesnt work and its transparent. Be honest about what you want, who you want, and its easier to nail it down" Good post | |||
"She will have in her bio, her type you pop and all you see if read or deleted not I don't mean to sound sour but man that she really be damaging my confidence, and I aint even ugly " It’s not up to you to decide if you’re her type or not. It isn’t necessarily even about your looks, it’s at least as much about how you message and what your profile conveys. | |||
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"Really seems I have had more luck on tinder and this is a website made for this but 9 months that is long I guess for males its a lot harder on here " If you do better on Tinder, use Tinder. This isn’t “a website made for this”, if what you mean by “this” is random hookups and ONS. It’s a website made for swinging, which is a different thing. You were expecting lots of sex with no effort on your part? Did you think the women on here are basically free escorts? | |||
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"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "Same man. I thought this was instashag... we was being lied too it seems  | |||
"Yes, plenty thanks. The whole it's hard for guys etc. Is bollocks in my opinion, it really isn't. You think they are lying? Not all men have thighs like you do. Is that what it takes, strong thighs ? Yep, all about the thighs
Not lying as such but they dont help themselves with they way they conduct themselves on here and the way they present.
Threads day in day out giving advice on profiles, how to approach people but many just ignore and carry on as they were, then complain again in a few weeks that they still haven't been able to start a conversation with someone."Some decent men with good profiles can't get meets either. Not sure about their thighs. | |||
"I agree with all the above in retrospect you have only been on 2 months and joined during the worst possible time if you were expecting a meet there and then... I think the thing to remember is this is a lifestyle for many people on here. It’s not instashag, a lot of people seek friendships and build connections... I have been swinging for four years, it did take a little while to get my foot in so to speak, but that’s finding out what works for you adding more photo’s, going to clubs/socials and just being patient. I really enjoy it and to answer your thread title yes they do meet men I’ve had some amazing times and made some incredible friends... The amount of effort you put in is what you “could” get out, but at the same time don’t expect you are owed anything because you are here, at a club or sent a dozen messages. If something happens great if not don’t worry it might next time... I think if you go by that you can’t really go wrong.... good luck "Hope you don't mind, but I recommended your profile pics as an example of good pics (and cowboy hats ) | |||
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"Single male here and I've had no issues meeting. Obviously I've been told no and vice versa. Send a face pic to the ladies/couples you are meeting. Put a cock and body pic up. Get verified in the clubs and after that its a snowball effect " Glad to hear that guys can do well if they put some effort in | |||
"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "A rookie mistake of thinking that it's easy for women and couples. When I was meeting, finding a single man that I actually wanted to get naked with and he, I, was nigh on impossible. T. | |||
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"I agree with all the above in retrospect you have only been on 2 months and joined during the worst possible time if you were expecting a meet there and then... I think the thing to remember is this is a lifestyle for many people on here. It’s not instashag, a lot of people seek friendships and build connections... I have been swinging for four years, it did take a little while to get my foot in so to speak, but that’s finding out what works for you adding more photo’s, going to clubs/socials and just being patient. I really enjoy it and to answer your thread title yes they do meet men I’ve had some amazing times and made some incredible friends... The amount of effort you put in is what you “could” get out, but at the same time don’t expect you are owed anything because you are here, at a club or sent a dozen messages. If something happens great if not don’t worry it might next time... I think if you go by that you can’t really go wrong.... good luck
Hope you don't mind, but I recommended your profile pics as an example of good pics (and cowboy hats )"Thank you I appreciate that, you just have to do what works for you | |||
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"I’m not sure about ‘strong thighs’. Do you think ladies will notice if I had ‘strong sighs’? " Specsavers would | |||
"I’m not sure about ‘strong thighs’. Do you think ladies will notice if I had ‘strong sighs’? " Sighs from not getting reply’s ? | |||
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"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "Just my tuppenceworth..... In my first 2 months of Fabworld I'd met no one. Then I stumbled across the forums, read lots of "Advice" threads, adjusted my biog and added better photos. Lowered my expectations (they were pretty low anyway) joined in with the banter, didn't moan, didn't act entitled, went to few socials and made connections. The next 4 months garnered 20+ meet verifications, some of which were intimate meetings. Attitude is everything. The best advice I ever read on Fab was from a fellow forumite. "Don't be a dick" Them's wise words. M | |||
"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "it’s not insta shag sorry but you come across as another self entitled male | |||
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"Really seems I have had more luck on tinder and this is a website made for this but 9 months that is long I guess for males its a lot harder on here If you do better on Tinder, use Tinder. This isn’t “a website made for this”, if what you mean by “this” is random hookups and ONS. It’s a website made for swinging, which is a different thing. You were expecting lots of sex with no effort on your part? Did you think the women on here are basically free escorts?" This. | |||
"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "This is a swingers site, singles arent really co sidered swingers, so we are here for when the couples want an extra hand. Unfortunately, there are millions of eager guys, so its slim pickings. Dont be so eager for a meet, and use this lockdown as a way to chat and get to know people. Once youve have a few meets, and had veri's, more people will take you seriously. Couples and women are unlikely to chose a new unveri'd profile over people who have been around a while, unless you can stimulate them socially and mentally first. | |||
" Just my tuppenceworth..... In my first 2 months of Fabworld I'd met no one. Then I stumbled across the forums, read lots of "Advice" threads, adjusted my biog and added better photos. Lowered my expectations (they were pretty low anyway) joined in with the banter, didn't moan, didn't act entitled, went to few socials and made connections. The next 4 months garnered 20+ meet verifications, some of which were intimate meetings. Attitude is everything. The best advice I ever read on Fab was from a fellow forumite. "Don't be a dick" Them's wise words. M" I'd love to be able to agree, it sounds like good advice - and actually is. But speaking as someone who has done those things, unless you happen to hit lucky, you're still just a small fish in a big pond, I suspect your experience is atypical. Over the years I've tried various different approaches to profile text - long, short, vanilla, explicit - and always done my best to write the kind of message I'd want to receive. I don't send messages to everyone (maybe I'm too picky) and those I do are well written. My pictures aren't going to set the world on fire, but they're an accurate representation (no point having great moodily lit photos if I have to spend a whole meet sat in semi-shadow so I look the same as my pics! )
I've had more luck in clubs in person, where at least the odds are more in my favour and looks can be at least a little balanced by attitude and personality (though yes, I could probably have a few more veris but always feel awkward asking, or just don't think of it).
I suspect that's the case for many here. Unless you happen to stand out, then it's an uphill battle all the way. A few will drop lucky, others will agree to meet anyone for anything just to get a meet, but for many unless you've got the physique to draw instant attention, that nicely-written message is still going to get deleted.
It is what it is though. Expect nothing, and something's a bonus. Expect the world and you'll always be disappointed. | |||
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"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "Hahahaha. This has to be the funniest thing I've read on the forums so far this year. | |||
"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "yh big dick just chill the duck out | |||
"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "morning OP I'm not sure what you mean I have serveal people that I chat to on fab on a regular basis I have had meets and chatted on cams also as my veris show. It can take time to make connections with the right people but having a profile picture might help you as there are literally 1000s of men on this site and you need to stand out to be noticed and I don't mean to be rude but no profile picture wont help your corse | |||
" D) you say people don’t chat - most people chat in English not some fake nouveau gangsta style " Haha...that made me laugh | |||
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"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females "It works fine with patience, persistency and being respectful and interesting. We’ve had single profiles now and again and yes, the odds are stacked against men, but there’s good folks out there who will meet. The last year has been very different out of necessity so can’t be a yard stuck for anyone. Even as a couple or female good meets can be hard to find at times, then like the proverbial buses, several will come along all at once. | |||
"Man I been on here for a while aint ever got a meet , starting to this this website only works for couple and females " | |||
" Just my tuppenceworth..... In my first 2 months of Fabworld I'd met no one. Then I stumbled across the forums, read lots of "Advice" threads, adjusted my biog and added better photos. Lowered my expectations (they were pretty low anyway) joined in with the banter, didn't moan, didn't act entitled, went to few socials and made connections. The next 4 months garnered 20+ meet verifications, some of which were intimate meetings. Attitude is everything. The best advice I ever read on Fab was from a fellow forumite. "Don't be a dick" Them's wise words. M I'd love to be able to agree, it sounds like good advice - and actually is. But speaking as someone who has done those things, unless you happen to hit lucky, you're still just a small fish in a big pond, I suspect your experience is atypical. Over the years I've tried various different approaches to profile text - long, short, vanilla, explicit - and always done my best to write the kind of message I'd want to receive. I don't send messages to everyone (maybe I'm too picky) and those I do are well written. My pictures aren't going to set the world on fire, but they're an accurate representation (no point having great moodily lit photos if I have to spend a whole meet sat in semi-shadow so I look the same as my pics! )
I've had more luck in clubs in person, where at least the odds are more in my favour and looks can be at least a little balanced by attitude and personality (though yes, I could probably have a few more veris but always feel awkward asking, or just don't think of it).
I suspect that's the case for many here. Unless you happen to stand out, then it's an uphill battle all the way. A few will drop lucky, others will agree to meet anyone for anything just to get a meet, but for many unless you've got the physique to draw instant attention, that nicely-written message is still going to get deleted.
It is what it is though. Expect nothing, and something's a bonus. Expect the world and you'll always be disappointed."I think it can be a bit pot luck, you're right there. I'm sure being active in the Lounge Forum helped, plus not being a dick. Well, not all the time anyway.
The Lounge opened the doors to group socials, gaining good meet verifications, which in turn led to more invitations.
I never truly "finished" my profile. Reviewed it, and the messages I sent every now and again.
Have to agree clubs can be easier than on trying to make on site connections though.
I made an effort to get to group socials, I can't recommend them highly enough.
Although I may be a tad biased towards them now of course.
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"Unfortunately the vaginas aren't out for delivery, your free gift has been delayed due to covid restrictions. It ain't no field of dreams where "if you build it they will come" (unless ya don't mind a fella noshing you off, seriously, you just need a cock for that) I'm guessing you've made the assumption that people that are online are looking to make connections, looking to chat? That there is mistake numero uno. A lot of people already have connections and simply use this place to catch up with those they already know. Fab is a tool. A platform to look out for events that are happening, what's going on at clubs, what organised socials are going on in what part of the country. Of course that bit is closed at the moment. If you want the guarantee of meeting people, you'll need to make the effort to go to the places where people are. Even then, there's no guarantee it'll lead you to the sacred lady garden and wetting of dick. It'll simply give you the chance of opening conversations with actual people in the flesh, in real time. Add to that people are pissed off right now, frustrated, grieving the losses of family, friends, finances and freedoms. Don't really make for happy chat that. There are many kinds of people here too, with many different desires and wants. From those who want gangbangs to those who just like to flash a bit of tit in a photo, to others who are just here for the forums. " I'm just here for the cake. M | |||
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