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I’ve had messages from guys who want me to do all sorts, including topping them, then say they don’t kiss as it’s too gay for them 
I don’t kiss everyone either, just those I fancy and who fancy me back  |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
Keep away from my ass, keep away from my feet I can live with...would be a very mechanical meet if there was no kissing which I don't think I'd particularly enjoy and fortunately not had the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do love kissing but I can and have had pretty good sex without it, looking each other in the eyes is pretty intimate or just touching heads when you would be kissing, or just whispering really rude things into each others ears is pretty good too and can replace kissing. I do so love to kiss though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do swinger strangers kiss or is that too intimate and it's best to get straight down to business?"
I so love kissing and if I was ever going to meet it would have to be on the agenda xxx
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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For me kissing another man is associated entirely with romance, and the last thing I'm looking for in swinging is romance. I have all I need with my partner. On the other hand I find kissing other women a fantastic turn on. Surprisingly, and despite all the men on here claiming that kissing is essential, not one single guy has ever refused to play with me because I won't kiss them. I've never even heard a single complaint or been questioned about my preferences in all the years we've been swinging. |
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"For me kissing another man is associated entirely with romance, and the last thing I'm looking for in swinging is romance. I have all I need with my partner. On the other hand I find kissing other women a fantastic turn on. Surprisingly, and despite all the men on here claiming that kissing is essential, not one single guy has ever refused to play with me because I won't kiss them. I've never even heard a single complaint or been questioned about my preferences in all the years we've been swinging. "
I would never refuse the chance to play with you, but I wouldn’t enjoy it quite the same. |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"For me kissing another man is associated entirely with romance, and the last thing I'm looking for in swinging is romance. I have all I need with my partner. On the other hand I find kissing other women a fantastic turn on. Surprisingly, and despite all the men on here claiming that kissing is essential, not one single guy has ever refused to play with me because I won't kiss them. I've never even heard a single complaint or been questioned about my preferences in all the years we've been swinging. "
Well they might not complain to your face..and yes you might have fucked them...but they'll be going away disappointed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!! 
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I’m naturally a snogger anyway but right now I’d snog anyone ... "
Lol x i know what you mean by that x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!!
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I’m naturally a snogger anyway but right now I’d snog anyone ... "
Taxi to Hampshire please.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very much kissing please. Playmates are not hookers they are lovers. Kissing establishes the connection. "
100% kissing helps to establish the connection |
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I only meet very good friends for sexual meets, so kissing is pretty much as soon as I see him
If I don't feel something for my partner on a social then I walk away, I need to feel the urge to taste his lips |
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"For me kissing another man is associated entirely with romance, and the last thing I'm looking for in swinging is romance. I have all I need with my partner. On the other hand I find kissing other women a fantastic turn on. Surprisingly, and despite all the men on here claiming that kissing is essential, not one single guy has ever refused to play with me because I won't kiss them. I've never even heard a single complaint or been questioned about my preferences in all the years we've been swinging.
Well they might not complain to your face..and yes you might have fucked them...but they'll be going away disappointed x"
I’m sure the boundaries about kissing will be discussed before any sex takes place and if they still have sex with them and leave disappointed then it’s there fault.. |
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"We love kissing, ff and mfm, its sensual and a great turn on...."
Best experience ever was having a a married woman lay on top of me and deeply tongue kissing me while he hubby took her from behind.
Unless told no, I always kiss while fucking, right until I finish, to enjoy feeling my orgasm travel from her pussy tongue.
With the married woman I could feel her pulsing with every throb of his member. |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"For me kissing another man is associated entirely with romance, and the last thing I'm looking for in swinging is romance. I have all I need with my partner. On the other hand I find kissing other women a fantastic turn on. Surprisingly, and despite all the men on here claiming that kissing is essential, not one single guy has ever refused to play with me because I won't kiss them. I've never even heard a single complaint or been questioned about my preferences in all the years we've been swinging.
Well they might not complain to your face..and yes you might have fucked them...but they'll be going away disappointed xI’m sure the boundaries about kissing will be discussed before any sex takes place and if they still have sex with them and leave disappointed then it’s there fault.."
Its funny...I've never discussed kissing prior to a meet...I've always taken it as a given...don't get me wrong always dicuss 'do's and don'ts' but never once has kissing ever come up as a don't. Its just weird not to kiss. |
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"For me kissing another man is associated entirely with romance, and the last thing I'm looking for in swinging is romance. I have all I need with my partner. On the other hand I find kissing other women a fantastic turn on. Surprisingly, and despite all the men on here claiming that kissing is essential, not one single guy has ever refused to play with me because I won't kiss them. I've never even heard a single complaint or been questioned about my preferences in all the years we've been swinging.
Well they might not complain to your face..and yes you might have fucked them...but they'll be going away disappointed xI’m sure the boundaries about kissing will be discussed before any sex takes place and if they still have sex with them and leave disappointed then it’s there fault..
Its funny...I've never discussed kissing prior to a meet...I've always taken it as a given...don't get me wrong always dicuss 'do's and don'ts' but never once has kissing ever come up as a don't. Its just weird not to kiss."
The reason kissing hasn’t come up is because you haven’t met anyone that has a issue with it but I’m sure if you did then they would let you know.It might be weird to you but as part of a couple I can understand why some people don’t like kissing others.. |
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As always there's a superior attitude from some of the people who kiss their casual sex partners. It seems be one of the preferences that even some of the most broad minded and accepting of people find it ok to question.
I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.
There are many declarations from people saying they won't meet people who don't kiss. What makes you think we want to meet you? Most of us non kissers accept your preference to kiss gracefully and seek out those whose preference matches ours without making a song and dance about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely essential.. sets the mood, builds the tension, it’s a huge turn on for me & really gets the fanny fluttering..
If a meet up did not start with kissing it wouldn’t progress any further..
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"For me kissing another man is associated entirely with romance, and the last thing I'm looking for in swinging is romance. I have all I need with my partner. On the other hand I find kissing other women a fantastic turn on. Surprisingly, and despite all the men on here claiming that kissing is essential, not one single guy has ever refused to play with me because I won't kiss them. I've never even heard a single complaint or been questioned about my preferences in all the years we've been swinging.
Well they might not complain to your face..and yes you might have fucked them...but they'll be going away disappointed xI’m sure the boundaries about kissing will be discussed before any sex takes place and if they still have sex with them and leave disappointed then it’s there fault..
Its funny...I've never discussed kissing prior to a meet...I've always taken it as a given...don't get me wrong always dicuss 'do's and don'ts' but never once has kissing ever come up as a don't. Its just weird not to kiss.The reason kissing hasn’t come up is because you haven’t met anyone that has a issue with it but I’m sure if you did then they would let you know.It might be weird to you but as part of a couple I can understand why some people don’t like kissing others.."
I'm sure they would and I hope they would. I can understand why and especially within couples kissing is something to be kept as something just for them...but it ain't half a passion killer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not really bothered with kissing either way. It’s pleasant I guess but it doesn’t bother me if a person doesn’t kiss .
Annoying though when some keeps shoving it in your mouth like a lump of wet meat , told one guy in a couple meet I will put the mouth gag on him if he keeps it up
It did kill it for him but his wife thought it was hilarious though he got a tad salty with me over it
I would say though I am 50/50 on it or meets . Met quite a few women not interested in full on kissing .
Some earlier poster said it would be like doing a hooker with no kissing. , you do know there is thing called GFE which means kissing
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"As always there's a superior attitude from some of the people who kiss their casual sex partners. It seems be one of the preferences that even some of the most broad minded and accepting of people find it ok to question.
I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.
There are many declarations from people saying they won't meet people who don't kiss. What makes you think we want to meet you? Most of us non kissers accept your preference to kiss gracefully and seek out those whose preference matches ours without making a song and dance about it."
Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ? |
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"As always there's a superior attitude from some of the people who kiss their casual sex partners. It seems be one of the preferences that even some of the most broad minded and accepting of people find it ok to question.
I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.
There are many declarations from people saying they won't meet people who don't kiss. What makes you think we want to meet you? Most of us non kissers accept your preference to kiss gracefully and seek out those whose preference matches ours without making a song and dance about it.
Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?"
Not presumptuous no. However I genuinely don't understand how people can establish intimacy with someone in a very short period of time but that is probably because I think intimacy is about more than physical contact. I only kiss the people I love. |
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"As always there's a superior attitude from some of the people who kiss their casual sex partners. It seems be one of the preferences that even some of the most broad minded and accepting of people find it ok to question.
I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.
There are many declarations from people saying they won't meet people who don't kiss. What makes you think we want to meet you? Most of us non kissers accept your preference to kiss gracefully and seek out those whose preference matches ours without making a song and dance about it.
Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?
Not presumptuous no. However I genuinely don't understand how people can establish intimacy with someone in a very short period of time but that is probably because I think intimacy is about more than physical contact. I only kiss the people I love. "
As I said on another thread, the kissing thing is primal. Kissing evolved from mother's chewing food to pass to babies by mouth. Men usually initiate the wet tongue kisses to deliver their testosterone into us, with the effect of flicking our switch to encourage sexual engagement.
I guess as this site is primarily aimed at achieving sex, testosterone delivery is pretty essential |
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"As always there's a superior attitude from some of the people who kiss their casual sex partners. It seems be one of the preferences that even some of the most broad minded and accepting of people find it ok to question.
I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.
There are many declarations from people saying they won't meet people who don't kiss. What makes you think we want to meet you? Most of us non kissers accept your preference to kiss gracefully and seek out those whose preference matches ours without making a song and dance about it.
Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?
Not presumptuous no. However I genuinely don't understand how people can establish intimacy with someone in a very short period of time but that is probably because I think intimacy is about more than physical contact. I only kiss the people I love.
As I said on another thread, the kissing thing is primal. Kissing evolved from mother's chewing food to pass to babies by mouth. Men usually initiate the wet tongue kisses to deliver their testosterone into us, with the effect of flicking our switch to encourage sexual engagement.
I guess as this site is primarily aimed at achieving sex, testosterone delivery is pretty essential "
If that's all a man's relying on to get me interested then I guess it is essential  . |
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"As always there's a superior attitude from some of the people who kiss their casual sex partners. It seems be one of the preferences that even some of the most broad minded and accepting of people find it ok to question.
I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.
There are many declarations from people saying they won't meet people who don't kiss. What makes you think we want to meet you? Most of us non kissers accept your preference to kiss gracefully and seek out those whose preference matches ours without making a song and dance about it.
Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?
Not presumptuous no. However I genuinely don't understand how people can establish intimacy with someone in a very short period of time but that is probably because I think intimacy is about more than physical contact. I only kiss the people I love.
As I said on another thread, the kissing thing is primal. Kissing evolved from mother's chewing food to pass to babies by mouth. Men usually initiate the wet tongue kisses to deliver their testosterone into us, with the effect of flicking our switch to encourage sexual engagement.
I guess as this site is primarily aimed at achieving sex, testosterone delivery is pretty essential "
How does that work for lesbians they seem to have no issues engaging sexual engagement without the super testosterone factory men have attached |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
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My lips are puckered and my tongue is primed and ready. I love kissing and am ready to do it until my lips are tingly and sore. I'm a sensual, deep kisser who likes to stare into someone's eyes as our tongues entwine. So who wants it? |
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"As always there's a superior attitude from some of the people who kiss their casual sex partners. It seems be one of the preferences that even some of the most broad minded and accepting of people find it ok to question.
I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.
There are many declarations from people saying they won't meet people who don't kiss. What makes you think we want to meet you? Most of us non kissers accept your preference to kiss gracefully and seek out those whose preference matches ours without making a song and dance about it.
Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?
Not presumptuous no. However I genuinely don't understand how people can establish intimacy with someone in a very short period of time but that is probably because I think intimacy is about more than physical contact. I only kiss the people I love.
As I said on another thread, the kissing thing is primal. Kissing evolved from mother's chewing food to pass to babies by mouth. Men usually initiate the wet tongue kisses to deliver their testosterone into us, with the effect of flicking our switch to encourage sexual engagement.
I guess as this site is primarily aimed at achieving sex, testosterone delivery is pretty essential
How does that work for lesbians they seem to have no issues engaging sexual engagement without the super testosterone factory men have attached "
Cos women are just hot |
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"U are right no kissing no sex ??"
you say that but I've been swinging since I was 21... I've only kissed on rare occasion for the last 2 to 3 years.. been refused once for fun because I dont kiss. In fact even regular people hadn't realised I rarely do till they spotted a post on here.
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During my first social with a couple , she brought up the subject and mentioned no kissing , being new and nervous I sort of agreed.
Anyway when parting I go continental and kiss him on the cheeks , as I’m about to bid her goodnight in the same manner she goes for the full tongue action smacker... and explained that girl on girl was encouraged .
It unhinged me , the likely hood that I’d remember the different rules during play was remote and opted not to take it further
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"Kissing the man seems to be much less acceptable than kissing the woman of a couple.
I stopped looking for couples because of this."
funny but when I meet as a couple I'd be so unhappy if a woman didn't want to kiss or be kissed by my partner. 3 way kisses are great. ( from someone who rarely kisses guys on meets , but then I also mostly only do group meets as a single female) |
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"Kissing the man seems to be much less acceptable than kissing the woman of a couple.
I stopped looking for couples because of this. funny but when I meet as a couple I'd be so unhappy if a woman didn't want to kiss or be kissed by my partner. 3 way kisses are great. ( from someone who rarely kisses guys on meets , but then I also mostly only do group meets as a single female)"
I’m starting to rethink again my values here.
If I were one of the luck 15 men playing with MissCali at least 13 cocks are going to be fighting for her mouth at any time, and we’re all going to want to her talk dirty as we give her a very respectable number of cocks to drain.
But if I’m alone with a hotwife and hubby is in the next room, I don’t want her to talk as dirty as I’m the group because I have to fight so hard to stop from cumming when Mrs gets too sexy with her voice. If my tongue is inside her mouth, and hers inside mine, there less Rick is that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the extremely interesting answers. I like the answer that said prostitutes don't kiss because it's a money transaction possibly with someone they don't like and that swingers are not prostitutes and most often form a kind of bond with the person they will meet beforehand, through socials, chats whatever. I haven't been on a meet yet but remember for my student days when you took someone home for the night and knew it would only be for that night you would still kiss to get the juices flowing. However I never kissed my husband during sex in the last 10 years of our marriage but had good sex.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else. |
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"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else. "
What's Pretty Woman got to do with it? |
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"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.
What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?"
When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.
From memory, and it was a while ago , I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there. |
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"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.
What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?
When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.
From memory, and it was a while ago , I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there. "
I was going to say that it's sounds like Pretty Woman. |
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"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.
What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?
When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.
From memory, and it was a while ago , I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there. "
Because she's a prostitute?
I don't kiss our casual partners, it's often implied that it makes me like a prostitute so I agree that Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
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"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.
What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?
When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.
From memory, and it was a while ago , I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there.
Because she's a prostitute?
I don't kiss our casual partners, it's often implied that it makes me like a prostitute so I agree that Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
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Each to their own, but for us, if we can't kiss your lips, we're not touching anything else, there are far more intimate places for us before we would say lips are a no go.
Everyone to their own though, you do you, we'll do us, and everyone is happy.
For the record though, it was a tongue in cheek comment, as in where the no kissing rule came from, and absolutely nothing to do with prostitution, just can't remember it ever being a thing before that movie. |
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"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!! "
Fancy saying that to a room full of horny single males!!! You’re inbox is going to explode haha |
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"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!! "
Am definitely with you on that !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing someone who doesn’t ‘know’ how to kiss though..that’s always a turn off for me.
Soft, slow, sensual, cheeky little bit of the lip..those type of kisses for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet someone for sex after a social or two, by which time they're not a stranger, and if I didn't want to kiss them, I sure as hell wouldn't be meeting to fuck. I can't do sex without some yummy kisses  |
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"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else. "
I was just about to say ....Pretty Woman Syndrome.
Yeah it's considered to have derived from there. |
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"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.
What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?
When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.
From memory, and it was a while ago , I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there.
Because she's a prostitute?
I don't kiss our casual partners, it's often implied that it makes me like a prostitute so I agree that Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.
Each to their own, but for us, if we can't kiss your lips, we're not touching anything else, there are far more intimate places for us before we would say lips are a no go.
Everyone to their own though, you do you, we'll do us, and everyone is happy.
For the record though, it was a tongue in cheek comment, as in where the no kissing rule came from, and absolutely nothing to do with prostitution, just can't remember it ever being a thing before that movie. "
In the movie Julia Roberts played a prostitute and she wouldn't kiss her clients. To me that suggests it has everything to do with prostitution. The reason I don't kiss is not because I'm a prostitute though.
I will continue to do me as you say, it's worked really well so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do swinger strangers kiss or is that too intimate and it's best to get straight down to business?"
Both sets of lips for me - it’s the reason I’d be meeting after all! |
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Kissing is super important!
